Edited by green~tea at 30-12-2022 10:38 AM
kimoree replied at 30-12-2022 09:54 AM
Bila you mentioned about finacial kan.
I rasa this one of reason kot my life tak serabut.
Everythi ...
ye betoii.. masa fully WFH feb 2020 - 2022 i stress sbb tak jumpa orang.. dah le i ni extrovert...
masa i undergoing midlife crisis sampai amek unpaid leave tu sbb i rasa mcm kosong sebab tiada sebarang commitment financial... all bills, groceries, fuel, house dah prepared by husband, even kereta2 kitorg langsung tiada loan dah.. sbb itu lah last year (end 2021) tu i amek jugak 1 loan kereta, just because i nak create purpose in financial, something to look forward utk usaha bekerja.. if not, i hilang langsung motivation... though i still continue my forced saving sbb dah terbiasa rutin menyimpan, tp that's atill not really a commitment die die must pay...
then i notice i shopping merepek2 bila i takde sebarang loan.. I start spend beli beg hermes birkin 1, hermes constance 2 bijik (biasa i chanel & dior aje), then i perasan i "TERbeli" all those gold jewelries sampai 1 box penuh.. pastu i tersentak... takleh jadi nih... i kena do something utk elak i spend unnecessarily... sbb tu i decide amek je 1 loan supaya i tak derailed and motivated to keep my financial management
in 2020-2021, i byk usaha utk revive business resort.. invest juga kat situ supaya boleh automate operation.. betulkan & complete records and everything..by the time half way of my unpaid leave tu, alhamdulillah resort dah smooth sailing operation nya... skang ni dah handover pada staff2 & adik ipar operate... i cuma fikir bab expansion and bende2 strategic saja
so skang both i & brother dah get back to working full time (kitorang keje same company GLC).. working mix WIO and WFH.. which i rasa this is the best arrangement.. keep my sanity & able to juggle between work-life balance
Edited by green~tea at 30-12-2022 10:46 AM
I rasa i bukan jenis bergaya sgt.. baju i takde la lawa2 blouses all those up to date hijabista brands..
I still stick to my uniqlo casual daily wear.. button up shirt & jeggings... sneakers adidas superstar or stan smith, or onitsuka tiger is my daily wear.. flats and sandals pakai juga selang seli... cuma handbag aje la i takleh santai sgt takleh tone down, i still stick to hermes chanel & dior..
Mekap sangat2 lah kurang, bahkan i tak pernahhhh pakai eyeshadow, highliter segala mak nenek tu sbb o rasa buang masa tepek mekap berlebihan.. i lebih kepada jaga routine skincare & spf50... foundation tak suka pakai.. actively going to the gym...
Kalau gaji asik tak ckup tu kira midlife krisis gak ke :lol:
selipar_hijau replied at 30-12-2022 08:18 PM
Kalau gaji asik tak ckup tu kira midlife krisis gak ke
Itu life crisis sis... continuous battle :lol: :lol:
green~tea replied at 30-12-2022 10:11 AM
ye betoii.. masa fully WFH feb 2020 - 2022 i stress sbb tak jumpa orang.. dah le i ni extrovert......
Maybe sebab I tak pernah ada financial commitment. Memang sejak kahwin my husband bayarkan.
Cuma I nak kerja and kena kerja sebab itu yg boleh maintain my sanity.
I tak boleh la setakat duduk kat rumah sebab I ni jenis buat kerja rumah cepat.
9am I dah siap masak for lunch - sidai baju - kemas rumah etc.
So tak boleh la setakat nak melangut.
I rasa kalau I tak kerja confirmed I akan ada mid life crisis ni.
green~tea replied at 30-12-2022 10:43 AM
I rasa i bukan jenis bergaya sgt.. baju i takde la lawa2 blouses all those up to date hijabista bran ...
Handbag good investment okay.
Chanel dulu I beli maxi flaps baru RM20k and now dah naik RM40K.
LV, Hermes, Chanel and Diorantara brand good for investment.
Tapi I ni sejak masuk 40an terus hilang nafsu for handbang semua. Usually pocket money and gaji I akan invest and simpan.
Baju pun I brand biasa2 saja even sometime I beli tak ada brand pun.
Kat Shoppee pun I pernah beli.
Paling mahal pun setakat jam saja. Now days weekend tu I bawa la bag longchamp saja. More practical.
Hilang dah nafsu semua tu. So maybe this my mid life crisis la kot.
Edited by green~tea at 3-1-2023 02:23 PM
kimoree replied at 3-1-2023 01:11 PM
Handbag good investment okay.
Chanel dulu I beli maxi flaps baru RM20k and now dah naik RM40K.
LV, ...
Masalah nye.. nak consider handbag as investment piece ni.. emmmm.. sanggup ke nak jual handbag, knowing next time kalo nak beli kena fork out so much money...
End up kat rumah bertingkek2 shelf simpan henbeg :$ :$
Disebabkan alasan above, i selalu consider henbeg or gold or watch ni as self-reward or perhiasan.. i tak dpt nak anggap ia sbg my investment... kalo org lain maybe jenis pandai jual beli kan.. so boleh laa anggap investment
green~tea replied at 3-1-2023 02:21 PM
Masalah nye.. nak consider handbag as investment piece ni.. emmmm.. sanggup ke nak jual handbag, k ...
Hehheheh.....consider inverstment la for your niece nanti ke.Kalau dia tak nak pakai boleh jual kalau dia terdesak nanti.
kimoree replied at 3-1-2023 02:42 PM
Hehheheh.....consider inverstment la for your niece nanti ke.Kalau dia tak nak pakai boleh jual ka ...
Takde niece langsung so far, semua nephews (burung :lol: )... maybe simpan for bakalan wife anak i lah kot...
krisis iols skrg ialah iols sentiasa rasa muda...padahal thn ni nak masuk 41...perangai masih mcm budak2 remaja bak kata husband iols..iols rasa mcm xsedar diri pun ye jgk..iols masih nak berjimba etc..ntah la bila nk berubah sedar sket dah tua...
kimoree replied at 3-1-2023 01:07 PM
Maybe sebab I tak pernah ada financial commitment. Memang sejak kahwin my husband bayarkan.
Cuma I ...
kimo, it's happened to me..konon tak nak kerja, nak jaga anak la kan..
2minggu je bertahan, lepas tu buka jobstreet cari kerja. alhamdulillah, menten dah kat kerja sekarang almost 15yrs walaupun envi dalam ni kroni yg banyak ;P;P
krisis hidup i is, i nak freedom tapi tak boleh...haddooiii...
chikumanis replied at 1-2-2023 04:22 PM
krisis hidup i is, i nak freedom tapi tak boleh...haddooiii...
Cuba buat cam i buat tu.. career break kejap...
BEST DECISION EVER
green~tea replied at 1-2-2023 04:38 PM
Cuba buat cam i buat tu.. career break kejap...
not career break but relationship
chikumanis replied at 2-2-2023 11:06 AM
not career break but relationship
U dah kawen ke? Ke gepren boypren?
Apsal u rasa nak freedom plak? Healthy relationship tidak menyesakkan..masing2 boleh beri ruang utk diri sendiri... good relationship is reciprocating
chikumanis replied at 1-2-2023 04:21 PM
kimo, it's happened to me..konon tak nak kerja, nak jaga anak la kan..
2minggu je bertahan, lepas ...
Pendapat I bekerja la kalau ada peluang and rezeki.Boleh cepat tua kalau duduk rumah.
kimoree replied at 2-2-2023 01:33 PM
Pendapat I bekerja la kalau ada peluang and rezeki.Boleh cepat tua kalau duduk rumah.
betul...stress cepat tua {:1_541:}
green~tea replied at 2-2-2023 11:36 AM
U dah kawen ke? Ke gepren boypren?
Apsal u rasa nak freedom plak? Healthy relationship tidak men ...
married with kids u
korang kalau ade problem, boleh share problem ke satu email adress ni....
angelwithoutwings1000@gmail.com
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siape_aku replied at 27-2-2023 06:11 PM
korang kalau ade problem, boleh share problem ke satu email adress ni....
sapa tu sis, selamat ke nk share :loveliness: