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Umur berapa korang tak kisah kawan pilih bermadu?
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Few months ago I attended a-week-course. Pompuan x ramai jadi kami close. My roomate was a 40++ dan belum pernah berkahwin. Dia biasa2 saja la. Hubungan dengan coursemate yg lelaki lain pun biasa2 je.
Cuma yg iols perasan dia ni memang cepat terhibur. Lawak gred D pun dia ketawa ya amat. Dengan makcik cleaner, adik kantin pun dia tegur dan ucap selamat. Just a simple "hi, adik sihat hari ni" begitu.. taklah panjang pun cuma greetings.
2 hari lepas she called. Asking opinion.
One of d coursemates proposed. He is 12 years her junior, married with 3 kids. Reason nak kawin lagi, d current wife does not like his family.
Being a wife myself, I wish I could simply said DONT. Tapi masa course tu iols mmg nampak d two of them sangat happy bila berbual. Masa itu iols ingatkan more to hubungan kakak n adik sebab dia sebut diri beliau kakak, tak sangka pula lepas berpisah jadi lain.
So far iols tgk dia macam positif je dengan mamat tu. Iols x berani cerita dengan hubby, takut dia ingat kami berkursus bermesra2 pula padahal mana ada..
Since both of us x ramai kwn perempuan, dan kalau tulis dalam krt nanti kakak2 kerani kat opis iols tau pula, jadi iols post soalan di sini.
Iols cuma nak tanya hakak2 (sahaja) dalam forum ni, if u r in my friend's shoes, korang terima tak?
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Nayy sis
Br je kenal kn?? |
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nnt dah jd nenek, kemungkinan llaki tu tertarik dekat org lain plak, oh nooo. .umur pun dah 40++, laki tu still muda lg. . |
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Kalau dia rasa itu jodoh dia....terima je lah...tk semua wanita di luar sana ditakdirkan kawin ngan lelaki bujang..n tk semua manusia ditakdirkan utk ada jodoh....dia sanggup..redha segala tohmahan...sanggup hadapi apa shj ujian yg melanda...dia kena kuat....kalau dia nmpk sungguh2 u kena bgtau benda2 negatif psl poligami nie...dia yakin dia leh hadapi...oklah... |
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Edited by Genkidesuka at 8-10-2017 11:04 PM
Assalammu'alaikum.
Kalau akak jd dia, akak check background agama lelaki ni dulu. Kalau confirm A+ or A or A-, akak will say, Segeralah datang meminang. 
Soalan sebagai tajuk tu kena jwb la jugak ye? Jawapan akak, it's subjective. Depends on the personality dan akhlak org2 yg terlibat. Kalau kawan akak tu akhlak cenggini (2 thumbs up), akak tak kisah umur dia muda ka tua, akak setuju je kalau dia pilih utk bermadu.
But then again, it's their lives kan. Kalau mereka org2 yg beriman, jln mana yg dorang pilih, pastinya jln itu akan membawa mereka kpd Allah jua akhirnya.
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Tanya dia kenapa nak bermadu? Adakah dia ni tdesak sangat.. |
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Tak cerdiknya alasan nak poligami....kalau i..i x terima...tah2 mmg in law tu bermasalah..so kalau dia kawin dgn kwn tu tah2 dia pon akan terima nasib yg sama...dan laki tu..helo..kalau dh bini x sebulu dgn family cuba la selesaikan mslh tu dlu..ni x..cari masalah lain...immature... |
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jika lelaki tu mampu nak berpoligami, just go ahead la.. if ekonomi sekarang pun harap bini membantu, then baik la advise ur fren hidup single.. |
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Post time 9-10-2017 05:34 AM
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Post time 9-10-2017 05:38 AM
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Genkidesuka replied at 8-10-2017 11:01 PM
Assalammu'alaikum.
Kalau akak jd dia, akak check background agama lelaki ni dulu. Kalau confirm ...
Bab agama lelaki itu kaki masjid. My fren pun ms kursus tu bersolat.
Akhlak lelaki itu iols tgk mcm rakan sekerja lain juga. Thanks gen |
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LostStar replied at 8-10-2017 11:42 PM
Tanya dia kenapa nak bermadu? Adakah dia ni tdesak sangat..
Iols dah tulis she is 44. Kerjaya ok. Social life pun ok (judging from her insta). Must b something in d man yg dia ambil serius agaknya |
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siputsedut replied at 9-10-2017 12:20 AM
Tak cerdiknya alasan nak poligami....kalau i..i x terima...tah2 mmg in law tu bermasalah..so kalau d ...
Definitely my sentiment Put.
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lil_sparky replied at 8-10-2017 10:16 PM
Nayy sis
Br je kenal kn??
Kenal masa course tu la.. |
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raradhia replied at 8-10-2017 10:32 PM
nnt dah jd nenek, kemungkinan llaki tu tertarik dekat org lain plak, oh nooo. .umur pun dah 40++, la ...
Ini pun termasuk dalam list iols rara.. 12 yrs tu.. |
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cahaya_almas replied at 8-10-2017 10:37 PM
Kalau dia rasa itu jodoh dia....terima je lah...tk semua wanita di luar sana ditakdirkan kawin ngan ...
Thnx cahaya. |
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I ade kwn yg suami umur jauh2 muda. Ok je i tgk.the problem in this story for me is not the age but the fact that that guy is someone's else husb is bothering me.
The think with older women, org bkn ikhlas sgt nk kwn dgn kite. Org nmpk opportunity yg dtg sekali dgn diri kite.hurmmm |
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Suami yg berhajat akan beri seribu mcm alasan utk kahwin lagi. Walhal, jika isterinya bermasalah, si suami perlu byk bersabar.
Isteri yg bermasalah, jika dia cerdik dia akan nmpk salah sendiri dan berusaha utk membaikinya. Dia tiada hak utk membangkang suaminya utk berkhwin lagi jika suaminya mampu dari setiap segi.
Current wife lelaki tu kerja ke? Kalau kerja lagi, tak financially strong la. Kalau dia boleh support 2 wives n kids n in-laws 100%, haaa tu baru financially strong.
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Post time 9-10-2017 11:11 AM
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Genkidesuka replied at 9-10-2017 09:22 AM
Suami yg berhajat akan beri seribu mcm alasan utk kahwin lagi. Walhal, jika isterinya bermasalah, s ...
I really love ur comment gen. I kopipes sebijik2 nanti n text her.
Current wife kerja mcm kitaorg juga, most probably income pun sama. Chances untuk d current wife n my friend berselisih bahu in job-related event in future sgt tinggi.
I do not know d wife n dat man tu pun i tak berapa ingat nama penuh. So dont ask me more. Heeeshh |
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noraidil_06 replied at 9-10-2017 07:21 AM
I ade kwn yg suami umur jauh2 muda. Ok je i tgk.the problem in this story for me is not the age but ...
Atm machine more r less
Hurm
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Tak.
Kelig aiol kena game dengan shuben dan madu nohorom beliaw. Kenal tak sampai seminggu terus terima pinangan lelaki 10 tahun her junior. Ujung2 dipergunakan buat personal loan bagai jah. Bukannya shuben sheol pedulik sheol hidop ka mati. The madu (yang katanya lawa muda 15 tahun dari kelig ai siap ex ratu cantek gitu) lagi la kemain baik memula, sanggop hati suci mulia pinang kelig ai sumore, tengok2 lepas kawen dikontrol habisnya laki tu tak bagi balik rumah kelig ai. Mudoh. Takda masalah sindri carik masalah dok hulur shuben sindri kat tino laen ujung2 meroyan. Kelig ai ni pon umo dah 50 tapi naif mengalahkan bbnu. |
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Post time 8-10-2017 10:00 PM
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