Terlebih baik ?

thedude · Post time 19-6-2007 11:21 AM

Originally posted by su_anna at 19-6-2007 11:03 AM
ada lgk rupenye lelaki baik kt donia ni...

Baik hati pon tak happy ....

hitamputih · Post time 19-6-2007 01:07 PM

some tips form ATM

http://forum.cari.com.my/viewthread.php?tid=183328&extra=page%3D2

For all the "nice guy" losers out there, here are some things that you need to get through your thick skull before you complain about women who abuse you because of your "nice guy" image. Read on, study and learn, before you die a virgin:

1. Women are human. They are not goddesses to whom you must surrender every ounce of your will in order to receive affection. Try having a spine for a change.

2. Don't spend every waking hour around, on the phone with, or tailing behind your lady. Get some friends for chrissakes.

3. Saying "I love you" is fine. Saying it every 2 seconds is not.

4. Same for "I need you" (or any similar emotion-leeching comments)

5. Rule 3 goes double for crying.

6. Some women have very complex psychological problems. Same said women are beyond your rehabilitative capabilities. Save your attention for someone sane enough to appreciate it.

7. Never EVER assume that a second date means that you're hoplessly in love with each other. It just means that you are not a rapist, stalker, blatant chauvinist, or completely unattractive.

8. There are women who will flirt with you, get you to buy them drinks, dinner, or gifts (depending on how clueless you actually are) and unceremoniously dump you when they are done with you. Get real, get over it, and don't let it happen again.

9. Don't answer a question with "I don't care", if you really do.

10. Above all else, COMMUNICATE! If you have a problem, disagree, or just feel like something is bugging you, tell her! How can you fix something if you are the only person who knows that it's broken? THINK man, think. It will always save trouble in the end.

Now, i'm not saying that being a spineless wuss is bad, just that it is as unattractive as being the self-centered, muscle-brained pretty boy who swears that all women live for him and him only. Being a total gentleman is good; having tire tracks up your backside & feeling like roadkill all the time isn't. Take heed, and live well.

badreena · Post time 19-6-2007 01:35 PM

baik hati tapi tk hepy?naper lak...takkan hanya kerana soal jodoh sj...dia tak hepi.....

waneeda1904 · Post time 19-6-2007 02:54 PM

aku suka....
tp xde plak nak amik kesempatan psl dia baik...
aku rasa aku patut bsyukur dpt pasangan yg baik2...
aku rimas dkongkong, kena maki, kena bebel, kena marah, kuat jeles

x tahan btul...

midori88 · Post time 19-6-2007 03:08 PM

aku pun ada gak kawan laki species baik2 camnie..ckp tu lembut jer..tapi tulah kan..org yg baik nie slalu ramai org suka amik kesempatan..kdg2 bila dia citerkan hal dia kat aku..aku plak jd marah..ada awek manjang meninggal kan dia jer..nak kata takde kerja..kawan aku nie kerja kerajaan..lulusan U..dah beli keta & umah..

thedude · Post time 19-6-2007 03:40 PM

Originally posted by badreena at 19-6-2007 01:35 PM
baik hati tapi tk hepy?naper lak...takkan hanya kerana soal jodoh sj...dia tak hepi.....

Dia happy kecuali dalam bab jodoh ... hehehe

thedude · Post time 19-6-2007 03:52 PM

Originally posted by hitamputih at 19-6-2007 01:07 PM
some tips form ATM

http://forum.cari.com.my/viewthr ... &extra=page%3D2

For all the "nice guy" losers out there, here are some things that you need to get throu ...

Thanks for the post ... tapi description "nice guy" tuh tak menepati Jack .....
Bagus gak point-point tuh ....

hitamputih · Post time 19-6-2007 05:55 PM

Originally posted by thedude at 19-6-2007 03:52 PM

Thanks for the post ... tapi description "nice guy" tuh tak menepati Jack .....
Bagus gak point-point tuh ....

yeah
tak suma nyer tepat lah
but just a reminder la utk aku dan suma nice guy out there

think it this way, is it worth it nak dpt girl yangtak worth utk nice guy like jack then carry on terseksa, atau nak break dulu dua tiga kali then jumpa yang cukup cukup nice utk jack tu?

kita demam utk tingkat kan daya tahan tubuh badan, kita jatuh basikal supaya tak j atuh motosikal nanti....................

thedude · Post time 19-6-2007 06:52 PM

Originally posted by hitamputih at 19-6-2007 05:55 PM

yeah
tak suma nyer tepat lah
but just a reminder la utk aku dan suma nice guy out there

think it this way, is it worth it nak dpt girl yangtak worth utk nice guy like jack then carry o ...

betul tuh ....
aku pun dah ingat2 kan diri sendiri .....

nak cari jodoh kene cari yang sekufu ....

fish_o7 · Post time 19-6-2007 07:33 PM

actually some of the forummer have some good point ....

one good advice from my father : kahwin pompuan yg sayang ko dan bukan pompuan yg ko sayang ...

cam ne korang nk interpret ayat terpulang laaa ..... sbb aku nmpk kebenaran ayat ni dlm kehidupan aku

afja · Post time 20-6-2007 08:35 AM

mslhnya...tadek org nk syg aku......

thedude · Post time 20-6-2007 09:47 AM

Originally posted by afja at 20-6-2007 08:35 AM
mslhnya...tadek org nk syg aku......

Dont worry .. sebenarnya ade ... nanti tetiba dia muncul .. tup tup makan nasik minyak .. hahaha

hitamputih · Post time 20-6-2007 10:49 AM

Originally posted by afja at 20-6-2007 08:35 AM
mslhnya...tadek org nk syg aku......

alah kalau ada pun ko mesti rejek punyer

afja · Post time 20-6-2007 10:56 AM

siapa lah tu agaknya....

ko ker? :bgrin:

afja · Post time 20-6-2007 10:57 AM

bila masa ntah aku rejek org nih....
betul tadek org nk syg aku...
kalu ada....aku akan syg dia mcm menatang minyak y penuh....

chemist_UTM · Post time 20-6-2007 11:31 AM

kahwin pompuan yg sayang ko dan bukan pompuan yg ko sayang

kalau terbalikkan..kawin dgn laki yg sayang ko, bkn laki yg ko sayang

ermmmmmmmmmm .....

chemist_UTM · Post time 20-6-2007 11:32 AM

haaa dgr tu peja..dgr tu ekekekek

thedude · Post time 20-6-2007 12:28 PM

Originally posted by afja at 20-6-2007 10:56 AM
siapa lah tu agaknya....
ko ker? :bgrin:

ahaha ... jodoh itu di tangan tuhan ... no komen

afja · Post time 20-6-2007 12:43 PM

x dgr lah chem.... baca jek....:bgrin:

diamondvii · Post time 25-6-2007 02:45 PM

thedude, aku nak kongsi skit pengalaman. kwn ko jack sebijik sama dgn bf(bf ke?) aku dulu. tak tau camne aku nak anggap mamat ni dgn aku bec aku tak pernah ada perasaan sbg bf/gf melainkan perasaan simpati terhadap die tp die mati2 sayang habis dgn aku. die tak pernah marahkan aku sebaliknya kl aku marah die rela jd guni pasir soh aku pukul die habis2 supaya aku rasa puas lepas geram. nak pegang tangan aku pun die minta permission aku dulu. kl aku nak masak die tak kasi sbb takut tangan aku luke atau terkena minyak panas. makan plak sanggup suapkan utk aku. aku tak pernah kesempitan apa2 semua die tanggung. kl aku kena marah oleh siapa2 tak kira family ke die akan cakap jgn marahkan aku sebaliknye marahkan die je biar die tanggung semua kesalahan aku. serba serbi nye aku dilayan macam puteri lah. tp betulah kata2 kwn ko jack tu kl dibiarkan gf die itu akan "kencing" kat die. begitulah aku dulu. aku tak hargai die malah aku just buat die cam anak patung. time susah aku cari die time senang aku buang dan anggap die cam sampah. skang ni aku betul2 dibuang lebih dr mcm sampah dan aku menyesal sangat2. mana nak dapat org yg sayangkan kite lebih dari kite sendiri. skang aku hrp die bahagia dgn kehidupan die. so pepandailah ko nasihatkah kwn ko. carilah yg pandai menghargai die.