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"Dia Dera Bini Baru Pulak", Tular Video Bekas Suami Kepada Seorang Penyanyi Dera Seorang Wanita
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ya Allah menyesal betul aku tertgk video tu.kesian.apa punya celaka musibat jantan gini.aku terpikir gak amelina penah pukul ke? |
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Dah kena tgkp blom keparat tu..patut la amelina lama menyepi dulu2 |
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kesian si anak tengok ibu kena dera |
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Rogue98 replied at 18-11-2022 01:41 PM
Kan best kalau ada biz yg legit..agency pukul suami yg belasah isteri. Kalau mana2 isteri kena dera ...
Hah..tiba2 teringat cite taxi driver..bls dendam untuk kes yg baik2 |
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kikiharris replied at 18-11-2022 05:17 PM
Baca komen ko ni, teringat drama korea taxi driver kot tajuknya . Yg tolong balas kan dendam utk o ...
Hahaha sama la terus teringat cite taxi driver tu...kalau betul ada mcm tu memang puas hati laaaa |
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Rogue98 replied at 18-11-2022 01:41 PM
Kan best kalau ada biz yg legit..agency pukul suami yg belasah isteri. Kalau mana2 isteri kena dera ...
Tadi kat FB ada orang laki komen ajak bukak agency cmni lah. Tangkap senyap2 masuk guni belasah kasi lunyai cume jangan sampai mati je. Haha mesti masyukk. |
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Anak tu sampai mohon tolong selamatkan ke apa gaya cmtu macam takut sesangat mintak tolong selamatkan mak dia. Eh shilakerr jantan ni. |
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Noraniza_Iblis replied at 18-11-2022 03:41 PM
btul ex Amelina..
ape plak bini baru, time die kahwin dgn acik tu pn..
die dh mmg ade bini...
Ohmai...rendahnya rasa nilai sebagai isteri kalau betol acik Lin kena belasah pastu dimadukan 3. Lama tu bertahan. Dari hidup berduit,femes ceria bahagia bila kahwin macam neraka plak. |
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mosti replied at 18-11-2022 06:05 PM
Nak lari camna kena kurung...lepas viral ni pun, nasib baik yang tukang rakam tolong perempuan ni ...
Siapa yang tukang rakam ni? Berani plak. Masa jantan tu belasah sempat je dia toleh tengok HP. Slumber tak rampas pun. |
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Cekla replied at 18-11-2022 03:15 PM
Usin tu pendek je..laki ni mcm tinggi jugak
Semua dok kata usin. Usin mana ni chuols? |
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de_ikea replied at 18-11-2022 08:00 PM
Semua dok kata usin. Usin mana ni chuols?
Awie, diorang guna nama watak dia dalam hantu kak limah |
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Jantan camni dgn pompuan je berani
Kena sesama laki confirm kecut telur, berkicap kena titik
Harap2 lepas report pulis, kena tahan jgn tarik blk report yer...
Kdg2 berlaku mcm ni. Sampai org lain pun malas nak tlg lg...harap family lelaki pompuan tu kasi kaki kat jantan nihhh |
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naina replied at 18-11-2022 07:54 PM
Anak tu sampai mohon tolong selamatkan ke apa gaya cmtu macam takut sesangat mintak tolong selamatka ...
Masa nengok gaya budak tu mcm mintak.ampun i tot bideo dr indo
Puas nak dgr suara...last2 baca komen, kat malaysia |
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Tp ex amelina kan datuk.. heshe kawin lari dgn datuk kan? Xkan camni rupa ex heshe? |
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naina replied at 18-11-2022 07:52 PM
Tadi kat FB ada orang laki komen ajak bukak agency cmni lah. Tangkap senyap2 masuk guni belasah ka ...
Best giler kalau ada biz legit mcm ni kan. Si isteri hari2 kena hadap dgn jantan yg abusive...takde orang nak tolong. Polis pun selalu taknak masuk campur hal rumahtangga orang. |
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Edited by dani-rox at 18-11-2022 10:26 PM
soh mangsa dera terus angkat kaki, easier said than done.
WHY IT'S SO DIFFICULT TO LEAVE
All too often the question “Why do people stay in abusive relationships?” is posed to survivors, implying that they are to blame for the abuse.
Instead, questions like “How did the person causing harm prevent their partner from leaving?” or “Why do perpetrators of abuse hurt the person they claim to love?” are more appropriate.
There are serious factors that weigh on the survivor’s decision to leave:
- Leaving can be dangerous: Many people experiencing intimate partner violence realistically fear that their abusive partners’ actions will become more violent and even lethal if they attempt to leave. The abuser may have threatened to kill them or hurt their child, family member or pet if they leave.
- What about the kids? Many survivors are not sure that leaving would be the best for their children (especially if the children are not being abused directly.) Concerns may include: Will my partner win custody of the children? How will I support my kids without my partner’s income? I want my children to have two parents.
- Isolation: The survivor's friends and family may not know about the abuse, or may not support their leaving; or the survivor may have no one to turn to, since isolation is a key dynamic of intimate partner violence.
- Cycle of Violence and Hope for Change: Most abusive partners exhibit a behavioral pattern that has been described as a cycle of violence. The cycle of violence has three phases: the honeymoon phase (when everything in the relationship seems lovely), tension building, and violent incident. Many abusive partners become remorseful after inflicting violence, and promise that they will change (beginning the honeymoon phase again). This cycle makes it difficult to break free from an abusive partner.
- Lack of Resources: The survivor may not have their own source of income due to financial abuse, or may not have access to alternate housing, cash or bank accounts.
- Clergy and secular counselors are often trained to see only the goal of “saving” the marriage at all costs, rather than the goal of stopping the violence.
- Police officers do not consistently provide support to survivors. They may treat violence as a “domestic dispute,” instead of a crime where one person is attacking another person.
- Despite the issuing of a restraining order, there is little to prevent a released abusive partner from returning and repeating the assault.
- Some survivors may not believe divorce is a viable alternative.
- Some survivors are socialized to believe that they are responsible for making their marriage work, or for keeping the family together.
- In some cultures, leaving your partner is a disgraceful and reprehensible action.
- Having a disability: A person with a physical disability is five times more likely than a person without a disability to be abused by a partner, spouse or someone considered to be part of their household.
- Belonging to a sexual minority. Learn more about intimate partner violence in LGBTQ+ relationships.
Remember, leaving is a process. Survivors may leave and return several times before permanently separating from their abusive partner. In fact, research shows that it can take approximately 7 attempts before a survivor permanently leaves an abusive partner.
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How to Escape from an Abusive Relationship
It’s important to have a safe exit plan from an abusive relationship. The following tips might help you with this:
• Make a note of the phone numbers for your local women’s shelters.
• Confide in someone you genuinely trust (a good friend, a colleague at work, or a family member. Develop a code so they can help you if you are in an emergency (like a word you can text to them.)
• If your partner harms you, go to the emergency department and ask the staff to document your visit, and your reason for seeking medical attention.
• Journal each threat or abusive incident (with dates). If possible photograph any injuries.
• Prepare your escape in advance. Plan where you will go, and how you will get there.
• If you have a car, keep it backed in the driveway, with plenty of gas, and the keys close at hand, so that you can make a quick escape. Hide an extra set of car keys in case your partner steals and hides yours.
• Set money aside, either in a secret bank account or with a trusted friend or family members.
• Leave a packed bag with a friend or family member. This should contain an extra set of keys, essential ID (birth certificates, social security card, credit card, bank information, important phone numbers, passport, medical records etc), some clothes and any medications. If possible, avoid making use of neighbors or mutual friends.
• Know your partner’s schedule, and plan ahead for safe times to leave.
• Be especially alert to securing help through your computer or phone. Delete your internet browsing history, any websites you’ve checked out for resources, and all your old emails. If you called for help just before you left the house, dial another number afterwards in case your partner hits redial.
• Leave a false trail behind. For example, call hotels or rental agencies that are several hours away from the place you are planning on moving to.
More info: https://www.verywellmind.com/mak ... elationship-5069959
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alesandra replied at 18-11-2022 06:11 PM
ya Allah menyesal betul aku tertgk video tu.kesian.apa punya celaka musibat jantan gini.aku terpikir ...
Nak tengok video kat mana you? |
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bayan_nuri replied at 18-11-2022 04:19 PM
ada yang kata mangsa bodoh tak reti lari dari laki tu dikira kesian jugak ke?
Kadang2 ada jugak noks yang takmo lari, takut kena cerai, takut menjanda dsb. Memang ada jenis pempuan yang entah apa dia takut pun tak taulah |
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fefeeling replied at 18-11-2022 08:32 PM
Tp ex amelina kan datuk.. heshe kawin lari dgn datuk kan? Xkan camni rupa ex heshe?
X mustahil kan. Dato x semestinnya kaya. Dulu kan keluar news amalina n tok laki dia ni kena halau rumahbsewa sbb x byr.... |
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