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Post time 26-4-2019 08:24 AM
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green~tea replied at 26-4-2019 07:17 AM
Kalo nak start new mmg susah la kalo nak makan gaji.... lagi pulak ur market area sana lg byk oppo ...
Used to be a single mom? Now have remarried?
I percaya pada rzki huhu insh-Allah kalau ada tu adalah.. bisnes makan i dah cuba.. i ada mentioned in my 1st post kalau xsilap.. cuma xbrp nak menjadi over here.. plus income pun xbrp sgt sbb my place ni competition is q high. I nak kembali balik dlm industry. My family pun stuju..
Anyhow.. share la green tea. Yr life experience as a single mom huhu |
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Edited by green~tea at 26-4-2019 04:10 PM
masa i awal2 cerai tu i mmg live separated dgn my ex about 6-8 months bfore i file divorce... sbb nya im in a very bad financial position masa tu...
i ada hutang kad kredit RM60k... i duk byaar installment rumah RM2.3k per month.. i kena bayar bills... gaji i plak masa tu mmg balance RM4k je bersih lepas tolak rumah and kereta & hutang2 commitment... belom campur i nak beli susu anak, groceries, parking klcc (about RM900 sebulan)... so i takleh terus buat decision cerai on the spot... i kena reduce my commitment.. i kena prepare duit nak bayar lawyer nnti... my ex pulak sejenis tanak lepas i senang2, ye la sbb i tukang bayar kereta & rumah, tongtong makan and groceries, i tanggung susu pampers anak selama ni...
first thing i do is i clearkan hutang kad kredit.. i pejam mata tutup kad2 kredit tu, biarpun i sengkek simpanan berkurang.. coz i believe, kalo kita menjauhi riba, hidup and gaji kita lebih berkat... mmg perit laaa nak downgrade lifestyle... i stop terus makan2 kat restoran mahal.. lifestyle i dulu mmg tak beringat la, RM200 sepinggan meal is considered cheap for me (masa tu)... handbag dulu rega rm20k sebiji, i ada beberapa biji... bercuti kat europe selama ni, i tukar ke short outing dgn girlfriends within asia je.... kat ofis, lunchtime makan sandwich je lepas gym, nasib baik gym membership free...
lepas cerai, i terkial2 nak drive dlm KL, sbb selama ni kereta yang i beli tu tu ex i yang drive ulang alik kitorg keje.... kereta merz dia, dia simpan dalam garaj je, weekends je kot pakai... lepas cerai dia amek kad parking gi keje... so end up i kena bayar daily rate for parking.... parking kat klcc kan mahal.. i merayu2 utk dpt season pass, kerap sgt i follow up bertanya giliran... mmg susah nak dpt card parking ni, bertahun dah queue... then alhamdulillah, i dpt card parking tu where i managed to reduce to RM300 sebulan saja parking fee.. i learn how to isi minyak sendiri, isi angin tayar, antar servis keta... i was relying on waze sbb i tak tau sgt jalan KL ni kecuali utk gi balik keje je...
hasil dari reducing monthly commitment tu, and downgrading my lifestyle .... balance duit i simpan tu, i kumpul until dpt RM5k dalam bank utk bayar lawyer utk kes cerai... nak bercerai bukan murah ye.. RM8k is the full amount until settle kes cerai hakam, cuma bayaran tu berperingkat... sambil2 i click maybank2u utk bayar lawyer tu, i menangis.. sbb bagi i.. rm1-2K per month is huge dah utk i... then ada few more other cases i start to file laa utk fight for my right...
anak takde issue sgt... coz sekolah my son mmg depan rumah saja, and my ex settlekan fees skolah dia monthly... anak i jenis fussy nak makan so end up i always have to cook for dinner.. well its a blessing sbnrnya.. sbb masakan tu simple2 je... i masak within few minutes, and my son jenis suka menolong i kat dapur... i'm glad he is a good son...
as i said earlier, bila kita menjauhi riba, hidup lebih berkat... tup2 i got salary adjustment and promotion... byk i dpt, around 10k additional.. alhamdulillah, mmg rezeki ibu tunggal lah... with lesser commitment lepas cerai (tutup kad kredit), i bought another house... condo, supaya more security utk i and my son... and the previous house i sell at cost je to my ex...
tp tak sempat condo i tu siap, tetiba i dah terjumpa jodoh baru  my new husband ni baik dan bertanggungjawab... he provide good house for me to stay dgn my son... and my son found a new hobby dgn papa dia yg baru : gardening... i guess thats their bonding time la.. every day dia akan tolong siram pokok2 and rumput.... and every weekend plak theyols akan spend hours belek2 pokok gembur2 tanah.... comel tengok my husband belikan small pair of gloves for my son pakai buat gardening.. comel sgt
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Post time 26-4-2019 08:20 PM
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green~tea replied at 26-4-2019 03:59 PM
masa i awal2 cerai tu i mmg live separated dgn my ex about 6-8 months bfore i file divorce... sbb ...
Waaah Alhamdulilah rzki u dpt new hb yg sporting and supportive. Wow tgk your income and expenses... pergh.. boleh tahan.. i dulu pun cerai guna hakam. Lawyer ni kwn my mom.. so dptla murah sket. Tapi my parents yg bayarkan..
Btw, U kerja apa?
Patutla u cakap dok kl ni rm10k pun berpeluh juga.. u kl kat mana? Sbb agak tinggi juga yr belanja.. i asal taman tun dr ismail.. u? |
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Post time 26-4-2019 08:23 PM
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DididanNana replied at 26-4-2019 08:20 PM
Waaah Alhamdulilah rzki u dpt new hb yg sporting and supportive. Wow tgk your income and expenses. ...
Sama la u.. i pun berpisah dok asing2 masa awal pregnant lagi. When i was 2 month pregnant.. mmg i terus jadi single mom waktu tu.. cuma dok ngan parents..
Bila org tanya i apa beza ada anak time kawen and time single mom, i xleh jwb.. sbb dari awal lagi mmg dah single mom haha.. mujurlah ada support system.. |
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kiyudi replied at 14-3-2019 10:25 AM
haha btol...bapa tunggal tu leh pm ibu tunggal tu mana thu berjodohan..
dua2 settle masalah
Napa I tertinggal kisah papa tunggal ni
Di mana saya boleh jumpa dia
Owh my god saya terlambat beberapa minggu ni |
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Tak tahu nak nasihat camana . ....
Sebab bagus sebenarnya bila mak ayah offer helps
Mak ayah saya suruh jugak balik ganu ...rumah Terengganu dah ada kata mereka
Apa apa jadi senang untuk mereka tengok
Tapi saya hati tisu usik saya takpa
Marah saya takpa.tapi jangan marah anak anak saya saya tak suka
Balik kampung dua tiga hari pun depa dah kalut dgn anak anak sy yg lasak ni camana nak duduk dekat-dekat
Baru ni i nak beli rumah kat Selangor ni
Mak tanya lagi Napa xmohon balik ganu apa-apa jadi senang depa nak tolong tengokkan
Saya jawab susahla nk mohon xselesai sbb sy still kena menyewa ...
So sy maintain kat sini
Saya balik kg sebulan sekali
Dekat sini saya xda sapa sapa xda support sistem Dr keluarga tapi sy ada cikgu tadika anak anak sy yg sngt membantu dan sudi menolong semestinya dengan kos
Anak4 saya jaga sendiri.... Ayah diorang pun xpeduli inikan pulak orang lain...
Yg cakap nak tolong beriya. Bila saya minta tolong benda simple pun xdapat nak menolong
Buat lah yang mana terbaik dan menurut hati TT
Selepas tu tawakkal
Indahnya hidup bertawakal kepada Allah sepenuhnya hanya Dia yg tahu
Kita mungkin xda sapa sapa hidup ditemani kesusahan dan keresahan tapi percayalah Allah sentiasa ada untuk hambaNya |
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Masa dalam perkahwinan, TUHAN hang letak kat mana onex???
Dah bercerai lak tetiba Tak lekang di bibir kalimah TUHAN ????
Bak kata Anak buah manak..better late than never Kan onex???
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sis onex u r strong u kenduit,,,,,
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Strong, jentik tumbang....
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wow menak...x kija ke
ke memang bukak mata terus bukak pc.....
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The privilege bila kita yg menggajikan org dan bukan sebaliknya, macam hang.....
Oiittttt...hari sabtu pun hang kija kah???
Kalau arwaahnya masih ada, terbela nasib hang Kan???
Tak perlu kerja terlalu kuat hanya utk kasi 4 ketul tuh sensuap nasi??
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sabtu kija la ..nk muntah rasa nyer....tp dh kija cam tu gaya,,,apakan daya
insyaAllah masih mampu suap anak4 ku makan ....
rezeki dr DIA.....
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Nak muntah pembawakan budak dalam peyut Kah Atau camna Nee???tak paham....
Anyway, dah nak masuk bulan ramadhan..hang tak buat tribute pada arwah , buat kenduri tahlil utknya???
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mmmmm ada2 je nk cuit ..hmm
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Org yg jenis hati tisu takdanya manak nak cuit tau....
Org tanya bebetul Nee...Tak buat tahlil utk arwah kah???
Buat teh celup dgn biskut keras pun ok per???yg penting dapat himpun geder geder buat bacaan jemaah.....
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Menakautau replied at 27-4-2019 11:07 AM
Dah chalked hutang kedit sampai 60k baru nak sebut pasal riba????
Bak kata Anak buah manak...be ...
Kasi can la i hanimun dulu manak.... selagi takde tered i kat FD ni insyaAllah i still live happily ever after.... |
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Post time 27-4-2019 02:53 PM
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Menakautau replied at 27-4-2019 11:07 AM
Dah chalked hutang kedit sampai 60k baru nak sebut pasal riba????
Bak kata Anak buah manak...be ...
Ala.. bang manak ni.. jgnla hijack my thread huhu |
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Post time 27-4-2019 02:55 PM
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onexox97 replied at 27-4-2019 08:33 AM
Tak tahu nak nasihat camana . ....
Sebab bagus sebenarnya bila mak ayah offer helps
Mak ayah saya ...
Tq onexox... brp org anak u ada? Share sket aktiviti weekends u dgn anak2 pls.. tq |
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green~tea replied at 27-4-2019 12:26 PM
Kasi can la i hanimun dulu manak.... selagi takde tered i kat FD ni insyaAllah i still live happil ...
Peminat kita ni sentiasa mengekor dan menyibuk annoying sungguh |
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