disebalik tabir kejayaan hidup anda

akubaik3

meh la kongsi cerita kisah disebalik kejayaan anda pada hari ini
tak kiralah dalam pelajaran ke..kerjaya ke..pekerjaan ke atau apa2 lagi
saat anda mengalami ujian,cabaran dan dugaan..dan kegembiraan saat anda berjaya

mudah-mudahan ia dapat menjadi teladan,motivasi,contoh dan dorongan
kepada diri saya dan mereka yang lain

iblismerah

setelah susah payah aku mengorat... akhirnya berjaya jugak aku 'melepaskan' air...

starcity

apa kau merapu nih

nor5014

Result SPM aku dapat gred 2 jer. Tapi alhamdulillah aku dapat masuk ITM. Masa masuk sana tuh aku rasa macam aku ler yang paling bodoh sebab yang lain2nyer dapat gred 1 belaka.

Tapi aku yakinkan diri, kalau orang lain boleh buat, aku pun mesti boleh. aku dh tak nak main2 macam masa SPM dulu. Lagi pun susah payah mak ayah aku hantar p study jauh2. Takkan aku nak musnahkan harapan dan impian depa lak. Kalau bukan untuk aku pun atleast aku boleh buat mak ayah aku happy.

macam tak caya, few sem aku dapat DL (dekan List = pointer 3.5 above). Best-best

Sampai la aku futher study ke degree & la ni dah almost 7 years aku keje. Jawatan pun alhamdulillah bagus ler.


So, apa pun kita boleh dapat kalau ada usaha. At least kenangkan la orang2 keliling kita yang sayangkan kita dan sanggup buat apa pun untuk kita.

miszlala

Originally posted by nor5014 at 3-10-2007 09:06 AM
Result SPM aku dapat gred 2 jer. Tapi alhamdulillah aku dapat masuk ITM. Masa masuk sana tuh aku rasa macam aku ler yang paling bodoh sebab yang lain2nyer dapat gred 1 belaka.

Tapi aku yakinka ...

tahniah nor....

nor5014

toce toce.:handshake:

Biasa jer ni. Kalau tengok kengkawan lain, terasa yang kita ni masih belum cukup berjaya. Kena kerja keras lagi nih.:pompom:

mba

Untuk berjaya seseorang mesti ada keyakinan tinggi, berwawasan dan yang penting sekali berusaha. No retreat no surrender. Go go go baby. Jangan amalkan sikap acuh tak acuh ( take for granted ) and never say no in your life if you want to success

Ini adalah renungan utk forumer semua ( hakiki not rekaan ) - time student

Masa aku boarding school dulu form 4 and form 5 was a honey moon year for me cause im not a book worm. Start dari form 4 till trial SPM aku always sneak out malam2 jadi taukey rokok masa boarding school. So masa result trial SPM keluar aku tengok aku dapat SAP ( sijil am pelajaran -  i was in science stream  ). Masa tu baru aku terbayang muka arwah bapak aku dgn mak aku.....just imagine after trial towards SPM berapa bulan jer ...pulun habis habisan sampai berasap kepala otak ni I just concentrate 6 subject aja , the 3 more subject i just leave it alhamdulillah i manage to get grade 1 beb ( aggregate 24 jer cukup2 makan ) Then i further my study in diploma at ITM.....Tak serik2... honey moon lagi tapi result the first 2 years boleh tahan laa sebab masa tu rajin study. The third year of my diploma i knew erti enjoy disco ere and there, i always go to 11 LA ( pada sapa sapa yg tau laa masa ni memang top disco ni ). I got a good result in my diploma and during that time I eligible to further my study at oversea. Disebabkan sifat acuh tak acuh aku...aku tak apply pun oversea cuma apply dalam malaysia jer. Itu pun member aku yg tolong isikan borang masuk university. Member aku tanya nak apply course apa then aku jawab apa apa aja laaa....( thats my answer ) I manage to futher my study in engineering fm the local u in KL ( time ni tak byk university tak cam sekarang ni ). Study and duduk kat KL apatah lagi tumbuh tanduk laa aku...mostly every nite i go for enjoy HRC, disco dll. Luckily i score result the first year in the university kalau tak dah lama kena tendang. To make it short the last year final semester i carry forward cpa ( total credit 2.27 means its general degree ) So the final semester for the last year in university i need to bring 22 credit hours including repeat papers tapi member2 lain cuma 12 credit hours aje. Dalam kepala otak ni ada 3 possibilities jer no 1 - i will get the general degree je no2 - i will repeat few papers which means to say that i need to extend no 3 - i will grade with second class lower. The final semester i spent a lot on my subject berasap asap lagi kepala otak aku ni.....alhamdulillah i manage to get second class lower for my chemical engineering. Gempak tu beb celebrate kat HRC tu.....itu lah sedikit sebanyak pengalaman aku nak share...cuma ambik yg baikkk jer yer murid murid

Pengalaman aku masa kerja plak ( hakiki not rekaan )

Well its my destiny kot, qada dan qadar ketentuan tuhan even though i dont have a good result in my study compare to my others friends. Nak kata bangga diri tak laa tapi I do salute myself. Alhamdulillah...Now i been working abroad ( oversea )and kadang kadang tu aku sorang saja orang malaysia kat tmpt kerja aku ni....I proud of myself and other nationality salute malaysian too much. Dulu kala kita salute dgn orang putih kan....sekarang aku duduk sama rata dgn dia orang dan some cases i will instruct this mat salleh...fullamakkkk. Alhamdulillah....tapi kadang kadang lonely gakkk thats the fact.

Itu lah sedikit sebanyak pengalaman aku utk di renung bersama sama. Yang baik jadikan tauladan dan yang buruk jadikan sempadan. Remeber rezeki di tangan tuhan tak kiralah rezeki belajar ker rezeki bekerja. Never say NO in your life if you want to be success

lady_nF

aku masa sekolah agak terer jugak
sbb aku cam suka belajar kot

tapi masa dekat U
first pointer aku 2.4 sahaja
damn! sebabnya aku cam tak belajar sangat
asik ponteng kelas...
first time dapat sekolah yg tak strict attendance katakan
then aku insaf
dah terbayang2 dah kena hantar balik mesia sbb pointer tak cukup

but syukur pasal got wake up call first sem lagik
then aku study
in the end dapat gak dean's list

nor5014

manusia ni selalunya "dah terantuk baru nak teradah" (betul ker peribahasa aku tu?) Kalau asyik berjaya/semuanyer senang jer manusia ni cepat lupa diri.

mba

bukanlahhh .....dah ternadah baru terantuk kot........   

BeanDiesel

This is very personal to me. It's the only way I know to tell what's really behind what I am now. It's pretty long, but I hope those who reads it somehow finds one or two lines that, even in the most microscopic magnitude, inspire them to change thier lives too.


I'm the youngest of 2. My sister and I. I have to admit that my childhood wasn't very easy. My dad was diagnosed with some kind of mild mental illness. So he wasn't very good with money. We had all kinds of financial problem. So at the young age I constantly had to hear my mom's struggle to keep our family together. I remember one time someone threatened to seize all our posessions. I remember myself crying so hard thinking of how on God's earth we were supposed to get by. I was seven at the time.

Despite all that, I'm thankful that we always had something to eat. My parents always paid attention to our well being. They would sacrificed a lot to make sure that we have all the books and accessories we needed for our education.

As hard as it was, my biggest challenge didn't come until I was in F4. I was in a boarding school by the way. One morning as I was about to board the bus that would take our school band to Ipoh I think, one of my teachers called me and said my dad was in a hospital. It turned out that my dad had pancreatic cancer. To make the story short, my dad did not regain consciousness for a long time in the ICU. At the time he held the record for the longest stay in that ward. I missed school the entire time, for a total of about two and a half month. HKL became my second home. I slept there every night, waiting for him to regain consciousness, checking out his vitals. When he's finally conscious, I took the responsibility to provide my dad with the best care and love I could give. I would shave him, wipe his body, clean his feces, feed him, everything I could everyday. The only reason why I stopped eventually was because I got tonsil infection.

When I came back to school I had no idea what the hack I had missed. It's a lot of stuff. So I struggled acadmically. And yeah, being suspended for a couple of weeks from school for being caught smoking didn't help either. Until the first examination of F5, I still failed the majority of classes. Particularly Add Math, Physics, Chem, and Biology.

But the worst happened during March of 2000. My dad was hospitalized again, for two weeks. But this time they couldn't save him. I was so devastated. I went outside and cried all by myself, so that I didn't have to in front of my mom. I had to be strong for her. After that things just went worse. My dad didn't really leave much saving. He left a little bit shares that had to go through the court for faraid thing. It had to be divided for my two much older step brothers and my grandpa. I don't know how the hack my brother managed it but we have yet to see anything. So money was very limited. My mom hadn't been in the workforce for a long time so she has almost no skill that could make us any real money. All she could do was to provide day care for a few babies for a few hundred ringgit a month. Life was very tough. I can't tell you how many times my mom cried because she had no idea how the hack to make ends meet.

I had many teachers who thought I'm such a bad kid, just because of my previous history of being caught smoking in school. My academic performance didn't help my reputation too. No one would have believed I could make it at the time. I could easily have given up. Thankfully I didn't. One person did believe in me, a trainee counselor, which later became my best friend, and I owe her my life. I would stay up all night by myself doing lots of revisions. I drank lots of coffee, I would sleep in class sometimes. Just because while they're learning the 4th month of F5 syllabus materials, I was still trying to study what I had missed the year before. Later on my teachers wouldn't mind that I slept during class while they were teaching, because despite all odds, I made a huge comeback. They knew I really studied at night. I went from being one of the worst students to one of the top scorers particularly in Add Math, Physics, and Chemistry. Not bad considering the competition was pretty tough among my peers. I went to SAS by the way.

So at the end, I received A2 in BM and English, A1 in PI, Mod Math, Add Math, Physics, Chem, and I almost failed Biology and Sejarah for SPM. ACtually I intentionally ignored Sejarah and Biology because I simply could not memorize the amount of information required by those courses in the kind of time I had. I could only rely on my logical thinking, not so much on my memory.

So I went to several interviews, did did very well in most of them. I never told my interviewers that I should get the scholarship because I was poor. I never even mentioned it. I just made sure that they knew I was good. and so I got the offers to further my studies in Japan or US. I chose the later. It didn't really end there. Life was still hard. The only good thing is that I got scholarship, that way I don't have to burden my family that much. But it was still hard for my mom and my sister to survive.

The first year I was in the US wasn't particularly very good. After two years being in PPP Shah Alam, I became lazy. I mean, I was exhausted after putting that much effort on SPM. So the two years after that was kind of my honeymoon years. Plus, I had some relationship problem that was distracting (I'm not blaming my ex, the situation that we were in was distracting). And I was losing the support I needed from the important person I mentioned before, well, because she has a life to live too. The second semester my GPA dropped to 2.4, and I only took 10 units.

It was a wake-up call for me. I knew I couldn't just feel sorry for myself and hope everything will turn out alright. So starting the third semester I stopped screwing up and take charge of my life, again. I fixed my GPA to above 3.0. I didn't feel enough so the next semester I improved it by about 0.2 .

Every semester I put more and more effort towards my education. I knew I had to get out of poverty so bad. I knew that someday I wanted to give my mom a call and say that our family is finally in a good shape. I knew that I have to get a job in the US so that I can make more money, and the way to get it is by working so hard in school. It's not just about me, but my people too, Malay people. I refuse to be yet another Malay student who doesn't do well despite all the assistance we receive. I mean, it's shameful for me to meet my Chinese-Malaysian friends under the same program knowing that unlike them, too many of us screwed up already. I wanted to set myself apart from the rest of Malay students at least in our university. So I got really pumped up, my 5th semester I scored 3.6, and the last 3 semesters, which are the toughest semesters ever, I got 3.8 every time. So despite a poor start, I managed to finish very very close to 3.5 overall GPA and about 3.75 major GPA (I still regret not putting as much effort earlier on).

Everything started to go my way. During my second last semester, I took 5 senior level engineering classes, and I decided to do my senior design project all by myself. Because I didn't think anybody could be my partner and put as much effort as I would. It turned out to be a great decision as I received an award from my school for it (I missed the award dinner because I didn't realize I was even nominated because I was so busy studying). Out of 4 design awards given by the school of engineering, I was the only winner who won one individually. During the graduation ceremony (which took place a semester before I actually graduated), my name was announced as one of the outstanding seniors who were recently recognized. Boy I wished my dad was there to witness it, because he's the most responsible person who encouraged me to develop my mechanical skills since I was little. I received the recognitions from many professors. During my last semester, one professor hired me to be his grader, and another one hired me to teach my own class. It's a very rare opportunity given to an undergraduate student. Every professor I asked were more than happy to write me a recommendation. That time, I felt like every effort I put, every sacrifice I made started to really pay off. My advisor told me that I was among the top in ME class of '06. Yes, that was just last year. I was happy that every time I called, I gave my mom hope. I gave her news that she can be proud of. No amount of recognition by anyone else is more satisfying than to hear my mom deeply proud of me, after all that we've gone through. She has done a tremendous job.

And just about two month before I finished school, I received a life-changing phone call. That night, with a celebratory cigar in my hand, I called my mom, and told her, "I'm hired. I just got a full-time job as an engineer here, I will be making between US$50-60,000 per year, and we will be fine." It's a very emotional moment for me, it still is everytime I revisit the memory.


To you who are still studying out there especially, it's all up to you. You have to really really want it, you have to really really give all you got for it. It's easy to screw up, I almost did a couple of times. And it wasn't easy to fix your mistakes. The best way is to avoid making costly mistakes. But if you happen to do it, you have got to believe that you can fix it. I find it helpful to feel very ashamed if I don't perform. That way I'd be scared of screwing up. Because I feel like what I achieve reflects the kind of person I am.

odagiri

Originally posted by mba at 4-10-2007 01:31 PM
Untuk berjaya seseorang mesti ada keyakinan tinggi, berwawasan dan yang penting sekali berusaha. No retreat no surrender. Go go go baby. Jangan amalkan sikap acuh tak acuh ( take for granted ) an ...

bro, lu punya kisah sama jugak le mcm saya... tp bezanye saya tgh dlm study lagi.... first n 2nd yr kat u memang hanco sket... tapi cita cita saya tinggi teringin kerja di oversea... skang baru cuba catch up balik... very inspire la cite  bro... boleh bagi tips skit... pm me.... Thanks !

my-alja

wow!!... i am really proud of you

ur story is really inspiring..all the best to you bean

my-alja

bagus gak kann terantuk sekali-sekala, kesakitan tu mengajar kita

nor5014

terantuk sekali sekala takpe. Jgan terantuk selalu-lalu maunyer biul

chipmunk

oklah chip pula nak cerita.

Kalau diikutkan masa sekolah chip bukanlah pandai sangat, rasa dapat result biasa2 jer,upsr 3a, pmr 7a dan spm aggregat 18 pangkat 1. disebabkan anak cikgu kekadang menyebabkan chip terasa sangat bila dicompare dgn org2 yg lebih cerdik. chip tak suka nak dicompare2 ngan org. bagi chip setiap org ada kelebihan, tang tue lemah tang ni mesti kuat punyer. Masa sekolah memanglah pendiam sgt2 sampai dlm sijil berhenti sekolah siap cikgu tulis seorang yang pendiam.

Kalau tengok sekarang, agaknya mesti kawan2 chip terkejut beruk termasuklah cikgu2 kat sekolah. siapa sangka budak yang pendiam ni akhirnya memasuki kursus yang banyak bercakap?dari seorang yg pasif akhirnya menjadi seorang yg aktif. (tak semualah). Masa diploma chip memang result gempak, selalu dapat anugerah dekan tapi bila masuk degree dah jadi biasa2 jer, tapi dlm 3 pointer gak lah. Cuma chip agak upset bila amik professional degree chip di uitm, chip hanya mampu grad dengan 2nd class lower jer. rasa frust2 teramat sangat. sebab masa tue bukan tak belajar tetapi sebab most of our work based on group (60% keje group) and group chip paling la teruk orangnya maka chip pun terima tempiasnya. orang pun perlekeh la chip konon tak pandai itu inilah, tak tau nak lead group yg banyak peel la mcm2 karenah sampai satu fakulti tau masalah group chip. Masa tue jiwa memberontak sangat nak abiskan belajar dan buat apa chip mahukan.

dalam stres2 tue chip cuba rebut peluang sambung master di oversea di bawah skim pensyarah muda dengan gunakan result chip masa 1st degree. Alhamdulillah chip berjaya dapat. Ramai tak sangka chip dapat lebih2 lagi member group chip. dorang siap prjeudis cakap yg chip ni dahlah tak pandai english, blajar biasa2 jer berangan nak sambung oversea. ada juga pensyarah chip siap kutuk chip kater dier tak propose nama chip untuk jd lect..politik je lebih! chip tak pedulikkan dorang. yang penting chip tau apa yang chip wat untuk diri chip. dorang hengat dorang saper nak ajar2 chip hahaha..jeles, itulah dia bila berada dalam kelompok melayu semua.

Dan akhirnya chip dapat sambung belajar master di oversea. Akhirnya mereka2 yang mengutok chip tue pun termangu2 tak percaya apa chip dapat. Terdiam mulut2 mereka. Bagi chip ni hanya satu permulaan, banyak lagi halangan chip di hadapan.

pengajarannya di sini ialah apabila ada kesempatan rebutlah peluang yang ada. Anggap setiap kutukan dan cercaan org lain sebagai pembakar semangat untuk berjaya. itu chip amalkan selain berusaha dan cuba kuatkan motivasi. Setiap kesusahan itu ada kemudahan yang diberikan

mba

nanti besok wa citer tak cukup masa beb..time to goo

miszlala

your story is really inspiring..

all the best beandiesel

samilzdaf

tahniah ye wat korang..

an324

so raya ni bean raya kat State ke balik Msia?

just nak share..
ade my abg sedara cerita mcm bean jgk la..
my pakcik taxi driver and makcik tak keje..
adik bradik ramai gak la 7 org..
so my abg sedara ni (lepas ni dikenali as Abg B) study memang gila2..
dengan aim nak mengubah nasib keluarga..
and becoz of his hardwork, he managed to get results w flying colors and pursue degree in UK..
after degree, keje plak kat sana..
after a year Abg B ckp dia nak kawin..
with minah salleh la..
tapi walaupun pakcik makcik tak kasik Abg B kawin gak ngan minah tuh..
and terus tak balik2 Msia..
tak tau la merajuk ke hapa..
last time dengar crita (last year), as my cousin dapat study sana terjumpala ngan Abg B..
dia dah ader 2 anak but yg sad nye, dah tak macam org Islam.. agak terpengaruh la ngan budaya sana..

so, i  just nak ingat Bean, harap tak jadi macam my Abg B.. ok!