Story of Msian chinese girl - Saya tukar agama, tapi saya tak tukar bangsa saya

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[admin] saya suka budak cina ni ... baca apa yg dia tulis tentang nama cina pada IC tapi agama islam




Assalammualaykum to my dearest readers

Ok today.. my blog is regarding my name.

last month I went to collect my identity card from JPN. Alhamdulillah , it was done after such a long process.

Then..suddenly I recall an incident that happened when I was attending a talk regarding Shalat. This talk was registered by my boss from my working place ( All Praise to Allah, my boss sayang me so much and she reserved this ceramah agama seat for me )

So I was searching my name on the attendance sheet…… and I found this :
Sophea Ng bt Abdullah

Hmm…. Since when my father become Abdullah?

Then I took my pen and draw a line on the name, and I wrote my name beside it --- Ng Pooi Kheng.

And then there was a pretty lady ( the person incharged of the attendance ) looked at me with a very unusual eye sight and asked :
“ ni ke nama betul?”
“ya Cik , ni nama saya.” I answered.
“eh.. betul ke ?” she asked again.
“ ya Cik.” I answered again , with a big wide smile *wink* ,

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Hmmm….. lots people still dunno that it is not compulsory to change the name after someone embrace Islam.

I was once asked by someone :
XX :“ tahniah dah masuk Islam.. nama baru ?”
ME : “oh… saya takde nama baru.”
XX : “yang orang lain dok panggil Sophea tu?”
ME : “ooh tu nama panggilan. Dalam IC tak tukar.”
XX : “ekk apasal pulak? Kena lah tambah bt Abdullah kat belakang.”
ME : “yea boleh kalau nak tambah BT ABDULLAH.. tapi kalau x tambah pun takpe. Tak wajib.”
XX : “ ehhh kenalah tambah. Ng Pooi Kheng tu nama orang cina. Dah masuk Islam kena tukar nama , baru lar orang lain tau dah tukar agama.”
ME : “ Saya tukar agama , tapi saya tak tukar bangsa.”

Don’t worry , I answered it in a very nice way and smile of course… *ngeeee*

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Ng is my surname -- 黄 (huang2)
Pooi Kheng is my name -- 佩琼 (pei4 qiong2)
My name roughly means --- fine , nice, good things and happiness.

For me…it might not be an Islamic name. but my name was given by my parents. It is just like the first gift they gave me when I was born. I appreciate my name so much.

And again.. embraced Islam doesn’t mean I turn myself into a Malay or Arabian. Not to be racist, but I am sure all of us are proud of our own blood. Same goes to me. I was a Chinese, and the only thing changed is… I am now a Chinese Muslim ( Allah is the Greatest)

Islam is a peaceful religion, that teach and guide us towards the right pathway.
The beauty of Islam should be seen through our attitude , personality , our life , our heart and our soul…. Not through our name.

But anyway…. You can still call me anyway u like.. depends on how close we are

Ng , Angie , Sophea , Sophy , ah kheng , pooi kheng, kheng kheng….et c. hehehe
if we are close enough , no matter how u called me , I will sure recognize you

that’s all I want to share.

Chinese is my root ; Islam is my way of life.

forgive me if my sentences offended anyone. Allah knows the Best.

Lots of love
Wa'laykumussalam
Regards,
Sophea Ng, 佩琼。

sources : http://sophyng.blogspot.com

ad_hoc79

owh... cerita ni

amiraira

betul juga kn....
dia convert to muslim but still chiness
gud for her...Alhamdullillah

nidzrain

cite ni da lama kan....

bukan budak ni je gini....

even ada gak poremer sini gak yg convert islam tp xtuka nama... tetap kekalkan nama asal dia...

so what?

kekure

Baguslah dah tukar agama pun baik lagi dengan parents..
Jiran aku dulu kesian kena pukul dengan family walaupun masa tu baru plan nak masuk Islam..
Dah tu datang berlindung kat umah aku pulak..
Seb baek la kami sekelorga pun tak kena pukul sekali..

Alhamdulillah akak tu dah berbaik2 ngan family..
Penuh ranjau berduri gittew kisahnya

sekel

dh pernah bc  

batmana

mcm dh 10 tahun lepas aku baca.
ntah2 budak ni dh jadi mak orang..........

True-X

Tp tukar jadi erebbbb...ok je.....ikut cara erebbb. Cakap erebbb..pakai mcm org erebb...

winamp05

xde masalah aih kalau korang dah convert to muslim tak nak tukar nama. nama ala arob tu bukan wajib pun. Nabi kata berilah nama yang baik maksudnya untuk diri dan anak anak kita. Nabi tak mention berilah nama yg baikmaknanya dalam bahasa arob. so kalau kita nak letak nama kita dalam bahasa sepanyol sekalipun kalau baik maknanya apa ada hal. asal jangan ada maksud maksud tersembunyi atau contain nama nama syaiton dan hiblis sudah la.

namirulmukminin

Alhamdulillah... dia lebih faham islam daripada yang islam sejak lahir... so sweet....

bidacool

nidzrain posted on 12-5-2014 10:13 AM
cite ni da lama kan....

bukan budak ni je gini....

kan.....aku kenal forumer sini yg mak bapak dia dh Islam sebelum dia lahir .... bapak dia katanya siap berutus surat bagai dgn pej pendaftaran nk namakan dia dgn nama bangsa asal iaitu surname instead of bin............ yg totok je nak paksa asal muslim mesti jdk melayu kena tukar nama bin abdullah la, bin itu ini.....

melayu totok, ada yg tak nak anak luar nikah dia di bin/binti kan abdullah.... now blh pilih nama lain janji dlm 99 nama tambah abdul kat depan......

tobobon

thread ni dah ada lah.. tak reti2 ker nak tekan search sebelum bukak thread... sangap sangat nak bukak thread

motif supermod pun siap komen sekali...bengap ker?????

harap mod CI    @Muntz , @perang_sivil dan@NIXAR  boleh tutup thread ni dah banyak kali sangat astrok!!!!!!!

nidzrain

bidacool posted on 12-5-2014 10:31 AM
kan.....aku kenal forumer sini yg mak bapak dia dh Islam sebelum dia lahir .... bapak dia katanya  ...

kan... pastu nnt kate la xsah islam sbb tak tuka nama melayu...

helloo... melayu tu sah2 bangsa jah.. bukan agama pon...
nape tak soh cecina yg kat cina tu yg islam tu tuka nama melayu gak

tobobon

ni thread2 yang dah ada

http://mforum.cari.com.my/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=797490

http://mforum.cari.com.my/forum. ... d=790830&extra=

kalau aku bleh search, takkan tt tak boleh??? tu lah sangap jer nak bukak thread!!

sidewinder

bagus cine ni....tukar agama tapi ingat asal usul....jgn jadi mcm Ridhuan Tee tu....dah convert terus ingat dia melayu ntah2 pape la....btw, wajib ke sapa2 yg convert ni letak bin/binti Abdullah tu ? ada member aku tanya soalan ni.....sbb mak bapak dia tak kisah pun dia nak convert tp jgn sampai tukar nama pastu ber-binti kan Abdullah....mak bapak dia cakap....penat2 dia org bg makan dr kecik sampai besar....bila dah besar senang2 jer Abdullah tu dpt nama