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Macamana mendidik anak dgn betul?

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Post time 29-5-2008 10:11 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by lovely_gee78 at 28-5-2008 08:56 AM


wah marr macamana nk ajar dia buang air dlm tandas ek?
g risau lah sbb tandas rumah g smeua jenis duduk..
boleh ke agaknya dia duk atas tu..takut dia takmo jek
g mmg plan nk ajar dia tak g ...


pakaikan dia sluar kecik dulu.
pastikan sejam selepas nyusu, antar anak p toilet untuk buang air kecik...
kalu x kluar, x pe..  ulang cara di atas.
kalu kluar...  puji!
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Post time 30-5-2008 08:47 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by lovely_gee78 at 26-5-2008 09:40 AM
Assalammualaikum...

Hai kawan2....di sini g nk tanya pendapat kawan2 yg mungkin menghadapi situasi yg sama atau yg dah punya byk pengalaman dlm mendidik anak2...Anak g baru seorang..perempuan, ...


mac rasa kalau budak nak masuk 3 tahun..... nakal tu, nakal biasa kut.... Perlu ke di bebelkan? Bab sepah2 tu pun biasa gak.....

just enjoy raising your girl.... you takde anak2 lain yang mungkin boleh kacau or demand your attention.....

[ Last edited by  macademia at 30-5-2008 08:48 AM ]
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Post time 30-5-2008 11:01 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by macademia at 30-5-2008 08:47 AM


mac rasa kalau budak nak masuk 3 tahun..... nakal tu, nakal biasa kut.... Perlu ke di bebelkan? Bab sepah2 tu pun biasa gak.....

just enjoy raising your girl.... you takde anak2 lain yang  ...


Betul tu, anak ummipun 3 tahun lebih yg no 2, kalau dia senyap2 sorang 2 dalam bilik, mmg tak blh percaya, nanti adalah keje yg dia buat spt tuangkan bedak, minyak or whatever kalau ummi tgh nyusukan baby di bilik ummi, sambil tu ummi panggil2 dia (menyahut plak tu) sambil kata "afiq tak papepun"
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 Author| Post time 30-5-2008 04:23 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by macademia at 30-5-2008 08:47 AM


mac rasa kalau budak nak masuk 3 tahun..... nakal tu, nakal biasa kut.... Perlu ke di bebelkan? Bab sepah2 tu pun biasa gak.....

just enjoy raising your girl.... you takde anak2 lain yang  ...


g manusia biasa..kadang2 kalo tgh letih sgt mmglah terbebel jugak...tp tak samalah mcm g bebelkan abahnya....
g bukan manusia yg sempurna yg boleh bersabar, senyum je 24 jam walau apapun terjadi..kalo dia dlm proses learning..g pun lagi dlm proses learning...semua ni benda baru bg g jugak....
mmg g blajar menjadi lebih penyabar....dan sentiasa mencari info2 berguna dlm mendidik anak...
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 Author| Post time 30-5-2008 04:24 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by Marr at 29-5-2008 10:11 PM


pakaikan dia sluar kecik dulu.
pastikan sejam selepas nyusu, antar anak p toilet untuk buang air kecik...
kalu x kluar, x pe..  ulang cara di atas.
kalu kluar...  puji!


thanks mar..nnti g nk cuba cara ni...
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Post time 30-5-2008 04:37 PM | Show all posts
bila baca posting kat atas ni, rasanya sama macam anak sy, bulan julai ni pun nak 3  tahun gak..

degil, melawan, keras hati tu memang biasa laaa..sy marah, tengking, cubit, semua tak jalan..last
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 Author| Post time 2-6-2008 08:42 AM | Show all posts
ermm bila baca posting kengkawan kat sini baru rasa lega...
bukanlah g seorang yg menghadapi situasi yg sama...
semua ni menyedarkan g..bahawa itu adalah tabiat budak2 yg semulajadi
dan g cuba blajar mcmana nk menanganinya dgn bijak..
bila difikir2 balik...g bersyukur..sbb anak g bukanlah dlm kategori nakal sgt...
g tgk keinginan dia utk blajar benda baru tu mmg tgh tinggi sekrang ni
ada je benda baru yg dia blajar samada kat tv or drp tingkah laku kitaorg..
semua benda dia nk tahu...bila dia nk buat sesuatu tu..dia mesti cakap..
'adik bukan nak main..adik nk tengok jap je..' hehe
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Post time 2-6-2008 09:08 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by lovely_gee78 at 30-5-2008 04:23 PM


g manusia biasa..kadang2 kalo tgh letih sgt mmglah terbebel jugak...tp tak samalah mcm g bebelkan abahnya....
g bukan manusia yg sempurna yg boleh bersabar, senyum je 24 jam wal ...



YEla..... betul tu.

Mac dulu masa dapat anak sorang.... rasa penat sangat. Tapi kan bila dapat 2 orangkan..... terasa yang masa beranak sorang tu, sebenarnya takla penat sangat.....   Bila dapat anak no3..... terasa pulak..... masa anak 2 orang dulu,  life was much easier to manage..... masa dapat anak no4..... ha memangla dunia ni rasa tunggang langgang.... hehe.... just to share jer dgn g....
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Post time 2-6-2008 09:21 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by alamaktuan at 26-5-2008 03:10 PM
melalui pengalaman...

didiklah anak dengan penuh kasih sayang..dan perlu banyak ilmu di dada..kalau asyik nak curiga dan

menuduh anak yang bukan2,anak akan pandai menipu untuk mengelakkan  ...


mor setuju dgn didikan mcm tu.... x semetinya kena marah sesangat utk bagi anak takut.... kdg
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Post time 2-6-2008 12:53 PM | Show all posts
kalo i , umur2 camni tak perlu bertegang urat dgn dia....
kalo kita btul 100 kali drp dia pun dia takkan dengar...so be it!...

power struggle nie terjadi bila anak2 dah boleh reasoning dgn kita...so budak umur 3thn terlalu lemah dia punya reasoning power, so apa yg u boleh buat adalah....jgn bagi order what to do, make her join in what u do instead....

katalah lepas main, jgn arah suruh dia kemas ...tapi u yg kemas dan ajak dia join in, sama gak kalo nak suruh buat benda2 lain....

ada anak2 tak suka structured learning.....jadi learning proses tak semestinya kena tunggu dia duduk mengadap kita baru nak ajar, sambil mandi...boleh mengira, sambil pakai baju, naik tangga...semuanya boleh mengajar...lagi lepak, lagi dia suka drp suka dia hafal 1,2,3 ...baca A,B,C...too bored
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Post time 2-6-2008 03:13 PM | Show all posts

Reply #30 my-alja's post

Betul tu....

APER YG PENTING??!! KEJERSAMER!!
APER YG PENTING??!! KEJERSAMER!!



YEAH WONDERPET YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Post time 3-6-2008 09:57 AM | Show all posts
act. ada terbit idea ni bila nak potty train my son... that is --> pakaikan dia huggies pull up pants ... tak la takut accident.. kalo accident pun, tak la meleleh ke lantai kan..

anak dah 2 yrs.. tp i belum lagi potty train.. maknya ni yg malas
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Post time 3-6-2008 10:16 AM | Show all posts

Reply #32 paulinevoon's post

depends on the kids gak polin....

some kids tak sesuai sebab dia malas nak cakap sebab tahu ade safety panty/underwear for them.....

my 2 kids pun diff...yg adik ok pakai pull up tapi....abg failed!
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Post time 3-6-2008 10:23 AM | Show all posts

Reply #33 my-alja's post

kes malas nak cakap ni yg susah sikit eh... act. been thinking about potty train my boy lately.. the thing is fikir je, action belum hehe

when did u start potty train your 2 kids alja? when they were in what age?
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Post time 3-6-2008 10:36 AM | Show all posts

Reply #32 paulinevoon's post

aku pun sama, pol next year wani dah nak start nursery, sampai sekarang aku lum potty train dia lagik...bukan malas, just no time yet!
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Post time 3-6-2008 11:32 AM | Show all posts

Reply #35 LoLiPoP's post

ye la.. dgn hariz lagi kan.. dah la u takde maid.. aku paham.. i think in due time derang will know cara melepas dgn betul

i ni terfikir nak train balik keje ni gak.. act. penah sekali dua ajar dia we2.. tp dia tak paham.. i suh we2 dia gelak pulak.. we2 nya tak kuar

nanti nak cuba la yg forummer marrr posting.. sejam lepas susu bawa dia gi we2 hehe
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Post time 3-6-2008 01:56 PM | Show all posts

Reply #34 paulinevoon's post

my doter started at the age of 2.7 yrs...perfect w/pun lambat, 1 kali tercicir...

my son pulak at the age of 2.5 yrs.....3 days perfect!...lepas tu accident sampai countless....
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Post time 3-6-2008 02:16 PM | Show all posts

Reply #37 my-alja's post

i guess sbb boys r diff from girls......

fuhh.. ceritamu ni cukup membuatku berpeluh alja hehehe........

neways... i think i tggu my boy 2.5 yrs dulu lah  ekekke
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Post time 3-6-2008 02:34 PM | Show all posts
emmmmmmm citer pasal potty train nii kena dpt co=operate dgn hubby gak. kalau ibu je yg bising yg sorang lagi buat toya jer mmg hancus ler. my case pulak ank dara tu mmg dah reti nak gi toilet tapiiiiiiiii masalahnye bapaknye malas nak melayan. :@ :@ letih betul lah cam ni!
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Post time 4-6-2008 08:32 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by paulinevoon at 3-6-2008 02:16 PM
i guess sbb boys r diff from girls......

fuhh.. ceritamu ni cukup membuatku berpeluh alja hehehe........

neways... i think i tggu my boy 2.5 yrs dulu lah  ekekke


MIL pun cakap benda yg sama dgn i
budak lelaki kurang ambil berat pasal hygene sket lahh

tunggu dia besar sket lah polin....anak u sorang aje, takpe beli diapers
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