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masalah macam ni pun kena tanya orang??? tak leh fikir sendiri??? |
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Originally posted by Bugger at 16-1-2007 06:18 PM
masalah macam ni pun kena tanya orang??? tak leh fikir sendiri???
abang long...dia dah pikir dah...cuma dia susah sikit nak buat keputusan...dia nak tahu pro dan kontra nyer dulu...mungkin apa yang dia tak nampak, dia boleh nampak kat sini...:lebai: |
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Reply #18 dealova77's post
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menarik tu..maid dia tu melayu ke bangsa asing? anak ade berapa ramai? maknanya makanan anak2 tu dia dah siap2kan buatla ye sblm maid tu sampai..ok jugela kalu dpt yg begitu..gosok baju sape buat? |
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Tuan rumah, saya rasa ambil maid mudahkan kerja, tak perlu kejut anak pagi-pagi, angkat masuk kereta hantar ke nursery macam saya sekarang ni.
Saya ada 2 anak lelaki, 3.5 tahun dan 1.5 tahun, dah lama nak ambil maid tapi sebab bukan duduk Msia, terasa susah pula nak ambil maid dari agen di sini. Selain dari kos yang 2x ganda lagi mahal, gaji bulanan maid sini pun tak sama dengan Msia., gaji maid sini rm800++/month. Lepas tu, buatnya saya tukar fikiran nak balik Malaysia for good masalah pula nak cancell segala macam visa, permit dia. Agak-agak ada ke orang Malaysia, kakak, makcik you all yang nak jadi baby sitter di oversea? PM saya ya.  Hehehe, tumpang iklan jap ya tuan rumah. |
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Originally posted by acik311 at 16-1-2007 04:52 PM
Thanks pd yg sudi share.
Actually anak-anak saya ni berderet 3 tahun berturut-turut. Yang sulung baru 2 tahun, 2nd 10 bulan dan yang dlm perut ni nak masuk 7 bulan. Dah pakai protection dah tapi ...
Acik.. I was once in yr situation, anak ketiga lahir masa yg sulung belum 3 tahun pun, and I am a person who wanted to live my life without helper, ie an 'indonless' house ( maaf pd yg ada indon helper, thats my personal choice, ).. and like you do I had a very nice pengasuh which i paid twice than if I had the indonesian at home.
the positive side of it:
- my hubby jd amat rajin menolong me.. sama2 turun pd, ke kitchen dsb.. doing things (house chores) together can create an intimate situation between couples too.. but u have to do it bukan dgn marah2..
- anak2 amat rapat dgn us.. sbb kami yg surrounding them a home and suap them makan if needed.. ajar abc.. mengaji dsb
- hidup us lebih teratur, ie, we make a strict schedule anak2 tido kol brapa, makan kol brapa, bagun kol brapa.. and both of us hubby and wife pun ade tugas masing2.. so tak de problem sgt pun...
-me jd lebih pandai masak... he..he.. boleh jg badan jugak dgn kerja2 rumah ni..
-self satisfaction ... this is the greatest reward
the negative side of it..
- nak pi dinner dgn hubby berdua je tak boleh le sbb nak kena bawak gerabak keretapi tu.. but still can have candlelight dinner at home
- nak O/T susah skit sbb nak kena inform pengasuh awal2.. pastu kena jugak pk pengasuh pun need a rest
-kalau penagasuh cuti aada kematian atau kena balik kampung ( which is very rare) kita pun kena cuti..
-bayar lebih skit dr ambil indon.. but then kalau ambil indon u still have to pay for her food.. belum kira utilities yg dia guna ie kipas, lampu, tv, air....
thats all pendapat me as a person who choose to life my life without helper.. saya pernah ada helper 6 months je and I dont really like it.. balik kerja mmg tak payah kemas rumah but i dont really like it.. i dont like my house look spotless bcoz of someone else..
so.. tepuk dada tanya selera.. kalau rasa perlu cepat le pergi agensi.. book for one.. a nice one.. good luck sis!! |
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aku rasa ok kot cam dealova kata.... around 500 per month, for 3 kids... kemas rumah n segala... ok tuhhh.... kalau babysitter anta pun 3 org dlm 600++ kan... |
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Reply #26 LostSoul's post
kecik lagi budak tu...yg besar baru 2 thn lebih kan..
tak pandai mengadu lagi kalau maid buat bukan2x...
then..confident ke nak tinggalkan baby 2 bulan dgn maid?
mmm...:hmm:
i rasa la..kalau u nak ambik maid pun..suruh maid jaga yg 2 org yg beso tu dulu..
baby bagi org yg expert jaga..mcm pengasuh tu..
risky woo kasik maid jaga..
kenot simply trust
i anak 2..pernah ambil maid dr jawa jaga kejap.
then tk puas hati sbb garang sgt dgn anak2x i...
last-last terminate maid tu
anak i hantar balik ke pengasuh lama..
mmg la letih balik keje kemas umah etc..tp rela berkorban demi
yg terbaik utk anak
[ Last edited by ainarin at 17-1-2007 07:55 AM ] |
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ainarin, samalah dgn isu trust hantar babysitter. i think u have to get over that, kalau idak, sah2 kena berenti keje n jaga sendiri... hantar babysitter, maid, semua ada risk... so, choose what u r comfortable with. kalau berkira sgt2, mmg takde jalan kluar... |
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Kalau Shin, Shin pun tak tahu nak buat apa.
Pengasuh baik. Anak happy, tapi mahal sebab dah 3 orang.
Rumah kita still kena kemas. Nak layan hubby lagi. Tak menang tangan.
Jika ambil maid, rumah teratur, bayaran murah berbanding babysitter.
Tapi Shin takut sangat kes maid larikan or worst bunuh baby.
Ok, i'm not helping at all, maaf tuan rumah.
[ Last edited by Oshin at 17-1-2007 05:58 PM ] |
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Reply #28 LostSoul's post
LostSoul..
at least nursery ada insuranse kan
babysitter n maid ni kalau jd paper susah gk jdnye..
tp tuela..sumenye ada risk masing2x..
but i still not recommend u to hire maid
coz i have many bad experience..
nak carik yg elok tu..dalam 10,satu kut
i bab penjagaan anak ni mmg berkira sgt..
rumah seleRak pun biarla..asal hati tenang |
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aha... tak semua babysitter ada insurance.. itu yg registered. i think many of us hantar kat rumah2 jek.. although i prefer babysitter, i never doubt that some of us so lucky that they have good maids... i mmg takdak exp dgn maid, but i heard both exp bad n good from my frens.. |
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My experience better hantar nursery or babysitter daripada maid because the maids that I had were real rejects. Ada sorang tu tinggalkan my son (masa tu about 10 months) alone at home. Dia lari rumah jumpa boyfriend. My neighbour inform me. Pastu another one melekat je dengan telephone. Bill first month dia with us (her usage alone) was RM500. After we talked to her to cut down on calls, she bought a handphone. Mana dia dapat duit pun tak tahu.
Summary of the maids we had :
- tinggalkan baby at home alone (pegi menggatal dengan boyfriend)
- lari dari rumah (again tinggalkan anak-anak keseorangan)
- bila bawak anak main kat taman dia orang tak jangan the kids but berborak. A few times my son balik rumah and told me jatuh slide, swing etc.
- panjang tangan
- rosakkan harta benda especially electrical goods. Dah ajar pun still tak faham-faham
- malas nak kasi anak makan. Masa kita ada je dia orang ni rajin
- suka berborak dengan maids lain and pick up more bad habits!
- use the bathroom tak lock pintu, tidur naked and tak lock pintu 
I can't think of any good points in having a maid.
Housework - we have a cleaner yang buat major work. Yang kecik-kecik like basuh kain, put in dryer, lipat etc. I do myself with my husband. Honestly all of us are so much happier with no maid in the house. |
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Originally posted by acik311 at 16-1-2007 14:44
Salam semua...
Sebenarnya tengah dalam dilema ni... Sekarang ni saya tengah preknen anak yang ke 3, insyaAllah due penghujung April 2007 ni.
Buat masa ni, anak yang 2 orang tu hantar kat peng ...
...u have a great babysitter who is currently taking very good care of your 2 kids...and who is willing to care for your unborn child too...your kids are well taken care of...and most of all are happy to be taken care by her...what more do u want???
...nak ada orang tolong ringankan beban ke???...how about your husband??...skarang nie ramai suami yang sanggup buat kerja rumah kerana sayang dan kesiankan isteri mereka...so...talk to your husband...
...kalau ko amik maid...mungkin jugak ko bley relak lebih sikit...balik kerja pon semua sudah ready....bley have more time main2 ngan anak2 dan focus more on your hubby...nie kalau ko dapat maid yang bagus lerrr...
...tapi...kalau dapat maid yang rabak...amacam???...
...lagik satu...jangan sampai nanti jiran ko berkecil hati sebab ko amik maid...hopefully tidak...tapi...kita tak tau jugak isi hati orang lain...jangan nanti bila maid ko buat hal dan ko nak antar balik anak2 ko kat jiran ko dia tolak jugak...baru kang ko betul2 dalam dilema...:ting: |
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Originally posted by LostSoul at 17-1-2007 06:11 PM
aha... tak semua babysitter ada insurance.. itu yg registered. i think many of us hantar kat rumah2 jek.. although i prefer babysitter, i never doubt that some of us so lucky that they have good ...
kak losol..all registered nursery ada insurance ker?alamak br tingat wa luper ksk info le utk nursery buat insuance..
wa plak..cita2 kalo bleh takmo pakai maid..wa tkt dengar citer korang seme.. |
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Originally posted by blackmore at 17-1-2007 10:24 AM
...u have a great babysitter who is currently taking very good care of your 2 kids...and who is willing to care for your unborn child too...your kids are well taken care of...and most of all ...
:setuju: :setuju: sesangat...
kot dapat og gaji yg menyusahkan... pengasuh tu pulak dah tak mau jaga anakanak..
hiss lagi susah.... |
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Korang pernah tak panggil weekend's maid tuh?
Kalau pernah... berapa bayaran dia? Okay tak dia buat keje?
I nak tahu yg KL/Selangor area... |
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kalu risau umah tak berkemas..amik jer weekend maid..every weekend dia dtg umah ko kemaskan.. |
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aku rasa soal jaga anak dah tak timbul...pasal dah ada pengasuh yg baik dan sanggup nak jaga sumer anak. tp soal penat ngn keje rumah kan...yerler lepas penat balik keje, sambung 'keje' kat rumah.
apa kata kiter justify aper keje rumah yg membebankan tue, and sama sama kasik idea how to simplify keje keje tue, so that keje berat pon jadik mudah....
anyone??? |
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Reply #34 honeybee1802's post
setawu i,semua nursery yg berdaftar dgn kementerian ada insuranse..
masa register tu kena bayar..tk byk beberapa ringgit ajer
sekali bayar jer
ainarin dah tk ingat sbb dah lama register..
kalau takde kena bayar insuranse tu..nursery tu tk berdaftar laa
but,mostly nursery kt mesia ni berdaftar
AnitaSabrina..
samala kita..i pun byk prob dgn maid dulu..
Tuan Rumah..
pliss elaborate more..
u nak ambik maid by agent?or illegal punye?
sbb kalau agent mahal gak tau..3k+
then guarantee 3 bulan saja..kalau lepas 3 bulan dia
chow larik..kita tk dpt replacement tau..burn aje ribu raban tu |
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umm.. aku dulu ada maid, aku bagi RM300 je. maid aku tu mmg boleh tahan rajin dan pandai jaga baby.. aku amik dia keja sebelum baby aku lahir lagi.. tapi tu la, dia kene pulang indon sbb nak kawin. masa ada maid dulu mmg senang keje aku. balik umah makanan dah terhidang, baby terurus. weekend leh dating dgn hb.. malam leh awal masuk tido, pagi leh bangun lewat sikit.. TAPIIIIIIII.. aku rasa bersalah je sbb aku mcm kurang menjaga baby aku sendiri.. yg ni mmg aku rasa bersalah sangat2 n perasaan ni menghantui aku sesgt.
skrg baby aku hantar gi umah bbsitter.. kena caj RM350.. caj ni tdk termasuk makanan & mencuci lampin/baju baby.. tetiap hari aku kena provide lampin/baju bersih & makanan baby. keje melambak dari opis, balik umah keje umah melambak jugak.. mmg la penat huhuhu.. TAPIIIIIIIII ironically, i am happier now. i feel whole n complete.
aku amik keputusan anto gi bbsitter sbb unty ni berpengalaman jaga budak/baby. and aku tak mau take a risk to hire another maid, tapi maid tu ampeh n not as good as my previous maid. apart from aku enjoy melayan baby aku sendiri n wat keja umah sendiri aku leh jugak jaga badan haha.. betul kata ada sorg forumer tu.. it is indeed a good exercise!
one thing though.. semenjak semua benda kena wat sendiri ni, aku jarang masak dinner. mmg jarang sgt. but it's not a biggy la sbb hb aku tak cerewet pasal makanan. after all dia tahu diri gak la sbb dia bukan pandai nak tolong wat keja umah, cuma reti main dgn baby je :bgrin: |
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Post time 16-1-2007 06:18 PM
