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Tak Perlu Jadi Bodoh Untuk Cepat Dapat Jodoh - Sharifah Amani
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Bila prof serba tau nk jd pkr jodoh tp terlajak kata terpaksa la penjilat melayu bersusah pyh nk mngkn prof serba tau.
Aku pnh je tgk rncgn dia cite yg suami dia pnh nangis masa dia nk sambung bljr (berjauhan) trs ajk tunang ke kawen. Ms ni dia nmpk berbangga ya cerita seolah2 laki dia berharap sgt smpi nangis sedangkn dia relaks je.
Dlm konteks dia aku xnmpk pon dia bodo2 dgn laki dia. Dominant ada lah. Hanya kerana dia dh berlaki xperlu pndg rendah org yg x bertemu jodoh lagi. Byk skli yg aku jumpa wanita sopan yg xada pon jdoh.. Bkn jns nk mng tp jdoh ttp x sampai..
Knp nk berpura2 bodo? Lelaki tu sendri kne ubah sikap, pttnya didik laki igt tggjwb bkn wanita kne jd bodo2..
Klu dia jns bodo2, tntu laki dia dh tegur jgn ckp sekian2, tp nmpknua lki dia x brani nk tegur sbb dia bkn wanita bodo2 |
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tapi sharifah Amani jangan pula perasan bijak bila sampai sekarang tak laku laku
muahahhaahhaahahhahahhaha............ |
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beta_carotene replied at 10-6-2021 05:07 PM
dia ckp "i sound stupid when i speak malay"
pandangan 1: dia mengata dirinya sendiri sbb bodoh ...
Walaupun iols anti audit diri muhaya dan kemercapuban beliau nak menjadi motivator, iols boleh jah relate konteks bodo2 acik muhaya cuba sampaikan.. so called yang agak cerdik able to think bodoh naw nak succumb to berita yang cuba sensasikan maksud bodo2 itu.. walhal kalau tak tengok video pun jelas kot boleh faham maksud acik motivator fake tersebut. Kalau netizen dan forumer bodoh tu iols senyum sinis jah memasing cuba merempan isu choi tersebut. Si saripah amani ini bukannya kategori artis bimbo |
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Ksian,dah bodoh ta bjodoh pulak |
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Dia Sama mcm perkataan gila dan gila-gila... Dia seorang yg gila-gila tapi bkn bermaksud dia gila.
Apa yg prof ckp tu sekadar perkongsian dan menjawab soalan seseorang. Wanita yg xboleh nak ikut, xpayah ikut. Chillex sudah lah. Tak berdosa pun turunkan ego cerdik pandai uolls tu utk dptkan jodoh. Nak tinggi sangat ego tu nak bwk sampai kemana?
Lagi sekali sekadar perkongsian, 'bodoh-bodoh' dgn 'diperbodohkan' lain maksudnya k. |
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beta_carotene replied at 10-6-2021 05:07 PM
dia ckp "i sound stupid when i speak malay"
pandangan 1: dia mengata dirinya sendiri sbb bodoh ...
Dah lama setuju dgn pandangan 1.. utk prof muhaya pon setuju dgn pendapat beta.. |
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ramai salah faham konteks ayat yg cuba disampaikan
aku first tgk pn mcm nk marah
tp bila tgk byk kali, faham la, mksud prof bla dh kawen pmpuan buat la x reti pape, sbb kita ada husband yg boleh diharapkan, so lelaki akan rasa diperlukan
tapi aku tak setuju part jodoh tu,
jodoh tu dh tertulis bila n bagaimana n siapa
so jgn la nk memandai ckp sbb hormon or apa
prof ni dlu yg jugak ckp prempuan yg malang adalah yg salah pilih suami
mana ada perempuan yg nk kawin untuk cerai n derita????
n dlm setiap talk dia psl kawen,
semuanya akan salahkan wanita,
hurmmmm |
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I think maksud Prof tu, more to bodoh-bodoh, jangan tunjuk pandai and superior sangat, nanti lelaki takut nak masuk meminang. Everything should be modestly and modesty.
I think, orang kaya, orang bijak, orang cantik, mereka ada kelebihan yang membuat sesetengah lelaki rasa 'gerun'.
My opinion is open to disagreement. |
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lazim replied at 10-6-2021 09:04 PM
Bila prof serba tau nk jd pkr jodoh tp terlajak kata terpaksa la penjilat melayu bersusah pyh nk mn ...
Setujuuuuuu sgtttttt |
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Kaktusmati replied at 10-6-2021 04:23 PM
aku setuju untuk statement jadi bodoh2 sikit lepas kahwin tu..
tapi sangat tak setuju dengan stat ...
Betul!!! Kalau dah kawen nk act ngadeW ngn laki kau xpe lah. Just to make him feel like he’s needed in the house. Xdelah bosan kalau kau je pandai smua bnda kat rumah taw. So xpe kalau dah kawen nk ngade2 bodoh. Tu kira nk manja lah dgn si suami n depends on every marriage couple Mcm mne nk act coy in their marriage.
Tapi iols SGT2 X SETUJU NK KNE ACT BODOH2 sbb nk attract jodoh. APORRR???? why we need to downgrade ourselves just to get men? Is marriage so important in life??? Kalau x kawen tu kira malang? X berjaya?? Go to hell lah. Kalau men rse inferior dgn capabilities of women, then MEN SHOULD TRY HARDER!!! Just like my hubs. Kenapa jodoh pun nk salah kan perempuan???? Hadoyyy lah. So girls who are still single dun ever downgrade/degrade yourselves. Trust god plan and trust me, men with bigger hands and bold enough to treat you like a queen will eventually come through. Xyah act bodo2. Kalau buat bodo2 kang dapat yg ntah pape. Jodoh@kawen ni utk seumur hidup and facing ups and downs together bukan setakat tangkap muat je. Fokus on yourself for the time being until the right time comes. All the best!!! Cheerios!!! |
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Kaktusmati replied at 10-6-2021 04:23 PM
aku setuju untuk statement jadi bodoh2 sikit lepas kahwin tu..
tapi sangat tak setuju dengan stat ...
Definately! |
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MyLadyMarmalade replied at 10-6-2021 07:40 PM
I am married but i still think it's downgrading. Tak kan sebab jodoh tak sampai kena buat bodoh siki ...
Ada 2 cousins iols support perempuan kena bodoh2. Sorang laki dah kahwin lain 7 tahun lepas, pastu x bagi nafkah x balik rumah.
Sorang lagi laki kantoi curang n campak hp laki dalam semak. Lol |
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MyLadyMarmalade replied at 10-6-2021 07:40 PM
I am married but i still think it's downgrading. Tak kan sebab jodoh tak sampai kena buat bodoh siki ...
Agreed!!! I commented the same. Dia ckp bukan Lepas kawen ye, tapi SEBELUM. It makes A LOT OF DIFFERENCE!! I dun agree when people said to read@understand her statement between the lines, but in fact diorang sendiri x fhm the concept in the 1st place. The gist is that - she asked women to be bodoh2 BEFORE MARRIAGE. So understand that fact first before making comments yg perempuan kne yadda2. I’m married too but I totally DISAGREE WITH this. |
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Women, she said that for those who are still single! Context dia tu utk anak dara yg belum berkahwin! What was she promoting? Self-blaming! What was she adding? Pressure!
To single ladies out there: you do not have to change to attract a man. Please. Do not downgrade yourself for a man. Being intellectual and smart is not a problem.
If a man avoids you because you are smarter than him, it's a good thing.
Kau tak perlu usaha nak please dia and feed ego lelaki ya. It's not your job to make a man acts like one.
Jodoh tu dah ditetapkan oleh Tuhan. Dia akan datang bila sampai masanya. In the meantime, just live. It's not your fault that you are still single! No, it is not! Just be yourself.
Stop promoting self-blaming! Let the girls enjoy their time! |
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luluaurora replied at 10-6-2021 11:57 PM
ramai salah faham konteks ayat yg cuba disampaikan
aku first tgk pn mcm nk marah
tp bila tgk byk k ...
Yes...this is the turning point i turn off giler ngan dia..i xleh brain statemnet tu... |
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doodlediddle replied at 11-6-2021 12:36 AM
Agreed!!! I commented the same. Dia ckp bukan Lepas kawen ye, tapi SEBELUM. It makes A LOT OF DIFF ...
Exactly..kalau orang dah kawen pun rasa mcm tu, what makes u think those tak kawen lg tak marah or annoyed? Baiklaaaa x kawen dari kena buat bodo-bodo lps tu kena layan mcm alas kaki je. |
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iena_jr replied at 11-6-2021 12:33 AM
Ada 2 cousins iols support perempuan kena bodoh2. Sorang laki dah kahwin lain 7 tahun lepas, pastu ...
Hahaha just bcoz it feeds their ego |
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Ada kenal seorang lelaki yg pernah berkahwin dgn seorg wanita yg independent semua tahu buat tapi bercerai..
Bila dia kawin baru dia ckp dia harap isteri dia yg ni tak terlalu independent dan selalu mengharap kat dia bila buat sesuatu..
So aku paham apa yg Prof tu cuba nak sampaikan cuma cara dia ckp bodo2 tu macam tak kena..macam merendahkan taraf wanita gituhhh |
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MyLadyMarmalade replied at 10-6-2021 07:40 PM
I am married but i still think it's downgrading. Tak kan sebab jodoh tak sampai kena buat bodoh siki ...
Setuju dgn u. Bodoh sikit means rendah ego what?. I cant relate. Just because a person translate this into rendahkan ego. Tak relate lah. Finding a soul mate ni kena ade strategi, not only feeding a man's ego. They lead us, we care for them. But we also care for ourselves. Bukan rendah ego laki terus syg. Ada je laki makin meluat tgok ko semata semua bende harap kat dia. |
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Zeatyisaac replied at 11-6-2021 12:13 AM
I think maksud Prof tu, more to bodoh-bodoh, jangan tunjuk pandai and superior sangat, nanti lelaki ...
I beg to differ.
Perkataan bodoh2 tu tak relate langsung dgn be dominant in relationship.
Dont be dominant, be bodoh2. Is it relatable? No isnt it. Just say, u dont have to be dominant if u are searching for a spouse. Or dont be ego.
Ego lawan die bukan bodoh2
But merendah diri. Bodoh2 tu tak relate dgn org rendah diri i must say. |
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Post time 10-6-2021 09:04 PM
