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[MERGED] All about lambat cakap/jalan

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Post time 20-3-2010 11:38 PM | Show all posts
Post Last Edit by jo_je at 20-3-2010 23:43
emm my niece ada problem ni
dia mmg ckp lambat nak masuk 3 thn dah
then bile dia ckp ngan dr
dr ckp maybe dia confuse bahasa
pasal dia selalu tgk tv semua english
then parent ckp melayu
so dia ...
cmf_phoebe Post at 17-3-2010 12:39

anak saya yg sulung lain plak... dia pandai bercakap umur setahun tapi bercakap english.. tgk cartoon..
walaupun saya cakap bahasa malaysia dia akan tetap ckp english.. dia faham bahasa malaysia.
anak saya yg kedua saya risau tak reti bercakap sgt... yg ketiga baru 9bln tapi nampak gaya cepat
cakap..
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Post time 21-3-2010 07:29 AM | Show all posts
TT i pun tengah risau jugak ni.. my son skang dah setahun 8 bulan.
tapi still tak pandai cakap.. panggil ma saja..
kalau dia nak apa2 dia akan tarik tangan ajak kita.. or dia akan tunjuk2 benda yang dia nak..

abg dia dulu boleh bercakap awal.. masa 2 tahun dah bercakap tak henti2..
masa pegi jumpa paed last 2 months saya ada tanya paed pasal ni. dia kata skang ni tak payah worry sebab basically anak i paham apa yg org cakap.. tapi kalau sampai 2 tahun pun still tak pandai cakap then kena bawak dia jumpa paed balik.. dia akan suggest what need to be done ..

saya rajin je bercakap dengan dia.. rajin mengajar dia bercakap tapi entah lah.. maybe belum sampai masanya.. harap2 bfore 2 yrs dia boleh cakap...

good luck to TT.. kalau you dah jumpa specialist, update lah ye apa yg specialist buat..
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Post time 21-3-2010 07:32 AM | Show all posts
mmg ade kene mengena dgn susu n botol.
ni pakar yg ckp
bkn aku ckp
botol susu tu pastikan dia sedut dgn sempurna
psl tu dicipta botol avient
sama mcm baby tu menyusu badan diciptanya puting botol ...
bling2 Post at 17-3-2010 10:32


rasa cam tak betul jugak pendapat ni..
anak saya memang pakai botol susu avent tapi tak boleh cakap lagi.
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Post time 23-3-2010 03:36 PM | Show all posts
hemmmm...dah dpt call HUKM. admin dia soh dptkan surat dr Doktor dulu pehtu terus dtg HUKM buat appt.
my son dah dgr sebot 'ma' balik. tp tu jelah. lain2 perkataan takde lagik.
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Post time 25-3-2010 11:04 AM | Show all posts
Post Last Edit by ladsyoul at 25-3-2010 11:09

5# Claudia_Lestat

Tak masuk akal anak takleh ckp pasal susu dan botol. I don't breast feed and I've used bottles dr Anakku sampai ke Avent.

First, kita kena tanya dulu, bila di rumah....kita ada byk bercakap tak dgn dia?
cthnya...time tgh pakai pampers...time makan...time mandi etc.?

Kanak2 umur under 2 yrs 'melihat' dgn telinga dulu. Dia dgr intonasi dan style ckp org2 dewasa. I got this tip pun dr buku 'The First Year'....kita kena constantly bercakap dgn dia....nanti dia akan tangkap 'ohh..mcm ni bercakap, rupanya'..haaa...

Communication is tooooo important at this age...bila dia Dengar...ia akan 'register'...time tu lah baru jumpstart otak dia....

Pls dont rely on your babysitter, the best susu/botol or TV to do these simple communication work....(well okaylah, maybe breastfeeding is an awesome brain booster, tp kita tak breastfeed). It's all up to us.

Baru2 ni..my 2yr old dah boleh buat sentence 'Mama! What happen!!' sbb ternampak kita jatuh kan buku, drama sungguh tone dia, then kita teringat...dulu, dia diam2 dengar aje kita sebut2 line ni...skang..tiba2...dia boleh ajuk sbb semua dah ada dlm kepala dia...haaa...kita terkejut tau....so dgn dia sound cam tu...kita pun..terpaksa la berseloteh balik dgn dia...explain kenapa jatuh etc....ye...nampak cam penat keje communicate ni...but it's worth it.

Caaaaakap je dgn dia...mcm kita berceloteh dgn member....insyallah...you will see changes....dan...selak2 online...tips on 'how to get your toddler talking'

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Post time 25-3-2010 05:41 PM | Show all posts
my son ni senornya banyak cakap. tp mmg tak paham apa yg dia cakapkan. bila dia main dia konsentret quiet je..tp bila ada menda yg x kena dia mula lah start bising2. mmg slalu bercakap dgn dia. dan penah dgr dia sebot ayat dgn betol. apa yg kami pk dia mmg buleh bercakap cuma x tau kenapa dia x nak bercakap.
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Post time 25-3-2010 08:30 PM | Show all posts
my son ni senornya banyak cakap. tp mmg tak paham apa yg dia cakapkan. bila dia main dia konsentret quiet je..tp bila ada menda yg x kena dia mula lah start bising2. mmg slalu bercakap dgn dia. dan pe ...
Claudia_Lestat Post at 25-3-2010 05:41 PM


exactly like my daugther....
seingat me, mase die 2 yo..die boleh cakap mama , abah...itu je la ...
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Post time 25-3-2010 10:28 PM | Show all posts
42# MrsJohn

kalau anak macam takut2 nak cakap....kita kena sentiasa encourage...kalau dia tgh main...kita tanya...main apa...buat apa..make eye contact....biarlah dia ckp petah berabuk...janji ada bunyi...janji ada celoteh...celoteh tu...lama2 akan bertukar jadi ayat....don't give up....just keep talking to them...walaupun diorang diam.
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Post time 25-3-2010 10:51 PM | Show all posts
42# MrsJohn

kalau anak macam takut2 nak cakap....kita kena sentiasa encourage...kalau dia tgh main...kita tanya...main apa...buat apa..make eye contact....biarlah dia ckp petah berabuk...janji ad ...
ladsyoul Post at 25-3-2010 10:28 PM


die bukan takut, she refused to talk...cakap ape die nak je ..mostly jargons...
ape approach me bleh..semua dah try
dah jumpe a few paeds, ENT specialist..semue cakap die ok...diorg ckp, give her more time.....
anyway, she starts talking at the age of 3 1/2 yo (speech delay)
...now, almost 5...pot pet pot pet..but not as talkative like her elder sis or lil' bro......
& what surprise me most, she can read almost immediately...dulu punya dok sua buku, ajak repeat the words, sepatah haram tak keluar....
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Post time 26-3-2010 12:21 PM | Show all posts
mmg ade kene mengena dgn susu n botol.
ni pakar yg ckp
bkn aku ckp
botol susu tu pastikan dia sedut dgn sempurna
psl tu dicipta botol avient
sama mcm baby tu menyusu badan diciptanya puting botol ...
bling2 Post at 17-3-2010 10:32


pakar mana yg cakap tuh ?
ank sulong saya dlu minum susu ngan botol rm 10 3 biji cap pureen jer
tp alhamdulillah la...dlm 1 thn lebih mcm tu dah byk perkataan yg dia boleh sebut
belum campo lg bahasa jerman dia lg

tah la...statement tu rasa mcm tak masuk akal
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Post time 30-3-2010 10:33 AM | Show all posts
anak sedara i lelaki..sampai 2 tahun++ tak pandai bercakap...tapi,bila dia dah start bercakap nonstop tak boleh berhenti2.dulu kita 1 family bimbang sangat..sebab dia senyap jer.sekarang kita plak yang letih nak melayan dia bercakap.sekarang umur dia dah 5 tahun.dah lancar baca buku peter & jane (ladybird tue)...
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Post time 31-3-2010 06:10 PM | Show all posts
die bukan takut, she refused to talk...cakap ape die nak je ..mostly jargons...
ape approach me bleh..semua dah try
dah jumpe a few paeds, ENT specialist..semue cakap die ok...diorg ckp, give he ...
MrsJohn Post at 25-3-2010 22:51


eh mcm my son jugak. dia suka buku dulu. pagi2 bila dia bangun mesti dia amek buku dia baca. selak sana selak sini hehehe..
skang dia suka buku yg ada gambar kereta. kalo nampak paper yg ada gambar kereta pon mesti dia amek. belek sampai puas hehehe..
tp mmg dia nampak cam x mo ikot apa kita ajar. yelah ada jugak ajar 'a' for apple n' so on so on tp dia gelak2 pehtu buat menda lain. mcm main2. ada masa dia mcm tanya kita apa menda yg kita suruh dia buat. tp dlm bahasa dialah. cthnya mcm suruh dia amek kasut dia dia pegi amek tp seblah yg seblah tu dia tanya lagik nak amek ke tak hehehehe...ni ikot pemahaman berdasarkan cth perkara yg kita mintak kat dia buat hehehe..
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Post time 7-4-2010 04:32 PM | Show all posts
tapi aku nak agak setuju gak la ngan pendapat dok ngan kita ( surirumah, maid or parents)..baby cam lambat sikit lahhh.....sebab manjang berdukung la aku rasa...

kalo dok nursery cam cepat sikit la bab2 ni.....tapi comparatively la...bukan lambat bangettttt.......cam kawan aku....anak dia dok ngan MIL...dua orang gaji...hehehhe..dekat nak 2 tahun gak baru jalan.....
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Post time 12-4-2010 04:03 PM | Show all posts
well... i just nak share my experience...

mase my son 2 thn lbh i detact die lambat bercakap.... i refer die ke paed.... tapi paed kate ok.... pastu lepas a few time follow-up die suggest i buat hearing test.... i pun buat hearing test.... mase tu die dah 3 thn.... doc kate hearing die normal.... maybe die lambat bercakap shj.... pas dah lame n i keep on monitor perkembangan die n x nampak sebarang perubahan... so i decide refer die ke speech theraphy... so after 2nd session die identify yg my son ade masalah dgn attention.... so die buatkan refer letter ke klinik HUKM.... mase ni umo my son dah 4 thn.... mase 1st session tu doc tanye mcm2 soalan n detail sgt.... pastu die suspect mcm ade autism kate die.... tapi die cume kate die suspect shj.... so tadi pg 2nd appointment dgn staff nurse utk buat all test yg berkaitan dgn perkembangan kanak2.... pasni nnt bln 7 baru jumpe doc.... n lepas jumpe doc baru ade last test utk confirmkan resultnye....

so process sini mmg agak lama... mmg salah satu ciri2 anak2 autism is die akan speech delay.... tapi ade juga kes yg die panggil tounge tie.... kes ni pasal ade masalah dgn struktur lidah.... minor surgery blh bantu selesaikan masalah.... sebenarnye ada byk contribution factor yg menjurus kpd speech delay.... so kalo u blh referkan die ke pakar lagi bagus. x semestinye kalo anak kene refer pakar anak tu bermasalah.... n x semestinya anak yg lambat diperingkat awal akan terus2an dibelengu masalah.... my fren always remind i yg Einstein tu ada masalah autism...

advantage kalo dpt jumpe pakar is die org akan ajar kite cara2 nak encourage perkembangan anak kite.... n dont worry... ilmu tu blh kite guna pakai utk anak2 normal yg lain....

biasanye kalo nak ke HUKM.... better u ke klinik premier HUKM dulu.... so process die cepat skit.... mmg kebiasaan doc akan suggest ke HUKM.... die org ade pakar n facilities yg cukup... at least kene amik 1st step dulu..... dont worry k.....
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Post time 14-4-2010 10:44 AM | Show all posts
well... i just nak share my experience...

mase my son 2 thn lbh i detact die lambat bercakap.... i refer die ke paed.... tapi paed kate ok.... pastu lepas a few time follow-up die suggest i buat he ...
jamdatuk Post at 12-4-2010 16:03


thank u so much (buat yg lain2 jugak).
tgh nak cari masa yg sesuai utk ke sana terus. tapi nak tanya ni.
kalo nak pegi klinik premier HUKM tu buleh pegi terus ke or kena jugak surat dr klinik biasa?
sori mmg takde pengalaman dan tak tau mcm mana proses dia.
masa call HUKM diaorg suruh dptkan reference letter dr klinik. klinik biasa pon buleh katanya pehtu diaorg set appoinment.
so kalo pegi klinik premier HUKM tu perlu ke bawak surat dr klinik biasa?
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Post time 14-4-2010 10:50 AM | Show all posts
jgn risau ler..ari tu aku br tau jiran member ku..anak dia blh jln masa umor 2 thn...aku terkejut jugak..tp maksud nya ada jugak la kes jln lambat
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Post time 14-4-2010 10:52 AM | Show all posts
tapi aku nak agak setuju gak la ngan pendapat dok ngan kita ( surirumah, maid or parents)..baby cam lambat sikit lahhh.....sebab manjang berdukung la aku rasa...

kalo dok nursery cam cepat sikit la ...
akubest Post at 7-4-2010 16:32


a'ah..mcm anak bos aku..masa tu dh nk masuk 6 bulan..lom pandai meniarap. sbb nya ape?..sbb sllu d dukung..yg jaga anak dia mak n adik beradik dia ramai.yg rajin mendukung.biasa la anak 1st kan
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Post time 16-4-2010 10:37 AM | Show all posts
claudia, lepas gi HUKM, update sini ye...nak tau gak camne perkembangan...
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Post time 18-4-2010 07:51 AM | Show all posts
Reply 49# Claudia_Lestat

u kene call dulu klinik premier utk buat appointment... better kalo ade refer letter.... speech therapist bg i refer letter ke sana. so nnt nurse akan bgtau bile u blh dtg.... trust me... org mmg ramai sgt.... so dtg pg2 betul... in fact i dtg pg pun dah ramai org berderet2.... pas jumpe doc.... u akan diberi date utk next session dgn nurse.... session ni utk test ur child.... pastu baru dpt buat appointment dgn paed yg specialist dgn child difficultist ni.... so better pegi cepat pasal process die lama sgt.... i punye appointment dgn doc pun dpt bln 7.... tapi rasenye tengok pd cawangan kot.... i pegi yg klinik kat bandar tasik selatan... kat situ klinik child dev die buat hari selesa jer....
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Post time 18-4-2010 05:32 PM | Show all posts
isk...aku kena remind my friend nih..

selalu tu dia komplen ngan aku anak dia lambat cakap...aku kata budak lai normal lah....ana dia dah 3 tahun still tak leh cakap...sbb anak buah belah laki aku...5` tahun baru bole cakap betul....

aku patut advise dia jumpa paed la....sooner the better kan..tu ahh kengkadang kita risau member kita risau over nothing..isk
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