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Post time 29-6-2018 08:42 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
TT pergi la improve kan you punya make love skill. kita sebagai isteri tak bole tadah je nnt suami bosan. at least you kena tunjuk skill sendiri masa make love supaya suami terkesima tak sangka bini sendiri pun ada usaha nk improve that skill. you kena rajin workout supaya kaki you kuat & stamina tinggi sebab bila posisi you kt atas, peha you akan cepat lenguh kalau kurang stamina. apa yg nampak suami you nakkan layanan istimewa dari you. mungkin layanan you yg biasa menyebabkan suami kurang minat nk bersama.
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Post time 29-6-2018 09:22 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Edited by Genkidesuka at 29-6-2018 09:24 PM

Assalammu'alaikum n selamat sejahtera.

TT, bersiap-sedia je la.  Kuatkan ur spirit n ur mental.  Dekatkn diri dgn Allah swt.  Mungkin it is nothing.  Tp mungkin juga u r emotionally abused.  Sad to say, ramai org lelaki kita spt tk aware pun hal ni.  U mest kuat la.  Ur marriage pun baru je. Kita khwin kerana Allah dn menuruti sunnah amalan rasulullah.  Kita pgg tu je la.  Pedulikan je la perangai suami tu.  Dia manusia tk sempurna.  Normal la rasa sedih bila dia buat gitu.  Tp jgn terbw2 sedih tu.  Telan n lupakan.

Kita tk boleh ubah suami tp kita boleh belajar on how to deal with it.  Dia nk compare ke, nk undermine whatever u do tu lantak dia la.  Nk nengok pompuan lain pun, bukan kita boleh control mata dia kan.  Agak2 ada pompuan tasty lalu tu, elakla dari glancing his way. Tk usah ambik tau pun dia tgk ke tk.  Ignorance is a bliss.  Doa je la masa tu harap2 jgn la dia berzina mata lg.  Harap2 dia ingat dosa pahala.

Don't let him make u tk happy.  Don't let his remarks buat u susah hati sampai tk tido mlm.  Don't let him or others take ur sense of self-esteem.  Apa dia buat, apa dia ckp... it is not ur fault... unless mmg u yg bermasalah, I hope not.  

TT sabar ye.  Sabarlah setinggi langit.  Allah bersama2 org yg sabar.  Doakan keampunan utk suami dn pohon kpd Allah agar dia berubah.  Didik anak2 betul2 so that they won't repeat the same mistakes.  Semoga ibu2 di sini menjadi ibu2 yg mukminah.  *hugs*
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Post time 29-6-2018 10:57 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
XXSHUSHUXX replied at 29-6-2018 01:36 PM
jadinya kita org pmpuan pn xyah pikir sgt la ea?
kalau terasa hati pujuk sndri la. hmm

X payah merajuklah.. nanti tt yg pujuk diri sendiri... laki nan hadoooo
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Post time 30-6-2018 12:30 AM | Show all posts
zuri154 replied at 29-6-2018 08:42 PM
TT pergi la improve kan you punya make love skill. kita sebagai isteri tak bole tadah je nnt suami b ...

Wow...I like ur words babe...truly speaking from experience... and yes ure right too about improving ur skills on the bed... so actually after all, watching porn(good one that u can learn) is the best source f material to learn how to improve it

Sex is never something dirty once ure married coz its hlal sex...so make the best in haing sex with ur partner


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Post time 30-6-2018 07:52 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Kak-Leen replied at 29-6-2018 03:15 PM
Selalu kita dengar org ckp “asal berlaki” Dlm kes ni akak tgk mcm “ asal berbini”
Cuba tt at ...

Hahaha tgk syok baca masalah orang, jumpa pulak komen kak leen. Tak pernah tam kelakar haha.  Hi kak leen!
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Post time 30-6-2018 08:00 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
winsonyu replied at 29-6-2018 03:36 PM
Babe....zaman apa u ni babe?

So what kalau lelaki tengok porn dan melancap ni? u ingt lelaki aj ...

Eventhough this is not a popular opinion, but i agree.

Watching porn means he still have it. If you cant fight it, why dont you join him? Dari situ u boleh tau apa yg dia suka, macamana, his fantasy. Try cari apa yg dia suka then recreate balik. He would love that, mana tau kot dengan macam tu he will open up to you. Maybe sebelum ni sexlife korang mcm mundane je (sorry tt), so kena add a little spark to it.

Tapi tt nanti jgn la mcm tak boleh terima kalau dah tau husband punya fantasy sex. Contoh; he likes roleplaying, esp between teacher/student. Tt jgn la cakap ‘eh abang dgn cikgu pun jadi ke’. Haa tak boleh la mcmtu, dah tu fantasy sex dia. Setiap org ada fetish dia tersendiri. Try to explore sesama ya.

Good luck tt!
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 Author| Post time 30-6-2018 08:31 AM | Show all posts
1) ramai yg cakap masalah nie hanya remeh temeh. Utk i yg muda + baru kawin setahun nie, mungkin terlalu pikirkn sangat. betul jgk. lepas nie i akn kuat mentally utk just let it go n fokus pd hal yg lagi penting.

2) pasal ML, i muda & keinginan sex tu ade + aktif. But my husband.. hmm
dia pernah reject i utk BJ dia punya. i pun pelik.
dah la ML tu celup2 dah siap. I pernah buat muka cam merayu nak lagi sebab i belum puas & dia
just senyum n baring n tido. Langsung xpikir, xtnya. I betul2 macam terhegeh-hegeh paham x..

3) anyways, thread nie cam dah masuk bab sex life plak, even i tak mention dekat atas td. sori u all kalau lari tajuk
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Post time 30-6-2018 08:58 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
nfkh zahir cukup x
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Post time 30-6-2018 09:26 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
XXSHUSHUXX replied at 29-6-2018 02:56 PM
Tq bagi advise.

Mungkin betul suami Ego sangat.

Dik tt... Sori to say tapi kalau u rasa dengan happykan diri sndiri akan setel mslh, u r wrong.

I've been married for 13 years now. First 7 years mcm2 benda jadi, sampai nak bercerai berai pun ada. Sebabnya laki hakak macam laki ko la. Mata tengok pompuan lain, acuh tak acuh bila layan kita borak, lepak dengan member sampai lewat malam, sex pun jarang2. So i sampai tahap dah redha taknak kisahkan pasal dia.

Tapi bila i dah x marah2, x membebel pasal sikap dia, x sibuk tanya2 mana dia pegi, x probe dia pasal aktvt dia kat luar... suddenly dia berubah. Terus jadi loving, suka peluk2 i, suka bawak kami anak branak holiday.

Rupa2nya dia jadi turn off dgn i sblm ni sebab x suka perangai i yang macam nak control dia, membebel, merungut2, kritik macam2 pasal dia. Dia kata dia x hepi kat rumah. So bila i stop buat benda2 yg x menghepikan dia, dia pun stop buat benda2 yg x menghepikan i.

So dik, try tengok jugak sikap kita sbagai wife. I'm not trying to fully blame u, but perhaps u pun ada silap yg u tak nampak.






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Post time 30-6-2018 09:45 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
TT

Pegi make over, jgn pakai tudung labuh. Pakai shawl atau bawal yg cute tu so long baju sopan okayla.. style sikit pakai baju

kat rumah pakai short/skirt

jadi gedik sikit kat rumah

kalau x keje, pegi cari keje...antar anak kat child care

Make urself worthy

Then, lead life macam biasa, jgn sedih but act smart u kena make sure ur level tiada kurangnya jika suami acuh x acuh

Kawen ni utk happy dihargai dan enjoying marriage life incly sex.So jgn jd bini yg makan hati yg hanya sabar...do something for urself.

Doa banyak banyak but make urself independent and kalau dgn izin allah suami akan sedar dia kena appreciate bini...if benda ni continue..bila u bekerja u ada duit u independent u akan tau apa nak decide apa yg terbaik utk u.

masih muda sgt tuuu so jgn give in easily
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 Author| Post time 30-6-2018 10:19 AM | Show all posts
Genkidesuka replied at 29-6-2018 09:22 PM
Assalammu'alaikum n selamat sejahtera.

TT, bersiap-sedia je la.  Kuatkan ur spirit n ur mental.   ...

Surely, I will highlight ur advise.
Banyak yg I dah sedar dalam thread nie.
1)   Husband emotionally abused I – n I mesti kuatkuat kuat dan xboleh terbawa2 sedih tu
2)    I xboleh ubah sikap husband I – so, skrg I ygkna buat reverse balik. I kna practise utk tak ambik kisah hal dia.
I’ll try.

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 Author| Post time 30-6-2018 10:22 AM | Show all posts
Megikari replied at 30-6-2018 09:26 AM
Dik tt... Sori to say tapi kalau u rasa dengan happykan diri sndiri akan setel mslh, u r wrong.

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sebelum nie i selalu tertanya macamana pasangan lain yg survive dlm marriage berbelas berpuluh tahun.

Nie salah satu jawapan yg i dah jumpa.
tahniah, sbb dapat bina rumahtangga sejauh nie n doakn i jgk.. Tq

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 Author| Post time 30-6-2018 10:28 AM | Show all posts
adila39 replied at 30-6-2018 09:45 AM
TT

Pegi make over, jgn pakai tudung labuh. Pakai shawl atau bawal yg cute tu so long baju sopan o ...

kalau u nak tahu,

i dulu selalu pakai short dgn baju seksi. tido pakai seluar dalam je tau.
tapi, bila i lalu depan husband, dia buat2 xpndang, xtergoda pn dgn i. atau
nak sentuh2 usap i ke mmg tak pn..

sampai i rasa, "betullah, suami aku dh xterliur ngan aku yg kurus nie kot,
sbb tu dia cuci mata kt luar, kat fon." something like that la, ..

i rase cam hina, hodoh terhegeh-hegeh tau x..

betullah, mentally abuse.
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Post time 30-6-2018 01:10 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
XXSHUSHUXX replied at 30-6-2018 02:28 AM
kalau u nak tahu,

i dulu selalu pakai short dgn baju seksi. tido pakai seluar dalam je tau.

ishhh....

okay then u kena susun strategy jugakla

1. buat buat ketawa tengok hp...whatsapp ke kat kawan2 depan dia

2. buat buat selfie depan dia biar dia pikir u selfie and send to someone ke

3. improve ur love making skill, u shud lead not ur hubby

4. seduce je la hubby u tuu tho cara paksa..i think klu u syg marriage ni u kena adjust personality u, jadi agresif sikit

best of luck ok
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Post time 30-6-2018 04:51 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
XXSHUSHUXX replied at 30-6-2018 08:31 AM
1) ramai yg cakap masalah nie hanya remeh temeh. Utk i yg muda + baru kawin setahun nie, mungkin ter ...

What?? Er ok.. mungkin lelaki x suka dikejar..u cuba pula lari, biar dia pula kejar u..
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 Author| Post time 30-6-2018 09:33 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Tq semua. Lepas ape yg husband dh buat. Skrg i pn nk kna ubah cara i sndri. Dh xleh cam dulu dh. Kna jual mahal skit..
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Post time 1-7-2018 02:15 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
pitera replied at 30-6-2018 07:52 AM
Hahaha tgk syok baca masalah orang, jumpa pulak komen kak leen. Tak pernah tam kelakar haha.  Hi k ...

Heheheh...
Hai Pit!.
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Post time 1-7-2018 12:48 PM | Show all posts
adila39 replied at 30-6-2018 01:10 PM
ishhh....

okay then u kena susun strategy jugakla

Ni otai lama ni yang penuh pengalaman...kekekkeee

Otai lama winson pun sdah kembali untuk memberi nasihat pada para2 remaja kat sini yang memerlukan nasihat yang luar biasa
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Post time 1-7-2018 01:27 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
winsonyu replied at 1-7-2018 04:48 AM
Ni otai lama ni yang penuh pengalaman...kekekkeee

Otai lama winson pun sdah kembali untuk membe ...

oittt i muda laaaa  
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Post time 1-7-2018 02:29 PM | Show all posts

Orang nya mesti lah awek muda lagi
Tapi dalam forum...memang lah otai lama...baru je bis baca PM kita yang 2 tahun lepas.....hahhahahhaa
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