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Post time 13-8-2014 04:29 PM | Show all posts
try to do the right thing first.

1.be a romantik hubby. puji je bini or try to seduce her sikit.
2.kalau ko tau hari ini itu adik bos akan mari, apa kata ko terjah je office wife ko. bawak bunga.bg alasan ko ada meeting dekat area2 situ. alang2 singgah. then ajak di pi makan sekali.
3. so kalau berkesempatan try tunjuk muka kat lelaki keparat tuh. hati2 sikit, some guy bila buat begini dia akan rasa tercabar dan dia buat lagi extreme. ko kena pandai main tarik tali sikit.
4. balik rumah then talk with wife pasal lelaki tuh. try cuba downkan naluri ur wife utk enjoy/attract dgn lelaki tuh dgn ckp " lelaki tuh tak hensem, perut boroi bagai, tak hensem, hensem lagi panda". buat dgn nada melawak. then end of it ckp terus terang yg ko tak suka benda2 gini. kena jaga batas, hormat suami. kalau ko islam ko kena bgtau yg menghias diri adalah didepan suami, berdosa niat menghias diri depan bukan muhrim.

ulang langkah 1 dan 2 sentiasa. langkah 3 dan 4 tuh kadang2.

kena ingat a single spark can cause a fire. seriusly, lelaki yg gentleman dia ada rules how they play a games. bini/tunang org gentleman tak akan kacau. but keparat man akan kacau bini org dan joke lucah. niat depa nak 'bertenggek'. it sexual harassment terang2 dah tuh even ckp mimpi ur wife jadi bini dia. boleh kena dakwa.


kalau suruh berenti kerja nanti bini ko mesti tanya kenapa...but mmg bahaya. baik mengelak sebelum terlanggar.

sekadar nasihat
Last edited by lompatikam on 13-8-2014 04:37 PM

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 Author| Post time 13-8-2014 06:02 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
myakayina posted on 13-8-2014 03:03 PM
better ask your wife to quit her job.. stop from seeing that guy la before its too late..

Not easy as dia dah kerja lama
Benefit ok gaji pun kira tinggi
To start again not easy
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 Author| Post time 13-8-2014 06:04 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
poyohabis posted on 13-8-2014 03:47 PM
Takut bini tt dah make love gan adik boss dia lps tu tkt termengandung tu yg ml gan tt lak.. Jahatny ...

Tak mungkin saya confident on that
Kalau dah ml u will sense it
N I percaya bini not until tak extent lar
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 Author| Post time 13-8-2014 06:09 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
intriQue posted on 13-8-2014 04:07 PM
Ini lah salah satu kesilapan suami - jarang memuji isteri.

walau isteri dia cantik, body mantap t ...

This point mmg saya admit saya ada take for granted. Memang nowadays jarang ada puji2.
Sometimes dia pakai lawa2 saya tak puji as saya bukan romantis type.

That's why after first baby dia jarang dress up utk keja.
Baru2 nie dia dah start to dress up n daring pulak.
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Post time 13-8-2014 06:42 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
JeffreeLeong posted on 13-8-2014 06:09 PM
This point mmg saya admit saya ada take for granted. Memang nowadays jarang ada puji2.
Sometimes ...

Take note ya husbands....

wife mmg suka dipuji....tambah2 lagi pujian dari suami sendiri. Wife suka dgr husband puji dia cantik, menarik etc. Make her feel wanted and desirable.  Make her feel loved.

If she can't get that at home, she could easily fall for it outside.  Not all wives do but some of us, yes.

So please....make yr wife happy, and you'll be a happy husband.
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Post time 14-8-2014 12:39 AM | Show all posts
Loxlaxman posted on 13-8-2014 02:32 PM
Dont shy shy la ..we are men..kamon buddy..we have nothing to "loose" like our oposite sex .. just ...

la... ingtkan lox ni tau lorat utara ja... rupanya lox ni tere spiking.... ni mesti ayat bini power ni... sat i, u... sat hang aku...
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Post time 14-8-2014 12:50 AM | Show all posts
JeffreeLeong posted on 13-8-2014 11:42 AM
i think thats the problem for most couple, as when start time memang hangat bercinta
after first  ...

jeff... saya ni ibu anak 3, mmg kita rasa masa kita banyak dihabiskan kat anak2... sbb anak2 kecik lagi... tp ttp kn bg masa utk diri sendiri dan suami... saya ada experience sbgai isteri yg bekerja dan sebagai fulltime housewife.... 2-2 penat, pening kepala etc... itu lumrah, tp x kan nak abaikan tanggungjawab... 2-3 bulan sekali make love tu dah x normal... at least seminggu sekali... melainkan isteri tgh pantang... u dan wife kena sama2 bekerjasama utk ceriakan balik hubungan macam masa mula2 kawin dulu.... kawin ni, macam2 dugaan tau... sbb tu u kn pandai suprise kan wife... cth... masa dia tgh cuci pinggan u dtg dan peluk pinggang dia dan say i love u... itu sgt bermakna tau.... walaupun masa tu dia comot sesangat.. mesti dia akan tersenyum2 kalau dia teringat.... my husband pun bukan jenis romantik, x pernah pun terima bunga dari dia... tp cara dia layan me & anak2 amat bermakna sangat... walaupun dia skg ni tgh tidur berdengkur....
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Post time 14-8-2014 08:12 AM | Show all posts
intriQue posted on 13-8-2014 06:42 PM
Take note ya husbands....

wife mmg suka dipuji....tambah2 lagi pujian dari suami sendiri. Wife  ...

Betul sgt2..berdasarkan pengalaman...

so,hubby semua..sila lah puji wife anda semua..even u all rasa krg menarik dah ke..
my fren penah ckp,klau nak cari kekurangan mmgla jumpa..semua org ada..
tp apa kata ckp yg baik n pujian je..x rugi pun..
lg menambah org suka,syg n selesa ng kita ada la...
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 Author| Post time 14-8-2014 09:13 AM | Show all posts
lompatikam posted on 13-8-2014 04:29 PM
try to do the right thing first.

1.be a romantik hubby. puji je bini or try to seduce her sikit.  ...

thx for the advise bro...
i will try to follow your step
what u said is right, need to do step by step
cannot straight away ask her to resign


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 Author| Post time 14-8-2014 09:19 AM | Show all posts
carly_lah posted on 14-8-2014 12:50 AM
jeff... saya ni ibu anak 3, mmg kita rasa masa kita banyak dihabiskan kat anak2... sbb anak2 kecik ...

sis, i undertstand your advise.
masalah yang mmg saya frust ialah she is the first who tak jaga pemakaian lepas 1st kid
alasan no time, nak jaga anak dan kerja letih...
then masa saya ajak make love, dia bagi alasan berbagai2..
so lama2, saya pun makin kurang buat initiative
saya dah kurang romantis, tambah2 pula chance bermesra kurang
so spark dah kurang....

then seorang stranger yang tak menarik langsung, bini sanggup berubah untuk mendapat perhatian
dia, itu mmg make me frustated....

the guy itu satu masalah, tapi pokok still bini yang ada masalah dulu...
as husband, itu point yang saya bimbang
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Post time 14-8-2014 01:32 PM | Show all posts
bahayanya.....

i rs wife u tu just tunggu ms je utk dingap oleh indian tersebut.

bila wife u da dressing cantik2, mekap cantik2 for that guy thats mean wife u pun mmg nakkan + attention to that guy.

i dont know how to advice... but hati org mcm mn kita nak control.
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 Author| Post time 14-8-2014 02:45 PM | Show all posts
otai_g posted on 14-8-2014 01:32 PM
bahayanya.....

i rs wife u tu just tunggu ms je utk dingap oleh indian tersebut.

jangan buat aku tension nie. bro
mmg her changes buat saya happy as husband tapi
she said just for self satisfaction n to bring new life to our intimate life
tak ada lebih......

sebelum anything went wrong, saya kena cepat win back her attention
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Post time 14-8-2014 03:04 PM | Show all posts
untungnya wife Jeff ni...at least ada jugak usaha nak tarik balik attention wife dia....
Good luck!
kalu jantan2 lain...sebok nak ceraikan je....bkn nak perbaiki...
yer sangat btul...wife sangat2 perlukan pujian n attention dr husband dia...
kalu lama sgt dibiar...ada plak org lain dok puji2 melambung...pepaham je lah
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Post time 14-8-2014 03:29 PM | Show all posts
lto3 posted on 14-8-2014 03:04 PM
untungnya wife Jeff ni...at least ada jugak usaha nak tarik balik attention wife dia....
Good luck! ...

kecurangan dikesan disitu....



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Post time 14-8-2014 05:14 PM | Show all posts
carly_lah posted on 14-8-2014 12:50 AM
jeff... saya ni ibu anak 3, mmg kita rasa masa kita banyak dihabiskan kat anak2... sbb anak2 kecik ...

Laaa...mati mati Lox ingat carly anak dara lagi ...
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Post time 14-8-2014 11:48 PM | Show all posts
Loxlaxman posted on 14-8-2014 05:14 PM
Laaa...mati mati Lox ingat carly anak dara lagi ...

Ni kira mati idup balik ka???
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Post time 14-8-2014 11:49 PM | Show all posts
agaknye masa korg tgh sdp2 main.. dia asek terbayangkan mamat tu berbanding ko..
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Post time 15-8-2014 04:11 AM | Show all posts
tidur dgn anak boleh je make love mlm2 dgn isteri..ada kn 1 bilik khas untuk uoll make love je..takkan tak ada bilik spare??
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Post time 15-8-2014 07:45 AM | Show all posts
sue aje, atas nama sexual hasassment di tempat keja..

plus this indian man, tak reti hormat orang ke..
suruh aje bini u tempek sekali...
kalau tak dibuat, nanti mamat tu ingat bini u suka digoda...
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Post time 15-8-2014 07:47 AM | Show all posts
tinker_bell posted on 14-8-2014 03:11 PM
tidur dgn anak boleh je make love mlm2 dgn isteri..ada kn 1 bilik khas untuk uoll make love je..takk ...

bilik mengeseklah pulak, baik buat bilik sembahyang ke bilik anak anak...
soon anak anak sure kena tidur bilik sendiri...


my sister sebagai contoh, anak dia dah 3 tahun, bising bila nak beranak lagi,
me cam camana kau nak beranak, bukan anak kau dalam bilik sekali...

actually dorang cam mendengar kata jugak.. me dengar cita
anak dia dah start kena tidur sendiri

and bullshit pasal orang kata tidur sesama buat anak rapat ke apa,
me kenal ramai aje budak tidur sendiri sejak lahir..
semua rapat banget dengan mak pak dorang...
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