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Reply #19 mummycool's post
Good luck ye.. bawakla byk2 bersbr.. Kita semua kat sini pon ibu2 jugak, faham bangat macam mane kerinduan U tu..
Skang ni mak mummy ke yg jaga Adam? |
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Reply #19 mummycool's post
Actually I've been in your shoes many times. I run a business with my husband and there have been times when we both have to go away and leave our sons with my mum.
I assure you that it won't always feel this bad. You'll adjust. Your baby's undoubtedly already adjusted, and that should make you happier, not sadder. He's being loved all day, so from his perspective what's not to like? Think of his time with your husband / grandparents as a gift for them all, rather than as something being taken from you. Of course you miss him, but working is something you do to benefit your family, not something to feel guilty about.
Its better off for us working mums to accept that the various parts of our lives bleed into each other, rather than trying to compartmentalize.
Go ahead and decorate your work space with photos of your baby. Call home a couple of times a day to check on Adam's (my youngest boy is is also Adam) latest antics and "talk" with him on the phone. Just hearing his gurgles and letting him hear your voice can make you feel less left out.
When you get home in 2 months time or whatever, spend your time to re-connect with your son by doing fun stuff.
It can also help to keep the big picture in mind: There's no finite number of special times for you and your child to share. The important thing is to be happy where you are. So slow down, take a deep breath, and smile at your baby as you go out the door each morning(his picture). It's a long life, and you have the rest of it to spend with each other.
Until then, be happy. Its all in the mind.  |
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Reply #24 alanbudikusuma's post
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alan...jangan la sedih... alan cakap la ngan anak buah tu... takpun lepas opis terus ambik bawak g playground ke hape...asalkan dapat bersama... |
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tadi mummy tepon rumah mak... Adam dah mula nak lepas tangan sambil berdiri.... nak belajar balance badan la tu... tak de dah rindu sangat....sebab sumer orang happy je jaga dia, then mummy pun rasa happy........ walaupun memasing penat...Adam tengah lasak skang ni |
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How long more to go for your course?
Btw, I'm glad that you doing okay now. |
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Reply #27 AnitaSabrina's post
Anita....
still have another 6 weeks....
i will be back on 16 august..... memangtak sabar......bcoz..... its my birthday and also my little prince....MUHAMMAD ADAM birthday.......
sepatutnya i balik a week before 16...tapi ada banyak kerja plak kat sini...so kene extend lagi 1 week.... kalo tak..... nak buat party....hish... mungkin buat a week after la |
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Adam & your birthday same day! Wow cool! How did you do it? 
Sempat lagi buat party when you come back on Aug 16. Belum start puasa lagi.  |
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Adam & your birthday same day! Wow cool! How did you do it?
Sempat lagi buat party when you come back on Aug 16. Belum start puasa lagi. |
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Reply #29 AnitaSabrina's post
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......tak plan pun...Adam sepatutnya keluar 19 August....then dia nak keluar awal pulak.... ....anak mummy la ni.... |
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baru baca lak topik ni....mummy..anak aku adam jgk...Adam Muhaimin...tu avatar aku tu......so far aku xdela lama giler lg tinggal adam....plg lama pon seminggu....aku br masuk keje gomen so asyik nk kene gi kursus je manjang....masa mula2 kene tinggal dia dulu, aku gi product update kat desaru....3 hari je pon...tp hari2 aku nangis...especially mlm2......tp adam seronok je duk ngn bbsitter dia...ramai org nk melayan...yg plg x tahan bila kita call dgr sore dia...rindu sgt2 kan.....lps2 tu bila aku tinggal pon xdela nk nangis2 sgt...skali skala je la bila dh rindu sgt......rasanya bila dh biasa...kita akan get used n xde nk sedih2 sgt....rindu tu ttp rindu.....lps ni ade lg kursus 2 minggu....hrp2 okla.....one thing sbb aku still breastfeed baby...tu yg lbh sket rasa rindu dia...... |
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Reply #32 izati_abc's post
geram nya tengok Adam Muhaimin......... Adam mummy pun ada pipi camtu.... .........memangla kan.........memula memang rasa nak nangis je..but after a while........mummy pun dah ok...sesekali je rasa nak nangis......
izati masih breast feed ye....mmg lain sikit kan rasa dia....mummy sebulan sebelum jalan mummy dah jarakkan susu badan,,,and hehari pesan ngan dia... sebab mummy jarakkan susu badan...alhamdullillah...dia tak banyak ragam dan boleh terima |
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haihhh..kita yg pegi keje 8 jam je nih..pun duk teringat-ingat...
aduhhh...tgh drive balik ..duk bayang dah dia smbut kita kat pintu...ngan gelak dia....
sabar yer mummycool...x lama dah tu...
masa skang cepat je berjalan..
pejam celik...dah abih sehari...
sabar yer... |
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hmm ima dlu ms hubby g france 6 bln pn camtu gak.. stat kt airport ag da meleleh air mata.. tp utk melepaskan rindu kitorg wat 3g kol hari2.. haha.. pasto bil tiap2 bln cecah 7 8 ratus  tp xpe.. rindu nye pasal xkisah dah duit tu  |
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Reply #33 mummycool's post
a'ah mummy...still breastfeed tp campur ngn FM...so dia xdela meragam sgt kalo kene tinggal....cuma bila call tu dgr sore dia terasa rindu sgt kan...ari tu pon bbsitetr kata dia mengigau tgh mlm sebut 'mama'...lg la kita meroyan..anak tu xde ape2 pon.....
mummy sabo la ye...x lama lagi dah........heheh |
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alah2 tembamnye pipi.... rasa nk gigit2 aje...
for mummycool.... sabar ye... kerinduan tu.. akan buat kita lg kuat rasa sayang ada anak. hmm... biasanye klau rndu2.. mmg saya akan tgk gambar2 dia kt phone... kt desktop pon sebesar2 screen tu gambo dia aje. hehe... puas menatap. rakam suara dia... bila rindu2.. dengar balik. mmgla sedih.. tp... cukupla.. itu je yg bole kan... gud luck |
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Reply #38 talapia's post
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mekasih ye talapia...imama...slayang..izati..dan lain2.... memula dulu sedih jugak lepas baca korang nya nasihat n pengalaman..rasa ok dah sikit,, tengah kuatkan semangat ni nak tempuh minggu2 akhir |
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Post time 25-6-2008 03:40 PM
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