Kuantiti masa anda bersama keluarga..

annaKarenina

77# manakautau

i know adam is gay... you alls.. mr PA, mr manak and mr kj77 .. nak join his club ke..? tok aku kate.. nah duit singgit pi main jauh2 noo..

bubblyadrina

i was so busy for the last few months, so I missed a lot in cari.... i respect all the mothers here, and am trying to be the best mum for my 2 kids too.

Memang wanita berkerjaya bukan satu tugas mudah... apart from the headache at office, you have to face the more challenging world when you're back home... dan waktu anak-anak membesar adalah waktu yang sangat penting so dat we can feed them with the right ideology, education, the good inputs and so on...

Macam Bubbly sendiri, in my line work is out of question lah... kerja tak tentu, selalunya habis lambat, sometimes bawak ke rumah (which is not heakthy at all). Tapi Bubbly cuba juga make sure check homework my kid walaupun he's only four, and I will read a book for them before they got o sleep. Rasanya, thats the best I can do in my very limited hour.

Pagi, 8.15 hantar anak ke sekolah, dengan bekalan... dan hantar the younger one to the babysitter... terus ke opis, bermulalah waktu hectic. Bila balik, memang xde masa nak kemas rumah I will go for my kids first, lucky my hubby in production so dia pun selalunya balik lambat...  Bubbly memang jarang memasak, so sesekali masak, terharu tengok anak-anak makan berselera walaupun masak ikan kembung kicap je

Well.... as a  mother di zaman sekarang especially tinggal di KL yang tak pernah tak jam.... at least I believed I have done my very best for my kids so far, and I always believe there are always room of improvement

bubblyadrina

A time with your hubby is also very important, memang masa nak berbual tu limited jugak sometimes, but we all curi masa berbual about the kids, works, etc.... kadang tu kita memang penat sesangat tapi as a wife, I try my very best untuk melayan hubby waktu diperlukan.... cuma pantang sikit kalau dah best best tidur kena kacau :p..... sakit je hati kan?

So normally, kitorang set the date awal-awal... biar sama-sama bersedia, bila macam tu, when the time comes perasaan pun ada rasa gemuruh bercampur ghairah coz you both are looking forward to make love.... hehehehe

bubblyadrina

25# my-alja

I love what you have written...it is so soooo true.

shah_jehan

dedolu, aku slalu balik keje kol 11. kol 3 pagi pon penah. paling awal kol 8..
mmmmmm, mmg life masa tu mmg cam hampas sb kol 6 dah gerak kuar dr umah. ng jalan jem. hubby nk anta aku then kejar2 ke opis dia lagi..

meaning less je rasa ada anak masa tue. nk spend masa pon tatau bila. so, once life dh napak stabil sket aku menambah lg anak. tp masa ni, life dah packed balik. life aku sabtu ahad pon kat opis. rasa tak berbaloi je.  lelama rasa sian nye kt anak.. aku pon brenti keje. duk umah jea. smbil wat tenet biz. so bley gak cover pepe..

yg penting aku puashati n life aku tak packed cam dulu, even aku sibuk pon ng kastemer or parcels. aku still dpt tdo kan anak kat bahu aku ngan tgn sblh kt kibod.

well, bg aku.. life is about how we as the person behind it sees life it self.. aku baca kak mai nye citer cam dia hepi n lively ng life dia skang ni n ada hepi moment.. di sepanjang masa. so.. klu kita tau kita dah wat yg terbaik tuk anak2 kita. kita dah berusaha yg terbaik tuk dorang..

ko spend masa yg byk cam aku pon kt uamh.. lom tentu anak2 akan kuar yg terbaik.. so jgn lah pening22 bab kuantiti.. tp pengisian tu bg aku amat penting. how kita tgur anak.. how kasih we r for them.. itew lebih penting. yg len len doesnt matter. cumanya, kena make sure anak2 paham kenapa n kita perlu jd best fren dorang when dorang perlukan kita..

phew cam susah kan? so masa bukan penentu segala bab berkenaaan anak2 bg aku..

ParinAmat

geli aku weiiii .. korang homo ker?
kudajantan77 Post at 14-7-2009 16:02

ku straight guy en kuda

khayzl

aku pun lebih kurang jer...

8am - 7pm - kat office or dlm kete
7pm - 8pm - kat umah
8pm - 10pm - makan kat luar ngan hubby... time ni ler aku nak sembang2 ngan dia n anak...
10pm - 10.30 - relax jup sebelum tido
10.30 - 8am - ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

jadi sehari tu ada dlm 2 jam jer nak sembang2... kekadang malam dia jumpa clients aku duk sembang2 dgn tembok arr...

ada weekend jer.... still tak cukup... sbb sll sedara mara dtg umah... dont really have quality time to spend with him... sigh sigh

annaKarenina

87# khayzl

ok.. so i guess.. i'm not so atypical.. ada ramai juga yg mmg spend banyak masa away from kids.... tapi aku masih rasa i need to cut down my working hours.. i need more time with family.. baru rasa balanced...  entahla.. maybe sbb bila sibuk sangat hilang rasa seronok bila kerja.. i need time out...! I think i really need a break...

blackmore

...i work shifts...fortunately kat tempat baru nie takde nite shift for me rite now...so shift aku cuma pagi dan petang saja...but...my working hours are often extended...tak bley balik on the dot like i used to do...sometimes...i have to work double shifts...

...my both boys are very2 close to me...bila balik...si kecik akan sambut di pintu...si abang plak akan mintak dicium dulu...oleh kerana i am not able to supervise them with their school work...aku hire a tutor to come to my place to tutor my second one...while the elder one prefers to go to the tution centre...more freedom dapat merambu katanya...heh...on weekends...my dad will take them to their religious class kat masjid...

...sunday is a chosen as a family day for us...it is a day that we go out to the beach to either have a picnic and a dip in the sea...or just lepak2 kat tepi pantai sambil tengok anak2 main basikal...