green~tea Publish time 3-9-2021 06:20 PM

Acikgomen replied at 3-9-2021 06:08 PM
Jom chuols kita jadi traveling sistah lepas abis semua ni
Acik tgh pulun taun depan naik gred, I...

u buat apa tu sampai longgar lutut... care to sexplain? :$ :$

green~tea Publish time 3-9-2021 06:23 PM

Acikgomen replied at 3-9-2021 06:08 PM
Jom chuols kita jadi traveling sistah lepas abis semua ni
Acik tgh pulun taun depan naik gred, I...

jom feeling2 acik kertu travelling bersama2 ala2 sex and the city... i nak jadi samantha.. sbb mrsveneer selalu tuduh i gila s*x:lol:

green~tea Publish time 3-9-2021 06:27 PM

tupai replied at 3-9-2021 06:16 PM
I dh 2 kali pegi China, both g Beijing for business trip tp tetap x suka hahahaha. Tp xian menarik ...

i dah lama tak travel during winter... usually i ejas2 time travelling bulan 4-5 (spring), or bulan 9 - 11 (spring southern)... puncanya aku malas nak menyinggah kejar waktu solat.. senang balik bilik kol 7 malam tp masih sempat jamak ta'khir sbb masih waktu asar ahhahahaha... then lepak kedai kopi or dinner.. balik bilik jamak isya maghrib plak...

but okay.. winter ni syok sbb cantik salji indah di mata... i takmo ski, sbb tak pandai control speed.. eh bodoh la i pernah hampir eksiden langgar budak melintas tetiba2 kat area ski... mak dia blur blur je terlepas anak camtu.. eeeiii.. lebam i sbb terpaksa menjatuhkan diri brake emergency

kalo nak travel during winter, i nak kena beli balik winter gear lah... i need my uniqlo heat tech inner.. roger tau.. i am serious.. balkan ke

green~tea Publish time 3-9-2021 06:29 PM

Acikgomen replied at 3-9-2021 06:08 PM
Jom chuols kita jadi traveling sistah lepas abis semua ni
Acik tgh pulun taun depan naik gred, I...

good planning for retirement.. at least dah ada clear planning timeline nak retire, dah buat projection income lepas retire...

tupai Publish time 3-9-2021 06:39 PM

Edited by tupai at 3-9-2021 06:42 PM

green~tea replied at 3-9-2021 06:27 PM
i dah lama tak travel during winter... usually i ejas2 time travelling bulan 4-5 (spring), or bula ...

I penah travel to artic circle masa winter & maghrib masuk kul 2 ptg then masa tu i terfikir kan best kalau i puasa ganti, mesti cepat waktu berbuka :lol:.
Best nye Balkan.... x sabar nk travel even skrg cuma berangan je la dulu.... I selalu berharap covid xde & masa I being out of work tu I boleh isi dgn travel negara2 yg I x sampai lg....

tupai Publish time 3-9-2021 06:51 PM

Acikgomen replied at 3-9-2021 06:08 PM
Jom chuols kita jadi traveling sistah lepas abis semua ni
Acik tgh pulun taun depan naik gred, I...

Best nye keje gomen, boleh pencen dgn aman plus dpt income jgk .... I dh byk kali try nk masuk gomen tp rezeki xde

Acikgomen Publish time 3-9-2021 06:57 PM

green~tea replied at 3-9-2021 06:08 PM
i teringin nak gi xian.. terracotta army... i tak pernah jejak china... everytime my laki pergi fo ...

Acik suka pi hk for shopping
China mainland pi Beijing jah tu pon sbb keja
Mula2 kita pi Bangkok dulu laaa senang:lol:
Acik dok imejin dah ni chuols catwalk dlm tren heret beg samsonite:lol:

Acikgomen Publish time 3-9-2021 07:01 PM

tupai replied at 3-9-2021 06:51 PM
Best nye keje gomen, boleh pencen dgn aman plus dpt income jgk .... I dh byk kali try nk masuk gom ...

Takyah la chuols seksa jiwa raga:'(

rainbowrainz Publish time 3-9-2021 08:01 PM

Arwah opah iols bgtau bykkan solat dhuha tahajud hati jadi tenang..jgn tinggal solat lima waktu...bykan sedekah jgn suka mengungkit bykkan bersyukur Dan yg pentingkan selawat nabi jgn tinggal...hidup ni sentiasa ada ujian... bertabahlah..kunci utk semua ni apabila berdoa mtklah byk2 doa Ya Allah Ya Tuhanku ampunilah dosa ku dosa kedua ibu bapaku adik beradikku Dan seluruh kaum keluargaku serta sahabat handaiku (jika ada anak masukkan juga nama anak Dan suami) Dan ampunilah seluruh dosa para Muslim Dan muslimat yg hidup Dan juga yg telah meninggal dunia...jauhkanlah aku dr azab api neraka dan masukkan ku kesyurga Firdaus Mu tanpa hisab Dan azab.. aamiin..ini yg apa arwah opah iols ajar .
Chill chill je..hidup ni singkat jgn suka buat hutang itu yg penting jgn suka aniaya org eh byk lagilah...selalulah mtk maaf Dan ucapkan lah terima kasih selalu..uols trylah buat apa yg opah iols ajar..lagi satu bila masuk rumah amalkan lah baca assalamualaika ayyuhannabiyyu warahmatullahi wabarakatuh ...jiwa yg tenang ni mahal reganya..tak semua org dpt miliki... InsyaAllah

Arwah opah iols kata jika ada masalah tapi tidak berpatah balik mencari Allah masalah tu tak akan hilang..ianya semakin menjadi masalah lebih teruk lagi..
Sabar ye...

edayildiz Publish time 3-9-2021 08:42 PM

Acikgomen replied at 3-9-2021 11:55 AM
Acik keja 3thn terus ambik house loan beli rumah
Org lain sebok beli keta satria gti (masa tu sat ...

aww acik i suka baca pengalaman kakak2 yg dah byk mkn garam..nice sharing..tentiu acik :loveliness:

edayildiz Publish time 3-9-2021 08:43 PM

green~tea replied at 3-9-2021 12:16 PM
Haish.. sbb kita ada channel lain utk merempan lah nokss... sebenarnya dalam bab investment.. kita ...

hehe ok kakak..i nak dk tepi..baca jer pengalaman kakak2 semua sharing

edayildiz Publish time 3-9-2021 08:45 PM

tupai replied at 3-9-2021 12:55 PM
Sometimes bile u dh ada semua, tetiba u rasa lost, kosong & xde motivation dh...actually tu la yg...

hehe yela kan bila dah ada semua mcmtu pulak kan..takpe i nak duk tepi..nak baca2 jer kakak2 semua share:lol:

aww kakak kim..kakak makadek pun hader di sini:loveliness:

zaza201516 Publish time 3-9-2021 09:49 PM

Turned 41 this year and in denial. So kita repair muka apa yg boleh, bagi kurang kedut2, repair2 body sikit, try nak dpt figure mcm dulu2. And upgrade wardrobe. Macam tu laaa, supeficial lah sikit how i deal with my midlife crisis, but at least rasa happy when orang puji2 cantik tak macam 40s..

green~tea Publish time 3-9-2021 10:14 PM

makadek replied at 3-9-2021 01:01 AM
Buat masa ni belum terasa sgt krisis tu
Dari segi fizikal org tengok aku mcm lewat 30an.
Wlpn dh...

Iols pun takde laa fully syariah compliant pakaian... tp mmg nak consistent bertudung walau di mana iols berada... hatta pick up parcel depan rumah

green~tea Publish time 3-9-2021 10:16 PM

Edited by green~tea at 3-9-2021 10:20 PM

zaza201516 replied at 3-9-2021 09:49 PM
Turned 41 this year and in denial. So kita repair muka apa yg boleh, bagi kurang kedut2, repair2 bod ...

U plan nak buat apa... i think i need lazer treatment bila cecah 50s... nak remove sun spots..

For now i pakai SPF.. sunblock spf 50... cc cream ada spf... lotion badan ada spf...

green~tea Publish time 3-9-2021 10:19 PM

Acikgomen replied at 3-9-2021 06:57 PM
Acik suka pi hk for shopping
China mainland pi Beijing jah tu pon sbb keja
Mula2 kita pi Bangkok ...

Iols pun tak ingat dah brand apa beg seret iols tu.. yg i tau, dia jenis clic clic je, bukan zip around tu...

tupai Publish time 3-9-2021 10:27 PM

green~tea replied at 3-9-2021 10:19 PM
Iols pun tak ingat dah brand apa beg seret iols tu.. yg i tau, dia jenis clic clic je, bukan zip a ...

Lojel ke u sbb lojel je yg i tau jenis klik klik tu

Acikgomen Publish time 3-9-2021 10:44 PM

green~tea replied at 3-9-2021 10:19 PM
Iols pun tak ingat dah brand apa beg seret iols tu.. yg i tau, dia jenis clic clic je, bukan zip a ...

Kahkahkah acik pun ade lagi luggage jenis tu:lol:
Zip2 ni penah rosak
Nasib baik beli brand Samsonite, deyols ade repairing SVC

gekkou Publish time 4-9-2021 12:32 AM

muda2 dulu memang always nk prove yourself kepada orang
kerja pun pulun
now dah malas
lantak lah..janji aku buat yang mana aku rasa cukup untuk rezeki yang aku dapat
dan orang tak pertikai rezeki aku halal atau tidak
mati pun bukan company kisah

tahun depan target nk beli rumah baru dan jual rumah flat ni
lepas tu focus saving for retirement
kalau dapat retire as early as 45 bagus jua
tapi mcm masih muda tu
simpanan pun tak cukup

nowadays umur manusia ni cecah 70-80 tahun juga

green~tea Publish time 4-9-2021 01:16 AM

Edited by green~tea at 4-9-2021 01:34 AM

edayildiz replied at 3-9-2021 08:45 PM
hehe yela kan bila dah ada semua mcmtu pulak kan..takpe i nak duk tepi..nak baca2 jer kakak2 semua ...

Jemput lah bertenggek di sini adik eda... takde masalah pun nak mendengar mak mak lampir meluahkan rasa jiwa midlife crisis di sini.... hahahhaha...

Yes it is indeed banyak muhasabah, self reflection bila di ambang 40 an ni... masa muda2 is all about building up your career, get as much experience, build your networking... build your financial...

Dulu i nak debt free by 35, but apparently i cant achieve my target... i siap collapsed sbb terjebak dalam syndrome HENRY in my 30s, almaklum culture shock sbb tetiba byk income sbb promoted beberapa kali in my 30s... i was already at top management corporate level in glc by 38...

But those promotions juga yang demotivate iols sbb i cannot survive office politics.. if i can turn back time, i would tell my younger self, stop being too ambitious... pelan2 kayuh is fine..enjoy the world, appreciate friends and families more....

I was lucky enough to plan my financial early.. managed to be debt free before 40, buck up my passive income streams... semasa orang menikam i dengan teruk, i can still smile and tak kisah pun bila kena fitnah and cuba dijatuh kan... because i sempat build up a few fallback plans... my career is no longer my life line... so when i kena tikam in corporate world? No problemoo... fallback plans i include buat bisnes (active income), investments (passive income), plan utk sambung belajar, focus family.. tp this one plan to sambung MBA tak jadi kenyataan for now, sbb suddenlybisnes bercambah2 and i kena focus bisnes2 tu...

so my advice to anak2 muda... buck up.. save for your rainy days.... buat lah financial planning awal2..u tak perlu gila kejar harta pun, sampai 20 30 biji rumah buat property investment...NO... u just have to implement your plans and be aware of your risks..
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