How many till you found ‘The One’?

missBlackDahlia

belum found the one.. kikiki

eplasbpafree

Rasanya i dah meet The One but i tinggalkan dia untuk bersama orang lain.

hahaha..
masa tu i materialistic.

ladybugz

the one is someone that can be ur bff n ur soulmate. i met the one twice. haha. my husband now was my exbf. padahal i ni jenis once dah putus mmg takkan i terima dah lelaki tu. tiada maaf bagi mu. but after broke up with him for the first time. bertahun2 dah x contact x jumpe x ambik tau. masing2 pun ade life masing2. last2, jumpe balik secara x sengaja, entahla.. i felt something different, rasa selesa n i had become more forgiving with him. prinsip yg takkan terima balik ex tu dah kelaut sume when i met him again. maybe itula jodoh. so i just cakap straight yg i x nk main2, kalu suke masuk minang. well the rest is history

green~tea

Yg betul2 i jatuh hati 2 kali je... 1st BF couple 6 bulan jerk, pastu kena tinggal sbb i rebound dia je, clash sbb ex GF nak dia balik.... such an insult to me, sbb pompuan tu x lawa pun... i jadi depressed sbb my self esteem was literally crushed...

2nd Bf, i tak jatuh hati langsung, so i tak include dlm statistic ni, i just stay with him for 3 yrs sbb i tak dpt create reason utk clash.. finally dpt clash sbb mak heols suruh heols kawen sbb nak masuk 30, but i masih study 4th yr...

3rd BF my ex husband.. i couple dgn dia lepas 1 month clash wakakkakakka... tu pun ter"couple" sbb i asik kena kacau dgn laki org masa i practical.. pastu ada few engineers kat kilang i practical duk paksa2 i siap bawak jumpa parents... so i sauk je sapa paling hensem dah alang2 semua sama level engineer kat situ... lepas couple tu, heols keje middle east sampai laa kawen...

Pas kawen, weols continue long distance relationship for 7 yrs... so i didnt get to know my ex really well... then i minta transfer supaya dekat ngn husband masa tu.. lepas duduk sekali baru realize tak serasi.. we're doing just so so je, tp yg teruk kan keadaan is family in laws yg suka bawang, gosip  reka cerita, fitnah kena boikot 5 tahun... penat... so iols ceraikan laki (file kat mahkamah).. 8 bulan jugak i turun naik mahkamah utk kes cerai hakam ni, siap pakej kena keji "PADAN MUKA" from my ex and his family.. ex i dah bertunang pun masa kes mahkamah berjalan, he got married just 2 weeks after kitorg official cerai...

Then lepas cerai... i met few guys sbb kawan2 rekemen, tp takde satu pun yg buat i head over heels, sampaikan i would rather go to the gym and dancing dari buang masa dating mereka.... i install tinder, masa ni berkenalan dgn my current husband.. we chat, exchange pics.. tp i tak minat nak proceed sbb serabut will all the boys kat ofis etc ni... tp dah jodoh kami kot, i somehow terserempak this tinder guy kat starbucks 3 kali berturut2 within 2 weeks, i mmg cam dia sbb i tengok beberapa gambar dia.... dia ajak dating so okay la i setuju keluar once dgn dia... somehow masa dating tu i tak sedar masa berlalu pantas because we had really good conversation.... i knew by that time he's my soulmate... kitorg decide utk kawen lepas few months kenal... alhamdulillah he's the one

Thank God for this 2nd chance.. TQ pada my dearest friends yg meyakinkan i that i deserve my 2nd chance.. malas nak puji husband lebih2 kat sini.. kang kena sondol wakakakkakakak

green~tea

Dari segi jatuh hati... yg betul2 i jatuh hati head over heels is my first boyfriend tu... then i felt the same love with my current husband ni... my 1st BF tu walau couple 6 months.. it took me 4 yrs++ utk move on... even masa i dah kawen dgn my ex, i still ada rasa sakit hati pada my 1st BF tu.... ape ke degil i ni kan, payah betul nak move on.. dgn ex husband, sempat jugak kawen selama 12 tahun sebelum i tawar hati sampai level muntah nak tengok muka...

Dgn husband i ni, i betul2 jatuh hati, the same butterfly in my stomach i rasa everytime i keluar ngedate dia...  i harap cinta ini until jannah...

misuke

green~tea replied at 4-1-2021 06:12 PM
Yg betul2 i jatuh hati 2 kali je... 1st BF couple 6 bulan jerk, pastu kena tinggal sbb i rebound dia ...

your story ni such rainbow after the rains. btw... second marriage ni umur u brape.. sbb mcm lama jugak kisah dgn ex husb tu kan

green~tea

misuke replied at 4-1-2021 08:13 PM
your story ni such rainbow after the rains. btw... second marriage ni umur u brape.. sbb mcm lama  ...

2nd marriage umur 37.. hehehe, now i dah 40... lama jugak i nak jumpa bahagia tu... tp tak pe lah.. every experience is worth it...

jatuh tergolek divorce is perit... sbb paling leceh part harta sepencarian tu lah...

pakwetizzaqyah

9 orang
tu dari bangku sekolah ajak2 cinta sekolah dlu tu
yang ke 10 baru alhamdulillah

doubleA

The one for me ialah org yg complement you, and both of you need each other. Lama bercinta dgn husband before we were ready to get married. Dalam tempoh tu both of us tak jalin relationship dengan org lain, we wait for each other. Sampai dah kawen ni pun I could not imagine my soulmate would be better than him. Semoga Allah panjangkan umur dan jodoh kami dalam keberkatan

awenda507

Sorg tu je dari zmn skola smpai kawen

rookiecake

In the process of searching the one but for me I don’t do dates. I will list down my dealbreakers and be upfront about the traits I’d like to be in the person. If he doesn’t meet the minimum, I’ll politely inform him that we aren’t compatible and go our separate way. If we are, I will then get to know the person even further.. I judge by his current character and not hoping he will change one day.

anakmak

Interesting

anakmak

Adakah yg the one tu yg jadi spouse kita?

chenta_dewi

Megikari replied at 3-1-2021 05:13 PM
Boipren no 1 - bercinta sejak form 4. Bila aku masuk U dia stay form 6. Aku dapat tau dia curang mas ...

Syioknye..menjadik

chenta_dewi

green~tea replied at 4-1-2021 06:12 PM
Yg betul2 i jatuh hati 2 kali je... 1st BF couple 6 bulan jerk, pastu kena tinggal sbb i rebound dia ...

Wow mest kamoo cantek

green~tea

chenta_dewi replied at 5-1-2021 03:15 PM
Wow mest kamoo cantek

Haaa... celah mana u dpt conclusion gini.. 4 BF je sepanjang 40 tahun kehidupan.. koleksi yg tidak membanggakan wakakkakakkaka....

ramaramu

i believe i kenal cinta masa i serious dengan laki ni, mula mula tak nak sebab dia bukan type i tapi sebab single i layan je la, kawan yang recommend. after few months i was pretty sure he was the one sebab i never felt like this with any men. malangnya after 3 years, dia kahwin orang lain. arranged marriage macam drama melayu i merayu mak dia. tapi dah bukan jodoh kan. setahun i down tak buat apa. quit study and everything.

after that i dated here and there. jumpa my ex husband. i loved him but i know not as much as i love my ex boyfriend. tapi dah jodoh. so continue lah. masa divorce i tak rasa seperit i broke up dengan my ex bf. so i know la he was never the one.

then dated here and there until jumpa my hubs now. he is a lot older so conversation tu more mature and tak ada janji manis sewaktu berkenalan. he is sweet and attentive in his own way. i fall in love with him more and more each day. maybe dia the one. hopefully kekal sampai i tutup mata.

J4I

anakmak replied at 5-1-2021 02:52 PM
Adakah yg the one tu yg jadi spouse kita?

For me yes. But it is up to you how you define it.

Twirlyhoo

My first BF kenal masa form 1. Kami berkawan for over 5 years. Dia jumpa orang lain masa dia buat diploma i lak kat matriks. Dia yg minta putus. I tak frust pun sebab i felt he wasn't the one somewhat. Sebab i rasa we don't share the same dream. Bila dia cakap pasal kahwin masa tu i dlm hati fikir i taknak pun kahwin dengan dia, lagipun maybe masa tu muda sgt lg. Stayed in that relationship just because.
At the same time ada la kawan2 dengan org lain juga. Masa tu I berkawan dengan now husband (masa tu kawan je). Dia memang minat i. I pun suka je dia tapi kawan2 mcm tu je(tulis surat/phone calls). Tak keluar dating pun. Tp based from our conversation thru those calls/letters, i rasa we shared the same views, dream and vision. Kalau bersembang tu, flow tak putus. Ada je topik utk dibincangkan. After 10 years kenal/kawan kami kahwin. I can say that he is my bff, lover and the one that I can count on. La ni kami pjj since 2 years ago..rasa rindu tu mcm tak bertepi. Rasa mcm patah sebelah sayap bila dia tiada di sisi, chewah. Macam hilang kawan untuk bersembang, walhal ckp je thru fon everyday cuma rasa xsama. Gaduh/merajuk tu adat la kan in any relationship. Cuma kami ni takleh lama2 sgt bg silent treatment. Rasa sunyi hidup padahal anak2 ada je utk dikisahkan.Maybe la dia The One....12 years and counting till jannah

Youareyou788

Macamana nak tau the one, yang dah kawen pon bleh bercerai. The one yang di Atas only.