nak pendapat korang...

blurryfisz

Apa yg kita leh nmpk dgn pandangan mata org?


fisz ada 1 cite ni.
Dis guy kenal ngan 2 girls A n B almost at the same time. (A n B x pnh jumpa antara 1 sama lain) Tp dia rapat more rapat dgn A compared to B. Dah kat 6 bln rapat ngan A, lebih kurang dah jd mcm couple (syg and abg) tetiba dia confess dia suka kat org lain which is B. So dari situ la dia cite balik masa bila n how dia kenal B kat A. A mintak break off. 2 bln x contact each other.

Then the stories began, tetiba dis guy cari balik A n bg tau rasa sunyi n slalu tringat kat A. They start again as a friend, A and dis guy. Tp lama2 dia jadi balik more than just a friend. tetiba 1 hari kantoi dis guy tersalah anta msg for B to A. Msg tu x de apa2 pun. (nothing daring but it stated B name inside) since that A tau yg dis guy still contact B. She hurts again.

Then when A ask dis guy who is she to him, he says he like B but still want to be friend with A. A ask him if A is just a friend to dis guy, y if there's any problem dia cari A. A always remind him u should share with B if he thinks B is his gf. dis guy ckp dia lg sng discuss dgn A. (B x tau apa2 pasal all difficulties and all stupid things about dis guy). A asking why dis guy treat her more then a friend? A friend never holding hands, a friend no need to sms and report everything to each other. betul kan??? then the issue senyap mcm tu je. dis guys admit dia salah sbb treat A mcm tu.
A keep silence but dis guy still keep chasing her and reporting to her everything he did. He concerned about A as what he always did. kalau korang jadi A korang rasa mcm mana???
Dah lama2 diorang again jadi rapat balik and again more than a friend.
One day kantoi lagi dis guy pergi umah family B buka puasa kat sana. Dis guy also pnh datang raya umah family A last year. Bila dah kantoi, A and dis guy fight again. Same issues come out again. But dis time lps discus mcm2, he says, A lebih phm dia n dia lg bayk spend time dgn A compared to B. A byk sokong n support dia dlm semua hal. even when it comes to family problem, money issue, A tau byk mana duit dis guy ada, how dis guy arrange his money almost everything sad and happy moments. A tau apa masalh family dia. and dia byk kali ajak A balik kg dia but A refuse sbb A's mindset is dia bkn gf dis guy.Dia x bole A x de dlm hidup dia. x tau nak buat pilihan. And again dia confess A jd gf dia balik as long dia mmg x pnh mintak putus pun dgn A sblm ni. Yg x adilnya B x tau apa2 yg dis guy ada org lain n any problem dia x cerita sume kat B. Klu ikutkan hati nak je g bg tau kat B, u igt dis guy baik n innocent sgt ke kat u???

Kalau korang jd A, apa korang buat? Honestly A syg jugak kot kat dis stupid guy. and kadang2 A nak revenge. Buat dis guy gila2 suka kat A pas tu just say we just friend mcm yg dis guy buat. tp mampu ke???
Please A need some advice.

itu la cite nyer.

jezz12

kalo aku jadik A, aku carik laki lain jek..
huhuuu..

jezz12

neeway, ko lain kali jangan la post dekat L&F...
orang xsalu masuk sini...
post dekat LP or PP la...
nanti ramai expert2 boley bagi advice

armani_hase

I tried to read your post but I felt dizzy for a while...akan comment kalau dizzy itu reda seketika....

cloud_hardcore

masalah di sini that guy tu tak kapel pon ng A...tp anggap A tu sebagai kawan baik...
urmmmm....kalau jadi A ni pening gak...
aku rasa better A ni cari bf...dan still kawan dengan that guy...

blurryfisz

jezz12 mana la gue tau. heheh baru nak berkecimpung. tu pun dah tersilap post thread sampai 2 kali.

blurryfisz

cloud:
that is what A buat skrg. She accepted the declaration but with 1 condition. Dia bebas nak suka n syg kat org lain yg for sure better than this stupid guy, at that time he should let her go. lately ni this stupid guy mcm mengong sket, kejap2 nak bersyg2.. nak miss u miss u. hahaha... takut lari kot. BTW, now A is strong enuf nak balas balik apa yg dis guy pnh buat. Bubye la kau lps ni..
so kira term dia skrg is girlfriend yg x berapa nak girlfriend.

chemist_UTM

terpening kepaler aku jap tgk A , B , A, B

ermm...

know wat...

sebnrnya bukan dis guy yg stupid...tp A tu..why?


nampak tak yg dis guy jadikan A tu as his time killer?
in ur post mentioned yg dis guy lagi close to A (mayb sbb time,distance,etc)...
secara tak sedar sebnrnya dis guy taking advantage of A..atas kebaikan A...
A mayb tak perasan sbb A ni ada feel kat dis guy..
the feel wud make u blind my dear...


yg kedua...
laki cam dis guy ialah laki yg tak berani dan tak reti nak wat keputusan dlm hidup...
worth it ke nak tunggu laki camni?
malu nyer if dlm bender camni sorang yg ngaku diri dia laki wat camni..ermm..
tak pro langsung..
dis guy hs a prob to identify his own feeling !
dia suka B tp dlm masa yg sama dia feel comfortable dgn A plak..
so dia tahu nak mana sebnrnya...


yg ketiga..
mayb A tu fren dan B tu awek..tp...
mayb B tu hanya sekadar aweks..maksud haku...
guys need more than be awek jer..
they need u as fren ...they need u as bestfren..they need u as everything..to share and discuss about everything...bila awek dia tak mcm tu, thats why he'll find A who's yg dia rasa comfortable to talk or to share anything...
haa sbb tu la dia cari A..


yg keempat ni adalah dtg dr fikiran haku yg sudut paling negetip
dis guy tu kan kan..sebnrnya player jerk hehehe dia juz perlukan aweks2 utk isi masa lapang kikiki
syokkk per ada aweks ramai2...
entah2 lepas ni akan muncul C, D, E, F ...... Z




[ Last edited by  chemist_UTM at 26-9-2007 09:40 AM ]

blurryfisz

hi chemist,
klu nak tau, A duk penang, B duk pahang. dua2 long distance.
mmg A pun a little bit stupid jugak la sometimes. tp revenge tetap revenge.. biarkn dis guy rasa kena main pulak. baru fair. dia suka A ke B tu dia punya pasal.
chemist ko laki ke ppuan? cukup2 la klu dah ada sorg.

chemist_UTM

Originally posted by blurryfisz at 26-9-2007 12:39 PM
hi chemist,
klu nak tau, A duk penang, B duk pahang. dua2 long distance.
mmg A pun a little bit stupid jugak la sometimes. tp revenge tetap revenge.. biarkn dis guy rasa kena main pulak. baru  ...

hi..

erm i takut kang bukan dis guy yg kena main..tp A tu kang yg later2 hanyut..
as i said..feel wud make u blind..
mula2 revenge..pastu hanyut dgn feel..
kan payah esok lusa...

weii aku pompuan la..
jgn kata byk2, sorang pun xde...sian kan

REVENGE!!!  heh heh

chemist_UTM

Originally posted by rokor at 27-9-2007 05:17 PM
REVENGE!!!  heh heh

dun think 'revenge'

kata2 tu utk sedapkan hati sendr jerk or lepaskan geram

blurryfisz

dua2 betul chemist. utk lps geram n nak motivate diri sndiri. tp honestly mmg ada pasang niat nak revenge. keskeskes....

ababeel

salam blurry...

teman dak bru kt cini..

btw sme lbh krg situasi kwn teman..honestly that guy is lalang type(mcm kwn teman)..
mgkn dia keliru xtau nk pilih mne(bersangka baik) tp bila dah clear dia bru nmpak
gajah dr semut dpan mte..cma mkn mse skit la..

ape yg si A blh wat kat that guy jual mhl la sometimes..kn sllu cri A luah perasaan..
jgn lyn 2-3 ari..revenge la skit..bg sedar yg kaca selama ini permata rupanya..wassalam

reenz013

aku nak baca tp panjang sgt..later2lah

fyieen

step back to revenge:@ :@ :@

blurryfisz

hi ababeel!
fisz pun baru jugak. nasib baik ada kawan2 kat sini yg sudi nak berkawan n mengomen. heheh thank you guys.

jual mahal yg paling mahal la yg 'A' tgh buat skrg ni. heheheh. biar dia sedar yg 'A' pun x kisah klu dia x de. aman bahagia je idup without him.

blurryfisz

fyieen, revenge is tersangat important to teach them their mistakes.

miss_ard

aku alami benda yg sama skarang ni...
memang sakit hati..aku ni mcm si A la..
setelah berfikir secara waras..aku baru sedar betapa bodohnye diri ni..terlibat dlm hubungan mcm ni..
ape yg aku wat..aku putuskan persahabatan dengan lelaki ni...
huhuhuh
memangla pedih..tp akulg sanggup sedih skrang dr merana kendian hari...
laki bukan sorg..n aku realise laki mcm ni..xlayak tok wat suami..xde pendirian...

blurryfisz

miss ard jgn la sedey2... sama2 la kita mewaras kan diri utk lelaki mereng seperti ini..
huhu diri sudah kuat dan gagah perkasa sekali.