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Post time 13-8-2014 11:06 AM | Show all posts |Read mode
salam kawan2 sekalian, saya jarang lepak kat cari tapi sya ada sikit masalah nak tanya
harap dapat pertolongan dari kawan2....masalah ini dari bini sya...kami dah kahwin 7 tahun..
ada 2 anak, sorang laki, sorang pompuan....dua2 pun tido ngan kami, not same bed tapi
same room, laki 5 tahun, pompuan baru 1.5 y.o.
sebab dua anak same room. kami sangat jarang bermesra....hampir few months baru one time
ini idea bini sbb dia conservative tak nak anak nampak atau perasan...so sya pun tahan saja

bini sya kerja secretary kat firma guaman, bossnya Indian, layan bini sya dengan baik as my wife
very helpful n hardworking....

masalah start bila one day, bini balik inform adik lelaki bossnya lingkungan 40s, selalu datang ofis bini
selalu try to disturb bini sya, masa ckp, try to stand close to her atau try to touch her...(unharm touch)
like shake hand....pat her shoulder....
baru2 makin over, as dia akan cakap benda provok atau try bagi signal...like "semlam dia mimpi bini sya"
atau "i jumpa u, i gembira atau semangat sangat..."
mula2, bini everytime jumpa dia, mesti komplen to me, say he is disgusting n irritating...i pernah ckp kalao
perlu saya boleh jumpa dia dan sound dia tapi bini kata tak nak, nanti boss dia susah, nak jaga muka

so, we leave it, as he is doing no harm.....but as man or husband i realise some changes in my wife
sya malu nak ckp tp saya have sixth sense, bini mcam start to enjoy his attention....kerana, everytime
that irritating guy will come, bini mesti dressing cantek or seksi a bit....i know coz as husband i tahu fashion dia
recently dia akan emphasis on her drssing or make-up....i try to kacau dia, say, pakai cantek2 to show to
that guy?? bini just buat tak tau...

the biggest problem now....she started to ask for some mesra time, as last time she rejected me...but now she
asked for it like 2-3 times a week, dan masa mintak is the same day, that guy came to her offis....
n during intimate time, she seems to enjoy so much....can have klimaks multiple, whereas last time with me, only
1 or 2 time max...

when i confirm my suspicious, i force to ask her, why she changed so much? i know my wife never curang with him...
when asked repeatedly, she admitted she just enjoy the attention from him, but my wife said she will never do something
sorry behind me, just she enjoy it n brought her imagination to our intimate life.

so I need kawan2 advise, whether will have problem? i trust most will have some imagination moment with arousing things
but i worried my wife will out of control....




Last edited by JeffreeLeong on 13-8-2014 02:04 PM

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Post time 13-8-2014 11:11 AM | Show all posts
bhaya sesangat
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 Author| Post time 13-8-2014 11:16 AM | Show all posts
garangbenor posted on 13-8-2014 11:11 AM
bhaya sesangat

i worry now
i met the guy before, very not good looking
quite dark n plump size
very hard to imagine gals will like him
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Post time 13-8-2014 11:23 AM | Show all posts
tak reti aku nak nasihat....

jangan time dok ehem-ehem ngan TT dia terbayangkan muka india tu dah la....


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Post time 13-8-2014 11:25 AM | Show all posts
kritikal ni.. da berapa lama dia berubah? sebulan 2 bulan 3 bulan?
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 Author| Post time 13-8-2014 11:29 AM | Show all posts
dee_dee posted on 13-8-2014 11:25 AM
kritikal ni.. da berapa lama dia berubah? sebulan 2 bulan 3 bulan?

2 bulan.....the guy disturb her 3-4 bulan earlier
start2, bini memang tak layan...i know coz dia mesti komplen to me
this 2 month, almost no komplen n her style change
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Post time 13-8-2014 11:33 AM | Show all posts
kalau camtu, apakata yu pulak try utk pikat dia balik, kira suprise bg bunga kat office ke, bg hadiah ke, lelaki x hensem ni selalunya ayat nye manis, tetambah yg mmg playboya... kalau boleh setiap hari hantar dan amik dia, make love jgn dlm bilik tidur.... bilik lain kan ada.... kt living room semua... gunakan imaginasi yu... kalau yu pandai, dia dh x pandang la mamat x ensem tu... dia akan ingt kt yu je... even time kerja....
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Post time 13-8-2014 11:37 AM | Show all posts
wahhh... tinggi imaginasi wife u... sampai boleh imagine doing intimate stuff with that guy...  tak mustahil die boleh pegi ke lelaki tu nanti.. paksa die tukar kerja la...

tp mungkin dari sudut pandangan lain die memerlukan peransang tuk enjoy hubungan u ngan die... mungkin..
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Post time 13-8-2014 11:40 AM | Show all posts
ermmm.. susah nk cakap nih.

aku kalu kebetulan naik kereta ngn kwn ofc (pmpuan la).. dlm kereta tetiba ternampak bnda yg menarik perhatian mcm kain ketat kt peha etc etc... bila projek ngn wife pun jd semangat..

yela kan.. mcm memula kawen kan mmg bersemangat, dh lama kawen... wife bogel dpn mata pun tkde menda lg..

nk kena cari thread la... mcm mana nk menambahkan semula ghairah..
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 Author| Post time 13-8-2014 11:42 AM | Show all posts
carly_lah posted on 13-8-2014 11:33 AM
kalau camtu, apakata yu pulak try utk pikat dia balik, kira suprise bg bunga kat office ke, bg hadia ...

i think thats the problem for most couple, as when start time memang hangat bercinta
after first kid, start to busy with kid, then work, then after work life
now second kid, time dah banyak bagi kids..masa dua orang dah korang

time go out dua orang pun dah no more....sometime sure lacking
i jenis kurang romantis...deswai seldom express my feeling
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 Author| Post time 13-8-2014 11:47 AM | Show all posts
whadda posted on 13-8-2014 11:37 AM
wahhh... tinggi imaginasi wife u... sampai boleh imagine doing intimate stuff with that guy...  ...

merangsang ok...kalau untuk diri dia dan sya
kalau change in dressing tu, i worried merangsang opposite person
pulak...she might feel good but i worried she think is ok for her
tapi opposite party dah loss control
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Post time 13-8-2014 01:07 PM | Show all posts
Huh...Jeff..be strong man .. i sapot you 110% ... whenever you think like wallup that ugly fullfat dumbass .. just let me know bro..I'll be happy to give the opening @ intruduction uppercut ....
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 Author| Post time 13-8-2014 02:06 PM | Show all posts
Loxlaxman posted on 13-8-2014 01:07 PM
Huh...Jeff..be strong man .. i sapot you 110% ... whenever you think like wallup that ugly fullfat d ...

memang think of that but sad part ialah bini dah ada weird thinking
itu yang bother saya sangat..sya sedih dia mcm cant control it

as man, u understand? i will lost confident in myself
shy u know
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Post time 13-8-2014 02:32 PM | Show all posts
JeffreeLeong posted on 13-8-2014 02:06 PM
memang think of that but sad part ialah bini dah ada weird thinking
itu yang bother saya sangat.. ...

Dont shy shy la ..we are men..kamon buddy..we have nothing to "loose" like our oposite sex .. just be strong but gentle .. talk to your wife like a men..look deep into her eyes till she could not look back anymore ..tell her that you love her more than anything and please stop her imagination of that ugly fullfat dumbass black dick guy or you will fuck more cows than fcuking her cunning cunt ..

And if she still doesn't heed, then I would frankly advice you to open more alternatives .. you know what I mean aaaa ... go bro..go..
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Post time 13-8-2014 02:37 PM | Show all posts
Take your family on a short vacation somewhere
Masa bercuti tu, have a heart-to-heart talk with your wife
It's more conducive to have such discussion away from your everyday surrounding i.e at home
Spill out all your premonitions, grievances, unhappiness, etc
And listen to her explanations as well

Try to find a middle ground somewhere between the two of you


By the way, is your wife willing to quit her present job and find employment somewhere else?
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Post time 13-8-2014 03:03 PM | Show all posts
better ask your wife to quit her job.. stop from seeing that guy la before its too late..
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Post time 13-8-2014 03:14 PM | Show all posts
kenapa anak tak di tidurkan di lain bilik atau bentang toto kat ruang tamu jer ker
sebelum tidur teman anak sampai tertidur kemudian u and bini u tuh pergi laa masuk bilik
agak agak dah lepas hajat tuh salah seorang pergila teman anak tidur

ada satu kes budak lelaki umur 5 thn Nampak perbuatan ibu bapa mereka sebab tidur dgn ibubapanya
sehingga budak tuh nak cabul rakan tadika dia, bila cikgu Tanya, rupanya dia pernah Nampak ibubapanya buat

jgn kasik anak trauma dengan kes macam ni
dan jgn jadikan alasan anak tidur satu bilik maka hubungan intim laki bini jarang
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Post time 13-8-2014 03:37 PM | Show all posts
Mungkin attention yg laki tu bagi membuatkan ur wife rasa attractive balik n self confidence dia menaik. Maybe ur wife rasa flattered with the attentions yg laki tu bagi. Apa kata TT belikan flowers n gifts for  ur wife. N puji2 dia cantik. Keluar dating berdua.

Tp to be safe suruh ur wife berhenti ok juga. Taknak la laki lain sentuh2 ur wife.

N anak tak patut tido bilik yg sama dgn parents. Coz kalau dorang ter nampak rosak minda nanti.
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Post time 13-8-2014 03:47 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Takut bini tt dah make love gan adik boss dia lps tu tkt termengandung tu yg ml gan tt lak.. Jahatnya otak aku fjr
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Post time 13-8-2014 04:07 PM | Show all posts
Ini lah salah satu kesilapan suami - jarang memuji isteri.

walau isteri dia cantik, body mantap tapi berat sgt kaum suami nak puji. So bila ada org lain yg puji, isteri rasa teruja agaknya.

kenapa eh suami mcm tu? Bukan luak pun kalau manis mulut puji isteri sendiri.
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