ni kesan anak dimewahkan sangat...

casper_cute1

Originally posted by shidahameera at 13-8-2008 10:00 AM




aiyooo..ada jugak yer orang puji diri sendiri cantik.

ado-ado....mentang2 lah me ni bukan miss malaysia wakakakakakakakaka tp IQ me tinggi lagi dr dia...

casper_cute1

Originally posted by paulinevoon at 13-8-2008 10:17 AM
sama badge dgn akak aku ni hehehe.. akak aku kata awek2 melayu yg join contest tu semua sosiol habis.. ada yg kena tangkap sbb kuar dr otel mlm2 buta n kena sack terus

sorry off topic.. tak t ...

oo ya ker...kakak ko nama per poline? jiran ku ni mewakili johor...tgk gaya mmg sosiol abih.

off topic: erkk dah tukor jadik topic miss malaysia plak

paulinevoon

akak aku mewakili sabah le.. ko goggle sendirik le hehe.. act. 2 org yg represent sabah.. akak aku rendah sikit dr yg lagi satu, tp cerah le hihi.. yg lagi satu tu awek kadazan.. cun gak

shidahameera

Originally posted by paulinevoon at 13-8-2008 10:29 AM
akak aku mewakili sabah le.. ko goggle sendirik le hehe.. act. 2 org yg represent sabah.. akak aku rendah sikit dr yg lagi satu, tp cerah le hihi.. yg lagi satu tu awek kadazan.. cun gak

apsal u pon tak masuk sekali?
ehhh..gadis kadazan cun, kat kolej dulu ada 2-3 orang, bila pakai baju tradisional yg hitam benang emas tu cun sungguh. Tapi kebudak melayu lelaki terpesona bila dia orang pakai baju kurung.

shidahameera

Originally posted by casper_cute1 at 13-8-2008 10:22 AM

ado-ado....mentang2 lah me ni bukan miss malaysia wakakakakakakakaka tp IQ me tinggi lagi dr dia...

kecantikan datang dari hati bukan mokanya, teringat cerita Hitamnya Hati pulak.
off topic lagi

amoy257

hi dah jadi thread miss malaysia la pulak..

casper_cute1

wakakakakakakkakakaka....poyo jer nooo

ratu_cinta

haiiiiiiiiiiiiiii

ratu_cinta

Originally posted by putubambu at 13-8-2008 09:14 AM


kalau atas masaalah kesihatan..mmg le takleh elak...

aku ada disisi wife aku
ketika dia belajar nak susukan anak
baby aku ni mulutnya kecik sangat
dia susah nak cari nipple
sepanjang mlm wife aku cuba dan cuba
sambil nangis...aku pun nangis sekali gak..terharu sangat
esok pun try gak..tak boleh gak huhuhuhu

paulinevoon

i faham perasaan u & ur wf.. sbb i pun mengalaminya, cuma hb i tak nangis sama dgn i.. its good la u sentiasa berada di sisi wf u pada saat2 mcm tu.... anak i nangis mcm nak rak sbb mcm tak puas je minum.. lepas sumbat botol susu terus tido

amoy257

sama kes ngan kakak aku..anak dia dua2 org tak minum susu bdn..takleh..susu ada, tpi anak dia mcm tak reti nak minum sbb nipple kecik kot..memang sian..berjurai2 air mata masa nak bagi anak minum susu..tapi takleh gak..sian kat dia..

HarizAzhari

Kasik je straw.

casper_cute1

Originally posted by HarizAzhari at 13-8-2008 04:05 PM
Kasik je straw.

  suka2 ko jer nak kasik straw...

nasi^impit

weh, balik pada topic asal... tq

nasi^impit

weh, balik pada topic asal... tq

ev700

Originally posted by ratu_cinta at 13-8-2008 12:36 AM
"rugilah siapa yg berlumba2 beli formula milk yang mahal kerana ALLAH kurniakan sumber yg terbaik dr dr badan kita sendiri"

wa dah jeling2 kenyataan lu kat atas
jgn ingat semua emak nak mengelak bagi susu ibu
ada juga kes -kes atas nasihat doktor
so whatttt!!!! RUGI

Indeed.... sgt2lah merugikan for both mum and baby, apatah lagi if the daddy pun sama2 tak support? Susu formula mahal camna dan depa claim bagus camna pun qualitynya far from nak sama dgn breastmilk....

Masalahnya org Malaysia ni suka percaya dgn iklan dan again I would tekankan berlumba2 to give the best formula milk for their baby, padahal yg terbaik depan mata tak nampak... I was in UK for quite long, seingat saya tak pernah saya jumpa or come across dgn pelbagai jenis iklan susu formula ni, in the market pun, i remember they have only 3 or 4 brand of formula milk, namely Farley's, SMA and Cow and gate dan susu2 ni stay on the shelves for quite long.... dan di tin susu ni stated lak breastmilk is best for your baby... ( Mcm iklan rokok merbahaya kat kotak rokok tu le...)

If u could name me nasihat doktor apakah yg membuatkan the Dr advise the mum to not BF their baby, aku boleh terpk satu je, a HIV mum... aku rasa something fishy in here.... sama Dr tu tak habis study or ada share dlm kilang buat formula milk

baby mula2 lahir mmg tak reti nak tangkap that big nipple masuk dlm mulut, tp in nature baby akan pandai sendiri... Susu ibu tu from breast bukan from nipple... And for those who had probs with big nipple or nipple tenggelam, just remember, you are breastfeeding not nipplefeeding....

Nampaknya parents mmg need an education psl breastfeed ni... kita kan parents yang educated dan berilmu... In some countries, they have a strong support group for BF ni, untuk parents yg tak faham psl breasfeed ni....  And as an IT literate parents gogglelah abt BF, contoh:  http://pediatrics.about.com/od/breastfeedingproblems/Breastfeeding_Problems.htm ... jgn cepat buat conclusion tak nak BF sbb DR tak kasi... Just remember, kita yg nak bagi the best for our own baby... DR tu... bukan anak dia pun.... Tapi if korang tak nak suka hati koranglah...

Breast is best, for baby and daddy

nasi^impit

weh, balik pada topic asal... tq

casper_cute1

Originally posted by ev700 at 14-8-2008 10:20 AM


Indeed.... sgt2lah merugikan for both mum and baby, apatah lagi if the daddy pun sama2 tak support? Susu formula mahal camna dan depa claim bagus camna pun qualitynya far from nak sama dgn br ...

anak2 sy breast feed sampai 2 bulan jer..bila start keje hari2 8 jam di tinggalkan dgn bby sitter dia org x mo breast feeding dah. paksa macam mana pun x mo jugak. cuma anak yg no 2 tu jer yg pulun sampai dekat 2 tahun. masa peknen anak ke 3 yg no 2 still breast feeding lagi. bila dah lahirkan yg no 3..sorang sebelah pulak...yg adik kanan yg abang kiri..habih nak wat camno dah dia nak...

casper_cute1

Originally posted by nasi^impit at 14-8-2008 10:21 AM
weh, balik pada topic asal... tq

ops sori2......

mclaren

fuh panas nye thread kat tengah2.

anyways. nak share jugak.

budak2 masa kecil memang jarang nampak kesan nya, tu pun if parents tak highlight the brands to them. like, those yang beli designer clothings for the kids, tak bezakan kat anak2, "haa yang ni kasut LV tau, better than the kiko that you have".

kids tak tau brand mana mahal, brand mana murah, parents yang ajar.

as for me, hardly pamper my kids with toys, be it expensive ones, or cheap ones.
we have 2 fisher prices, satu dapat hadiah, satu lagi i bought during sale kat jusco. ada some cheap ones, beli kat supermarket jugak. the fisher price dah kena humban ke lantai berpuluh kali, tp still tak pecah2, & still elok (it was a green turtle with shapes kat body dia boleh tekan2).
yang cheap toys, memang most of them lingkup after kejap je main.

so from my experience (nak disclaimer awal2, takut kena hentam pulak: maybe others punya experience berbeza) toys yang ada brand ni, ok sikit lah ketahanan nya.
having said that, i still don't indulge in expensive toys, well.. memang jarang membeli toys pun murah or mahal.

buku.. yes. memang banyaaaaak sgt buku2 beli for kids. kebetulan anak2 memang minat buku. tak pe lah, spend byk2 pun, boleh claim IRB later on. yang terlebih tak boleh claim tu, anggap je investment for ilmu.

baju.. have to admit, tho i frequent pasar malam EVERY WK sebab kat my pasar malam the vegetables are way better than cold storage, jusco, tesco, giant, etc most of the time, plus cheaper. ni kat pasar malam near my house, kat tempat orang lain may not be so, tak tau lah kan. so i buy veggies & fruits & my omega eggs at pasar malam becoz cheaper & better.
but belum pernah yet beli baju anak kat pasar malam, sebab pasar malam near my house ni, belek2 jugak the clothings for kids, tapi kain dia kurang kualiti. nak kata murah sangat pun tidak. so memang tak pernah beli yet.

kat sini kita nampak definition of 'mewah & mahal' tak sama dari seorang ke seorang. brand store jusco (jkids & jbaby) pun bukan murah sangat, normally dalam rm25.90 macam tu. tapi i admit, most of the clothings i bought from jusco etc.
brands yang my kids pakai range from laura ashley, mothercare, somerset bay... anakku, kiko, poney, etc, sampai lah ke baju sepasang rm3.90 beli from tesco. pernah jugak beli baju sehelai rm1.50, seluar rm1.50, also kat tesco. baju dia kualiti ok, so tak kisah la, rembat aje.
janji i like the material, comfy, beli. tapi i always try to get at bargain prices.

stroller memang tak pilih sangat, beli yang sederhana, tak murah, tak mahal, sweet cherry.
tapi bila comes to car seat, memang saya cerewet sikit, simpan duit, beli yang a bit high range, coz ada extra safety features & more comfy, compared to sweet cherry. tak pandang hina kat sweet cherry, tapi kalau mampu simpan duit, kumpul, tak salah beli yang a bit pricey. lagipun seats tu duduk dalam kereta, bukan nak tunjuk kat orang pun nak riak, as opposed to stroller. just for added safety.

belikan handphone kat anak? at the moment i still cringe even thinking of it. i wonder why nowadays perlu sgt budak2 darjah satu guna handphone. masa kita darjah satu dulu, apa2 emergency, how was the situation handled? mesti guru guna telefon sekolah kan, utk contact parents? why can't the same be applied now?
a bit unpractical belikan anak2 rm2k worth of handphone. even kalau mampu. too lavish IMO.

alamak panjang lah pulak.


nak share about my cousin. anak orang kaya. dah dua kali buat birthday parties utk anak dia, dah warn awal2, jangan bagi hadiah kat anak dia, tapi kalau nak bagi duit, takpe, all monetary gifts anak dia dapat, tahun ni dia plan sedeqah kan kat anak2 yatim maahad tahfiz yg susah.
tahun lepas pulak, bithday party buat kat rumah anak yatim yg susah jugak, nak bukakan mata anak dia tgk kesusahan orang lain. my cousin tu dah la anak org kaya, he himself pun loaded jugak. so we see here, kesan dia hidup mewah dulu2, tak pulak jadi spoiled dah besar ni.
their house memang mewah, living at a posh address, tapi they drive medium ranged cars. like gen.2. sebab kereta ni lambang kemewahan sebenarnya, as everyone gets to see you driving the car, but not everyone gets invited to your house.

sorry terlampau panjang.....