[MERGED] Pentingkah DARA kepada LELAKI - by annyss1987,Abang NUN & Asnomie

sharingan86

ya,and pada aku kalau nak cerai/putus tunang dengan seseorang perempuan tu just because the guy found out she lost her virginity,aku rasa agak tak patut
cos you'll never know what would happen in the future,right?
manala tau dengan berkahwin dengan perempuan tu,the guy boleh membimbing pempuan tu ke jalan yang benaaarrrr
dua2 dapat gak pahala
daripada dok biar the girl lalai dengan mende2 maksiat.ye tak?

badreena

Originally posted by sharingan86 at 26-10-2006 10:49 AM
ya,and pada aku kalau nak cerai/putus tunang dengan seseorang perempuan tu just because the guy found out she lost her virginity,aku rasa agak tak patut
cos you'll never know what would happen in  ...

:setuju::setuju:

BeLiAn

kalau teruna tu eloklah dapat yang dara.
tapi kalau dah tebuk dara tu pandai2lah ambik buat bini.
sedap tebuk dah tu nak yang suci pulak????yang dah ditebuk kesuciannya ape cite???tinggalkan???
kalau nak yang dara biar kita pun yang teruna gak.baru adil kita baik dapat yang baik.
tapi kalau kita dah merosakkan anak orang dah tu buat tak bersalah tup...tup nak kawin dgn yang lain yang suci,yang ade dara,yang baik2....dapat plak!!!

badreena

Originally posted by BeLiAn at 27-10-2006 01:19 PM
kalau teruna tu eloklah dapat yang dara.
tapi kalau dah tebuk dara tu pandai2lah ambik buat bini.
sedap tebuk dah tu nak yang suci pulak????yang dah ditebuk kesuciannya ape cite???tinggalkan???
...

selalunya kan...mcm tu ler...tak kira ler betapa jahatnya lelaki..nk kawin..nak gak yg dara...ish ish...

BeLiAn

emm....
kalau yang suci dapat yang suci.- aku SETUJU-
kalau yang dah buat suka sama suka,kawin jugak dgn pasangan dia tu.-aku SETUJU-
kalau yang suci nak kawin dgn yang dah rosak,mengikut persetujuan memasing-aku SETUJU-
kalau buat sama suka,tup2....tak nak bertanggungjawab-aku tak SETUJU-
kalau anak sendiri yang kena atau salah satu kaum keluarga dia yang kena mcm tu (Balasan Allah),mcm mane yekk???-aku TAK SETUJU-
bertanggungjawab,sama2 menjaga maruah (kesucian),dah buat dosa bertaubat-aku SETUJU-

chiKenliTeL

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muahahaaa

hyphrigian

tak penting..........

Lady_On_Earth

knp tak penting?
nak jugak tahu?

hyphrigian

sama jugak benda tu.....bukannya kalau tadak berubah jadi bentuk lain

Lady_On_Earth

owh...tapi bukan ke kalau takde tu bentuknya berubah ...cthnya badan dah tak macam anak dara...
ops...

hyphrigian

tak tau plak pasai tu.....
tapi ada ka tadak sama ja.....
dia tetap pompuan....

Lady_On_Earth

owh ok..

hyphrigian

baik......

sudugarpu

nak share sikit..

Virginity is dangerous

It seems that our ancestors had lots of imagination. According to historical records, thousands centuries from now some priestesses in the temple of Ishtar, the Assyrian and Babylonian goddess of love and war, were in charge of a sacred rite of defloration performed with a phallus-shaped baton. Mothers deflowered their daughters in public places in Peru a few centuries later. Well, the deflowering rite was often a men? job. The description of the rite looks very much like a report on some gang rape. The most ?omantic? variety of the rite involved a girl who would be taken to the forest for defloration by a local hermit dressed in animal skins. The deflowerer also wore a pair of horns attached to his head.

At the turn of 20th century, the father of psychoanalysis Sigmund Freud shed some light on all that cruelty to girls in days of old. Freud wrote that defloration had been interpreted as transition to an adult life. The transition was to be performed by no other but the spirit of a tribal ancestor. The spirit may get angry if a virgin is deflowered by somebody else.

On the other hand, the virgin was not seen as a chaste and pure girl back then. The folks treated her like some very dangerous creature, a kind of time-bomb. The attitude had to do with the belief in the Great Foremother, the progenitrix of all women.

The Foremother was quite an ill-tempered character, wild and uncontrolled. Besides, she had a nasty habit of killing all the men that got in her way. Every virgin was believed to have a bit of the Foremother hiding deep inside her psyche. The dangerous flaw could only put to rights by defloration or the taming of the Foremother. Therefore, an act of defloration was thought to be a mortal danger to any man, especially to a virgin? future husband. At this point a bridegroom was supposed to make use of his more experienced friends who were ready and willing to help him out. The friends would perform a kind of exorcism on the bride to make her ?afe? for further use.

Virginity is desirable

Defloration means ? plucking of flowers? in Latin. Plucking as many flowers as possible is every man? dream or so they say.

Males in ancient China were under the impression that any disease could be cured by sex with a virgin. Virgins were very popular with patrons of the British brothels in the 19th century. The brothel owners were reported to have traveled to and fro all over the isles in search of virgins. Some present-day sex buffs also say that a man can take special pleasure in deflowering. The art of faking virginity really picked up among the prostitutes since being a virgin sold very well. Ladies of the evening concealed small pieces of sponge soaked with blood in their vaginas to produce a sufficient amount of blood during intercourse.

A fish bubble filled with blood could do the trick too. The above method is still widely used by Thai prostitutes for the purpose of faking virginity. The pellets filled with pigeon? blood mixed with an anticoagulant are one of the latest entries in a fake virginity kit. The handy pellets are available in many sex shops in Thailand.

The beautiful virgins in Muslim paradise are said to render their services to the righteous men. The virgins can regain their chastity as if by magic every night out there. Things look simpler in this world. The virginity can be reconstructed by means of an operation performed by plastic surgeons. There are numerous plastic surgery clinics in Russia for those who want to play the virgin again. Muslim women from the republics of the former Soviet Union often check in those clinics.

The time is ripe

The age of 18-20 years is believed to be perfectly fit for defloration. The hymen of a girl of such an age is quite flexible, and the loss of blood will be slight when the hymen tears at the first occasion of sexual intercourse. The hymen grows thicker and becomes less elastic with age, and therefore the act of deflowering will be more painful and more blood will be lost in the process.

A virginity atlas

A virgin may find it pretty difficult to locate her hymen even after looking up terms for the female external genitalia in a detailed anatomical atlas. The vulva is a complex thing. Needless to say, a man may simply get lost in the jungle.

We will try to clear up some things. The hymen is a membrane that partly covers the opening of the vagina. It is usually located 2-3 cm away from the labia minora. The hymen has several small orifices through which the flow of menstrual blood exits the vagina.

The hymen may be missing at birth; it may tear during masturbation or when a tampon is inserted rather clumsily into the vagina. Occidental self-defloration while riding a bike is one of most popular scares in circulation among the young girls. The scare is just a myth.

In actuality, the act of deflowering usually takes place during sexual intercourse. The defloration normally involves a bit of blood lost in the course of the first intercourse. As a rule, the edges of the hymen heal up in a matter of 3-5 days. Subsequent sexual activity is painless.

There are some exceptions to the rule. For a certain period of time a woman may have sex while her hymen stays intact if it is too elastic or the opening of the vagina is barely covered by the hymen. At times the hymen is too tight for a man to perforate it. Hymenotomy or the incision of the hymen can help in this case. The operation is also carried out to alleviate dispareunia (painful or difficult sexual intercourse experienced by a woman).

Dont choose a future wife just based on virginity.. Its wrong

hyphrigian

definitely agreed.......

zaril

important for me

guynextdoor

i think the real question is opting a woman who had sex before marriage, whether a man can accept it or not?

kalo guE? last option.

chemist_UTM

Originally posted by lazyboss at 7-9-2006 02:50 PM
"lelaki yg baik utk pompuan yg baik..pompuan yg baik utk lelaki yg baik"

da x ramai yg guna ... yg laki mcm x sedo diri jer.. dowang rase dowang je yg bagus kuikuikui...
podahh!!. na ...

hmm..dulu masa belajar my teacher always said that jahat mana pun lelaki tu bila nak kawin dia nak cari pompuan yg baik..i dont know how true is this statement..

but,saya yakin dgn janji Allah.."lelaki yg baik utk pompuan yg baik..pompuan yg baik utk lelaki yg baik" ''

jadi,kalau saya nak lelaki yg baik,at first saya kenalah baiki diri saya dulu ke arah yg baik..begitu jgn sebaliknya

chemist_UTM

Originally posted by alcapone at 21-10-2006 08:05 AM



yes. i am in the agreement with the highlighted statement above totally...
typical men suuuuuuuusaahh nak accept wife-to-be diorang dah x virgin yg disbbkan oleh past experiences. i am not  ...

hmm yeah i think so..