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"Lelaki Suka Perempuan Lembut, Bodoh-Bodoh Sikit,"-Prof Muhaya Dihenta
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Edited by stingerforever at 10-6-2021 06:21 AM
mbhcsf replied at 9-6-2021 06:25 PM
perkahwinan tu arrange marriage ke atau atas pilihan sendiri ke camne?
Pantang nampak ivy league....
Your tots on this isu? |
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Aku ni malas nak maki,sumpah kata x elok ngan prof x sedar diri. Memang patut sangat kena kecam. Sekolah tinggi pun bodoh jugak ke. Btw Aku pun kawen lambat jugak. Aku xdela bodohkan diri Aku depan lelaki. Aku mmg garang,tegas Dan kasar. Independent sgt2. Sebab dah single lama. From head to toe kena buat sendiri. Tetiba Ada org berkenan dgn perangai Aku jenis garang. My toklaki terima Aku dgn seadanya. Plus,dia suka garang n tegas aku. Sebab toklaki jenis lembut. Allah dah cipta manusia ni berpasangan. Dan saling melengkapi antara satu sama lain. Pada org jodohnya Belum sampai,x perlu jadi bodoh depan laki. Jadila diri sendiri. Kalau Allah perintahkan jadila,jadila ia. Jangan rasa down sgt. |
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zennaya replied at 10-6-2021 06:21 AM
Aku ni malas nak maki,sumpah kata x elok ngan prof x sedar diri. Memang patut sangat kena kecam. Sek ...
Bak kata anak jiran aku yg 3 tahun 7 bulan dari pemerhatiannya.....the price the women pay today for being too independent...is having soulmate degenerating into complacency and eventually commodore lizard....
Hmmmm |
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Eeekennd replied at 10-6-2021 01:11 AM
Kalau da kawen nk tunjuk bodoh boleh lh depan laki ko jugak... Nie dye suruh perempuan belum kawen j ...
Bodoh dlm konteks(kind of giving in) dlm memberi ruang serta peluang untuk kaum laki lebih menonjolkan kepimpinannya....sometimes lelaki ini perlu diangkat sedemikian supaya mereka dapat merasakan yg kepimpinan dlm diri mereka iteww need utk diperlihatkan..
Its a reverse saikology sebenarnya...buat kaum lelaki....
Bak kata anak jiran aku yg 3 tahun 7 bulan ...if you you are indeed smart...just utk bodoh bodoh alangkan diri utk tidak melihatkan suami iteww kurang dari kita...tak salah kheunz?
Hmmm |
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Aku lihat ramai cerdik bijak dalam tred ini tapi lebih bersifat emosi dan tidak dapat melihat perkara yg disampaikan iteww dari sudut yg lebih besar penghayatannya....
Iteww yg disebut ilmu tanpa roh......bak kata anak jiran aku yg 3 tahun dan 7 bulan.....
Nasib baik ada FULLBRIGHT scholar dikalangan kita to provide check and balance dlm tred yg agak panas begini...
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Ada juga pihak stesen tv yang tolol iaitu Astro masih ambil perempuan ni jadi motivator
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Triggered bila dia kata kalo kita lambat kahwin kena check kita punya character mcm mana. Like siapa dia nk judge kita. I feel humiliated as someone yg in 30's tapi tak kahwin lg. I choose to tak nak settle down utk someone yg i tak yakin i blh hidup sama2 dgn dia. I ada i punya dream sendiri. Kalo Allah kata takde jodoh utk i dkt dunia ni nak buat mcm mana. Senang je dia nak suruh kita check character kita. Dia blh pengaruhi org lain hmm lps ni org lain pun akan judge kita kata character kita tak elok that's why la kita tak kahwin lg |
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Jiddin replied at 10-6-2021 01:44 AM
Gile kentang. Fanatik prof muhaya telah buat smpi fb beberapa influencer disekat!
Plg kesian Syed ...
Dr har ada counter comment ke u...suka dr har ni...tegas dlm lembut |
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matjerk replied at 10-6-2021 06:14 AM
Bapokkkk
Harga yahudi sungguh
Ats reason ape yg ltk harga smpi gini
Die cantum2 benang smpi jd kain ke
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I sejak dulu memang menyampah dgn prof ni
Dia rasa dia aje yg betul, terpaling pandai konon
Nasihat2 dia pun rubbish jelah
Buang masa je |
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Orang ramai pertahan Dr. Muhaya
Oleh KOSMO!
9 Jun 2021, 8:48 pm
PETALING JAYA – Orang ramai pertahankan kenyataan pakar motivasi, Prof. Datuk Dr. Muhaya Mohamad yang dikecam netizen selepas memuat naik sebuah video berkaitan jodoh di laman media sosialnya hari ini.
Video yang memaparkan Muhaya menyatakan seorang wanita “biarlah macam bodoh-bodoh sikit” jika mahu cepat mendapat jodoh turut dibidas pelatih pakar bedah, Dr. Nur Amalina Che Bakri di laman Twitter.
Sebalik kecaman yang diterima susulan perkongsian video itu, ramai netizen mempertahankan kenyataan Muhaya apabila rata-ratanya menganggap mesej daripada video itu telah disalah tafsir.
“Kalau baca yang tersirat, Prof. Muhaya sebenarnya tekankan pasal perlunya bertolak ansur, toleransi dalam hubungan suami isteri,” kata seorang netizen Alexis King.
Seorang lagi netizen, Din Don berkata, rata-rata netizen dalam kalangan orang muda kini tidak begitu faham bahasa kiasan.
“Orang lama-lama sahaja yang faham apa maksud Prof. Muhaya,” kata seorang lagi netizen, Norarlena.
Terdahulu, Muhaya menyatakan kedudukan lelaki masih sebagai ketua dan imam bagi seorang wanita walau jawatan seseorang wanita itu lebih tinggi.
Katanya, wanita perlu meraikan kepimpinan lelaki dan tidak terlalu sibuk mahu berdiri sama tinggi dengan lelaki dan terlalu mahu berdikari kerana boleh mengakibatkan lambat dapat jodoh.
“Orang lelaki suka wanita lemah lembut, yang mengharapkan, suka ditolong. Biarlah macam bodoh-bodoh sikit,” katanya. – K! ONLINE
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Arwah Atuk I once said, jadilah orang perempuan yang berpendidikan, ada gaji, pegang duit sendiri, independent. Belajar pandai pandai. Jangan mengharapkan lelaki sebab kita tak tahu apa akan jadi akan datang. Ini arwah atuk I, yang dah meninggal hampir 10 years. Berbeza dengan nasihat Prof Muhaya, yang seolah olah tidak menggalakan pencapaian wanita dalam macam macam bidang hal. |
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stingerforever replied at 10-6-2021 06:49 AM
Aku lihat ramai cerdik bijak dalam tred ini tapi lebih bersifat emosi dan tidak dapat melihat perkar ...
Btol u ckp.i pon setuju dgn statemnt beliau dlu bhawa wanita yg pling malang adalah yg silap pilih suami... |
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hahahaha terbatuk pulak.
Pompuan tak suka laki keje gomen ke? (aku tanya je sebab kami lakinini keje swasta)
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Pompuan bodo utk lelaki yg bodo. Pompuan pandai utk laki yg pandai. Tuhan tu maha adil. |
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Silap laa Prof pilih perkataan "bodoh" tu .apa kata guna perkataan "manja2", ai rasa better..bt perangai manja2 ngn laki.. highly educated tp pemilihan kata pun tak reti ke?and prof nak kata prof pn bt bodoh2 jgk laa kt toklaki tu y bleh kawin awal? 
And ayat dia y ckp suruh tgk personaliti,prof igt boleh pakai ke skrg?y ai tgk kawin awal,cerai awal pstu pmpuan lgsg xleh berdikari,last2 jual nasi lemak janda anak 3..pstu y dah kawin awal pn kemain berskandal sana sini .tu ke ideal jodoh awal y prof nak?
Nak kawin sbb apa?nak lelaki rasa kelelakian dia?rasanya Nabi pun xde suruh bini2 dia berkelakuan "bodoh2" kan?y ai tgk bini2 Nabi semua jenis tegas tp ada lembutnya..y Siti Khadijah lmbt jodoh,sbb personaliti dia y takde "bodoh2" ke prof?tny aje~ |
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terlajak perahu boleh diundur...paham jer apa nak disampaikan tapi salah guna lengok bahasa sakitkan ati sme org ... 4 dara duduk di tepi sungai, duduk menjerat si ketamlah batuk... ha masuk!! |
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Ophthalmologist Muhaya deletes video telling women to ‘act dumb’ in order to find a spouse after public backlash
Wednesday, 09 Jun 2021 05:05 PM MYT
BY MELANIE CHALIL
PETALING JAYA, June 9 — Women wondering why they are still single should keep their ambition in check and stop trying to outdo men, says ophthalmologist Prof Datuk Dr Muhaya Mohamad.
The doctor and motivational speaker courted controversy online after uploading a now-deleted video advising women on ways to end their singlehood.
Her tips included telling women to “act dumb” because men prefer docile partners with “lots of oestrogen” and that women need to be helped by their male counterparts.
The well-known doctor who often promotes medical and religious content on social media also erroneously equated women’s drive to succeed in their careers to high levels of testosterone.
“Stop trying to liberate yourself to be equal to men, no,” she said.
It’s a given, she said, that women with “high testosterone and a lot of drive, who want to be independent and achieve things” will find a partner late in life.
Prof Muhaya subscribed to the view that women must celebrate male leadership and strength as prescribed by God.
She reminded women that no matter how successful they are in the workplace, when it comes to religion, women will always be behind men.
“All imams are men, prophets were also men.
“Let’s say in the office you have a general worker who’s male and a female CEO, when you’re praying, the man is still leading you no matter what,” she said.
Malaysians did not hold back from slamming the television personality for her outdated views on gender roles.
“If women are too independent, we would have high testosterone? I would rather be single if my stupidity attracts my future spouse,” wrote @empthyshadoww who uploaded a snippet of the video on Twitter.
“Why must we downgrade ourselves? Already the world doesn’t respect women and now we have to insult ourselves?” added @swaroseki.
Many also expressed anger over the transformational speaker’s damaging message to young women, including London-based Malaysian surgeon Dr Amalina Bakri.
Prof Muhaya who has more than half a million followers on Instagram has yet to respond to her latest video, which she has since removed due to backlash.
She has also disabled comments on her Instagram posts after receiving an outburst of criticism from the public.
Prof Muhaya previously made headlines in January this year after urging those who face anxiety to stop taking their medication and ignore their psychiatrist’s advice.
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mcm couple terpaling yg paling berNILAI kat mesia ni? hihahihahiha
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salmon-suki replied at 10-6-2021 07:51 AM
Silap laa Prof pilih perkataan "bodoh" tu .apa kata guna perkataan "manja2", ai rasa better..bt pera ...
Alasan org ramai, ni bhs org2 lama. Aiyooo..bhs lama kejadah. Dh awak tu bkn motivator, sbb tu suka ckp merepek2. Konon2 dia je yg terpaling. |
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Post time 10-6-2021 06:20 AM
