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"Dalam Proses Maknanya Belum Bercerai Lagi" - Serina Redzuawan
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Adakah org ketiga itu apak nye Serina sendiri? Kadang2 makbapak masuk campur urusan lakibini anak2 pun xmembantu.. Tau la chef wan tu kaya raya so what? Heoll expects menantu dia ni nak selevel kaya dia ke? Kalau nak ikut statement chef wan pasal menantu dia ni nampak sgt expectation heoll tinggi.. Not all the time makbapak kita betul.. Kita punya rumahtangga kita jaga jelah elok2.. Jgn dikongsi sgt masalah lakibini dgn makbapak kita nnt mcm2 cerita xsedap kita dgr, belum lg nasihat2 yg ada kalanya boleh bertukar jadi hasutan.. Sabar ye Serina, bincang wlok2 especially when you have children please don't be selfish. You've been there when your parents got divorced so maybe you wouldn't want that to happen to your kids either. |
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belum jadi janda pun gigih anak perempuan kerja cam orang gila sebab nak sara anak2... ingat dah cerai lagi senang ke nak tuntut nafkah anak... chef wan ni sah sampai masa kena insat dari bongkak dan riak n suka mengata orang... bertimpa2 Allah tunjuk kat anak2 tapi dia masih ranak nampak...
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Edited by faraway1 at 15-4-2017 09:59 AM
ni kedekut tahap nak mampus.
me kenal so pilipino kat sini, ni cita atas kawanlah ....
bangsa french canadian juga kahwin dnegan pilipino.
masa dorang sesama tinggal kat filipine, laki tu baik sangat,
kira manjakan bini tapi sekali balik canada semula, berubah habis,
bini kena bagi duit sewa lagi padahal dorang duduk rumah lelaki
tu yang dah habis bayar (lelaki tu tua bandingkan bini dia)
duit tadika pun bini kena bayar padahal tak keja.
nak tak nak kena sabar 3 tahun untuk buat syarat PR
supaya tak dibatalkan.
sian sangat dengar cita cita camni.
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Kalau tgk linkedin gavin mcm masyuk je..owner lah, ceo lah,director lah.. |
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Salam takziah dr ku utk mu |
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Mcm2 pesen org laki ni .setahu aku Gavin ni keje baguih jugak .tak paham bile bab nafkah liat jugak eh? Just pandangan aku saje, lelaki kokusen ni penyayang, considerate dan romantika ..kalau ade kes cerai pon sb depa ni agak susah nak follow ajaran Islam atau masih nak life style mcm belom Islam. Kalau nak idup senang beranak je and jaga anak kawen lah dgn org Korea
 Mostly consultant kt opis aku (Korean) wife tak keje and full housewive. Depa ni agak conservative sikit, to them wife kene duk umah jage anak |
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Apapun..iolss teringin nak maembong lak wat ulasan panjang lebar pasal ex menanti chef riz |
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Itulah anak dia bukannya hidup merempattttt tak berbajuuuu, masihhh berbajuuuu lengkapppp cuma tak mahall di mata dia jah. Dia pulak duk hasut2 tapi dia tak sedarrr konon bagi dia sayang anak nak anak pakai baju mahallll, dia kaya boleh le tapi tak semua lelaki sekaya dia. Biarlah anak tu bina hidop sendiri ikut taraf kemampuan n persefakatan dorg laki bini.
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Ok maybe serina jenis tak jaga sgt penampilan dia mcm retis2 lain. Tp apak dia kecoh sgtttt anak dia pakai baju murah, menantu kena mewahkan anak dia, itu semua campur tgn thp hasutan. Mungkin serina tak kisah ganding bahu dgn laki dia jana ekonomi keluarga tp klu chef wan duk sebut2 benda tu sampaiiii bunyi mcm negatif kan dah menghasuttttt serina yg bendul tu.
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Sepatutnya chepwan jgn bagi statement sbb ni rumahtangga serina...serina pulak ikut je...tak boleh nak fikir sendiri....kalau dia tak mengadu mcm mana chepwan tahu kan...mungkin tak sanggup hidup sederhana kot....expect gavin mewahkan dia mcm apaknya mewahkan dia dan ex-wife...
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OrenTheReturn replied at 16-4-2017 11:23 PM
Itulah anak dia bukannya hidup merempattttt tak berbajuuuu, masihhh berbajuuuu lengkapppp cuma tak ...
Adik oren husband support semua ke atau share dgn husband? |
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Amboiiii soalan lol. Jujurin nya mmg hb aku byr segala expenses kitaorg laki bini, alhamdulillah walaupun bukan taraf bill gate tp gaji dia mampu cover keseluruhan expenses rmhtangga kitaorg. Tp aku tak anggap gaji aku adalah duit aku seorg sebaliknya duit bersama sbg simpanan bersama campur dgn balance duit dia lps byr segala expenses bulanan, kira mcm duit simpanan bersama yg blh digunakan bersama klu kita ada plan apa2 cth nak pegi planet marikh ke atau klu dia nak beli apa2 yg mahal ke atau aku sendiri nak beli brg mahal ke (tp aku takde apa sgt brg mahal nak beli). Hidop berumahtangga kan satu perkongsian, jadi bagi aku takde istilah duit aku duit aku duit ko duit aku, tp duit bersama. Act kak katalah klu gaji hb aku tak mampu nak cover keseluruhan expenses bulanan kitaorg pun aku tak kisah kena contribute sama cover expenses rumahtangga, bagi aku apalah sgt kena sama2 bantu byr expenses bulanan klu laki kita dah baik sgt dr segi2 lain, sayang kita jaga kita baik rajin buat keja masak kemas bagaiiiii....apalah nak kira setakat sama2 berganding bahu uruskan ekonomi rmhtangga, lautan api pun sanggopp ku renangi lol. Lagipun aku perlu rasa aku juga capable utk contribute part ekonomi sbb tu walaupun hb aku dr mula tak pernah demand aku kena share byr apa2 tp aku sendiri cakap kat dia gaji aku masuk dlm simpanan bersama campur dgn balance duit gaji dia lps byr semua, sbb itu adalah balance dr isi rumah. Apalah sgt duit kak takkan kita nak kena kan laki kita, yg penting dia baik dan kita bahagia. In case klu bercerai sekalipun segala duit simpanan akan dibahagi dua, taknak aku lari sorg2 bolot semua tinggal dia merempattttt, takde rasa peace kenakan org. |
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Eh ko mcm mana kak husband tanggong ke? Lol mood kaypohhh jugak
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Edited by monsterwife at 17-4-2017 07:13 AM
penmerah replied at 17-4-2017 01:19 AM
kannnnnn!
kalo laki baik... menyenangkan hati.... ala2 malaikat perangainya bukan seperti syoitan ...
Kalau laki kaya menyakitkan hati buat Apa. At least husband akak tlong Akak masak atau cuci pinggan mangkuk bila dah habis masak. Tapi takdelah mendera pulak  .alhamdulillah syukur sgt2 |
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Edited by faraway1 at 16-4-2017 09:44 PM
me stay at home mom ..
so bukan seharusnya my husband sponsor hidup ku ini anak beranak?
kalau nak melahar, sila cek diri sendiri, kekadang me rasa
hidup me aman damai murah rezeki sebab asyik diumpat forummer aje
dulu orang forum ejek me mandul, so bila ready kami nak anak, terus ngandung..
memang senang dapat rezeki me ni ...
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Chep wan ni pun xyah pertikai sgt tgjwb sbg org islam apa bagai...patutnya dr awai dia bantu menantu mendekati islam...ni dia pun duk seluar pendek atas lutut bagai |
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https://mymalayblogger.com/2017/ ... ly-matters-private/
April 17
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Gavin O’Luanaigh
Serina Redzuawan
Keeping family matters private
Posted by admin on 17/04/2017 in Uncategorized | Leave a comment
After Chef Wan’s announcement of impending divorce, Serina Redzuawan’s husband issues media statement on marriage and divorce.
Gavin-OLuanaigh-1
When any couple are going through a divorce with a young family, it is never a happy time and certainly not to be celebrated.
It is the hope of any family that all other family members support the couple and help them as much as possible through this tough time by keeping matters private, especially when children are involved.
It was with great sadness therefore that certain comments about my family were released to the media, on my birthday of all days, about our marriage that both Serina and myself have been at pains to keep private and within the confines of our immediate family and friends.
As most people know, I converted to Islam in 2006, met Serina in 2009 and married in 2010, which was the happiest day in my life, prior to my children being born.
My parents have been happily married for over 47 years and although there are always ups and downs in marriage, I truly thought and hoped it would last forever. Marriage is not a gamble but about love, hard work, commitment and sacrifice.
As Serina has always been in the media line, I didn’t try to persuade her to leave that behind her as I feel that if you truly love someone you have to let them pursue what career makes them happy.
I knew she didn’t want to be a housewife and anyone who knows her, knows she is a fun, energetic person who was born to be a star, and I fully supported her choice and was very proud of her.
Throughout our married life I have diligently paid for everything for the family – providing a six-bedroom penthouse, paid all the family bills, maid, holidays and even made sure that both our children went to an international school so they could have the best education that I could provide, which I feel is the greatest gift that a parent can give their child.
As I was taking care of all the family expenses, Serina was earning a sizeable income, which she kept to do with as she wanted. I was fine with taking on all the expenses as this is my duty to the family and I am fully aware of my responsibilities as a husband and have provided accordingly.
I would have been surprised if Serina had asked for additional pocket money and indeed Serina, to her credit, never did and we had no issues.
Therefore, I was devastated when Serina decided to move out of the house in January 2016 and asked for a divorce.
I didn’t, and still don’t, understand the reasons why she left as she hasn’t told me. However I hoped that a resolution could be sought and the marriage healed.
Despite not knowing where she went and where she is living, I do not believe any third party was involved and so did not give her a divorce as I believed in her and was willing to wait for her to think about her actions and about the family.
The children, Tristan (aged 6) and Isabella (5), have remained in the family home with me over the last 15 months and I have done everything in my power to remain positive and care for them as best as I can.
Serina and myself are still trying to resolve everything amicably and we both have the children’s best interests at heart.
I am deeply saddened that I have had to write these words in the public domain as my intention as well as Serina’s was always to keep this matter private.
I sincerely hope that any family member who really does have the best interests of their children and grandchildren at heart, can direct their questions to Serina and myself rather than feeling the need to tell the world.
At the end of the day my close family and friends all know the truth and these people are the only people who are important to me. One day we will all be judged by our actions and I know when that day comes, I can hold my head up high.
Once again, I would hope that the media and public could give our family space and time to work everything out and respect the fact that as small children are involved, and who will one day read all this, privacy is paramount.
Gavin O’Luanaigh is a British expat who has been working in Malaysia for the past 16 years |
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Post time 15-4-2017 09:19 PM
.suka tag adik Oren sbb adik Oren bagus dlm bab2 ni. 
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