Would one be able to see true love

lealaurielle

Would one be able to see honesty and the compassion, and passion for true love, if he or she was born blind??? :hmm:

yipun78

There was a blind girl who hated herself just because she's blind. She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He's always there for her.

She said that if she could only see the world, she would marry her boyfriend.

One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her and then she can see everything, including her boyfriend.

Her boyfriend asked her, "now that you can see the world, will you marry me?"

The girl was shocked when she saw that her boyfriend is blind too, and refused to marry him.

Her boyfriend walked away in tears, and later wrote a letter to her saying. "Just take care of my eyes dear."

This is how human brain changes when the status changed. Only few remember what life was before, and who's always been there even in the most painful situations.
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Lea, this one i received through mail

lealaurielle

Originally posted by yipun78 at 20-12-2006 08:51 AM
There was a blind girl who hated herself just because she's blind. She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He's always there for her.

She said that if she could only see the world, she  ...

sedehnyeeeee....

ajinomotonosuga

feeling is the greatest eyes

love is the greatest knowlegde

and mind is the greatest tool.

the mind must always be inquisitive , to find real love, must always with 'open eyes', true feelings.

love, truth and beauty always locked together. u cannot see one without the other two.

mekna

Originally posted by lealaurielle at 19-12-2006 03:19 PM
Would one be able to see honesty and the compassion, and passion for true love, if he or she was born blind??? :hmm:

As for me.....welll..as long as Allah is your No 1 love..insyaAllah He'll be your guide ...

redsinner

when one says love is blind, it is never the love at fault...
it is always the perceiver who take love for granted, indulges in the roller coaster ride and when finally he woke up, he would say she's not the love he's looking for.
love is about sharing, caring and responsiblilty towards one another, thus it wont make anyone blind

lealaurielle

I cannot help it but to agree with u, redsinner, especially this part "love is about sharing, caring and responsiblilty towards one another"

yaszz

It's hard to be able to differentiate whether it's true love or not but I believe indirectly we can feel it... To be able to feel is actually a gift...

redsinner

i agree, as abstract as love can be, it is an abundance to be felt by everyone

Pe4RL

Originally posted by lealaurielle at 19-12-2006 15:19
Would one be able to see honesty and the compassion, and passion for true love, if he or she was born blind??? :hmm:

I believe love is abt feeling not seeing

SleepyFish

If one constantly seeks love outside or in a human form..it make take a long time or even u may never get to see true love.

ajinomotonosuga

Love is the greatest understanding.

dutchy

to feel love, you need to understand all ur senses...

buta mata tak bererti buta hati......love is where ur heart is...it reside in the deepest of ur heart.....there is where love suppose to be.....bkan sekadar di bibir sahaja

ajinomotonosuga

true  love is understanding. if one cannot understand oneself, one cannot understand anything, even the food one eaten.

understand everything. it begins with reading, thinking, observing, asking dan discussing etc.

so it is eventually about communicating. every creation is a communicator. it wants to speak out anything, everything.

singing, dancing, playing, working, sleeping etc.

u see it by understanding.u admit it in ur heart. communicate to urself. asking urself. make urself thinking. answering it to urself. only lover can see true beauty. there is no single black dot of ignorance. self ignorance is the real enemy and syaitan is the 'told' (diberitahu) enemy of human being.

so actually human being has no enemy but themselves (the ignorance part, being 'pujuk' by syaitan to stay ignorance)

but do not hate anything even syaitan, dia pun tuhan cipta jugak..true love is understanding( kenal ), just hate of why u keep being ignored, it is simply jihad matter, the self struggle, cleansing ur heart, berzikir (ingat) pada Allah swt..always do thing beginning with HIS beautiful names, always remember HIM and then GOD will remember u and protect u, always in love with HIM and that is the beginning of true love, tak kenal so tak cinta lah ok?

Agul

Now, who can induce love at will?


Raise your hand...

dutchy

am raising mine, sky high

its not difficult to induce love, if you do not expect anything in return, its as simple as ABC

free2rhyme

Originally posted by lealaurielle at 19-12-2006 03:19 PM
Would one be able to see honesty and the compassion, and passion for true love, if he or she was born blind??? :hmm:

If the meaning of see here is to understand then why not because human understanding comes from their mind .

SleepyFish

induce love at will please eleborate...not sure I got u.

wisteria

if u aske me .. i would say .. depends on which eyes do you see love ....

Agul

Originally posted by SleepyFish at 27-4-2007 11:03 AM
induce love at will please eleborate...not sure I got u.

I've come to know that there are no  hard and fast rule regarding your state of being or feeling to the situation in your life. We can both experience the same event but my feeling will not be the same with you.

It's logical to assume that we can feel what we want to feel at any time. Maybe a little practise is necessary but it is possible. How empowering to choose what we want to feel 24-7. It may take bucketloads of practise but it sure worth it.

Love is a feeling. To induce love at will is just to feel love, at the time that you want. You don't depend on anyone, or any爋utside circumstance.

However this kind of love need to be taken in broader context and not just man-woman(women) kind of love.

If you find it's hard to feel love, try loving kindness, gratitude or other good feeling.燨r爎emember爏omeone爕ou爈ove. You'll probably feel something around your chest area. Now, for a moment爁eel爐hat爁eeling.燭hat,爄s爈ove.