"Cougar" - Wanita Tua dating atau kahwin Lelaki Muda (> 10 tahun)

Tris50 · Post time 1-5-2014 02:15 AM

In recent years, there seem to be a new relationship trend or rather out of the closet relationship - older women in their 30s and above, dating or married to younger men, who are 10 years or more younger than the women.
These women are called "cougars". The famous ones are Demi Moore (41) and Ashton Kutcher (25) when they got married, Madonna (50s) and her string of boy toys - Brahim (24), Timor (26), and Jennifer Lopez (40s) and her young beau, Casper Smart (20s).
With the likes, there are many USA shows on such relationship on television such as "Cougartown", TLC's "Extreme Cougar Wives" and "The Cougar".

All this are prominent in America and also the likes of other Western countries.

I am curious, how about in Asia? Are there Asian "cougars"? Are there relationship between an Asian cougar and a young Asian man? How is it like? How do they feel for one another? Is it different from the Westerners?

Anyone is in this kind of relationship or experienced some form of it? Or heard of? Or known of?

Please share as my dying need of curiosity is annoying me much

amiraira · Post time 1-5-2014 07:01 AM

Che ta dgn zain ...

elena-sanchez · Post time 1-5-2014 10:11 AM

its all about preference honeyyy.. some people like young hunky stud,, some like wrinkly old ball.. but i wonder which one will make you having a great time?

anybody married to young stud care to explain? dont be shy,, we' ll discuss like a grown up .. haha.. hurmmm dear ts,, do you have a things with a young men?

ahmadkda · Post time 5-5-2014 06:13 PM

i 32 wife 42

tembamgirl09 · Post time 6-5-2014 01:46 PM

ahmadkda posted on 5-5-2014 06:13 PM
i 32 wife 42

ok tak ? lama dah awak kahwin?

nikaido · Post time 6-5-2014 11:48 PM

amiraira posted on 1-5-2014 07:01 AM
Che ta dgn zain ...

walaupun jarak usia jauh, sy still rasa okey che ta dgn zain sebab zain dah 30 thn dah dewasa. ini berbeza dgn abby abadi (dkt 40) dgn farhan (awal 20) baru kena dgn term 'cougar'

amiraira · Post time 6-5-2014 11:55 PM

nikaido posted on 6-5-2014 11:48 PM
walaupun jarak usia jauh, sy still rasa okey che ta dgn zain sebab zain dah 30 thn dah dewasa. ini ...

Oo...cmtu ek
Tapi mira rasa diorg lagi sesuai berbanding dgn abby tu
Tapi its ok atas pendapat n citarasa masing2

manehnya · Post time 8-5-2014 11:34 AM

makcik sedap laaa dpt pucuk muder...

bertenaga...........

ahmadkda · Post time 9-5-2014 07:23 AM

tembamgirl09 posted on 6-5-2014 01:46 PM
ok tak ? lama dah awak kahwin?

Dah 3 tahun. awak dah kawen ?

bandung_cincau · Post time 31-5-2014 07:43 PM

retis banyak lah

misecretary · Post time 3-6-2014 04:55 PM

i hv question... klu lelaki menunjukkan minat kepada wanita yang lebih berumur, mcm beza 10 tahun tu... apa yg membuatkan lelaki tu suka kepada wanita tersebut?

its happen to me... im single 36 and recently dealing vth i young man 26... and i can feel his trying to approached me... but im quite pasif, giving respond like cant see his intension... sbbnya i takutt....

but honestly... i like him too... i just afraid he will stop showing his interest coz im like neglecting bfore but now... mcm nak try...

misecretary · Post time 3-6-2014 04:56 PM

ahmadkda posted on 5-5-2014 06:13 PM
i 32 wife 42

sorry... can u share ur thot?? mayb ur thot can help bringging up confident to others.... TQ

poison_paradise · Post time 4-6-2014 04:00 AM

Kang JD mcm Rita rudaini Dan Abby abadi ..nikah dgn kanak2 laki yg tak matang

midori888 · Post time 4-6-2014 09:48 AM

nikaido posted on 6-5-2014 11:48 PM
walaupun jarak usia jauh, sy still rasa okey che ta dgn zain sebab zain dah 30 thn dah dewasa. ini ...

agreed with u...kalu dah 30an tu kira ok lah...dah lama idup...dah ada pengalaman idup skit sebyk....compare dgn yg awal 20an yg baru nak bernafas...baru nak idup...

misecretary · Post time 4-6-2014 09:48 AM

poison_paradise posted on 4-6-2014 04:00 AM
Kang JD mcm Rita rudaini Dan Abby abadi ..nikah dgn kanak2 laki yg tak matang

dari segi -ve mmg pun terpikir juga... but everything hv pro n cont... sbbnya ramai juga yang berumur tp xmatang, yang xtaw tanggungjawab.... soo back to basic... umur tu bukan penentu kematangan... tp pemikiran serta pengalaman...

xnak berharap sgt ngan mamat tu, but i feel like bodoh is i didnt try and tolak terus... hahaha...

just my thot

nikaido · Post time 4-6-2014 10:05 AM

misecretary posted on 3-6-2014 04:55 PM
i hv question... klu lelaki menunjukkan minat kepada wanita yang lebih berumur, mcm beza 10 tahun tu ...

apa yg membuatkan lelaki tu suka kepada wanita tersebut?

kalau saya, sebabnya adalah sama seperti sukanya seseorang lelaki kepada perempuan yg lain. lelaki yg suka pada perempuan yg lebih tua mengabaikan umur sebagai faktor. sy suka perempuan kerana personaliti dan cara berfikir/bertindak, bukannya status/umur. ada yg sengaja mencari perempuan yg lebih tua kerana lebih stabil dlm kerjaya/lebih kaya ttp ini x termasuk sy

misecretary · Post time 4-6-2014 10:16 AM

nikaido posted on 4-6-2014 10:05 AM
apa yg membuatkan lelaki tu suka kepada wanita tersebut?

kalau saya, sebabnya adal ...

hmm.. make sense... nk kata sebab lebih berkerjaya, lebih kaya... mcm blh gunapakai juga... sbb dia baru mula kerja even as engineer... tp sy pun tidak laa... kerja pangkat tinggi cuma secure.

tp klu suka sbb dari segi pemikiran dan perlakuan... bestnya jumpa lelaki camtu... xramai yg mcm tu... sbb ramai yg pilih muda, cantik, berkerjaya dan kaya....

soo golongan mcm sy yang single lg sampai skrg (pasti ada kisah yang menjadikannya mcm nie) tp bila jumpa yg muda2 nie nak approach feel abit scared... xconfident sebenarnya....