If You Could Change The Way You See things...

Png_Prince

Have you ever been asked if your glass is half empty or half full?

I know - it's a common question but your answer is important
because how you see life or how you see things ultimately shapes
your reality, your circumstances and your life.

Your perception shapes your life.

That's why what you see is what you get.

Change what you see and you get something different.

Perception is a very powerful tool; it can help you achieve your
goals and catapult you to success - if you work with it and use
perception to help you.

Unfortunately most people don't use the power of perception or they
use it to create the life that they don't want.

They don't want to change the way they see things and keep creating
more misery.

If you can change the way you see things you'll be able to change
your beliefs, change your thoughts and in the end change your life.

Today I'll show you how you can work with the power of perception;
how you can change your perception to suit your needs. I'll show
you how you can simply change the way you see things so that you
create the life you want - a life filled with success, happiness
and more.


So just what do you see? And just how do you see things?

How do you see the people around you? How do you view your friends,
family, colleagues, associates, strangers, sales people, etc? Do
you see some of them as positive influences and others as negative
influences? Do you think some of them are a pain, annoy you, are
difficult, frustrate you or out to get you? Or do you see them as
friendly, warm, caring, affectionate, loving, understanding,
positive people.

How you see people is what you bring out of them.

For example if you see a sales person as annoying you're going to
always find and attract annoying sales people. If you see a family
member as a pain, your always going to bring out the side in that
person that is a pain towards you.

If you see your colleagues as jealous, competitive or vindictive
then you're always going to bring out those qualities in them
because that's what you see in them and that is what you believe is
their character.

What you believe is what you get.

Now I know some of you are going to say: "Karim, these people are
that way - I'm not making this stuff up. They really are nasty."
Sure they are, and you keep bringing out the worst in them by
focusing only on seeing the dark side of their character.
Everybody around you has some redeeming qualities look at those
positive qualities within in them and you'll get them to display
those qualities more often.

Next - ask yourself: "Is that really the way they are?" Challenge
your perception and see if you can choose to see things differently.

Chances are when you look really closely most people are not as
mean and unkind as you think they are. They probably think that
they're being very nice but since you only see the negative
qualities in them anything they do will be deemed negative. Once
you've perceived them to be a certain way there's nothing that they
can do to change your mind.

The only way you will truly see the good in the other person is to
focus on and see their good qualities then you'll actually see them
displaying these qualities more often.
Look for the good in someone and you will only attract good things
to you.

Change the way you see people.
Change the way you see life.
Begin to believe that good things can happen and you begin to use
the Power Of Perception.

Look For the Positive and You'll Attract More Positive Situations
and People

How do you see the things happening in your life and world?

Do you think the world is a terrible place or a wonderful place?
Do you think the world is falling apart or do you think that
overall the world is a fascinating place?
Do you think you're life is terrible or do you think things are
great and getting better everyday?
Do you always think about what you don't have or do you look at
what you do have with gratitude and appreciation?
Do you look at what you can't do instead of looking at what you can
do? Do you look at the problems that you have or do you always look
for solutions?

Do you think you can accomplish your goals or do you feel that
there are too many obstacles and too many reasons for you not to
achieve your goals?
Do you come up with reasons why you can't do something or do you
look at ways that you can do what you want?

Your answers to the above questions will clearly explain the state
of your life.
For example: if you look at why you can't do something then you
will only attract the situations, people and events that will lead
to failure.

Why?

Because your subconscious mind thinks that this is what you want
and it then guides you so that you end up with the result that you
are focusing on - in this case your subconscious will guide you
towards failure because you don't believe that you can succeed.

It's really that simple.

Now if you were to look for ways to succeed, if you focused on
succeeding, if you started to look at how you could do the things
you want then your subconscious mind will guide you to the people,
situations and events that will help you achieve what you want. Now
this may not happen overnight but it will happen.

And if your perception is that you can get things done and that
there are ways for you to get things done then you will likely get
what you want a lot sooner.

For example: If you think there is no work where you live and that
you have to leave your country, state or city in order to find work
then your subconscious mind will only guide you to the events,
people and situations that will re-enforce that belief.
Anything you do will lead you to feel that you have to leave your
country, home, state or city to find a job.

Now if you were to look at this realistically and ask yourself if
all the people who had the same training as you are all out of work
or had to leave the country, state or city to get a job?

Would that be true? Probably not. So there are jobs, you just have
to find the right one.

If you looked closely and honestly you would find that the way you
see things is really not always the way things really are. You're
only seeing what you want to see and if that's what you want to see
then you'll continue seeing things in a limiting way.

Begin seeing opportunities where you see limitations.
Begin looking for answers when you feel there aren't any.
Create a belief system that allows you to see success in place of
failure.
Don't settle for second best.
Don't see the worst - look for the positive.
Begin creating the life you want.

Png_Prince

Change Your Glasses

If you don't like what you see in your life then simply change your
glasses.

Change the way you see things, it's really that simple.
For example: if you're out of work, in debt and think that life is
going nowhere stop looking at what is wrong in your life and look
at what is going well.

In this case you would consider the fact that you are able to look
for work, that you're still alive and that you're trying to find
ways to get out of debt and get the right job.

Of course things haven't improved but when you look at what is
right you attract more good things to you. When you look at what is
wrong you attract more negative things into your life. I'm not
asking you to ignore what is real I'm simply suggesting that you
take time to look at things a little differently and focus on some
of the good things in your life.

The minute you change your perception from looking at only the
negative things to looking at some of the positive things in your
life you start developing the power of perception.

When this happens you no longer dwell on what is wrong because
you'll move into the next phase which is to find solutions.

Automatically your mind and subconscious mind will begin search and
attracting solutions for you.
But this only happens when you see the positive things that are
going on in your life and when you look for the good in other
people.

Here's a little exercise that you can do to test the power of
perception.
The next time you think about what is wrong with your life make a
note of how you are feeling and then stop. Change your perception
by looking at all the good things that are going on in your life
then see how you feel.

Which feeling do you prefer?

If you feel that someone is particularly annoying make a note of
all the qualities that you are looking at in them when you feel
they are annoying. Then stop and look at all the positive qualities
that this person has; see if you're still annoyed at them.

The next time you go for a walk take a look around you and look at
all the wonderful things that are right in front of you pay
attention to them and then see how you feel.

Don't take these exercises lightly they are very powerful and will
help you attract more positive situations into your life.

I know some of you may have a number of challenges that you're
facing - but once you change your perception once you change the
way you see the world you will begin to attract the situations,
people and circumstances to help you accomplish your goals.

Focus on what you want.
Instruct your subconscious mind to create the things you want in
life.
Look for opportunities.
Change the way you see things and you'll change your life.

dexa

thank you for a great article --
a good motivation indeed --

jannahsyazana

if i could see the things i saw before and make decision with the wisdom i've gained.. i am sure i could make a difference in my life and the people around me...

afja

reading....to be continue...

forfavor

it's not easy to change the way we see things...but people tend to complicate simplest things.
the most important point here...seeing things differently from others and thinking of outside the box,that's the way i see things..

if we cant change the way other people see things...then can we change the things that they see? changing the goal posts perhaps...maybe i'm still thinking beside the box...

forfavor

how are we going to change things that have been pre-set by individuals?especially the goals...it's not easy somehow...n it also involved the questions of individual attitude towards expressing themselves...