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Would you rather have unhappy marriage or happy affair?
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I've made my choice.. to stay in the marriage..
and it turned out that Allah has changed the unhappy marriage to a better and close to happy marriage...
Eventhough it is not a PERFECT marriage.. but still I'm thankful for it..  |
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let me share something with regard to this topic...
during my intimate relationship with NHK (married) there were "ups and downs"
in term of NHK mood....
NHK would be in her "volcanic best" if her hubby is okay,goody moody and happy...
till this moment i cant really figured out "what actually in woman's mind"...
unhappy marriage = happy affair...when the woman found their "dreamed man"
unhappy marriage = unhappy affair...when the woman looking for "escapism only"
happy marriage = happy affair....when the woman "in real control"of her life
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Originally posted by ganisara at 20-2-2008 17:51 
happy marriage = happy affair....when the woman "in real control"of her life
...when the woman "in real control" of her life...she wouldnt be involved in an affair...if her marriage is a happy one...why would she want to be involved in an affair??...
...when the woman "in real control" of her life...she would turn that happy marriage into a heaven...
...when the woman "in real control" of her life...she would turn an unhappy marriage into a blissful one...
...when the woman "in real control" of her life...she wouldnt surrender herself and her body to someone else other than her man...
...women are generally loyal beings...if her man treats her rite...gives her love...gives her inches and feeds her well...then why would she want to turn away from her husband??...
...women are gentle and loyal creatures...they love to be caressed...to be kissed...to be hug...to be loved...and most of all to be appreciated and noticed...
...is that so difficult to understand??... |
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Reply #166 blackmore's post
Dear Blackie...
you are absolutely right...
for what i had been through with most of these "women"..it is what i presented to all now....all from the horses mouth themselves... |
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Reply #162 ganisara's post
then, malay men should break themselves from the norms.. 
change the stereotype then, as i believe many malay men do appreciate their women as they supposed to be.. |
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Reply #168 LostSoul's post
Dear Losol....
u got some point there...
but i'm afraid it is more complex....
i been through this "thing"in a span of 22 YEARS and still going on with the same subject of "suami melayu ini".....
i read through one statement from forumner(cant remember the thread)that nowdays "suami melayu ini" more loving,more caring,more understanding their ladies
and i have to admit that i took this statement quite cynically...
'THEY"will never changed..... |
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Reply #169 BingkaUbi's post
Dear Bingka...
lovely "supply'...
tq..it makes most of our day! |
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Originally posted by ganisara at 20-2-2008 09:07 PM
Dear Losol....
u got some point there...
but i'm afraid it is more complex....
i been through this "thing"in a span of 22 YEARS and still going on with the same subject of "suami melayu in ...
ganisara...bagus that u try to write in English...as u will only be able to master a certain language by using it in ur daily life.
haku nak bagi some pointers skit...after the word "will", tak leh tukar the verb after it...it stays in its original form....will change, will cry, will learn....tak leh...will changed, will cried, will learned.
-english 101-
p/s haku ikhlas nak menolong org. hopefully yg lain leh benefit from these pointers (akan menyusul yg lain if haku tgk agak glaring errors yg dibuat). |
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Reply #170 ganisara's post
dear ganisara,
we cannot avoid complexity in life.. and as wise men says "rome is not build in a day"..
breaking from norms will take years.. will take ages.. so, we gotta start now, somewhere..
and where is the best place to start, then at home?
sorry for being too optimistic, but hope is truly a deliverance from those evils around us.. |
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Reply #174 dianthe's post
dianthe../wifeorg.../lostsoul
for once the whole world behind me....thank you
i dont mind making mistakes then, when such lovely ladies would correct me and
lending me comfortness words....
god bless all |
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Reply #175 ganisara's post
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.. and God bless the whole wide world.. may the war cease.. may the bombing stop.. may all the children laugh and play in peace... |
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Reply #177 LostSoul's post
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can be a very fine "peacekeeper".... |
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Reply #178 ganisara's post
short prayer= for my kids.. and for future generations.. tired of hearing the news of dying kids..
[ Last edited by LostSoul at 21-2-2008 03:10 PM ] |
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Post time 20-2-2008 05:30 PM
