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Post time 6-7-2015 08:26 AM
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bianglala replied at 6-7-2015 07:32 AM
sakit perut lagi...
n pun sakit perut ni madu.. |
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Post time 6-7-2015 08:27 AM
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bianglala replied at 6-7-2015 07:29 AM
biar lambat asal selamat..
betul3..  |
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Post time 6-7-2015 08:27 AM
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ip_lepat replied at 6-7-2015 07:42 AM
8hb bukak utk kad
@bianglala
wokey... baik la.. |
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Post time 6-7-2015 08:51 AM
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tari replied at 6-7-2015 08:28 AM
waalaikumsalam N
selamat pagi tari.. |
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Edited by ip_lepat at 6-7-2015 09:10 AM
cubaan...cubaan...
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N cuti ke, online guna henpon
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cantik la abg lepat punyaa...
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n keje..
guna tepon lg laju..
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abg lepat masuk bakul.. 
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alaaa.... jeles tu cakap je le
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mmg n jeles pown..
sila buatkan n yg bling2 satu..
baru n x jeles..
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nah.. amik ni
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mohtip kasik n bintang bling2 je..
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11 hari lagi nak raya eh.
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termenung pulak baca ni. besar tanggungjawab seorang lelaki / suami kan..
part 1.
kredit Tun Fiqa Mohammad
ni kes yang viral tu.
My heartfelt condolence. Share bukan utk aibkan sesiapa tapi utk jadi iktibar dan pengajaran buat kita semua.
Semoga para lelaki mendalami indahnya akhlak Rasulullah sebagai suami dan ketua keluarga sebelum berkahwin.
My husband always remind me that 'love is not just about feelings, its commitment'. How 2 person commits to give their best, whatever it takes.
Looking at ths two, i guess im a bit demanding as well.. I pun nak Prada nak LV nak Ferragamo.. But my husband cakap, mengikut Islam, when he takes me, he takes up the responsibility to fulfill my wants and needs.. Tp i pun tak ada lah minta bukan2 frm my husband bcz i pun kerja so i can afford what i want with my own money.. Ni lah dipanggil EHSAN.
Tahu tak tugas dalam rumah ialah tanggungjawab suami? Tahu tak dlm Islam ada bahagian nafkah utk wangian dan perhiasan isteri? I taktahu, Saif yg beritahu.. Tahu tak, kalau isteri dah biasa bersenang jadi tanggungjawab suami utk sediakan maid? Itu pun Saif beritahu.. Kenapa Saif tahu bcz he reads alot, he listens alot.. Dia bukan lelaki yg besar kepala dan bentuk marriage ikut kepala dia je dengan verdict, ikut hukum agama isteri kena patuh pada suami! Tak, Rasulullah tak berkeras dgn isteri, Baginda suami penyayang, kongsi selimut, bergurau senda, pergi pasar kemas rumah, what does that tell u? It means he was a loving man, responsible and tolerates in marriage.
Tanggungjawab isteri dlm Islam ialah menjaga suami, menjaga harta suami sepanjang pemergian dan menjaga kehormatan diri.. Kerja rumah tu ehsan isteri, jaga anak tu ehsan, duit isteri dalam household ialah sedekah dari isteri. Tak percaya? Dalamilah ilmu agama berkaitan perkahwinan.. Jgn tahu nak kawin je lepas 6 minggu dah macam2 jadi..
Kalau mutually dah agree to swap duties, itu persetujuan antara suami dan isteri. EHSAN. Ini rumah bersepah marah isteri pulak instead of buat jugak. Susu anak pun tak reti nak buat. Memang tanggungjawab lelaki besar. Sebab tu, kalau tak sanggup, fikir byk kali sebelum kawin.
Indahnya perkahwinan bila suami jadikan akhlak Rasulullah sebagai his way of life and core of action.. Ni tak, kutip sunnah tang kawin 4.. Imamkan isteri solat pun entah ada ke tak.. Kerja rumah serah bulat2 kat isteri.. Duit sendiri perabih kat main bola, lepak dgn kawan, rokok. Duit isteri guna beli pampers duit dapur. Duit isteri bayar rumah bayar kereta. Itu semua tanggungjawab suami. Macam mana rezeki keluarga nak bertambah kalau isteri bagi duit dlm tak ikhlas dlm marah sbb suami tak berikan nafkah dia malah ambil pulak lagi dr dia bahagian yg sepatutnya tanggungjawab suami? Again, if the parties dah agree to swap responsibility, itu lain. Thats EHSAN.
Susah kan jadi lelaki? Sebab itu lah digalakkan kahwin dari kalangan sekufu.
Tapi zaman sekarang, entahlah.. Kita kata kita islam, tapi kita pilih2 panduan yang mana nak ikut.. Sedih kan.
Kalau Rasulullah tengok agaknya Baginda sedih tak? Ini ke Umat yg dia rindu dan sebut berkali2 sebelum wafat tu.. Ini ke umat yg nak diberi syafaat tu..
Ingatan buat sendiri dan semua, jom kita tepuk dada tanya iman.
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part 2.
Tun Fiqa Mohammad
10/12/2011
On my wedding reception, Ayah gave a lengthy speech on marriage's do's and don'ts.. Those who attended would remember how long his speech was.. Ada dua pesanan yang sangat terkesan dihati, satu ialah, "its the second word that starts the quarrel" dan, "dalam perkahwinan tak ada you you, i i, ada kita".
Maka setelah dipesan berkali kali di dalam reception ballroom tu dihadapan 500 tetamu, hiduplah kami berdua bersama berpegangkan pesanan ayah tadi.
We don't have a perfect marriage. We are just like any other couple. We fight, we argue on certain things, we this we that just like any other couple. However, setiap kali kita nak start arguement, one of us will quickly say sorry and then we will both forget it. Kita akan ingatkan each other that its the second word that starts the quarrel.
At the end of the day, we will always be on the same team, macam ayah pesan, dalam perkahwinan cuma ada "kita". Just take a deep breath, hug each other and say sorry. Lower your tone. Bila itu prinsip kita, kita menang pun tak untung, kalah pun tak rugi because kita kan satu team. I know some other couples yang macam tu juga and they lead a happy marriage life. Anak-anak pun membesar dengan baik. But i also know some other couple yang jadi rival each other, as in when they fight they build a fortress and they keep going, they fall out of "kita" and become defensive. Nobody ever died of swallowing pride yet masing-masing still refuse to say sorry. Last-last tu jadi nak tengok, siapa menang siapa kalah. You cannot be a team, when u start going i i , u u.
I guess, my parents thought me by example. Ayah and ibu are good teammates. They spend their time mostly together. Masak sama-sama, rest sama-sama, ayah buat bisnes pun nak ibu ikut, ibu is dependant on ayah, and ayah pun dependant on ibu. Pakai baju nak matching-matching. They never forget each other's birthday, they celebrate their anniversary. Ayah ibu tak berkira duit ringgit, susah senang sama-sama. They are very supportive of each other and after all this years, they are still smitten. They call each other 'Yang' and say I love u, they hug each other and kiss each other when bidding goodbye, they maintain good relationship dgn both family, ibu jaga arwah tok mcm mak sendiri and ayah 26 tahun jaga arwah opah mcm mak sendiri.
Bila i dah kahwin, i naturally imitate my growing up surrounding. I become the reflection of my parents. I become selfless, and lucky me my husband pun mcm tu because he imitates his growing up surrounding juga. I remember at one time masa nak bayar for something, my friend terkejut tengok i minta Saif wallet instead of duit. She said, dia nak minta duit husband dia pun tak dapat, i minta wallet pun boleh? When u r a team, it doesnt matter, my wallet is his, his is mine. My phone is his, his is mine. We keep no secret. Whatever is in the past, is in the past.
Forget about siapa yang akan menang masa bergaduh, isteri menang ke, suami menang ke, dua dua rugi. Bcz dalam proses nak menang tu we will say hurtful things yang sometimes we dont mean. Kadang tu sampai naik tangan, pinggan terbang. Anak-anak melihat and instinctively when they grow up, they will feel its normal and then history will repeat itself. Ni nak raya ni, instead of happy2, ada je suami isteri gaduh because dua dua nak balik kampung masing-masing. Kadang tu sorang balik sini, sorang balik sana. Shouldnt be that way, bincanglah, jadi "kita" instead of "saya". Remember, ur partner is ur teammate.
Kurangkan bagi arahan. Lebihkan bagi cadangan.
A) yang, tahun lepas dah balik kampung u, tahun ni balik kampung i.
B) yang, apa kata tahun ni kita balik kampung i..sebab last year balik kampung u kan kan..
Ada beza tak?
Berlembut suaralah.
Yang isteri kena pandai pujuk-pujuk. Suami mesti cair punya. Kalau dulu sebelum kahwin boleh pujuk-pujuk boleh gedik-gedik, why change jadi singa lepas kahwin? Suami pun kenalah lembut hati sikit. Adil ialah meletakkan sesuatu pada haknya. Kalau tahun lepas balik kampung suami, tahun ni kampung isteri la pulak. Kita kan satu team? Dah sampai kampung pasangan jangan duduk je dalam bilik pulak, keluarlah untuk bermesra dengan keluarga mertua. Ambil hati mak pak mertua. Bukan bodek, ambil hati. Tak rugi jadi baik.
Perkahwinan ni bila direstui dan didoakan ramai orang especially ibu ayah, u can never believe how much it can prosper.
Rasulullah s.a.w was a romantic man. Sampai tidur depan pintu rumah sebab taknak kejutkan Aisyah r.a yg sedang tidur. But what not all of us know, at the same time, Aisyah r.a pun tertidur di balik pintu tu kerana takut tak terjaga apabila Rasulullah pulang. Kisah cinta agung.
The prophet was deeply in love with his wife, so was the wife. Apa kata kita tiru akhlak Rasulullah dan isterinya ni dalam rumah tangga kita? Semoga Allah berikan keberkatan, berikan rahmat dan kebahagiaan sampai Jannah.
InsyaAllah.
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pemandangan dah lama tkde kuiz
tkde sapa nk buat ke?
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