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Would you rather have unhappy marriage or happy affair?
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Originally posted by sayawifenikmie at 28-1-2008 01:53 PM 
bcoz life is too shortlah kita kena balik kepada hukum hakam agama.... takut tak sembat bertaubat.. neraka jahanamlah tempat orang2 yang berzina apatah lagi setelah berkahwin.....
Berbal ...
yup.. kena ingat kalau nak mati.. bukan tunggu tua..
kalau kita rasa mcm bahagia tapi hidup x berkat..
x guna kan.. |
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Originally posted by cantthinkofany at 28-1-2008 02:17 PM
define short babe...in minutes...hours....days...month?
... as short as "sedetik" or shorter .... dari sekarang..... anytime... Allah boleh tarik balik nyawa kita....
... Allah sentiasa menerima taubat hambanya.... selagi hambanya ikhlas.... insaf...... |
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Originally posted by bakawali_04 at 28-1-2008 04:02 PM
yup.. kena ingat kalau nak mati.. bukan tunggu tua..
kalau kita rasa mcm bahagia tapi hidup x berkat..
x guna kan..
... apa maknanya bahagia... bagi seoarang yang mengaku dirinya Islam.... jika hidup bergelomang noda dan dosa...
... apakah betul bahagia yang dikecapinya ... atau sekadar gula-gula dari syaitan durjana...
.. sama-samalah kita ingat mengingati.... |
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Originally posted by sayawifenikmie at 28-1-2008 05:40 PM
... apa maknanya bahagia... bagi seoarang yang mengaku dirinya Islam.... jika hidup bergelomang noda dan dosa...
... apakah betul bahagia yang dikecapinya ... atau sekadar gula-gula dari ...
itu yang saya maksudkan..
yang penting saya mahukan kebahagian yang diberkati..
walaupun mungkin jalanya susah.. banyak halangan..
tapi akhinya kita rasa keberkatannya.. |
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soalan camnie wujud lambang manusia tertipu.....
sepatutnya jawapan dia sudah jelas....
mana yg boleh mana yg tidak....
bukannya tanya lagi utk membolehkan yg tidak boleh... |
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without regards to agama, then we will choose happy affair.
with it, we have to choose unhappy marriage.
why not reject both la, you ada affair, dosa, you tak happy dgn wife you, cerailah, kawin dgn lover you. Then you have happy marriage.
Unless, the problem is, you can never have happy marriage but always have happy affair, and not turn on by relationship when you're single.
You're doomed man.  |
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Reply #86 dram74's post
aha, betul tu....bg me, "tidak semua dpt mengecapi kemanisan iman..biar derita mendekati Allah daripada bahagia mendekati maksiat.."
sememangnya, mencari keredhaan itu sgt2 sakit. penuh ujian dan kesusahan. drpd bahagia sekejap...tapi balasannya naudzubillah sgt azab. |
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since tuan rumah tak benarkan choose NEITHER, then, i have no choice but to choose unhappy marriage.
moga2 berkat kesabaran & keredhaan saya menghadapi dugaan tu, things may change for the better. dalam pada tu, sentiasa ingatkan diri, everything i do, i do it for HIM the almighty. & one day, there'll be light at the end of the tunnel.
again i stress, pilihan ni hanya jika tak boleh pilih tak mahu BOTH. of course everyone wants a happy marriage, which starts with a "once upon a time... " & ends with "happily ever after, THE END." |
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i would prefer a happy woman |
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Reply #89 manakautau's post
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ada. kat akhirat. life does not end here in this world. |
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Reply #91 mclaren's post
:flower: :flower: :flower:
Precisely....... |
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choose to have a happy affair..
reason? watper nak hidup tak happy..life is short.. |
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Terbalik ngan me norsha,
sbb 'life is short' lah, maka i choose unhappy marriage..hihi..sbb tuan thread kata kena pilih either one |
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Reply #94 Lily_Savage's post
betul lily... saya pun masa baca post norsha tadi, ini lah kat my mind, because life is short lah, itu pasal lah kena kurang buat dosa.
affair means, dosa.
unhappy marriage, without the sufferer complaining about it, ada perseverance.. inshaallah, kalau life is short pun, tak rugi. untung ada lah kot, pahala dpt, and boleh get out from living in an unhappy marriage & dapat reward di kemudian hari. |
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Reply #1 sLapshock's post
I would choose a happy affair cos at least when one day i am not happy with the
affair/relationship, i can just walk out without any hassles...
But then again..., ada ke affair yg betul2 happy sedangkan everything has to be
done discreetly, d guilty feelings n all that.... n along d way many people will get hurt... |
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Reply #98 mclaren's post
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Sbb tu kan..... both pun takde guaranteed happiness... Kira nasib2 juga, kan... |
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Post time 28-1-2008 04:02 PM
Post time 5-2-2008 07:15 AM
