Love Doc: Q & A Here (Especially for the Ladies)

ifanonline

Originally posted by KasutBaru at 23-8-2006 03:55 PM
masa tu saya sengeh sajerla...
ms dia ckp tu dia kata die tadek gepren, so dia ckp kalu aku nak dia dah bagi hint la tu.
masa tu kami bukan date..just pegi wedding sama2 2 org.
aku tumpg dia je ...

cik kasut,

for guys, most of them memang jenis tak understand kalau jawapan yg diberikan oleh perempuan berbentuk
body language, example, senyuman manis, look to his eyes, main-main dgn rambut,etc...

jadi, soalan yg ditanya oleh that guy adalah straight to the point and direct, so u kena be direct also, but not to
direct nanti nampak desperate pulak...lelaki tidak akan 'overly nice' to some girl if he does not like that girl, so i get
the picture yg this guy memang minat dekat u...but after awhile dier tak call balik? hmm, why not u hantar sms kat dier
tanya kabar? at least he knows your interested also and dier takkan bertepuk sebelah tangan...

one more thing, you have all the right to be perasan...:love:

lemoneko

wahh...cik kasut ada peminat..
sapa weih....
habaq la cepat bila dah kompom ek?

ifanonline

Originally posted by dak_ker at 23-8-2006 04:12 PM


aku ada misai hahahaha, and he always comment about it.. so dia tak suke eh?

lebih kurang lah...ker misai u lagi lebat dari dato k? hehehhe...just joking...:lol

dak_ker

ekekekek, tuh takleh celen tuh dk punya..

aku kalo dr dekat mmg nampak laa..tuh pon kalo org belek bebenor ekekek

Hana

EHM..takder soalan ye..biarlah hana yg tanya..hehehehe..

1. Semasa dating..apakah perkara2 yg boleh memboringkan org lelaki?
2. Kenapa..ade sesetengah lelaki..lagi seminggu ke..lagi sebulan ke..nak nikah..boleh kuar dating dgn perempuan lain (bukan kawannye) atau boleh kuar dgn ex gf? Apakah alasan sebenar dlm hati tu? kalau utk mengurangkan nervous..kenapa pulak keluar dgn perempuan lain tidak dgn kawan2 lelaki?
3. Lelaki selepas nikah.. ingat lagi tak kpd ex gf dia? atau..lupa terus..?

sekian shj soalan2 setakat nie..
nnt nak tanya lagi.
thank you.

duyong95

aku pon nak tanya gak.  my question is :

aku baru kenal this guy but havent met him face-2-face.  berbual2 kat phone, bla bla bla.  dlm msa x sampai seminggu, dia dh kata "i think dh mula suka kat u"  padahal aku belum jumpa lagi tuh.  aku pon rasa pelik bin ajaib.  how come this stranger can say like that 2 me padahal conversation thru phone without seeing each other dah kata gitu.  gilo ko apo?  aku kalau bab2 ni aku kureng sbb i think hes trying to manipulate my mind by saying that OR maybe hes just playing a fool.  aku ni cepat boring ngan guys mcm gini la ghopernya.

aku sebenarnya ada lagi soklan nak tanya tp tunggu la dulu aku susun ayat2 dia...:nerd:

dak_ker

he's lonely ..

biemamat

ader satu soalan...
1) macam mana nak pujuk lelaki kahwin cepat????

ifanonline

Originally posted by Hana at 23-8-2006 05:03 PM
EHM..takder soalan ye..biarlah hana yg tanya..hehehehe..

1. Semasa dating..apakah perkara2 yg boleh memboringkan org lelaki?
2. Kenapa..ade sesetengah lelaki..lagi seminggu ke..lagi sebulan ke ...

Hi Hana,

First Answer,

Perkara-perkara yang boleh memboringkan lelaki semasa dating:
1. Semasa dia bercakap, you tak pay attention...
2. Memotong percakapan dia semasa dia tengah bercakap...
3. Sometime, some girls like to talk about their ex-bf, the most stupidest thing that you can ever do during dating
4. Being unhappy...if you're not happy, he's not happy...satu situasi yg membosankan...
5. You yourself jenis orang yang membosankan...

Second answer,

ini bukan soal nak mengurangkan nervous cuma, dia nak bertanya kepada diri dia samada dia benar-benar mencintai
bakal wife dia dengan keluar dengan perempuan lain, dengan cara ini, kalau perasaan dia masih kuat dengan bakal
wife dia, the date is just for fun and nothing more..

third answer,

tidak, lelaki selepas nikah tidak akan ingat ex-gf dia lagik, period!

ifanonline

Originally posted by duyong95 at 23-8-2006 06:19 PM
aku pon nak tanya gak.  my question is :

aku baru kenal this guy but havent met him face-2-face.  berbual2 kat phone, bla bla bla.  dlm msa x sampai seminggu, dia dh kata "i think dh mula s ...

hi duyong,

first and foremost, jangan perasan! that guy is just telling you that he likes you and not falling in love with you,
maybe this is because the way you talk to him, your tone of voice, he could connect or relate to you...

suka tak semestinya bercinta, who knows right?

ifanonline

Originally posted by biemamat at 23-8-2006 10:42 PM
ader satu soalan...
1) macam mana nak pujuk lelaki kahwin cepat????

penah dengar tak pepatah 'kalau seru dah sampai?'...it's hard to explain this kinda thing, when the right time and the
right person comes along the way, he will certainly get married...you cannot force people to get married...

Hana

thank you for the tips.

However, regarding the second answer...

ini bukan soal nak mengurangkan nervous cuma, dia nak bertanya kepada diri dia samada dia benar-benar mencintai
bakal wife dia dengan keluar dengan perempuan lain, dengan cara ini, kalau perasaan dia masih kuat dengan bakal
wife dia, the date is just for fun and nothing more..

Soalan lanjutan.. katakan lah perasaan dia tak kuat dgn bakal wife? what kind of action he might do??

maxomeara

Originally posted by ifanonline at 24-8-2006 09:08 AM


Hi Hana,

First Answer,

Perkara-perkara yang boleh memboringkan lelaki semasa dating:
1. Semasa dia bercakap, you tak pay attention...
2. Memotong percakapan dia semasa dia tengah bercak ...

fuiyoooo.......:setuju: as a guy, i agree with all your answers...........

Hana

jap..jap..off topic jap.. ff:

hana selalu nampak kalau org tulis...ade word "first and foremost"..
dlm situasi mana yg kita boleh guna word itu?
ape maksud foremost tu? kenapa misti guna foremost?
ape beza word "first and foremost" dgn "firstly"???

sorry ek.. belajar BI lak..

KasutBaru

Originally posted by ifanonline at 24-8-2006 09:08 AM

3. Sometime, some girls like to talk about their ex-bf, the most stupidest thing that you can ever do during dating

camner kalu org tu yg sebuk nak tau??

Hana

Originally posted by ifanonline at 24-8-2006 09:18 AM


penah dengar tak pepatah 'kalau seru dah sampai?'...it's hard to explain this kinda thing, when the right time and the
right person comes along the way, he will certainly get married...you can ...

sorry yek..
hana nak tambah from what i had seen...
lelaki yg tak ajak kawen2 tu..sbb dia sendiri pun tak sure.. gf dia tu ke yg dia nak kawini..
kalau dia sendiri dah sure dan yakin..barulah dia ajak gf dia tu kawen..
so.. jgn paksa jugak org kawen dgn kita.. just tanya.."awak pikir nak kawen dgn saya ke tak?" lebih kurang lah..
kalau dia tak kasi jawapan.. or jawapan yg tidak memuaskan hati kita.. SUPPOSELY..KITA WAJIB FIND ANOTHER GUY ..AND LEAVE HIM..

sebab..katakan lah kita berjaya buatkan dia kawen dgn kita.. bila dah kawen..SURE LAH ada gaduh laki bini..JGN DIA BOLEH BERKATA MCM NIE DAH LER..AWAK LAH YG BERIA SGT NAK KAWEN DGN SAYA..SAYA TANAK PUN.. tak tahu ler dgn org lain..kalau hana dengar mcm tue..darah mendidih..silap2 hana mintak cerai terus..sbb itu berkaitan dgn AIR MUKA/EGO HANA..

[ Last edited by  Hana at 24-8-2006 09:38 AM ]

midori88

aku just nak tau jer..adakah tanda2 kat bwh nie menunjukkan seorg lelaki tu dah jatuh cinta

1) Dia ngaku dpn kawan2 yg masa first jumpa dia rasa ada "spark"
2) Dia ingat segala kata2 ppuan tu masa first jumpa.
3) Dia risau giler kalu ppuan tu tgh bersedih and cuba sedaya tuk wat ppuan tu happy
4) Dia cuba memahami ppuan tuh
5) Dia tak pnh marah ppuan tu sebaliknyer menegur dgn lembut
6) Dia tak pnh bantah segala keputusan ppuan tu walaupun hati dia terluka
7) Dia menghormati ppuan tuh..tak pnh wat benda yg ppuan tu tak suka
8) Dia sensitive ngan prasaan & slalu nak menjaga hati ppuan tuh
9) Dia slalu ingat benda2 yg ppuan tu anggap remeh
10) Dia kata dia syg kan ppuan tuh - part nie aku confuse, sbb syg nie byk jenis
11) Dia takkan let go ppuan tuh..tapi kalu tu yg ppuan tu nak..dia akan turutkan

duyong95

Originally posted by ifanonline at 24-8-2006 09:16 AM


hi duyong,

first and foremost, jangan perasan! that guy is just telling you that he likes you and not falling in love with you,
maybe this is because the way you talk to him, your tone of v ...

hi  ifan

mmg aku xde nyer nak perasan mcm gitu bcos ive been thru all these hanky panky stuffs.  langsung x de perasaan le bila org ckp gitu sbb i dunno him at all!  tp x pe, aku nak tgk perkembangan selanjutnya.  u r rite ifan maybe he likes the way i talk to him kot....aku ni bila cakap main belasah jer...kira aku ni dlm kategori garang le jugak, lagi aku garang lagi dia suka cakap aku...bengong betul...

ifanonline

Originally posted by Hana at 24-8-2006 09:36 AM


sorry yek..
hana nak tambah from what i had seen...
lelaki yg tak ajak kawen2 tu..sbb dia sendiri pun tak sure.. gf dia tu ke yg dia nak kawini..
kalau dia sendiri dah sure dan yakin..barula ...

Kalau seseorang lelaki tu benar-benar mencintai gadis idamannya, dier akan berterus terang dan jujur untuk mengambil
gadis tersebut sebagai teman hidupnya...sekiranya dier tidak bersedia, dia akan mencari pelbagai alasan untuk mengelak
daripada di tanya mengenai soalan perkahwinan...

dalam perhubungan, kedua-dua belah pihak must be fair to each other, kalau salah seorang bersedia untuk berkahwin
dan pasangannya belum bersedia, tell the truth, at least you will know where is the relationship headed, especially
for the ladies, why wait for things that would not happen?

For a guy,  a lot of consideration must also be taken in such as his financial stability, emotional aspect, and all the
itsy bitsy things that is important to him...

My advice to the ladies, if your man is ready in all aspect that i mention above and he still would not engage you in
marriage, might as well you weigh your option whether you see any future with this man and think about your own
future...time is of the essence, don't waste it...

ifanonline

Originally posted by Hana at 24-8-2006 09:27 AM
jap..jap..off topic jap.. ff:

hana selalu nampak kalau org tulis...ade word "first and foremost"..
dlm situasi mana yg kita boleh guna word itu?
ape maksud foremost tu? kenapa mist ...

selalunya kalau guna ayat "first and foremost" ni dier memberikan lebih penekanan kepada statement kita yang
akan kita tulis kemudian, menguatkan ayat...bezanya 'firstly' dengan 'first and foremost' kekuatan perkataan yang kedua
lebih mengambarkan pentingnya ayat yang bakal muncul tu...lebih kurang gitu lah..:nerd: