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Edited by green~tea at 9-11-2020 12:17 PM
Hi lovelies,
I'm entering a new phase in life : early retirement.. so I need your ideas, your guidance apa pendapat korang about early retirements, and apa aktiviti yang kita boleh buat utk ensure this early retirement more meaningful...
so in this journey to prep ourselves for this... we have to be ready : -
MENTALLY - read books, further study (MBA, PHD)
PHYSICALLY - health insurance, workout regularly, gym membership
FINANCIALLY - passive income, expenditure plans
EMOTIONALLY - surround with friends, have a hobby, pursue your passion
SPIRITUALLY - kelas mengaji & tafsir, program agama among muslimat, join the activities
Thanks in advance !!~~
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Post time 9-11-2020 12:25 PM
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Lagi satu, mcmana nak handle perception orang yang suka pandang rendah pada housewife?
These are the things that makes me nervous... nnti orang pandang hina laa, berharap duit laki laa apa laa.. padahal bila kita retire doesnt mean that kita langsung takde income... tp tu la.. perception orang kan... |
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I wld say go with the flow.
I consider myself semi retire but i can't fully retire since i am owner of a few business.
My life skrg, pokok bunga & kucing. I dont eat much so I don't cook much.
My firm, managers jaga. My other business small holder je, so x de la time consuming sgt.
Biasa petang i lepak mamak, malam i read novel & ngaji.
Tai tai, never one never will be.
I lobe n happy with my life direction now.
Since i know u personally, i am against u to semi retire. Sayang bakat & kepakaran. what a lost.
Tapi jgn ingat duduk rumah blh rehat gitu je. Kepala tu ade je mende fikir n nak buat. |
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green~tea replied at 9-11-2020 12:25 PM
Lagi satu, mcmana nak handle perception orang yang suka pandang rendah pada housewife?
These are ...
Sape yg pandang rendah tu. I rase surirumah insan bertuah dpt jaga anak sepenuh masa. |
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Post time 9-11-2020 02:19 PM
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MrsVeneer replied at 9-11-2020 02:08 PM
I wld say go with the flow.
I consider myself semi retire but i can't fully retire since i am owner ...
Hopefully i wont lose my skills and talent lah... thats why i nak ambil MBA next year, just for the sake of networking as well as for self - enrichment...
Consider it as my time off for before i decide to rejoin the corporate world or enjoying this early retirement...
I takde nak kejar income dasyat2 pun... i believe im self sufficient with my current plan of passive income... ok la.. live simple and humble is enough |
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Post time 9-11-2020 02:20 PM
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MrsVeneer replied at 9-11-2020 02:09 PM
Sape yg pandang rendah tu. I rase surirumah insan bertuah dpt jaga anak sepenuh masa.
There's a few housewives friend (which i believe kawan2 u jugak, we're same circle lahhhhhh mak hayammmmmmmm).... diorg la duk luah kat i some of them have low self esteem because of this |
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Low self esteem? Org kaya ada low self esteem?  
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MBA We should never stop pursuing knowledge in life.
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Post time 9-11-2020 02:33 PM
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Edited by green~tea at 9-11-2020 02:35 PM
DyanaHarun replied at 9-11-2020 02:24 PM
Low self esteem? Org kaya ada low self esteem?
Oh takde ke? I watched tv series the crown... dalam tu ada episode yang queen elizabeth requested for a private tutor sbb dia merasakan diri dia not good enough utk give constitutional advise to the members of parliament...
So i believe at some point... mmg ada rasa low self esteem especially bila kita dah keluar dari our "working" environment... rasa ketinggalan.. im quite competitive sbrnnya, so maybe im worried on some petty things like these |
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green~tea replied at 9-11-2020 02:20 PM
There's a few housewives friend (which i believe kawan2 u jugak, we're same circle lahhhhhh mak ha ...
Nanti nk lempang derang |
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i will alert them first!!!! ahahahhahahahah
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Edited by green~tea at 3-1-2025 06:09 PM
ok lah.. I nak menulis a bit about emotional stability post retirement....
sebenarnya ini yang husband I tekankan… dia mmg emphasize sangat2 utk I continue with my workout gang.. gym ladies.... he wants me to continue pursuing my hobby, my passion.... |
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On PHYSICAL well being, apart from regularly working out... I also take some supplements.. currently I beli my supplements from lazada or iherbs or pharmacies mcm guardian/Watson sahaja…
iherbs - essential oils (now foods), maca root (now foods), atkins snack
pharmacies - Berocca (sometimes husband I borong murah2 dekat chemist warehouse everytime dia outstation kat Australia or New Zealand.. skali pergi OZ, mmg dia borong berkotak2 Berocca, satu kotak berocca ada 4 tubes, baru 9 dollar camtu je)
Lazada - usually I buy my workout supplements kat pharmacy online and I borong byk2 terus time ada sale... contoh Aspen l-carnitine that I usually take before workout utk improve metabolism
there's also this jamu that I home made saja.. 1 cup ginger, 1 cup garlic, 1 cup honey, perahan 2 biji lemon... this I take 20 ml daily...
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Biasa Low self esteem berlaku apa bila perniagan kami gagal, kehilangan kerja, bercerai etc... But anything can happen lah...
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Edited by green~tea at 3-1-2025 06:11 PM
owh... u're referring to that..... ok2 faham... =
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green~tea replied at 9-11-2020 04:49 PM
owh... u're referring to that..... ok2 faham... mmg ada betul lah, dari segi ujian yang macam tu, ...
I faham low self esteem mcm mana yg u mksdkan sis..for me, go with ur plan..bgs dh plan u tu..cuma take it slowly n go with the flow..dun be too rigid nk ikut plan 100% |
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Post time 9-11-2020 05:31 PM
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Alyazahra replied at 9-11-2020 05:23 PM
I faham low self esteem mcm mana yg u mksdkan sis..for me, go with ur plan..bgs dh plan u tu..cuma ...
Itu lah kan... terlalu byk yang dlm planning i ni... and husband i mcm tak suka sgt i duduk diam kat rumah lepas retire.... dia risau i boring duk rumah and perabis duit simpanan je shopping mende takde pekdah... and i insyaAllah dah slowly makin disiplin kan diri i follow planning... even i ada buat excel spreadsheet apa i nak buat bila i reach certain age... but my planning is dynamic la, boleh tukar2, sbb kita tak tau future and external factors mcmana kan... |
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iols akan move topic ni ke board wanita ya. sana lebih sesuai.  |
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Post time 10-11-2020 09:10 AM
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lil_honey replied at 9-11-2020 08:23 PM
iols akan move topic ni ke board wanita ya. sana lebih sesuai.
No worries mod.... tak kisah pun move sini.. |
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wow good thread indeed.
I will be following your journey sis
as guidance for myself too
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Post time 9-11-2020 12:08 PM
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