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Post time 18-2-2021 05:30 PM
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Edited by green~tea at 1-1-2025 06:17 PM
meah_kelabu replied at 18-2-2021 04:52 PM
we are living seperately skrg sbb dia dh decide utk balik kampung n try buat bisnes dkt sane
so s ...
Yes complicated, kalo iols choose separate ways dah.. |
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I rasa i faham je perasaan you. Masalah i pon kompleks. Kompleks sebab luaran nampak normal, ok happy. Tapi dalaman still ada unsettled issues.
I banyak kali berselisih faham yang mana end up, bila ok, memang akan ada sesi pujuk memujuk, tapi bila benda tu berulang, i rasa tawar hati sangat2. Tapi bila dah berbaik (sekarang), i cuba untuk positif thinking, maybe akan ok. Skarang ni takde bergaduh atau isu pon, cumanya, dalam hati ni tengok suami takde perasaan cinta. Macam you cakaplah, i rasa i ni tak bersyukur ke dapat suami camni.. dari segi nafkah zahir takde masalah walaupon ada je time dia berkira. sebab bila nak sit down bincang, dia taknak dengar. Lepas tu marah dan dingin.. Hurm..
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ye. sayang. tp sayang tu apa? kdang2 bila asik bergaduh baik bergaduh baik ni at one point akan terfikir, ape sebenarnya yang aku cari dalam perkahwinan ni. kenapa aku masih bertahan? anak, sayang atau kesian?
sebab hati ni dh tak de perasaan
circle tu tak akan berakhir
skrg ni i tgh ade issue dgn husband. puncanya sbb i nk ajak berbincang tapi as predicted la, sebut je perkataan keramat tu booommmm belom apa2 dh meletup.
so i said to myself, ok fine. i dah xnak jaga hati sape2 skrg. biar je la masa yang tentukan
baik i focus on myself, sibukkan diri dengan bende lain, reward myself dgn makanan ke ape, n i ade je source of happiness yang lain. i got my nieces, cousins yg boleh ceriakan my life n my son.
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green~tea replied at 16-2-2021 08:49 PM
Ladies.. what did you do for self reward?
Mcm iols, beli handbag.. tak minat beli jam
setakat ni iols xde istilah self reward.huhu
iols jenis jarangg soping tp kalau iols soping mmg soping betul2 la
tp itu mungkin terjadi dalam 2 tahun sekali ke..
buat masa skg i enjoy simpan duit dulu utk reach certain amount yg i target
hopefully lepas covid boleh travel |
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Post time 20-2-2021 11:42 PM
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meah_kelabu replied at 19-2-2021 08:50 AM
ye. sayang. tp sayang tu apa? kdang2 bila asik bergaduh baik bergaduh baik ni at one point akan te ...
Sometimes kita bertahan sbb dah malas nak start something new.. kalo takat salah satu tanggungjawab tak fulfilled, contoh, takde nafkah batin, tp zahir ok... kita wanita boleh je pejam mata and bertahan... tp kalo dalam perkahwinan tu dah takde apa yg boleh dipegang.. nafkah zahir batin dinafikan... family buat hal.. mmg last2 kita yg depress sendiri2... sbb itu pilihan kita.. nak meluah kat bff pun sampai bjla.. lama2 dirog pun menyampah duk asik dengar benda sama tp no improvement...
So choose wisely.. and once ada keputusan apa2.. be strong... |
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meah_kelabu replied at 18-2-2021 04:52 PM
we are living seperately skrg sbb dia dh decide utk balik kampung n try buat bisnes dkt sane
so s ...
I baca pun dah rasa complicatednya. I doakan you dapat keluar dari masalah ini semua.. |
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green~tea replied at 16-2-2021 08:49 PM
Ladies.. what did you do for self reward?
Mcm iols, beli handbag.. tak minat beli jam
When u asked about this..i start to think ape yg i reward for myself??
Selalunya mcm kebanyakkan wanita lain.mekap..baju..emas...mmmm..p makan sedap sedap.. |
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Post time 21-2-2021 08:59 AM
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Edited by green~tea at 1-1-2025 06:17 PM
hidet replied at 21-2-2021 12:52 AM
When u asked about this..i start to think ape yg i reward for myself??
Selalunya mcm kebanyakkan ...
I pun duk discuss dengan husband about self reward...
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green~tea replied at 21-2-2021 08:59 AM
I pun duk discuss dengan husband about self reward...
He said the ideal case would be beli o ...
Oooo..selalunya reward I takla besar besar..bersesuaian la dengan budget.tapi sometimes mcm dah jadi kerap pulak..like baju mekap semua tu..so its not really reward rase nye..hihi |
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Post time 21-2-2021 09:40 AM
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Edited by green~tea at 21-2-2021 09:43 AM
hidet replied at 21-2-2021 09:35 AM
Oooo..selalunya reward I takla besar besar..bersesuaian la dengan budget.tapi sometimes mcm dah ja ...
Itu laa i sendiri confused what is the real definition of self reward.. maybe kalo suka kecik2 boleh kerap2 sikit reward kan, mcm perfume etc..
Travelling also can be a self reward.... i suka travel juga, tp now dah lamaa sgt terperuk... |
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green~tea replied at 21-2-2021 09:40 AM
Itu laa i sendiri confused what is the real definition of self reward.. maybe kalo suka kecik2 b ...
One question .reward tu adakah from duit bulanan gaji yg kita put aside for reward purpose or tarik from saving? |
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Post time 21-2-2021 11:50 AM
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Edited by green~tea at 1-1-2025 06:17 PM
hidet replied at 21-2-2021 11:21 AM
One question .reward tu adakah from duit bulanan gaji yg kita put aside for reward purpose or tari ...
Some people taruk dalam tabung reward... sbb takmo campur aduk dgn savings lain... boleh create i-akaun dalam maybank 0 fees je, supaya senang tak terbelanja...
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green~tea replied at 16-2-2021 08:49 PM
Ladies.. what did you do for self reward?
Mcm iols, beli handbag.. tak minat beli jam
I beli jewellery
Handbag brand apa chuols suka? |
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green~tea replied at 16-2-2021 10:03 PM
Bila u nak sambung study? Dalam bidang apa? I duk berangan nak sambung MBA lepas retire ni.. urgh. ...
Wow MBA go green go!
u plan retire awal ya? |
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Post time 23-2-2021 05:20 PM
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Heydidle replied at 23-2-2021 01:57 PM
I beli jewellery
Handbag brand apa chuols suka?
Handbags semua brand hahahahahaha... tamak!!!! Tp i mmg limit beli handbag sebiji setahun sahaja |
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Topik best2 ja kalau akak green buka ni. Ok nak save link nati baca |
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Nak tanya kat tt and forumers. Kalau ada problem darkspot dengan large pores, nak tackle mane satu dulu? Sebab product whitening ni selalu separate kan. |
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green~tea replied at 8-2-2021 04:49 PM
Dont be hard on yourself dear.... looks boleh dibaiki.. beauty is effort, that's what i always ...
Wah kakk cantik nye badann. Saye berat 55, tp sebab pendek 147 ja, saya jadi overweight |
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PetaiEmas replied at 14-3-2021 11:01 PM
Wah kakk cantik nye badann. Saye berat 55, tp sebab pendek 147 ja, saya jadi overweight
BMI tu menten under 23 lah.. tu je target... |
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PetaiEmas replied at 14-3-2021 11:01 PM
Wah kakk cantik nye badann. Saye berat 55, tp sebab pendek 147 ja, saya jadi overweight
BMI tu menten under 23 lah.. tu je target... |
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