How You Can Eliminate Negative Thinking

Png_Prince

Did you know that negative thoughts can destroy your life?

A mind filled with negative thoughts will cause you to feel
miserable, inadequate and will lead you to failure after failure no
matter how hard you try to succeed.

If you have a pattern of negative thinking you're also more likely
to be in debt and end up in destructive or negative relationships.  

If you want to succeed, enjoy happiness and live a life of
abundance, and prosperity - you will have to eliminate any
consistent negative thinking, and negative beliefs that you hold.

You'll also have to replace those negative thoughts with positive
thoughts that allow you to succeed and enjoy life.

While this may sound challenging - it's a lot easier than you think
- and today I'm going to outline just how you can eliminate
negative thinking and begin creating the life you want in a few
simple steps.


How Negative Thoughts Start

Let's face it, we all have negative thoughts. As much as you try
you won't be able to eliminate all your negative thinking.

But you can eliminate the chronic negative thoughts and change the
negative beliefs that prevent you from succeeding and achieving
your goals.

What are these thoughts and where do they come from?

They come from you friends, your family, fellow co-workers,
advisers, teachers, even strangers - and they come from you -
that's right! You often create most of the negative thoughts that
you have - and it's only because you haven't trained your mind to
be positive and you haven't created positive beliefs that allow you
to succeed.

The truth is everyday you are bombarded with a series of negative
thoughts, negative messages and as you continue to absorb all of
these negative messages you create a negative thinking pattern that
leads to negative and limiting beliefs.

Negative thoughts are like weeds - if you don't take care of them
and clear them early on - they will take over your entire mind and
destroy any positive thoughts and beliefs.

Here's an analogy that I think drives home my point.

Nearly two years ago my wife and I bought a home with a huge
backyard. Now I'm no professional gardener and I knew that taking
care of this yard would be challenge - but I was up for it.

Well when summer came weeds started to takeover my yard. I asked a
so called expert how to handle the issue and the advice I was given
just about ruined my yard.

I destroyed various chunks of my yard - there were burned patches
all over the place and I had o re-seed large sections.

I spent hours removing the burned grass, putting in fresh soil and
planting the seeds.

Everyday I watered those patches and made sure the seeds got enough
water to help them grow.

Every morning I would like out the window hoping to see new grass
in those patches.

One day - I forgot to look.

I got home in the evening - went out to water those patches - and
guess what - there was new grass everywhere. The patches were
fading and the new grass seemed to have sprouted overnight.

Your mind and life work in a similar way.

How?

Let me explain.

At infancy your mind is much like my garden was - bright, clear and
untainted by the weeds of negative thinking.

As you get older - the weeds of negative thinking start to pop up.
When you don't control them they start to wipe out all that was
lush and positive in your mind and in your life.

The weeds of negative thinking not only taint your mind - they
spill over into your life and start destroying all that you
treasure and appreciate.

But just like my garden - you can fix or correct the problem. You
can eliminate the weeds, plant new seeds and create a new life and
a new way of thinking - one that will allow you to enjoy life a
great deal.

How?

You start by replacing the weeds of negative thinking with positive
thoughts, positive feelings, and begin spreading this positive
message to other people.

When you have a negative thought that says you can't do something -
think of why you can do something.

When you think of what might go wrong - change those negative
thoughts and think about what can go right.

When you feel that you can't accomplish something - think of why
you can accomplish something.

Recite affirmations - these are the seeds of your new positive way
of thinking.
Work with as many techniques as you can to get rid of the weeds and
plant new seeds for positive thinking and positive living.

The results will come when you least expect it.

I had to continue watering my lawn until one day - the new grass
just seemed to pop up.

You have to continue watering your mind with positive feedback -
and then only will things start to change.

When will this change happen?

When you are ready and when you eliminate the negative thinking.
Start removing the negative thoughts that create the weeds of your
mind.
Begin changing negative and limiting beliefs.

afja

done....

noone

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Png_Prince

Have a nice reading

noon...aper secretnyer?

tq penang prince...

bcozofu

good article

azliza

Ini dikenali hukum alam , dulu ms sy berlajar selalu gak baca buku2 cam gini sambil2 nk bg motivasi to move on. Dalam hukum alam tu ada mengatakan kita akan jadi apa yang kita pikir. Kalau kita pikir kita bodoh memang kita akn jadi bodoh, kalau kita pikir kita akan berjaya satu hari nanti memang kita akan berjaya satu hari nanti. Kalau kita pikir sejukkk gila walaupun di tgh panas...memang kita akan jadi sejuk .....so pandai2 la memupuk cara kita berpikir, kerana ia akan mendorong ke arah apa yg kita pikir.

Dalam agama islam pun dah bg kita hint cuma ramai tk sedar. Allah menyatakan kalau kita pikir nak buat jahat tapi belum buat lg dah dapat dosa. Sama la kalau kita pikir nak buat baik tp belum buat lg dah dapat pahala. Tanpa kita ketahui dengan berfikirboleh mendorong kita ke arah apa yg kita pikirkan dan Allah memupuk kita jgn berpikir membuat dosa...secara tk langsung ia memupuk kita jgn berpikir ke arah jahat sebab nant dapat dosa...... So pandai2 la ....

Sekian tips utk hari ni ...

burning_ash

thanks...lega skit rasanya... dah lah tgh tension pasal keja nie...iskk

Cocoa_butter

i ada video pasal " the secret"..mmg best la..cite pasal positive thiniking n law of attraction..anyway good article

forfavor

be optimistic...to the point of being annoying especially to people who think it's cool to be called a cynical...

p/s:quoted from yasmin ahmad...heheheh

[ Last edited by  forfavor at 28-4-2007 01:28 PM ]

bcozofu

KEEP AWAY FROM PEOPLE WHO TRY TO BE LITTLE UR AMBITIONS.SMALL MINDED PEOPLE ALWAYS DO THAT.........BUT THE REALLY GREAT MAKE U FEEL THAT U 2 ARE GREAT!!

batricia

kalau tak silap saya la kan,

kalau seseorang tu baru berfikir untuk berbuat jahat, dia belum dikenakan dosa sehingga lah dia buat jahat tu, baru ditulis dosa untuk kejahatan dia,

tetapi

kalau seseorang tu baru berfikir untuk berbuat baik, walaupun dia belum buat kebaikan tersebut, dia dah pun dapat pahala....kalau dia buat, lagii la dapat pahala....

rahsia utama kena ader anjakan paradigma terhadap mindset...kena terima segala kelemahan dan kekurangan diri...dan
jangan mudah terpengaruh dengan kata-kata org lain...anggap ader perkara yg boleh kita ubah dan ader juga yg
sebaliknya...

kawankau

Originally posted by azliza at 25-4-2007 08:45 AM
Ini dikenali hukum alam , dulu ms sy berlajar selalu gak baca buku2 cam gini sambil2 nk bg motivasi to move on. Dalam hukum alam tu ada mengatakan kita akan jadi apa yang kita pikir. Kalau kita p ...

ha..setuju teramat sangat dgn perenggan pertama azliza ni.
kawan pernah baca, ini semua berkaitan dengan realiti yang kita cipta dalam minda. sebenarnya keadaan kita ni neutral aje..maknanya tak malang, tak bertuah, tak sedih, tak susah. bila kita cipta realiti kesusahan dlm minda kita, kita akan sedaya upaya subconciously,  menjadikan realiti minda itu sebagai realiti fizikal.
kalau kita fikir positif kita juga akan cuba sedaya upaya utk jadikan semuanya positif...
satu yang ramai orang terlupa ialah kita sebenarnya ada kawalan ke atas minda kita tu..kalau kita tak mengawal dia, dia akan jadikan pengalaman yang lepas sebagai reference le...kalau pengalaman tu baik, baikle..kalau tak baik, hancus le....

perenggan kedua tu, tak berapa setuju le.....

bcozofu

KUASA MINDA

Nara_Gaara

Good topic.Aku ni mmg tergolong dalam kelompok yang sangat negatif.seandainya ada sensor yg boleh detect cas2 negatif pada diri aku ni,mungkin sensor tu boleh rosak agaknya coz tak tertanggung nak detect.
Slalu org cakap kat aku,'think positive'.Adeyy,camno tu nak pikir positif?idop aku penuh dgn masalah.mmg silap aku la coz suka cari masalah,suka lari dari masalah,taknak bertanggungjawab dan amek mudah terhadap sesuatu perkara.
aku leh terima kelemahan diri tapi nak atasi kelemahan tu aku tak berdaya.taktau cara.

I love to read this article











kalau kita cabut semua bulu pukki darsita, lepas tu kerat pula
kelenntit darsita sekali lagi, darsita tetap juga jadi babi betina .
darsita sudah di lahirkan utk jadi sekor babi betina.

zenita

good one.. well ntahla.. susah nak think positive. career wise i'm sure i can.. it's proven but pasal life and relationship, memang susah gila.

i'll try to find the book. 'the secret' ek?

and how to get over bad experience? if someone give you a hard time, how to think positive about it?

zenita

Cocoa_Butter, where can i get the secret video?