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Edited by Lula2 at 16-2-2021 10:04 PM
green~tea replied at 16-2-2021 08:49 PM
Ladies.. what did you do for self reward?
Mcm iols, beli handbag.. tak minat beli jam
I sekarang banyak spend duit untuk rumah. Beli robot vacuum la.
Now i tengah aim nak siapkan home office.
I consider benda2 tu self reward sbb nanti kita akan happy berada dalam rumah kita sendiri.
In my 20s i suka beli baju2. Now no more. Banyak baju i dah let go. |
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Post time 16-2-2021 10:03 PM
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Lula2 replied at 16-2-2021 09:51 PM
I sekarang banyak spend duit untuk rumah. Beli robot vacuum la.
Now i tengah aim nak siapkan home ...
Bila u nak sambung study? Dalam bidang apa? I duk berangan nak sambung MBA lepas retire ni.. urgh.. byk betul planning.. semoga materialised |
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Sayangi diri sendiri= self confidence |
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Align with your values. Nilai-nilai merupakan self confidence terdalam yg kita miliki tentang cara kita hidup, membuat pilihan / memutuskan sikap, yg biasanya berhubungan pada area seperti keluarga, pasangan, pengasuhan anak, pertemanan, kehidupan sosial, lingkungan, karir, rekreasi, edukasi, kesehatan, dan pandangan spiritual. Nilai-nilai tersebut biasanya didapat ketika kita masih kanak-kanak sesuai dengan apa yg diajarkan oleh family, yg dikenal sebagai benar / salah, dan penting atau tidak penting. |
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green~tea replied at 16-2-2021 10:03 PM
Bila u nak sambung study? Dalam bidang apa? I duk berangan nak sambung MBA lepas retire ni.. urgh. ...
I plan tahun ni, tp tgk la mcm mana jumpa supervisor ke tak, bos bagi cuti ke tak.
Nak kumpul duit bayar yuran lg huhu.
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dulu kalau self reward selalu beli mcm mekap ka, baju ke.. skrg sebab pkp more to upgarde brg kt rumah jer.. nak selesa.. deko sikit.. pastu tanam bunga.. funny part dia i minat bunga tapi tahla org kata tgn panas kot selalu tanam tak menjadi.. so selalu jiran i yg tanam smpai jadi elok baru i amik tanam dlm pasu rumah sndiri.. jiran i tu mak i.. hahaha |
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Post time 17-2-2021 08:16 AM
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Edited by green~tea at 1-1-2025 06:15 PM
Redmyvi replied at 17-2-2021 08:00 AM
dulu kalau self reward selalu beli mcm mekap ka, baju ke.. skrg sebab pkp more to upgarde brg kt rum ...
Hahaha sama sikit part semai benih tu... PIL i s |
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bg self reward..dulu i suka beli baju, bra/panties..
tetapi sejak mco rasa x byk beli lagi dah.. lebih kpd menabung..maybe for future use like travelling when the covid is over..
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hrap kak green tea share lg tips2 yg menarik.. suka baca |
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Baru terjumpa benang ni best sume share2.
Last year kerja stress sgt smpai i rasa most of the time sugar craving. Pulak personal shopper asek cover sale coklat klia (which way cheaper tho dh nak dekat best by date..tp coklat best by which means still boleh makan few months after the date). So menjadi2 makan coklat share dgn anak2
Starting this year slowly nk cut sugar. Since berat pun ayo tak turun2, while husband almost hit his target ..tp itule asek terbayang sedapnya coklat..so just started to replace dgn tomato cherry. Hopefully by year end dah tak heran makan coklat |
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Edited by green~tea at 1-1-2025 06:15 PM
choc ni problem husband i.. hahahahha
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Post time 17-2-2021 05:54 PM
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tudungpurple replied at 17-2-2021 05:24 PM
Baru terjumpa benang ni best sume share2.
Last year kerja stress sgt smpai i rasa most of the tim ...
Bila u mention tomato cherry tu okay lahhhhh emmmmmmm.. not that palatable for me as compared to those sinful indulgence chocs... 
Cuba la that atkins snacks.. sedapppppp.. tp please dont binge eating it... just makan utk lepas gian je |
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takpe jugak camtu.. aim for later reward, set aside some money every month
jgn tetiba sampai masa aih.. sayang pulak dah kumpul byk2 , baik sumbat asb
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Post time 17-2-2021 07:55 PM
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Edited by green~tea at 1-1-2025 06:15 PM
sasasoso replied at 17-2-2021 07:06 PM
pelik. katanya marriage without sex is helpless, tp bnyk cerita marriage with sex jua berterabur,mar ...
Sexless tu sendiri dah langgar basic fundamental tujuan perkahwinan.... tanggungjawab perkahwinan tu nafkah batin, nafkah zahir & id like to add komunikasi... mostly laman KRT duk perjuangkan nafkah zahir, sedangkan punca perceraian adalah nafkah batin..
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Post time 17-2-2021 08:10 PM
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Edited by green~tea at 1-1-2025 06:15 PM
Im trying as much as possible here, to advocate betapa pentingnya kita aware apa yg penting utk buat kita happy... there are of course many ways yg i dah kupas above... |
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Post time 17-2-2021 10:59 PM
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sasasoso replied at 17-2-2021 09:20 PM
yaa sistur jwpn itu..masalah utama adelah isu komunikasi.tak cakap ( sbb taknak disclose jujur ant ...
Iya, i pun belajar pasal benefit meruang tu.. cuma i tak berani nak masukkan chemical or pencuci semasa douching ke apa... insert jamu pun i tak berani buat.. jamu consume orally ok je bg i.. bawah tu biar lah probiotics do the work... |
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Post time 17-2-2021 11:03 PM
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Edited by green~tea at 1-1-2025 06:15 PM
sasasoso replied at 17-2-2021 09:20 PM
yaa sistur jwpn itu..masalah utama adelah isu komunikasi.tak cakap ( sbb taknak disclose jujur ant ...
Actually i ada pernah buka thread on tips penjagaan rose / vagina... tp board tu tak pop
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thanks greentea. bnyk bnde baru belajar
bile bace dkt sini sbnrnye banyak issue perkahwinan ni
mcm me myself, i’m in phase yg i tak happy n i’m trying myself nk keluar dari permasalahan tu. the root course yg i nampak dkt sini adelah sbb masalah komunikasi. i cant have a good talk and discussion towards my partner sbb endup dia akan salahkan i, and we keep blaming each other.
sampai satu tahap dah taktau nk buat mcm mane and i start to avoid it and pretend mcm xde ape tp deep inside i tau, selagi xsettle, i’m not gonna be happy |
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Edited by green~tea at 1-1-2025 06:17 PM
i copy paste my response dalam thread sexless marriage, sbb i rasa mcm sama permasalahan dia...
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we are living seperately skrg sbb dia dh decide utk balik kampung n try buat bisnes dkt sane
so skrg i dgn anak dkt kl tp luckily i'm staying with my family
ikotkan hati mmg rase nk separate je sbb entahla..xde beza kot non functional family mcm ni. sorg sane sorg sini n yet xde mutual understanding
nafkah smua so far ok n mungkin akan ade yg ckp iols xbersyukur
tapi tu la.. i pon kompius.. i ke yg tak sabar sngt? or terlalu -ve
in laws sngtlah xmembantu. i dunno whyla mmg xboleh msuk sngt dgn mil
dia xde buat ape tp dia xbuat ape tu yg i rase mcm xnormal. haaa..susah kan nk paham
i makan hati sbb my hubs too protective dgn family dia smpaikan tahap i org luar n i xde hak ape2. ok paham, tp yg smpai nk kene menipu lagi2 psl duit2 dah kenapa kan
so bnda2 tu yg build up rasa xsenang i dgn in laws. bnyk sngt hiding2 ni. ape motif pon xtau
so bile husb i buat smthing related dgn family dia, i akan memberontak dlm diam. i akan start cari pasal kaitkan bnde2 yg xde kene mengene n nnti husb i clueless kenapa i nk put on tantrum. tp my side plak, i xboleh nk berterus terang sbbnya dia akan snapped terus bila i sebut je perkataan family dia.
complicated kan?
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