Sacrifice - Let Us Share Ours

rifa0710 · Post time 31-10-2007 02:41 AM

Hello my fellow Carians..

I am sure everyone here pernah buat some sort of sacrifice that involves your feeling towards someone you care and love , rite? It is pain , yes , if you have to sacrifice something so precious and it cause your heart to suffer.. Well , let us share the pain .. May it will ease everything..

Hmmm.. Rasanya baik saya mulakan dulu kot..

There's a guy I really like , but unfortunately for me , he's already taken and we remain friends since then .. Saya pernah postkan thread pasal masalah ni dulu coz saya btl2 x sure apa yg patut sy buat coz eventhough this guy already have someone and every friend of mine said that I should move on , tapi saya semakin rasa perasaan tu semakin kuat.. And I'm more and more confused..

Tapi berkat nasihat kwn2 Cari , I managed to find some sort of strenght in me.. Walaupun sakit sangat rasanya melepaskan someone that you really care and love , tapi for his sake and for his love's sake , I have to do it.. Tapi x dpt jgk tipu diri sendiri , kan? Well , that's a strange thing about love .. The more you run from it , the more it come for you..

That's my story .. Actually , ada banyak lagi.. Hehehehehe.. Tapi bagi peluang kat korang dulu..

So.. Sila2 le kongsi..

(Adoiii.. penat gak menaip ni.. take 5 jap.. huhuhuhuhu..)

nmi · Post time 31-10-2007 11:24 AM

the sad thing bout sacrifice is that person didnt know we are sacrificing our love for his love...

watachiwa · Post time 31-10-2007 12:09 PM

biaser la tu..dah namanya kehidupan rite..
pengorbanan tu pun salah satu intipatinya..

its hurt to see ur loved one happy ngan die nye partner..but u have to believe ur ur decision..mebi tu yg terbaik untuk kedua-dua pihak..

ala..raser sedey lak ...

zasieka · Post time 31-10-2007 01:05 PM

rifa.. sama jer ek crt kite....

zas pun pernah suke kat seeorg...tapi rasanya dia suke kat kwn zas.... sedih n pilu...

but nak buat camne ek.... doakan kebahagian diorg je kan... sacrifice jugak ker tu huhuhu..

rifa0710 · Post time 1-11-2007 09:12 PM

Hehehehehehe.. Tu le... Walopon sakit sgt tgk the one we love is living his live happily with the one HE LOVES , tapi x kan kita nak jadi 3rd person + ruin their relationship kan? Kita pun paham jgk mcm mana rasanya kalo boyfriend kita is being play-three-stick .. Huhuhuhuhu..

zasieka , citer la sket..

zasieka · Post time 2-11-2007 06:42 PM

alar... cerita zas tak best ar..

zas suka kat dier tapi zas tak berani nak bagi tau sebab time ni dia suke kat org lain...
pendek kata cinta yg bertepuk sebelah tngn lar...

rifa..

crt lar kisah rifa..
boleh gak nanti dijadikan panduan...

juz_a_gurl · Post time 2-11-2007 07:39 PM

"one of the hardest things in life is watching the person u love, loves someone else..."

揑f you love somebody, let them go. If they return, they were always yours. If they don't, they never were.

mawarputih2612 · Post time 3-11-2007 12:21 AM

memang rasa sakit bila org yg kita syg tu syg org lain

tp kalau org yg kita syg tu bahagia ngan pilihan dia,nape kita tak nak lihat dia bahagia lak..lagi2 kalau org yg kita syg tu bahagia ngan org yg lebih baik dari kita

aku ckp gini sbb aku sndiri pun pernah kena

tp biar la aku lepas kan dia drp terus bsama sedangkan dia tak rasa bahagia ngan aku.biarlah aku yang sengsara, aku tak nak dan tak sanggup lihat org yang aku sayang tu sengsara

aku tetap doakan kebahagian dia smpai arini

~~namun ada kalanya perasaan rindu itu bertandang

~~

nawidz · Post time 3-11-2007 10:06 AM

pengorbanan memang sepatutnya ade, tapi lebih baik kalu dia tak tahu tentang tu... dan jangan kita ungkit kemudian hari sudah... tapi ape yang nak di tekankan kat sini.. keperitan tu, baik untuk fill in the blanks dalam hidup kita... terima dengan pasrah (walaupun tak rela), tapi doakan kesejahteraan kita dan dia... itu lebih baik, biar Tuhan sahaja yang tahu... nawidz fikir, pengorbanan senyap itu lebih menyeronokkan diri sendiri....

miss_mira · Post time 9-11-2007 12:50 AM

blum rasa lagi perasaan camnie.....

luv_ma · Post time 9-11-2007 05:20 PM

maleh dah nak ingt..

aimanutd · Post time 11-11-2007 11:14 AM

just wanna to share.. my story..

aku n awek aku ade r dlm 3 tahun couple.. actually aku yg syok kat die n ayat die dulu

then sem lepas kitorg g praktikal.Aku kat KL n die kat Ipoh.. paham2 jelah 4 bln x selalu jumpe sgt pon then maybe start kat ctu mule retak menanti belah..

abis prak ade ct sem break dlm sebln.Time tu ex-boyren lame die ade ajak die kuar jejln.Memula die ade tanye n minta permission aku.Aku x bg for what reason ex lame nak ajak jejln.. then tanpa beritahu aku die kuar gak dgn jantan tu.. g tgk wayang,g pantai,jogging mcm2 lg ler.. part2 yg romance tu aku x berape tau tp die ckp ade gak ler skt2 n ex die cam nak tackle die balik jer

abis ct sem baru nie awal2 msk die bg tau aku semua perkara tu.Aku mmg x leh terima n keciwa gile.. rase nak study pon cam x de mood :@ then sem nie amat serabut dgn pelbagai prob.. die pon ade prob yg besar dgn best frenz psl kes kecurian.. so wlpon hal aku x selesai aku still bg support kat die..

sem nie pon dah nak abis n kitorg tgh exam,wlpon aku berat hati nak lepaskan dirinya tp ape daya kalo org dah tipu n menduakan diri.. bayangkan aku byk berkorban demi die sem nie wlpon die tipu aku dulu.. aku selalu di pihak die wlpon dlm hati rase cam x dihargai lngsung..

sem akan dtg yg juga my lst sem aku nak lupe segala cite2 lame.. mmg my heart is totally broken deeply cuz her. i just to let she go..

someitmes when u wish the hepi ending it not like a sweet dream to remember..

rifa0710 · Post time 14-11-2007 10:01 PM

aimanutd :

Kesian kt awk.. X pe la.. even though she's not appreciating ur sacrifice through everything , there will be someone else that might be.. Sy fhm sgt2 perasaan awk even dlm situasi yg berlainan

Tapi inti nya , bila sacrifice yg kita buat tu x dihargai , tapi dibalas dgn sesuatu yg menyakitkan hati , well... it's really-really painful..

Hmmmm.. ceta sy plak x de la sedih mcm ceta aimanutd.. There was 1 guy approach me ms sy keje kt tmpat lama dulu.. Mula2 tu just pandang2 , senyum2 , n last2 tukar no phone.. Selalu jgk la msg n dr situ ter- develop la a feeling call "love".. Kitorg x pernah kuar sama2 coz dua2 msh malu2 , walaupun dia ada jgk ajak several time , tp sy tolak coz msh rasa malu yg teramat nak kuar ngan such perfect guy .. Huhuhuhuhu.. Ye la.. This guy ni ada hampir kesemua ciri2 yg sy cari..

But.. after 3 weeks later , kitorg tetiba jd dingin.. Dia dh jrg sgt msg.. Mula2 tu sy assume dia bz , tapi.. "woman intuition" sy berkata lain.. Sy takut kot2 sy ada terkata apa2 yg menyinggung dia ke , apa ke.. So sy msg je la wlupun dia x msg.. Tp dia x reply2 pun.. It's killing me being treated with that coldness and ignorance , so sy last2 bagi dia satu kad + luahkan segala perasaan sy.. Tp x de la sy bagitau yg sy suka kat dia.. Sy just tanya , why the sudden "coldness"..

Agak lama jgk dia bagi jwpan.. Last2 satu pagi tu sy dpt e-mail drp that guy bagitau dia mintak maaf sgt2 kat sy coz buat sy mcm tu.. He's unfortunately already has a girlfriend and he's guilty for keeping it under wrap .. Dia rasa mcm x fair pd girlfriend dia coz dia pun ada develop a feeling towards me.. Ms tu rasa mcm nak jatuh je.. Huhuhuhu.. nasib baik tgh duduk.. kalo x.. ntah le..

But.. kitorg still "friend" .. Even dia x msg2 sy mcm dulu , sy masih lg msg2 tanya khabar + kdg2 ajak dia kuar .. I know I sound "stupid" coz msh contact this guy lagi + msh lagi taruh harapan kat dia.. tapi tu la.. Love is something yg btol2 x blh nak difahami... Sy pun dh berhenti keje kat tmpat tu n keje kat tmpat baru.. Tapi kan.... that guy selalu jgk dtg kat situ tau.. Makes me wonder though... dia ni saja2 ke..? Hmmmmmmm...