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persiapan perkahwinan.. ape yg anda akan lakukan ^_^
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saje nk tnye kat uoall's semua kan... ape persiapan kahwin korang semua ye??
mcm ai ni nak kawen 2012.. so ade setahun dari sekarang nk bersedia...
tapi masih blur lagi nk pilih tema ape....
survey2 lg ape yg patot sekarang nie kan...
aish..... |
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perlu sediakan DUIT ...itu penting ...nak tema tema kena tengok bajet jugak  |
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itu da tntu la yunk oiii 
perkara penting tu.....
hehehe |
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persiapkan badan supaya cun bila pakai baju kawen nanti..
bersenam dan pergi spa selalu |
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Ilmu rumahtangga.
Persiapkan diri physically and mentally.
Aku tak minat nak ulas pasal baju pengantin ka menu ka apa. |
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bak kata cik panda, mentally n physically kna ready....nnt bkn kawin ngn laki tu aje, seluruh kaum kerabat dia tmasuk sekali ye...pastu financial pn kna siap sedia jugak..back up utk life sebulan dua after kawin tu... |
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mmg btul kena ready dri mental dan physically...
financial lg la penting....
insyallah semua nye akan berjalan lancar...  |
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bajet kena cun pas2 pasang badan...hehehe |
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hehehe... alamak ai tk cun...
so tkkan kena kasi cun kot  |
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Post Last Edit by cikanggun at 24-11-2011 17:40
pertamanya mestilah ader CALON nyer dulu...heheh....
rasanya kalo planning mega things mcm wedding nie,
byk keja hokeh nk kene pikirkan...so mentally ngan physically kene fit 110%...
nahhhhh panduan utk kamu yer... selamat pengantin baru! {:4_181:}
MASTER WEDDING CHECKLIST
Way Way Before
• Decide who is your groom! – _________________________________
( hehehehehee...though ramai tak tulis but sure this is the first thing in the checklist of a bride right?! )
6 - 3 months before
• Decide upon a wedding date. – _________________________
• Decide on your budget.
• Kebenaran bernikah matter – to be sent to Pejabat Agama seawal-awalnya is 90 hari sebelum tarikh nikah.
• Kadi (Jurunikah) booking – after Kebenaran Bernikah is obtained from Pejabat Agama
• Temuduga bakal pengantin
• HIV test - Ramai yg confuse. Borang kena beli di Pej. Agama yg kita nak hantar kebenaran bernikah. Tak boleh beli di cawangan lain.
Cth : nak nikah di Kota Tinggi & nak apply kebenaran nikah di Kota Tinggi, so kena beli borang HIV & borang nikah di Pej Agama Kota Tinggi. Tp if nak nikah di kg halaman, tp sbb keje di KL, senang nak urus kat KL, boleh ambik borang KL, dgn syarat permohonan kebenaran nikah kena dibuat di KL juga. But the test can be done in ANY government hospital/clinic. The earliest u can do this test is 6 months before nikah date, coz the result valid for 6 months only.
• Go to marriage course –Sila simpan sijil kursus ni elok-elok...coz it will be needed utk permohonan kebenaran bernikah.
• Prepare documents for kebenaran bernikah –
1) Salinan Kad Pengenalan (min 10)
2) Salinan Surat Beranak (min 3)
3) Salinan Surat Nikah Ibubapa (min 3)
4) Gambar bersongkok/bertudung saiz pasport (min 5)
5) Salinan Sijil Kursus Pra Perkahwinan (min 3)
6) Perintah bertulis dari mahkamah mengenai wali hakim, poligami/nikah bawah umur dan lain-lain.
7) Kebenaran kedutaan jika warga asing
8) Kebenaran majikan bagi anggota Polis dan Tentera
9) Surat Perakuan Bujang dari majikan
• Decide on the number of guests – 1,000 guests
• Develop the guest list – collecting address now
• Invitation card
• Cook
• Photographer
• Videographer
• Cake ( cake cutting ceremony)
• Best man & bridesmaids
• Outfits & accessories ( berinai )
• Outfits & accessories ( solemization )
• Outfits & accessories ( bersanding )
• Outfits & accessories ( outdoor )
• Regular beauty maintenance – Facials, body treatment, hair treatment, best! This one kena buat ongoing! Jgn hangat-hangat tahi ayam je ye?
• Attend initial fitting for the wedding dress
• Choose the brides wedding shoes and accessories – depends on the wedding dress
• Choose the wedding attire for the groom – depends on the bride’s dress la
• Choose attire for best man, bridesmaids, fathers, mothers and ushers • Choose the brides and grooms wedding rings
• Order your wedding hantaran
• Order your wedding favors
• Prepare bridal bedroom decor – will be done by the wedding planner. |
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2 months before
• Send out the wedding invitation
• Book accommodation for groom’s family – if necessary
1 Month Before
• Arrange for a final fitting of your wedding dress.
• Reconfirm the wedding arrangements with the canopy people
• Reconfirm the jamuan arrangements with the cook
• Reconfirm the wedding arrangements with the photographer and videographer (Pay the deposit for confirmation)
• Contact any guests who have not yet responded to your invitation
• Organize a date when you can pick up your wedding outfits – 2 weeks before the ceremony
• Confirm all the ceremonies yg akan dibuat & keperluan bagi setiap majlis – majlis khatam Quran, majlis marhaban & berzanji, majlis berinai, majlis akad nikah (yang paling mendebarkan) & majlis bersanding (fuh...bnyknya)
• Communicate with the family members on their role during the wedding
7 Days before
• Wear-in your wedding shoes. Its will give brides who are not used to walking in high heels a chance to practice
• Organize with a close friend to have an emergency wedding kit, just for the bride, containing makeup and a repair kit for the wedding dress, so you can be ready for any minor hiccups through the day. Should be hold by the bridesmaid |
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Post Last Edit by cikanggun at 24-11-2011 17:44
1 Day before
• Berjumpa dengan sanak saudara anda yang datang dari jauh, dan pastikan mereka mempunyai tempat bermalam.
• Sediakan semua aksesori perkahwinan, barang kemas, pakaian dalam, pin, ubat dan barangan kecemasan.
• Menginaikan tangan anda sebagai pengantin perempuan...dont forget to provide the henna for your groom as well, and gently remind him to henna 3 fingers for each hand
On The Wedding Day!!!
• Make sure jurumekap anda ready on time
• Makan sarapan supaya anda tidak kelaparan dan gelisah
• Bertenang, banyak senyum dan ucap terima kasih kepada mereka yang membantu anda
• Paling penting pengantin kena saling support each other on this day – hiccups sikit-sikit tu biasalah, big event kan? Yang penting, we are legally together, kan?
Selepas Majlis
• Kemas pakaian anda, pastikan tiada yang hilang terutama jika yang disewa
• Kemaskan hadiah yang diterima dan pastikan terdapat seseorang yang bertanggungjawab
• And dont forget to tell your husband how much you love him - ni pun kena letak dlm checklist ke? Yes! Sbb lepas a tiring majlis, maybe ada isu sana sikit sini sikit, we might be merajuk or tak puas hati dgn hubby etc, apapun rasa masa tu, tell him u love him...sure we dont wanna start our few 1st days as husband & wife without the love words, kan? Masa ok, mmglah senang nak ckp we love him, tp if kita tgh marah bukan senang kan?So, marah ke tak puas hati ke, cakap jugak! It will help to sejukkan conflict (if there’s any la)...
• Walaupun penat, pastikan anda tidak stress dan nikmatilah hari istimewa anda. Ni peringatan untuk diri sendiri hehehehe
Selamat Pengantin Baru kepada anda semuaaaa.... Ini sekadar perkongsian utk kawan-kawan yg getting married as well..girls, hope this checklist can help u sedikit sebanyak..and guys, hope this checklist can show u betapa banyaknya perkara yg your bride kena take into account, so some understanding & support can be really good. *credit to a friend of mine for sharing this tips* |
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mmg btul kena ready dri mental dan physically...
financial lg la penting....
insyallah semua n ...
myra86 Post at 24-11-2011 08:40 
jgn sampai ber golok gadai yang...kahwin 10 tahun duk menanggung hutang...
selalulah ingat yg berkahwin nih sunnah nabi...dgn cara tu dapat tenangkan jiwa...
pasal persiapan..kena pilih warna dan tema dulu...baru senang nak plan perkara perkara lain...
lagi satu nak kena decide, nikah kat rumah ker nikah kat masjid..tu penting..kalau nak nikah kat masjid pastikan bukan waktu waktu datang bulan...kita nak dapat baraqah lain pulak jadinyer |
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takut tgk list sbb panjang giler2..
aku yg nk kawen awal bln 3 nih pun x buat ape2...
hatta dewan pun br jek tempah...hhehehe |
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best nye kawennn... bile teringat time sya kawen dulu, mesti sengih2 sorang2.. haha.. |
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thanks cik anggun... panduan ni mmg sgt berguna...
bole simpan tuk semua checklist
nk kawen mmg la thn dpn...
ape2 pun kena prepare dr sekarang kan....
nk kawen bkn senang kan...
byk benda nk kena ready dr awal |
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takut tgk list sbb panjang giler2..
aku yg nk kawen awal bln 3 nih pun x buat ape2...
hatta dewan ...
hanadanisya Post at 24-11-2011 08:28 PM 
itu laaaa...byk keje + tenaga + masa tau nk buat preparation kawin neh...
unless sumer sub dkt wedding planner... tp get ready lg 20-30K kot....
boleh laaaa uolss cucik kaki jer..sumer mende org buatkan...dtg bwk diri jer...ehehe... |
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Reply 16# myra86
itu just panduan jerk...
mungkin ada yg kite x teringat...
so bile tgk ader checklist tu, mungkin dpt membantu sket kan...
dont panic... buat step by step...insyaallah nnt majlis smooth jer..
hiccups sket2 tu mmg std laaa...sbb kite mmg x kn dpt nk puaskan ati semua org kan... |
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ssh norrr nk nikoh aiyakkk |
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buat list.... katering, mak andam, hantaran, duit upah saksi etc.... agar x lupa...... sbb kekadang nampak bende yg besar jer... yg kecik2 tertinggal.... so elok kalu buat list tu dari sekarang agar x kelam kabut bila dh sampai masa..... cthnya... kalu bakal suami tu dtg dari langkawi, uols lak kg kt johor, nk kena sediakan tmpt tinggal, makan derang etc... itu pun kena amik kira.... macam2 lah yg uols bleh senaraikan.... |
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Category: Wanita & Lelaki
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Post time 23-11-2011 05:51 PM
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