TIPS for a HAPPY MARRIAGE.. =)

bezita60 · Post time 10-8-2008 08:40 AM

thank you.
but now..aku suka sgt membebel..(duh, camne nk buang ni)

eastrun · Post time 10-8-2008 09:04 AM

memang pown..kekadang aku rasa ko ni memang suka membebel..cakap pun macam pedih je...aku rasa ok je...tapi aku takut orang lain akan fikir lain lak kat ko..tgk aku..kekadang org sound aku from nowhere...

raducan · Post time 10-8-2008 11:33 PM

Originally posted by bezita60 at 10-8-2008 08:40 AM
thank you.
but now..aku suka sgt membebel..(duh, camne nk buang ni)

Kena try buang...maksud I kurangkan..sebab it will become worse when you are getting married...

manakautau · Post time 10-8-2008 11:49 PM

Originally posted by whiteDhahlia at 9-8-2008 12:16 AM
But when I am down I always say ths to myself: there is no such thing as perfect marriage or everything will be roses all the time.

Why do you need to usher yourself with that statement only when you are down????????

Pasangan kamu boleh usahakan segala kebahagian buat diri kamu...tapi akhirnya bukan pada dirinya letaknya kebahagian itu......

antiQue · Post time 10-8-2008 11:57 PM

Dalam setiap perkahwinan ada satu emotional bank account..
Hari-hari kena ingatkan diri untuk deposit some positive emotion to the bank account... no ifs no buts.. be it simple, be it small.. senyum ke.. puji ke... thanks ke...
Just so that, jika sekalipun ada withdrawal dalam hari tu (let say terlepas cakap ke termasam muka ke) deposit yg ada tu cukup untuk cover the withdrawal... jangan sampai negative, masa tu lah rumahtangga jadi berantakan

ayeep · Post time 11-8-2008 12:23 AM

la, u ni pompuan ke black, selama ni aku ingat hang ni jantan...

pa pe pun, aku suka baca hang punya posting... best

blackmore · Post time 11-8-2008 02:24 AM

Originally posted by ayeep at 11-8-2008 00:23
la, u ni pompuan ke black, selama ni aku ingat hang ni jantan...

pa pe pun, aku suka baca hang punya posting... best

Vvenus · Post time 11-8-2008 08:24 AM

Originally posted by bezita60 at 10-8-2008 08:40 AM
thank you.
but now..aku suka sgt membebel..(duh, camne nk buang ni)

kena kontrol tuh dik..nak buang terus mmg susah laa..mmg dah tebiat org pompuan..ndak2 kalu yg dah kawin

aku notice..laki aku tuh kalu aku bebel2..hampeh dia takde reaction ape2 pon..dia cam ada turn-off mode tau..hehe..

tapi kalu aku cakap sekali jek (and make sure dia ada pay attention la masa sekali tuh), senang jek dia tlg buat apa2 yg aku mintak tlg tuh

misy · Post time 11-8-2008 08:48 AM

terima pasangan seadanya

percaya kepada pasangan

setia

berusaha membaiki hidup ke arah yg lebih baik

ev700 · Post time 11-8-2008 09:42 AM

untuk panduan pembuka topic,

yg saya amalkan selalu... pagi2, bila agak2 dia dah sampai ofis, call or sms dia.... just to say hi or ' missing u already' or u r great last night or tonight i belanja u makan kat xxx....or anything that can bring up his mood for the day... .. InsyaAllah, dia akan selalu happy dan ingat kat kita...

bezita60 · Post time 11-8-2008 10:24 AM

tu la psl..
la ni..sbb aku pun nk jimat kredit..
so..no more call..

bila dh tak call..
rajin pulak dia call aku..rindu..
pastu mula la wat suara mcm biskut lemau..

yup, that's my beloved mr. cookies

kiutmiut · Post time 11-8-2008 10:50 AM

Originally posted by bezita60 at 11-8-2008 10:24 AM
tu la psl..
la ni..sbb aku pun nk jimat kredit..
so..no more call..

bila dh tak call..
rajin pulak dia call aku..rindu..
pastu mula la wat suara mcm biskut lemau..

yup, that's my bel ...

guna la plan 1+3 celcom....free segalanya....

jadi duta celcom plak

sebaMed · Post time 11-8-2008 10:56 AM

Originally posted by CheeTot at 8-8-2008 10:37 AM
*cepat memaafi - ye laa kita ni kalu org buat salah sikit cepat je melenting..so buat kali pertama maafkan laa...buat kali kedua tegur..buat kali ketiga tegur2..kali ke 4..baru marah..

kali pertama - aku maafkan
kali kedua - maafkan jugak
kali ketiga - aku maafkan dalam diam, dia tatau pon dia buat lagi skali.. aku dah give up. It just so obvious what's important to me, is just not important to him.

bezita60 · Post time 11-8-2008 11:02 AM

aku copy paste..sj je nk share..

Proven tips for a happy marriage:

Point 1: Be independent.

Just because you marry, it doesn抰 mean you must embrace everything about your partner. Sometimes, you forget about how different you two are because you抳e been together for so long. Don抰 lose your uniqueness because it抯 the same thing that attracted both you and your partner in the first place. Try to take on different interests and encourage your partner to do so too.

Point 2: Never be angry at the same time.

When you抮e angry, you hear nothing else and you don抰 care about anything else. If you find that both you and your partner are angry, try to have some space. Calm down. Then talk. Be sensitive to each other抯 ups and downs. Talk through the problem and hear each other out. Abandon the whole world rather than each other. And never go to sleep without settling the argument. Most importantly, never yell at each other unless the house is on fire.

Point 3: If you have to disagree, do it lovingly.

There will be lots of times when you and your spouse won抰 agree at all in some aspects. Don抰 make your point sound like a criticism to your partner. It doesn抰 matter who is wrong or right. Always bear in mind that an argument doesn抰 need a winner or a loser.

Point 4: Never bring up mistakes of the past.

Whenever something goes wrong, do not rub past issues in. Don抰 dwell over the past such that you become blind with the wonderful things ahead of your relationship.

Point 5: At least once every day, try to say one thoughtful or complimentary thing to your partner.

When a couple always spends time with each other, they often forget about courtesy. 揟ake the trash out. Do the laundry.

mamaci · Post time 11-8-2008 11:03 AM

jgn buat apa yg dia x suka..jaga mkn minum..jaga penampilan bila di rumah

imk · Post time 11-8-2008 12:09 PM

Bezita, Salam

Wish u best wishes for the upcoming wedding .

Pesannya cuma satu..

bila nak marah everytime, iyalah hidup ni turun
naik.. selalu baca Auzubillah himinas syaitan nirojim

mudah-mudahan , kalau ada selisih pendapat tu,antara korang berdua sahaja dan tak ada syaitan bertanduk..

Semoga Alalh rahmati kalian dngan sakinah, mawardah dan rahmah.. sepanjang
jalan ke syurga..

bezita60 · Post time 11-8-2008 10:37 PM

amin..sampai akhir hayat..

alinone78 · Post time 12-8-2008 08:30 AM

selalu la gaduh .. bercakaran ...

sebab bila dah bermasam muka 4 5 hari .. sekali 'perform' mmg giler la .. besh ..

bezita60 · Post time 13-8-2008 10:45 AM

tgk kt thread sblh..tips for happy marriage..jaga laki baik2!!

LostSoul · Post time 13-8-2008 11:52 AM

bezz..

best wishes for you too... moga2 kekal ke akhir hayat.. only u know whats happening in your marriage, so don't let others dictate you what to do..