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They grow up so fast, dont they?
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Assalamualaikum,
harap topic ni sesuai disini. Siapa tengok desperate housewives semalam? Saya menangis masa tengok part Susan was so sad to let Julie go to summer school tu... Ntah kenapa tiba2 perasaan saya sebak memikirkan anak yang saya tatang selama ini akan membesar dan keluar dr rumah tinggal diasrama..seterusnya berkahwin dan memiliki her own family. They grow up so fast, don' t they?
Anak sulung dah 10 th, terasa baru semalam je saya lahirkan dia, bagi dia pakai baju dan topi bunga2...dan pasang baby gate kat tangga tak nak bagi dia panjat tangga kot2 dia jatuh... Hari ni dia sprinter at her school dan dah tahu pilih baju sendiri.... Pagi tadi saya peluk dia extra tight... terasa mcm ada something yg masih belum cukup saya bagi pada dia... tp tak tahu apadia..........
Saya teringat tika saya diUk masa buat degree dulu, my mommy hantar kad bithday with lagi Wild World-by Mr Big.... Mungkin masa tu dia pun rasa mcm yg saya rasa ni....''''I'll always remember u like a child girl....."
Saya nak tanya ibu2 kat sini, you all pernah tak ada fikiran camni, rasa extra sensitive thinking that your lil' girl makin besar... and soon jadi teenage... and what to do masa you terfikir camni... and what can we do at this precious moment supaya takde apa2 yg buat kita rasa terkilan kemudain hari.... |
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Reply #1 ev700's post
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saya ada kembar lelaki ..baru berusia 4 tahun..tapi bila baca tulisan ev ni dah nak menitis air mata...memang terasa cepatnye depa membesar..kalau boleh tak nak depa besar tapi mana boleh kan..it's a circle of life...being a mother now, make me be appeciative towards the feeling of my own mother..now i understand, why my mum still risau pasal i walaupun i dah berkahwin n beranak ni..for her, i will always be her little girl..sebab tu skrg ni, i call my mum everyday..walaupun sekejap..because, when my sons grew up, i want them to do the same cause no matter how old they are, for me they are still my little boys... |
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Originally posted by babytitot at 23-7-2008 09:50 AM 
saya ada kembar lelaki ..baru berusia 4 tahun..tapi bila baca tulisan ev ni dah nak menitis air mata...memang terasa cepatnye depa membesar..kalau boleh tak nak depa besar tapi mana boleh kan..it ...
Betul... inilah circle of life...
Being a mom membuatkan kita lebih sensitif dan sayang pada parents kita sendiri, kan...
My aim now ni nak equipped my lil girls and boy with all the basic survival skills... sbb sedar tak sedar kejap je mrk besar dan meninggalkan rumah kita..., tinggalkan toys mereka, tinggalkan bantal bucuk mrk...tinggalkan alam debab, tembam, cuddly, manja..tantrum mrk....
Saya sedih sgt sbb saya sendiri masuk asrama masa form 1. So tinggal dgn parents up to 12 y.o je... pastu terus terusan jauh dari mereka sampaikan kini.... Tp sentiasa dekat dihati.... |
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Originally posted by ev700 at 23-7-2008 09:36 AM 
Assalamualaikum,
harap topic ni sesuai disini. Siapa tengok desperate housewives semalam? Saya menangis masa tengok part Susan was so sad to let Julie go to summer school tu... Ntah kenapa tib ...
alahai..... mac tak dpat concerntrate la tgk desperate housewives smlm...... termiss kut part tu....
Mac mmg terasa sangat anak2 dah membesar. Esp last year bila eldest masuk sekolah asrama penuh. No2 dah darjah 6..... The younger ones pun in std 3 and std 2.
My eldest dah mature, she wants her own independence, her own privacy, her own space. I dont know whats going on on her life 100% anymore..... Maybe now 80% je kut....
No 2 pun dah start nak own privacy.....
My no3 and no4 tak suka di peluk lama2. lagi.... sekejap je boleh..... nak gentel2 jari jemari pun tak as often as before.....
Yes.... they grow up too fast!! And I'm not ready to let go yet! |
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me too..i feel the same way too...eventho my son baru 3yrs...tapi i rasa cepat dia membesar....i just can't imagine bila dia dah sekolah, kerja, kahwin..adakah dia sayangkan saya lagi seperti mana saya sayang kan dia...sekarang ni nak cium pun dia berkira...sedihlah.... |
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Originally posted by macademia at 23-7-2008 11:16 AM 
alahai..... mac tak dpat concerntrate la tgk desperate housewives smlm...... termiss kut part tu....
Mac mmg terasa sangat anak2 dah membesar. Esp last year bila eldest masuk sekolah asr ...
Mac... part tu awal2 juga.. Julie dpt pi Stanford kot, Susan happy, then dia kata in 2 weeks ( or a week) time Prof. tu suruh dia start summer intern. Susan terkejut dan dia kata Julie takleh gi sbb takde duit.... Then after a few other scenes, Susan pi kat Julie dan hadiahkan Julie mobile phone (siap ikat riben)... bagitau sebenarnya dia tak ready nak let Julie go so soon, bukan sbb duit takde... dia need at least 3 months to grief b4 letting her go....
Mac, dah besar anak2 you ya... Sure dah jadik mcm kwn lak ek.... Betul kata you... rasa cam belum ready...
Saya takut sgt nak melalui zaman anak2 dah mula berahsia, anggap mummy ni tak cool to talk and share stuffs with anymore.... Hope anybody yg berpengalaman melalui zaman begini can share their experience.... |
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i have mix feelings...sometime when the kids like an angle, i dun want them to grow that fast...
but when the kids throw tantrum, the father is not around....i wish they are out somewhere and call me once a day  |
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teringat kimora nangis masa anak dia blowdry rambut. 'she's gonna be 18 and get married...this is too much for me"
well my BABY boy pun dah 4 years old. boleh lagi nak cuddle tapi rasanya tak lama lagi mesti dia tak nak.
nak tambah anak...mmm...rasanya dah tutup kedai. |
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emmm...x dpt nk imagine anak sha dah besa....remaja..dewasa..then kawen....erkk..rase mcm baru je smlm deliver.. |
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Originally posted by babytitot at 23-7-2008 09:50 AM
saya ada kembar lelaki ..baru berusia 4 tahun..tapi bila baca tulisan ev ni dah nak menitis air mata...memang terasa cepatnye depa membesar..kalau boleh tak nak depa besar tapi mana boleh kan..it ...
ha ha ha... mummy pun syahdu... dibuat nye... ...kenela pulak masih outstation ni... miss 2 bulan tengok ADAM membesar...huhhuhuhu |
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aku x semp nak rs mcm mana mak aku rs kat aku...
sbb mak pergi sblm aku bersalin...
mmg skrg ni baru faham...
knp mak risau bila aku keluar x ingat nak balik umah....
bila aku msk asrama....
knp mak menangis bila aku kawin....
now only i understand why.....
hidup ini ibarat roda.....
mula2 baby, pastu toddler, pastu teenager, pastu dewasa n kawin...
jadi mak plak....jadi nenek plak...n mati............
sbb tuh...i made my decsision utk resign n take care my doter....
kalau blh..i xmau termis satu pun perkara baru dlm hidup dia....
mmg lah some times bila dia bt perangai i wish dia xde pun...
tp...most of the time...i xleh hidup tanpa dia..... |
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hm... ada hari tu, minggu-minggu terakhir Ewan, me baring dgn dia then citer 2 malam sebelum dia dilahirkan, me lepak sampai 3 pagi dgn kawan... bla bla bla...
Babah bawa keter laju dr rumah kami kat Shah Alam pergi sepital Melaka...
Angah Ino jd tukang urut belakang bila contraction...
Sampai dia keluar...
Dia pun dengar dgn muka bersungguh macam lah dia paham...
Tup-tup tgk dia dah besar, panjang.
Dulu carry dia pakai sebelah tangan jer... now kena pegang elok-elok, kalau tak dia melentok ke belakang...
Even Ewan tak sama mcm baby lain, tp tgk dia 'memanjang' mmg amazing!
Hm... |
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Originally posted by AznieBunnie at 24-7-2008 09:07 AM 
hm... ada hari tu, minggu-minggu terakhir Ewan, me baring dgn dia then citer 2 malam sebelum dia dilahirkan, me lepak sampai 3 pagi dgn kawan... bla bla bla...
Babah bawa keter laju dr rumah ka ...
Maaf jika thread ni menambah kesedihan aznie... sesungguhnya apa yg plg berharga adalah kenangan yang ditingglkan yang akan sentisa menjadi harta yang paling berharga buat kita untuk kita warisi samapi bila2........ alfatihah sekali lagi untuk adik Ewan.. |
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Reply #15 sha_n's post
ala korang...
ni sweet memories la...
bukan yg sedih..
jgn la sedih... tanak sedih-sedih... 
me hepi, kami suami isteri hepi...
*lompat *lompat *lompat  |
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yes indeed.... it is about time to have a newborn again |
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Post time 23-7-2008 09:36 AM
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