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Would you rather have unhappy marriage or happy affair?
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Reply #138 wifeorg's post
some point taken.....
statement yg berani ,jujur dan kebenaran..
if Islam benarkan isteri ceraikan suami(read- LIKE WESTERN) dah banyak suami melayu jadi janda ...
ini kerana isteri2 melayu generasi sekarang adalah bijak dan "cannot accept"hubby yg tolol dan cakap cam org bodoh.... |
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never discredit what future generation's gonna be like.. just compare now with the 50's, 60's.. i bbelieve that people nowadays are more religiously aware than the yesteryears.. we just have to firm up the execution part...  |
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if only we dont have to marry to have kids. |
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Originally posted by wifeorg at 17-2-2008 01:36 PM 
if only we dont have to marry to have kids.
Errrrrrrrrrrrrr...dulu bukan u dah buat statement yang you tak berani ada affair ker? |
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I will have a happy affair only if I have unhappy marriage  |
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Reply #148 fiza1984's post
will u be truly happy?
there are many reasons why people having affair
which they know it is clearly wrong but somehow
these people are trying to make their unhappy heart to be happy..
so.. happy affair is actually means unhappy affair..
cause you'd may feel happy but it is just for a while.. when the times come..
you hv to say goodbye.. |
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Reply #150 manakautau's post
masa aku skolah dlu.. cikgu aku pernah cakap..
dosa seorang penzina hanya Tuhan saja yang akan mengampunkannya..
jika dia benar2 bertaubat walaupun di saat akhir hayatnya
tapi...dosa sesama manusia.. mengumpat atau berhutang..
sampai mati tak sempat mintak maaf atau bayar balik..
roh tak naik ke langit..
*sorry kalau aku silap fakta..
misal kata ko tahu org yg rapat dgn ko ada 'affair'..
do u expect org tu mesti dah berzina ?
or nak tanya dgn org tu...
"which one you prefer.. unhappy marriage or happy affair ?"
kadang2.. manusia yg lemah buat sesuatu ikut hati yg tak tenang..
kata hati berbalik2 antara yg hak dan yang batil..
Tuhan uji org mcm tu dgn 'affair' ....
tapi banyak lagi ujian lain yang Tuhan akan berikan pada setiap hambaNya.. |
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Originally posted by singamerah at 19-2-2008 05:24 PM 
masa aku skolah dlu.. cikgu aku pernah cakap..
dosa seorang penzina hanya Tuhan saja yang akan mengampunkannya..
jika dia benar2 bertaubat walaupun di saat akhir hayatnya
tapi...dosa sesam ...
betul..macam ujian mati pucuk... |
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rela disakiti org yg disayangi dari disayangi org yg membosankan |
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Originally posted by llisamaisarah at 19-2-2008 08:33 PM
rela disakiti org yg disayangi dari disayangi org yg membosankan
that's mostly the case. but after dah bertahun kwin and merana, u will wish that u had married the boring one!  |
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but what's worse is when the boring one also hurts u with infidelity! lose lose situation! |
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Reply #156 wifeorg's post
wifeorg, how to know it will be lose-lose situation.. kat ujung jalan baru tau.. adehh..  |
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lose lose...psl dah la mamat tu boring, menggatal lak dgn org lain...kita la yg lose2 situation tu!
serupa dgn kawin dgn yg tak berduit, last2 dia menggatal gak...sama le lose lose situation gak! |
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alamak...ni nasihat dari kakak dah makan garam dulu ni....
bukan ke bila bersama org yg kita sayang....lebih membahagiakan berbanding paksa diri sdiri utk org yg nkkan kita..
sekurang2 nya kita dapat jugak bsama org yg kita nak tu...dan sayang kita pon biasanye bersebab kan...? mesti ada istimewanye org yg kita syg tu...
kalo ari2 kna sepak tendang...baran je memanjang..sure sayang tu xwujud langsung...ye x..? |
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Reply #159 llisamaisarah's post
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sayang giler sampai sanggup biarkan diri kena sepak tendang dek orang tersayang.. is it worth to suffer the pain? |
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kalau sayang, tidak ada sepak tendang dlm rumahtangga.. cume kalau dha tak sayang, sepak tendang jadik permainan harian.. |
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Reply #161 LostSoul's post
only a dwarf minded man would hurt his lady that way...(sepak tendang)
"normal"malay hubby would hurt his wife feelings by simply "take for granted".. |
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Post time 17-2-2008 12:12 PM
