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Should I ask her to tell the truth?
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Hi all,
I am back. My last login in this forum was almost 3y ago using the same nick w/o 2 at the back. I had posted few threads in here & got +ve and -ve feedbacks from many level of forumers. After so many ups and downs in our marriage, thanks God, my wife & I are still together with 3 growing kids as a happy family. We've been together for 16 years.
But, things happened when I met N again last week. I never hope I meet her again but it happened. We met in hotel lobby when I attended training and she was in vacation with her son. Something strange/weird and the feeling drove me to visit this forum and digging the thread . N just mentioned she newly divorced but my heart .. I'm not really too sure how to describe this besides saying my hearts feels strange.
Her 4 year old son is just looks like my own son when he was at the same age and I feel the boy is mine. Should I ask N about the kid's biological father? Last edited by idhamriza2 on 1-5-2013 11:37 PM
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why both of you separated earlier?
third party?
you farrk her and cum inside before being separate?   |
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berguna juga forum ni....tak tahu tentang TT sejak dr awal, jawapan saya, please ASK, sbb kalau you tak tanya you akan meraban sepanjang hidup you. Kalau itu anak you apa you nak buat? Nikah dengan skandel you? Kalau mampu ok, tapi bersedialah untuk berhadapan dengan angin taufan lagi..
nota kaki : dah berumur ni malas nak fikir hal-hal skandel, nak aman damai jah. |
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the truth will set u free  or at least it'll stop u wondering  |
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ni la masalah nya bila ada hubungan bebas tanpa nikah..anak ke bukan anak ke sendiri tak dapat nak pastikan
hmm.. |
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cmf_blingblings posted on 1-5-2013 05:58 PM 
berguna juga forum ni....tak tahu tentang TT sejak dr awal, jawapan saya, please ASK, sbb kalau you ...
Yg aku nampak......berguna utk dia kira2 bila dia make love dgn skandal dia.....
Aku pun penat baca thread lama2 dia, sampai tertido2 ......
Kalau ya nk buat apa agaknya TT? kalau tak nasib ko baik la kot.....
Tanya ke tak, pompuan N aku rasa cool je jaga anak sorang2 kaau betul tu anak TT or maybe dia ada pak turut yg baru je bercerai tak tahu la kan...
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lebih baik biarkan aje...
kalau tanya lepas tu apa.
buat bini u mengamuk then bercerai.. u hilang satu then si N pun tak ingin sama sekali..
last u duduk sesorang....
boleh buat drama minggu ini  |
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ask aje la...kalau nak lebih pasti, ambik je air liur anak dia senyap2....pastu ko buat dna test.abis cter |
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Hi all, thanks for the response. I am sorry I can't reply to uoll as I am someone who spends most of his working time working with others (meeting, inspection, supervision). What I appreciate most is your time reading my thread and throw some idea/view.
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faraway1 posted on 1-5-2013 08:38 PM
lebih baik biarkan aje...
kalau tanya lepas tu apa.
buat bini u mengamuk then bercerai.. u hilang ...
It was an awkward silence the moment I saw the boy.
After a week, I feel that I want to raise him and be a part of his life if he's really mine.
Marrying the mother is not an option for now. |
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Tak payah tanya. Even benih u pun dari segi nasab bukan anak u pun. If pompuan dia boleh kawin ngan u pun.Boleh kawin ngan anak u jugak. Nak bertanggungjawab hape, u berzina time pompuan tu masih bini orang kan. Tumpukan pada keluarga dan berdoa minta keampunan Tuhanlah. Takyah nak jadi hero coz tak layak pun. Anak itu tanggungjawab ibu n bapa yg dibinkan kepadanyer. |
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Pada pendapat saya tak payah tanya..baik TT bertaubat atas ketelanjuran TT selama ini..banyak buruk dari baiknya..
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idhamriza2 posted on 2-5-2013 12:34 AM
It was an awkward silence the moment I saw the boy.
After a week, I feel that I want to raise h ...
takyah sebok la...kalopun tu anak ko..selama ni dia jaga sorang2 takde masalah pung..
saja nak tambah masalah kan?ko ingat mak budak tu senang2 nak lepas anak dia rapat ngan ko?
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AbukRokok posted on 1-5-2013 05:33 PM
why both of you separated earlier?
third party?
pendapatan ikhlas.. 
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1. let her bring up her own son.. dont have to bother knowing whose sperm has made him..
2. concentrate on your wife.. you may have some marital hiccups there and then, yet its not an excuse for you to dig deeper into the rabbit hole.. leave her and live your life with 3 wonderful children (or more?) and a faithful housewife (or more?)..
3. i would choose to marry her so that i 'm able to take care of her and the kid as well, regardless of whom the biological father is.. you happy hour she happy hour everybody happy hour.. except your wife lor..
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idhamriza2 posted on 2-5-2013 12:34 AM
It was an awkward silence the moment I saw the boy.
After a week, I feel that I want to raise h ...
wahhhh bertanggungjawab nyer pakcik sorang ni.....
agak2 bdk ni akan gembira hidup dengan seorg bapak yg meniduri ibu dia semasa ibu dia isteri org? agak2 apa pandangan anak2 ko yg lain bila dpt tau yg diaorg ada 'adik tiri' tapi xder 'mak tiri'?
aku baca thread ko last2 page tu kan... nampak cam xder physical contact. tp bila kira2.... oh rupanyer lepas bukak thread tu ada kisah berzina around August'08???? assuming bdk tu 4yo bln ni.....
so tell me pakcik... berguna ker nasihat forumers kat sini? |
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Fantaghiro posted on 2-5-2013 10:26 AM
takyah sebok la...kalopun tu anak ko..selama ni dia jaga sorang2 takde masalah pung..
saja nak ta ...
yg aku nampak pakcik ni nak tamatkan kemelut di muara hati dia tu jer.... nak tau yg adakah beliau masih bertenaga dan mampu melahirkan zuriat di umur2 sebegini.....  dan perhaps si N ni akan jatuh chenta kali ke-x dengan dia..... |
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