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Post time 24-6-2015 10:13 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts |Read mode
Hai semua porumer...
Kat sini ramai otai2 y da berfemili kann n expert bab chenta2..sy ni masih lagi baru..saya ada problem sket laa..nak minta pendapat porumer semua..
Dulu sy prnh post psl hubungan sy ngn "bf" or kami suka gne term" kawan saja"..
Die pernah la buat silent treatment kt sy so sy pun balas balik dgn silent treatment gak..lame jgk laa ktorg silent n baru2 ni die mncul dgn lagak y tade pape..
Cakap rindu la,alone la bagai..tp time tu sbb sy masih syg die sy layan jela..at the same time,spnjang ketiadaan die,ada la beberapa org jejaka y cube nk mengtackle sy..sorg tu muda sgt,sorg lagi suami org..y suami org tu awal2 da kne rijek tp y jejaka muda ni da rijek byk kali pun still xnak..
Sy pun gitaw laa kt c bf ni..baru la mcm nak take care psl sy..salu msj,ajak jmpe bagai..tp ktorg jauh..so xley jumpe..

Ngn jejaka muda ni last2 sy btol2 terpaksa bg hard rejection kt die so die terima..cme skrg c bf tu mcm salu silent n tbe2 mncul..senyap lame n then mncul balik mcm chipsmore y ku rse mcm.nk pijak smpai hancur..

Skrg sy da pasrah n mcm kurg da perasaan kt c bf tu..die ajak jmpe tp die ajak jmpe tmpt die,mmg kompem sy xkan pegi sbb jauh..nk.kne travel bagai semata2 nk jmpe die..ble sy suh die mai tmpt sy bley plak bagi alasan jauh..n die ada ckp kalau x date cmne nti pasni nk kawen laa bagai...sy rse agak marah jgk n last sy ckp ""kalau ada jodoh tu nikah jgk..lau xde nk wat cmne""

Xtaw laa sentap ke x die tu...susah sgt ke nk care..huhu..ape pendapat porumers otai kt cni..help miiiii plizzzzz
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Post time 24-6-2015 10:26 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Mia pon nak tahu gak...smbil mkn popcorn tunggu otai bg pendapat..
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Post time 24-6-2015 11:05 PM | Show all posts
pendapat je lah:
bf awak tu mcm tak serious je
mcm nak tak nak
if you suka pada somebody, you usaha kuat punyer
kami habis duit la, penat la, naik malu la dan macam macam lagi buat utk org yg kami suka
rasa nye he is not that into you.

if he is, did you see any proof?
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 Author| Post time 25-6-2015 12:30 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
miabebe replied at 24-6-2015 10:26 PM
Mia pon nak tahu gak...smbil mkn popcorn tunggu otai bg pendapat..

Hihi..kann...otai sekalian...help miii
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 Author| Post time 25-6-2015 12:33 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
ipes2 replied at 24-6-2015 11:05 PM
pendapat je lah:
bf awak tu mcm tak serious je
mcm nak tak nak


Tulaa..rasenye mcm tu..proof mmg xde laa...waaaaa....

Thats why sy pun rase mcm die main2 je..so skrg sy agak bertegas jgk laa ngn die..time nk jmpe salu bagi alasan mcm2 padahal y salu ajak jmpenye die laaa..

Bile sy nk putus,die xnak plak....heran laa..smpai sy rse mcm malas da nk pk psl lelaki..huhu..da pasrah sesangat..

I give up on having guy in ma life...surrender...angkat tangan xnak daa..sob3
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Post time 25-6-2015 12:38 AM | Show all posts
cari yang lain je la TT
tak sopan betul bila lelaki ajak jumpa, tapi si perempuan yg kena pegi tempat lelaki tu
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Post time 25-6-2015 01:05 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Tt. Dia memang tak serius. Buang masa, buang tenaga ,buang wang ringgit.Sudahla tt. Buka hati untuk jejaka lain okay.
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 Author| Post time 25-6-2015 02:53 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Wakai replied at 25-6-2015 12:38 AM
cari yang lain je la TT
tak sopan betul bila lelaki ajak jumpa, tapi si perempuan yg kena pegi temp ...

Sy pn pk cmtu..nmpk sgt die x nk berkorban..rse geram sesangat ngn die..lau depan mata,mmg da kne belasah die tu.huhu..
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 Author| Post time 25-6-2015 02:54 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
ditepi_pantai replied at 25-6-2015 01:05 AM
Tt. Dia memang tak serius. Buang masa, buang tenaga ,buang wang ringgit.Sudahla tt. Buka hati untuk  ...

Huhu...nasib baik stkt ni byk date die cancel..xdela sy nk spend anytg on him...
Ntah laa...rase malas nk pk daa psl guys skrg..waaaaaa..frust sesangat nie
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Post time 25-6-2015 05:40 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Kalau dh xnak tinggal jerla... Bkn laki hang pun nak mintak dia jatuhkan talak. Kalau laki pun bleh tuntut fasakh.

Block no & blah... Habis...
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 Author| Post time 25-6-2015 06:31 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Innrukia replied at 25-6-2015 05:40 AM
Kalau dh xnak tinggal jerla... Bkn laki hang pun nak mintak dia jatuhkan talak. Kalau laki pun bleh  ...

Tp mcm ada rse syg cme sakit ati pun byk....first luv laa sis...first guy y bjaya buka pntu ati sy ni...waaaaaaa
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Post time 25-6-2015 06:43 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
kalo aku la tt.aku guna laki muda tu untk putus dgn bf..hakhak...
sbb nmpk bf ko tu x bersungguh..bg aku kalo jenih tarik tali ni.aku bolayn je..ko nk contact ke x nak..terpulang kat ko..itu je aku buat kalo jd kat aku...
kejap ada kejap x da..choyy...hav some pride girl..
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 Author| Post time 25-6-2015 07:20 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
sue_0684 replied at 25-6-2015 06:43 AM
kalo aku la tt.aku guna laki muda tu untk putus dgn bf..hakhak...
sbb nmpk bf ko tu x bersungguh. ...

Hihi..mmg skrg sy xkn contact die...die y akan contact sy dulu..my priority skrg mmg my pride as a woman...

Baru taw y sy serius...tp tula..die mcm x blaja dr kesilapan...mmg agak ignorant sket die ni...

Riteee sis!! Bolayan kann..hik3

Btw,laki muda tu da stop contact pun...better sy be honest drpd bt die mengharap..huhu..tu pun mcm da half krezi budak tu...kesian sesangat..
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Post time 25-6-2015 07:40 AM | Show all posts
Edited by Innrukia at 25-6-2015 07:53 AM
salmon-suki replied at 25-6-2015 06:31 AM
Tp mcm ada rse syg cme sakit ati pun byk....first luv laa sis...first guy y bjaya buka pntu ati sy ...

1st love? so?
meh aku share skit benda yg aku blajaq sepjg journey aku hingga saat ni...

Put it in your mind: Our 1st & last love is our Creator

Dia bagi kurniaan duniawi (cinta, harta, wang ringgit, kuasa, pangkat etc)  pada kita sebagai hamba - Nya sbg ujian utk pengakhiran nnti.
dan kurniaan ni at any time & cost boleh ditarik balik... Jd sbg manusia, kita kena belajar utk letak kurniaan/hadiah yg DIA bagi di tempat yg sesuai...
Belajar kosongkan hati & tempatkan hanya DIA di hati. Kurniaan yg DIA bagi kita letak saja di tangan, supaya bila sampai masa ditarik balik kita tak terlalu kecewa & sakit. Become dependent pd Allah's gift is a false attachment. The only attachment that we should have is with Allah. Jadinya belajarla lepaskan kebergantungan/ mengagungkan hadiah our Creator instead of Him....

Sekian tazkirah ramadhan
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Post time 25-6-2015 07:46 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
salmon-suki replied at 25-6-2015 06:31 AM
Tp mcm ada rse syg cme sakit ati pun byk....first luv laa sis...first guy y bjaya buka pntu ati sy ...

Putus je lah betul2. Bila u guna alasan still sayang la first love la, u are committing one of the famous life mistakes; 'sunk cost fallacy'...ini term dalam bisnes, but boleh diguna pakai dalam love life jugak..salah satu punca kenapa kita terus stay in bad relationship/bad bisnes,sbb guna alasan dah banyak tenaga, masa yg kita laburkan, so mcm sayang nak quit. Apa2 keputusan yg kita nak buat, kita kena tgk future potential, bukan past. Kalau present dan future pun tak nampak potensi membahagiakan, why stay? There is nothing promising with first love, we should seek for true love, which the opportunity to find it will not come if u still stay with the bad one. Tutup semua peluang utk dia cari u lagi.
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 Author| Post time 25-6-2015 07:49 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Innrukia replied at 25-6-2015 07:40 AM
1st love? so?
meh aku share skit benda yg aku blajaq sepjg journey aku hingga saat ni...


Hihi..akak..insapp daa sy..1st in terms of human..sy ni bknnye perfect tp tulaa..akak da remind sy balik..

Thank u so much!! Im gonna b a stronger girl..skrg pn da ke arah itu...da kurg pk psl die...skrg fokus pd hidup sy saja..

Lap yu akak rukia bleach!! Ai luv bleach gak..hik3
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 Author| Post time 25-6-2015 07:54 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Fimie replied at 25-6-2015 07:46 AM
Putus je lah betul2. Bila u guna alasan still sayang la first love la, u are committing one of the ...

Emm..after some consideration,mmg rase mcm tu...pliz wish me luck...just a weak and inexperienced person..

Betol juga ape y akak ckp itu...cme rse kekuatan xde... but i will for sure akn buat y terbaik utk diri...
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Post time 25-6-2015 07:57 AM | Show all posts
salmon-suki replied at 25-6-2015 07:49 AM
Hihi..akak..insapp daa sy..1st in terms of human..sy ni bknnye perfect tp tulaa..akak da remind sy ...

manusia mana perfect dik...
yg penting kita belajaq jd lebih baik di sepanjang hidup kita ni..
biar kita jadi makin baik ..
btw rukia tu sgt strong character...try la jd kuat mcm tu....

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 Author| Post time 25-6-2015 08:01 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Innrukia replied at 25-6-2015 07:57 AM
manusia mana perfect dik...
yg penting kita belajaq jd lebih baik di  ...

Sy a bit mcm perangai ichigo..hihi...ye kak..thanks kak...

Sy nk berubah jd mcm rabiatul adawiyah..ada jodoh,ada laa..xde in sha Allah,kt syurga menanti..

Ni pun kalau kapel2 sbnrnye sy telah langgar prinsip sy..maybe ni peringatan drpd Allah kot buat sy utk kembali ke jalanNya..
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Post time 25-6-2015 09:24 AM | Show all posts
salmon-suki replied at 25-6-2015 02:53 AM
Sy pn pk cmtu..nmpk sgt die x nk berkorban..rse geram sesangat ngn die..lau depan mata,mmg da kne  ...

dear tt,

kalo dia series dia akan berusaha nak kan awk. ni cm dia nk buat awak spare tyre dia je. xyah la layan. ko block je trus no. dia. nk lg extreme tukar je no. hp. senang citer. sbb slagi awk x buat cmtu slagi tu la dia akan cari awk n awk akan layan.

sy dlu kapel jarak jauh sorang kt penang n sorang kt melaka. tiap2 bln bf yg dtg jumpa. x pnah la sy p tempat dia. skang bila gaduh je ingat la time dia susah payah travel jauh2 nk jumpa kan...so baik2 la balik..
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