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Apa yg buat lelaki gila sgt kat satu-satu perempuan
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Originally posted by andria at 6-10-2007 01:02 PM 
Mind elaborating?
you wrote about the attributes that women must or do possess in order for them
to get a man..it sounds to me to be a tad shallow, to bow to the needs and wants of a man
what a man is looking for in a woman as shared with you from a man perspective, it sounds a bit
too...how do i say it without sounding like an old hag? it seems that we're back in the old days
where we are told on what and what not to do |
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Reply #282 OsHiN_hOnEy's post
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Originally posted by Dunhill. at 6-10-2007 01:26 PM
alhamdolellah .. :re:
apa yang buat bang dunhill gila kat satu2 perempuan? share lah dengan oshin  |
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Reply #285 OsHiN_hOnEy's post
iye kot  |
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Reply #284 OsHiN_hOnEy's post
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abe pon tk leh nk kasi jawapan .. :re: |
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Reply #287 Dunhill.'s post
macam mana oshin nak tolong carikan GF buat abang??  |
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shin...toksah carik GF utk dia...kalo ko nak pahala, terus carikkkan bini je!  |
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Reply #289 peahjamboo's post
macam mana nak cari kan peah? dia tak beritahu kriteria dia....kat benang lagi satu
pun tak mahu buh bio.. |
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Originally posted by OsHiN_hOnEy at 6-10-2007 13:18 
you wrote about the attributes that women must or do possess in order for them
to get a man..it sounds to me to be a tad shallow, to bow to the needs and wants of a man
what a man is looking ...
Yes, u DO have a choice actually. U can just be who u are. And hope that fate lets u meet someone, who loves u for who u are, as well.
But u see, just because u have safely married a single man, it does not mean everything ends there.
Now u have to protect ur marriage, so that ur hubby belongs to u, and ONLY u.
U have to make him crazy about u. To the level, where u are indispensable.
IMHO, marriage is not run on auto-pilot. U have to work smart, to make it a success.
U don't simply surrender to fate anymore, or luck, or love...
U take it for granted, other single female predators are just waiting for a chance to pounce on ur hubby...
And some of these women are experts in melting men's hearts...
U might not be able to compete with them bare-handed...
Love itself, will NOT survive a marriage...
Else, we wouldn't hear so many extra marital affair cases...
Even when love is present...
Conclusion? This is not about boosting the men's ego... this is about LOVE, and what u are willing to do, to keep the LOVE, always ALIVE & FRESH... Because love is just like faith... sometimes it's up, sometimes it's down... u have to work to polish ur faith (religionwise), it's the same with love... U make it stronger everyday, by being creative... No one wants to do something, if he/she doesn't get anything out of it. SO why are u willing to do this? Simple - because u LOVE him. U don't wanna lose him to someone else. If, along that process, ur man's ego is boosted, then don't u think, that is a BONUS POINT for u? There is no such thing as boosting a man's ego. There is ONLY LOVE. Everything u do, will ALWAYS come back to it's original cause - LOVE.
And let the truth be told - No one has a right to ask u to do or not do anything. It's all up to u, depending on what u want in ur life, in ur love, in ur (future) marriage. And no one also says this is a one-way road. It's BOTH ways. Man & Woman. The woman has to communicate to her man, and tell him gently, what she wants. It's about compromise, understanding, respect and again, LOVE. Since each relationship is unique, only YOU know the best way to win over ur man's heart, because only u know him... Contrary to popular belief, love DOES need work around it. Ever heard? U reap, what u sow... So if u're not willing to sow anything, and u just wanna rely solely on love - alone, then end of the day, if another female comes along and sow the seeds for u, don't blame her if she's the one who's gonna do the reapings, and not u...
* Teringat 1400 tahun yg lalu... bagaimana layanan seorg isteri terhadap suaminya, membolehkan dia masuk syurga terlebih dahulu, sebelum Siti Fatimah, penghulu syurga itu sendiri dpt memasukinya... sedangkan bekalannya hanyalah sebotol air, dan sebatang tongkat...
[ Last edited by andria at 6-10-2007 04:04 PM ] |
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Originally posted by andria at 6-10-2007 04:00 PM 
So if u're not willing to sow anything, and u just wanna rely solely on love - alone, then end of the day, if another female comes along and sow the seeds for u, don't blame her if she's the one who's gonna do the reapings, and not u...
senang citer mcm ni...
1. yg ada hb...layan la hb sebaik mungkin. jgn take things for granted...dia cinta kita today, tak bermakna dia cinta hanya kita esok. jaga diri tu, penampilan, kelakuan, percakapan. mmg la kita busy dgn anak2...jgn lupa baby besar kita tu. dia pun nak pampering. kadang2 ngalah budak2...layan la dia.
2. yg minah2 lain yg dok terkejar2, terhegeh2 kat laki org nih...dah la...gi la cari lelaki2 single cam dunhill tu...yg dah lama membujang, dlm keadaan kegersangan tuh! berlambak2 dorang nih. and kalu korang rasa dorang ni cam tak menarik hati..cam uncouth, tak suave, tak de duit...korang train la dorang ni. bagi semangat suh berjaya dlm hidup. yg laki2 org yg korang dok terhegeh2 tu, bini2 dorang dah betahun2 train dorang nih. mula2 dulu sama je laki2 org ni cam dunhill tu ...bini jaga makan minum, makan pakai, kasik matching baju dgn sluar, kasik tegur kalau cakap kurang adab, ingatkan tarikh2 penting cam bdays, anniversaries, kasik suggestion hair style camana yg leh wat dorang handsome, keta apa yg cun dorang patut beli, perfume apa yg sedap pompuan suka bau....byk kerja nih. korang start la from scratch...jgn la org lain dah susah2 sowing the seeds, korang senang2 nak amik shortcut reaping all the wives' hard work. korang ingat secara magic ke laki2 org nih jadik begitu attractive, berjaya dan berduit??? TiDAKKKK!!! byk kerja dah bini2 buat tuk dorang jadik cam ni. stop and think about it!
3. yg laki2 org ni lak...jgn la habis madu sepah dibuang. bini tu la yg bersusah2 bersama dengan awak masa awak mula2 nak start dulu. yg sanggup terima duit hantaran RM3000-Rm5000 masa korang sengkek nak kawin dulu. yg sanggup pakai baju kurung buat dari kain gorgette, yg tak serap peluh tu. cinta kat awak tu, takpa la hidup susah pun. yg korang tak mampu nak bagi dia duit tuk cantikkan diri dia dulu2,,,cam buat hair kat salon, manicure pedicure, facial bagai. duit bang oi...seme perlu duit. korang yg tak mampu dulu nak beli dia perfume yg sedap bau yg designers tu...terpaksa la dia pakai perfume avon, minyak atar so dia bau wangi tu korang (yg sebenrnya membusukkan lagi! aiyooo!). jgn la bila dah berduit...labur duit ni kat minah2 yg nak amik jln shortcut nih! mmg la nampak cantik, bau wangi,....dah dorang tak yah bersusah payah hidup dgn ko dulu masa ko mula2 tak berduit dulu. bini tu la yg ngajor korang camana nak behave with women...bila dah pandai, gi guna skill tu gi ngayat minah2 shortcut ni lak. betul2 la kacang lupakan kulit.
think about it!
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Originally posted by wifeorg at 6-10-2007 17:50
senang citer mcm ni...
1. yg ada hb...layan la hb sebaik mungkin. jgn take things for granted...dia cinta kita today, tak bermakna dia cinta hanya kita esok. jaga diri tu, penampilan, kela ...
Nice one, wife...  |
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Post time 6-10-2007 01:18 PM
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