Apa perasaan u all bila dapat result ???....

Lana@LaraCroft

Originally posted by my-alja at 23-8-2007 01:16 PM


budak 2 thn boleh berdiri atas kaki sendiri...apa indication lain?...

oh u blom faham dengan apa yang i cuba maksudkan...hermmm...
tadi u tanya smp biler kan......apa yg wrote tu ada maksud tersurat & tersirat so u kena pandai2 laa..pikir sejenak dlm maksudnya itu...

macademia

Originally posted by Lana@LaraCroft at 23-8-2007 01:16 PM


yurp!! i agreed with u........
.-> have to know how to be a LEADER.......

jangan tak tau, every yr pihak sekolah identify  a few students yg can be a leader. SO these kids will be sent here and there for kursus and camp and apa2 activity yg berkaitan.....

siapa yg characteristicnya a follower pun, kalau cikgu rasa boleh brush up dia punya skills, akan dihantar. (And sometimes can turn to be a leader.....)

my-alja

Originally posted by macademia at 23-8-2007 01:13 PM



zaman dulu2 lain tau.....

budak2 sekarang very competitive + budak2 pun dah cerdik + parents dah jadi kiasu.... hehe

sifat kompetitif dlm diri anak2 ada 2 cara dia dapat, satu memang inborn dan satu lagi sebab didikan dan persekitaran...jadi peranan mak/ayah sgt penting....

dan me setuju dgn mac, result bagus tak bagus nie (for me)..pertandingan kiasu mak.ayah dlm masyarakat kita(sorry kalo ada yg tak puas hati)...me lagi suka dgn anak2 buat cabaran berdasarkan kemampuan dia bukan sebab anak2 lain cerdik drp dia...

mac pun pernah sebut dulu, kalo result kali nie 90, bulan depan mungkin 92...dan seterusnya , nampak saingan begini lebih sihat drp nak dapat top in the class...

my 1 cent

macademia

Originally posted by my-alja at 23-8-2007 01:20 PM


paham mac....tu sebab moulding anak2 nie perlu,tak kisahlah dia nak jadi leader ke atau follower, nie pun berkait rapat dgn inborn character pd anak2 gak...

tapi me punya soalan sampai man ...

tgk the child la..... as I've shared pasal my 4 kids, they become independent at different ages......

my-alja

Originally posted by Lana@LaraCroft at 23-8-2007 01:20 PM


oh u blom faham dengan apa yang i cuba maksudkan...hermmm...
tadi u tanya smp biler kan......apa yg wrote tu ada maksud tersurat & tersirat so u kena pandai2 laa..pikir sejenak dlm maksudnya ...

sebab tak tahulah me tanya ..myson blom masuk sekolah formal pun, jad me nak tahu serba sket ilmu mak2 dlm nie....i think i can guide my son sampai dia habis PMR, if i want....tapi me tak rasa cara tu sihat?....then u tell me how do you know ur kids are ready to be on their own

my-alja

Originally posted by macademia at 23-8-2007 01:29 PM



tgk the child la..... as I've shared pasal my 4 kids, they become independent at different ages......

apa yg me noticed, mac let go anak u bila dah masuk secondary

macademia

Originally posted by my-alja at 23-8-2007 01:31 PM



sebab tak tahulah me tanya ..myson blom masuk sekolah formal pun, jad me nak tahu serba sket ilmu mak2 dlm nie....i think i can guide my son sampai dia habis PMR, if i want....tapi me tak ...

cara mac nak tau anak ready?

mmm... kalau nak exam... kita suruh belajar.... 2 kali jerit then dia pergi ngadap buku (and dia khusyuk n pay attention)..... maknanya dia taula tanggungjawab dia.... ( my no 1)

kalau 5 kali jerit pun tak baca buku.... pastu bila paksa dia duduk kat meja, mata dia pandang sini sana, cuit sini sana...... maknanya tak ready lagi la tu..... ( my no2 and no 4)

kalau kita tak suruh apa2, dia yg datang kat kita, tanya kita, ada tak lagi exercises yg boleh di buat, ada tak buku revision yg baru, dia nak baca......mmmm..... CONFIRM dia ni minat nak belajar........ (my no 3)

macademia

Originally posted by my-alja at 23-8-2007 01:36 PM


apa yg me noticed, mac let go anak u bila dah masuk secondary

yup..... masa secondary, i let go TOTALLY.

Time primary, walaupun i let go, i still monitor sbb ada UPSR ....


ALAMAK>...... now mac terpikir, kalau let go masa secondary, camana nak monitor PMR dia kan?????

my-alja

haaaa...camni lah jawapannya....terima kasihh

my son baru 6 thn, tiap2 hari dia akan buat 3 pages of calculation...2 pages of comprehension, 2 pages of phonic worksheet, 2 pages of jawi...reading each english and bahasa...

yg bagusnya, me tak pernah duduk sebelah dia bila dia buat semua latihan nie sebab me kena bagi adik dia tido dlm bilik(mak dia pun tido sekali)....setaipkali ada spelling kat kelas, dia cuma tunjuk sticker sebab dapat semua btol...itu pun me tak pernah buat preparation....(kalo diam aje tu, takdelah dapat semua btol kann)

tu sebab me nak tahu gak cara mak2 lain, at least my dapat agak cara nak approach anak nie nanti bila masuk sekolah btol...dan me tak berapa suka kalo anak nie too dependant on me for his result..

thanks mac

Lana@LaraCroft

Originally posted by macademia at 23-8-2007 01:40 PM



cara mac nak tau anak ready?

mmm... kalau nak exam... kita suruh belajar.... 2 kali jerit then dia pergi ngadap buku (and dia khusyuk n pay attention)..... maknanya dia taula tanggungjaw ...

oh! mac 2 kali eh?
Lana sekali jerk...terus dorang (my twins) naik atas amik buku then masing2 tanya masing2...segmen soal jawab between them... i jadik tukang dengar...(rotan mesti ader) klu salah tegur dulu...klu 2 3 kali tegur salah lagi...apa lagi babap ler

My doter tak perlu suruh tak perlu cakap (she's 4 yrs old)....mmg suka mengadap buku..pendek kata hari2 mengadap buku....yang paling dia suka drawing + painting...next year baru nk anta kindergarten..

so far i spend my time to melukis mahupun mewarna sama2 dengan dorang ...they enjoyed!! yieeehaaaaa

my-alja

a'ah mac....itu pun satu persoalan gakk

apa yg me risau, bila anak2 dah terbiasa dipantau oleh mak...nanti dia tak tahu nak buat apa bila dah masuk asrama...

seingat me dulu(beside our silibbbbus)...anak2 dulu kalo pandai dpat 5A dlm penialain memang purely sebab kecerdikkan mereka, dan sifat2 bagus dlm diri sendiri...jadi anak2 nie punya kelebihan bila masuk asrama/uni mana sekalipun dia boleh survive...sebab sifat tu memang ada dlm diri ...

anak2 sekarang dapat result bagus sebab mak all out membantu anak2 nie...jadi me takut nanti, bila anak masuk asrama dan takde tuition anak nie takleh nak perform....

cemana mac?

macademia

Originally posted by my-alja at 23-8-2007 01:49 PM
haaaa...camni lah jawapannya....terima kasihh

my son baru 6 thn, tiap2 hari dia akan buat 3 pages of calculation...2 pages of comprehension, 2 pages of phonic workshe ...

my no 3 sebijik macam yr son masa 6 tahun......

SHe will do whatever exercises she can put her hands on, and buat sendiri sorang2...... sambil berdiri kat tepi meja dia.... hehe (dia ni kalau tak tegur, masa makan pun dia berdiri)

if this is the case.... senang la u..... bukan senang tau nak dapat anak camni....

macademia

Originally posted by Lana@LaraCroft at 23-8-2007 01:51 PM


oh! mac 2 kali eh?
Lana sekali jerk...terus dorang (my twins) naik atas amik buku then masing2 tanya masing2...segmen soal jawab between them... i jadik tukang dengar...(rotan mesti ader) kl ...

hehe.... kena more than once lana..... penyakit M tu tetap ada......

eee....bestnya ada twins   

my-alja

itulah mac....anak2 nie kalo kita observe btol2, ada sifat2 depa genuinely inborn....samada positif atau negatif

yg bestnya, kalo cam ur 3rd doter dgn my son nie...kita kena perang dia dgn benda2 lain...btol tak? ...jadi rasanya,apa2 jenis anak yg kita dapat memang dugaan utk kita

macademia

Originally posted by my-alja at 23-8-2007 01:55 PM
a'ah mac....itu pun satu persoalan gakk

apa yg me risau, bila anak2 dah terbiasa dipantau oleh mak...nanti dia tak tahu nak buat apa bila dah masuk asrama...

seingat me dulu(beside our s ...

good question. MAc mmg discuss benda ni dgn my good friend since awal tahun lagi. Tapi susahla nak kasi answer. (both our eldest masuk asrama)

Tapi let me share u what my girl cakap.

- "Mama, now i know how budak lain bertungkus lumus belajar"
- "Mama, kat sini, the kids play very hard, and study very2 hard"
- "Mama, now i realize that all this while, I wasted a lot of time doing nonsence"
- "Mama, now i realize the importance of time management"

So now, sebenarnya, apa yg mac nasihatkan dia dulu, dia tak percaya sangat. But now dia tgk dengan mata dia sendiri how budak lain berlumba2 nak belajar.... and mac lihat that she realizes the importance of studying. Compared to dulu, dia belajar hanya sebab mac yg suruh...

Tapi sekarang dia belajar without anyone asking her to do..... (tapi  terpikir jugak mac... cukup ke apa yg dia blajar tu?)

[ Last edited by  macademia at 23-8-2007 02:22 PM ]

macademia

Originally posted by my-alja at 23-8-2007 02:15 PM
itulah mac....anak2 nie kalo kita observe btol2, ada sifat2 depa genuinely inborn....samada positif atau negatif

yg bestnya, kalo cam ur 3rd doter dgn my son nie...kita kena perang dia dgn ben ...

anak no3 mac ni garang sesangat.... hehe, kadang2 bila mac sakat dia, dia cubit mac....  sakit tau

Lana@LaraCroft

Originally posted by macademia at 23-8-2007 02:02 PM



hehe.... kena more than once lana..... penyakit M tu tetap ada......

eee....bestnya ada twins   

hehhee

my-alja

Originally posted by macademia at 23-8-2007 02:17 PM



good question. MAc mmg discuss benda ni dgn my good friend since awal tahun lagi. Tapi susahla nak kasi answer. (both our eldest masuk asrama)

Tapi let me share u what my girl cakap.

...

ermmm...gud for her too, at least she can learn from others...

kalo dah ada kesedaran camtu, legalah skit mac...dia dah tahu cemana nak handle herself better in the new enviroment...

satu lagi hubby selalu pesan, make sure anak u exam-efficient

my-alja

Originally posted by macademia at 23-8-2007 02:19 PM



anak no3 mac ni garang sesangat.... hehe, kadang2 bila mac sakat dia, dia cubit mac....  sak

it tau

kalo tak salah i...3rd doter yg byk tanya soalan kann? ...bolehlah kawan dgn myson

bebaru nie sebelum pi sekolah dia tanya...napa rainbow takde warna hitam and brown?

sari_apot

H-A-P-P-Y sgt

tapi tu kalau dpt markah 100%

kalau ade salah tu , i semak le jugak... kalau salah dia benda yg tak sepatutnye, mmg saje carik nahas leee...

pastu nanti i kasilah hadiah mcm cokelat keee...

tapi ade satu je yg sy pegang, jgn kate dia pandai ... i ckp kat dia ni baru sikit, byk lagi yg dia tak tau...

takut nanti jadi cam i kat skolah dulu... org asyik ckp i pandai, so i pun jadi malas... rase mcm ape yg belajar kat skolah tu kacang je...