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Sesiapa boleh membantu saya di sini
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Assalamualaikum Semua!
Saye baru di forum ini. Tidak tahu jika ini adalah bahagian yang betul untuk kongsi masalah dan mintak pendapat. kalau salah, boleh tegur 
Saye ada sedikit masalah dgn perempuan ini yang saye syg sangt. So here's my problem, (maaf kalau type bnyk sngt english)
I was having a LDR with a malaysian. Im a Singaporean btw. Before this problem came up, We had an arguement with each other. Because I dont trust her. So she gave up on us. But I conviced her to give me another chance. She did, and So we're back together again. But again, this time I made the same mistake. Again, I didnt give her my trust and keep saying she doesnt care about us and sort. So she's really get hurt by my words that I said, and she told me she really give up on us already. So now, Im really regret for what I've done. What I did before this is really stupid, I know. I was the one to be blame. She always trust me, Believe me. But I didnt. She told me she loves me and all but because I dont give her trust, She's really hurt and give up on us.
Now the thing is, She's back to her hostel. She didnt bring her phone along. I cant contact her. I have to wait till next Friday when she get back home. And I'm afraid she wont care about all this anymore. I really can't afford to let her go. I really want to convice her, and ask for the last chance and ill promise all this wont be happening agian. So cant anyone out there tell me what should I do or whatever. Kalau ada sape2 yang boleh tolong dengan masalah saye ini, sila kongsi Please
P.S: Today saturday 16/3, she called me. But only for a minute. I cant really talk to her as she left me a message.
Thanks in advance!
Last edited by Ivandrago166 on 17-3-2013 09:33 PM
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kalau dh single dh clash. bglah no.hp dia kt adam.. nnti adam tlg jagakan dia tau |
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AdamBillionaire posted on 16-3-2013 08:00 PM 
kalau dh single dh clash. bglah no.hp dia kt adam.. nnti adam tlg jagakan dia tau
amboi adam...sempat lg yer..
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AdamBillionaire posted on 16-3-2013 08:34 PM
alamat dia dh spy adam tak pe. usaha tangga kejayaan..
mano ado sepai2 lah adam oii...kebetulan bc problem TT ni..
cer bg pendapat sikit kat TT ni..
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LDR tu apa?
Lunch Date Relationship?
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AdamBillionaire posted on 16-3-2013 08:00 PM
kalau dh single dh clash. bglah no.hp dia kt adam.. nnti adam tlg jagakan dia tau
hahaha mana boleh pass2 mcm bola 
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sya_sugar_sugar posted on 16-3-2013 10:57 PM
LDR tu apa?
Lunch Date Relationship?
LDR tu, Long Distance Relationship.
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sya_sugar_sugar posted on 16-3-2013 10:57 PM
LDR tu apa?
Lunch Date Relationship?
Amboi lunch date rship  ....hehehe.....
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Tt, kalo u nak pujuk ur dearest tu, satu u kena pk......u sure ke u can stand LDR ni?LDR ni susah. X sume leh tahan....especially yg kaki cemburu. Ldr kalo x de trust mmg susah.....sbb for me trusting ur partner tu no. 1 rule kalo nak ber ldr. so lepas ni byk kan sabar n pk positive bout ur partner ya. Apapun best of luck 2 u.. |
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Kalau u sayang dia, pack ur bags surprise her. Then dont do stupid things la. Ldr ke pjj ke u need trust in relationship, ni da strike two. Kalau again u do the same thing consider yourself forever alone. Ngerti kamoooo |
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awinpj posted on 17-3-2013 04:08 AM
Tt, kalo u nak pujuk ur dearest tu, satu u kena pk......u sure ke u can stand LDR ni?LDR ni susah. ...
Yes I am very sure! Yeah I know trust is always number 1. But I was so stupid that I didnt give her my trust. But now, I really want to fix this.
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nuryakmal posted on 17-3-2013 09:45 AM
Kalau u sayang dia, pack ur bags surprise her. Then dont do stupid things la. Ldr ke pjj ke u need t ...
What do you mean pack my bag and suprise her? you mean go over to her place and suprise her?
Yeah after this i promise myself whatever happen, I have to give her my trust.
Last edited by Ivandrago166 on 17-3-2013 03:35 PM
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awinpj posted on 17-3-2013 03:40 AM
Amboi lunch date rship ....hehehe.....
......erkkkk... ngeh..ngeh..ngeh....
tak brapa reti saya 
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Ivandrago166 posted on 17-3-2013 02:14 PM
What do you mean pack my bag and suprise her? you mean go over to her place and suprise her?
Yea ...
Yup. Sorry bukan u give her your trust. You have to GAIN her trust. Now she doesnt trust for not trusting her. Pahammmmmm
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actually u have not explain why u don't trust her and in what area? going out with guy? or always feel she lies to u? what is it actually?
btw, is she ur first gf?
fixing this relationship is a 50/50 chance... but we really need to think why we become like this. is it becoz of past experience where out partner lied to us and therefore u have this phobia? or becoz it was someone's else experience and u feel that every woman is like that?
my wife is like u..... does not give me the trust.. even though i did not do it at all...... but i feel it's becoz of her past bad experience with her ex-husband.
so, u have to do some soul searching urself |
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nuryakmal posted on 17-3-2013 05:57 PM
Yup. Sorry bukan u give her your trust. You have to GAIN her trust. Now she doesnt trust for not t ...
ouh faham... okay so now what should I do? how do I gain her trust back?
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winsonyu posted on 17-3-2013 06:28 PM
actually u have not explain why u don't trust her and in what area? going out with guy? or always fe ...
Not that I dont trust her at all. Just that sometimes I doubt her. But I know she's not telling lies. Just that I kept saying things like I dont trust her. get what I mean here?
Yes she's my first and I hope the last too.
Well your problem is a woman doesnt trust a guy. But mine is the other way round. She told me she ALWAYS trust me. She even get worried if ill find someone else but she'll just think positive. So yeah..
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Please anyone can help?? I only left with less than a week before she come back home this friday >.< |
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Post time 16-3-2013 07:47 PM
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alamat dia dh spy adam
tak pe. usaha tangga kejayaan..
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