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nuryakmal

In relationship i usually thought it was 50-50 kinda way. But instead ive learnt that its 60-40. Give more expect less. You are not perfect as he is.

5229

Korang bg je la 100%.apadehal..suka sampai mati knn?

dark_chocolate

missus_meow posted on 20-8-2013 11:10 PM
Bagaimana bz pon seseorang itu, kalo dia mmg inginkan sesuatu n that sesuatu is worth it, dia akan ...

sgt setuju

penah kenal dgn lelaki yg kerja tetapnya melibatkan fizikal..malam buat part time lagi yg jgk melibatkan fizikal..so blh bayang la letih tahap mana..tp masih ada masa utk call selepas maghrb..sblm stat wat keje around kul 9 malam or selepas abis keje part time yg siap pagi2..msj anytime dia balas kecuali sibuk sgt2

so aku rasa kalau laki tu sayang, dia akan cari masa jgk utk spend n sembang/jumpa

TT dah brapa lama couple? dr awal couple mcm ni ke lately je?

ikaizraa

missus_meow posted on 21-8-2013 07:10 PM
Bagaimana bz pon seseorang itu, kalo dia mmg inginkan sesuatu n that sesuatu is worth it, dia akan ...

he gives me both
kdg i rs i ni dah xde hak utk tny dia pape. yela takat gf, ape la sgt kn. unless i dah jd wife dia.
skang ni klu dia ade keje / jumpe cust TERsyg dia tu, i can't ask anything. dia mintak i pecaye dia.

missus_meow

sue_0684 posted on 21-8-2013 08:36 PM
dalam bahse org aslinya : bagi sebab musabab atau bagi alasan mengelat...

Itu bahasa ilmuan ... kot tak paham

missus_meow

ikaizraa posted on 22-8-2013 09:18 AM
he gives me both
kdg i rs i ni dah xde hak utk tny dia pape. yela takat gf, ape la sgt kn. unl ...

So tt ni gf short term ke? Kalo short term, gasaklah kan .... if u see this rship ade future n nk buat long term, ahkak nasihatkan u set tbe rules now. Idaklah pulak dia ckp, dulu xde pon ... jgn  masa berkapel kontrol ayu, tp dah sah nanti barulah tunjuk belang sebenar.

Cik abg ahkak dolu2 penah wat ... dia ajerlah bizi kite x bizi .... pastu dia sms, call segale mcm ape ahkak x layan ... kite pon bizi kan. Dia paham jugak akhirnye .... ape dia buat ahkak boleh buat. Dabel lg. So, lesson learned. Alhamdulillah. Kalo dia x paham, dia cariklah pompuan lain.

missus_meow

dark_chocolate posted on 22-8-2013 09:06 AM
sgt setuju

penah kenal dgn lelaki yg kerja tetapnya melibatkan fizikal..malam buat part time la ...

Betul x amek byk ms pon nk sms or call. Kite bkn nk soh dia bkepit ngan kite 24 jam.

ikaizraa

dark_chocolate posted on 22-8-2013 09:06 AM
sgt setuju

penah kenal dgn lelaki yg kerja tetapnya melibatkan fizikal..malam buat part time la ...

awal kapel ok jer. kalau blh stiap saat nak msg. siap vc bagai. kite pulak naik rimas. lately ni jer hangin dia x btul. xleh tny sikit psl nk jumpe sape2, mula la nk lenting. dia pk i x pecayer dia. mslhnye bukan x cayer cuma curiga. kdg almost every night dia jumpe cust. ntah pape jer.. mcm xleh nk liase thru fon. fedap pulak rs.....

dark_chocolate

ikaizraa posted on 21-8-2013 03:38 PM
awal kapel ok jer. kalau blh stiap saat nak msg. siap vc bagai. kite pulak naik rimas. lately ni j ...

skrg dh brapa bulan bercouple?

ikaizraa

missus_meow posted on 22-8-2013 11:27 AM
So tt ni gf short term ke? Kalo short term, gasaklah kan .... if u see this rship ade future n nk  ...

long term kak. sebab kitorg mmg ade plan nk kawin.... bukan dlm ms terdkt la. family i pun da restu hbgn kitorg... cuma lately ni i xtau knp i curiga kt dia. i can feel that he hide smtg from me

ikaizraa

dark_chocolate posted on 22-8-2013 11:40 AM
skrg dh brapa bulan bercouple?

knl dah 1yr+. tp baru serius kapel mth ago.
bile kata dah jd kaepl, karektor trs berubah. maybe kitorg sesuwai jd kwn kot. bile jd kapel mcm panas gitu.

missus_meow

ikaizraa posted on 22-8-2013 11:43 AM
long term kak. sebab kitorg mmg ade plan nk kawin.... bukan dlm ms terdkt la. family i pun da rest ...

U hv trust issues ... yg korang berdualah kena sit down n slow talk n work it out ... diskus ape yg ok n x ok dibuat, ape yg korang boleh tolerate, ape yg no-no. Yg penting, korang kena ade persetujuan so later later xde nk gaduh2 ungkit2.

dah nikah ... bkn tdekat ... ahkak x suke part ni  coz mcm x sure ... cer bg time limit yg spesifik n work towards that goal ....  contoh, nk nikah lg 3 tahun ... so dlm 3 tahun tu,  menda ape korang nk prepare, nk ubah, nk baiki n strosnye. Again, korang berdua mesti agree, ok?

ikaizraa

missus_meow posted on 22-8-2013 12:16 PM
U hv trust issues ... yg korang berdualah kena sit down n slow talk n work it out ... diskus ape y ...

tp skrg i mcm xde hati la kak nak trskn. kitorg ade slh fhm since monday. then tuesday mcm cooling time la utk diri memasing. semlm i start the conversation. i wish morning kt dia as usual. haram x direplynye. ptg2 ckit dia reply tp bunyi sarcastic. ok i mntk maaf lg. i kata benda yg +ve so that dia x mrh i lg. tp haram jgk. ujung2 i kena tembak jugak. so arini i diam jela. x kuasa nak msg nk tny bagai. x kuasa dah kak.

missus_meow

ikaizraa posted on 22-8-2013 12:30 PM
tp skrg i mcm xde hati la kak nak trskn. kitorg ade slh fhm since monday. then tuesday mcm cooling ...

Kalo dah koser n u think dah bbaloi nk troskan ur rship ... kire dah abes pk, then, end it. Tp kalo end, jgn mroyan, jgn mnyesal, jgn jd stalker fb dia ke ape. U go no contact macam dia penah wujud dlm idop u. Ok?

Kalo tak, u can take time out. Waktu btenang. To think n mnilai semula ur rship. Abes waktu time out, diskus ur limits n boundaries.

Okay?

sue_0684

missus_meow posted on 22-8-2013 11:19 AM
Itu bahasa ilmuan ... kot tak paham

alamak..tukaq lah..dlm bhs melayu plak ; bg sebab @ alasan....
kot x phm lg..x tau lah ..

sue_0684

ikaizraa posted on 22-8-2013 11:38 AM
awal kapel ok jer. kalau blh stiap saat nak msg. siap vc bagai. kite pulak naik rimas. lately ni j ...

itu yg aku pelik tu TT..xkkan tiap2 hari/mlm jumpa cust..
CEO company pon x dak camtu..

ikaizraa

sue_0684 posted on 22-8-2013 01:43 PM
itu yg aku pelik tu TT..xkkan tiap2 hari/mlm jumpa cust..
CEO company pon x dak camtu..

hah tau pon. sbb tu la i rs curiga. bile i tny, dia dah start panas. x fhm btul. lantak p la. la ni i dah mls nk tny2 lg da. dia x msg pun xpe la.

missus_meow

sue_0684 posted on 22-8-2013 01:40 PM
alamak..tukaq lah..dlm bhs melayu plak ; bg sebab @ alasan....
kot x phm lg..x tau lah ..:lo ...

Ade org kata sebab n alasan same , ade org kabo lain. Ade pelbagai versi difinisi

sue_0684

ikaizraa posted on 22-8-2013 01:45 PM
hah tau pon. sbb tu la i rs curiga. bile i tny, dia dah start panas. x fhm btul. lantak p la. la n ...

bg aku kenapa nk mrh2 plak kalo x da apa2..so ko kena pndai2 lah perati,crik apa2 info..

sue_0684

missus_meow posted on 22-8-2013 01:57 PM
Ade org kata sebab n alasan same , ade org kabo lain. Ade pelbagai versi difinisi

lg tepat yg kakak meow letak dlm english td...reason @ excuse?..