Betul ke independent woman, laki takut nak dekat?

annadellia

Alhamdulillah , i didnt meet with that kind of  guy who so called 'kaki kikis' . Just it matter of time, maybe one fine day, the right one will come.     . Tx for all ur advised and concerned.

babydoll

i agreed the kaka @mbhcsf . ada je lelaki single yg keje bagus,baik, etc.tp kt luar malaysia. mohon kluar & kenal org luar malaysia.

we are in the same boat. for me, i nak cari yg sama level or higher than me.n yes, independent woman has a high ego.well..i guess that's how we do.

Innrukia

sue_0684 replied at 18-5-2015 01:40 PM
zmn la ni kena pndai jg diri..ramai org suka amik kesempatan.kalau jenis yg indipendent.ada kareer.y ...

tak brapa menarik utk akak la dek non....
akak bkn independent woman yg ada semua tu.. plus akak ni tadekla tinggi ego
disebabkan kekurangan diri tu akak seru my other half yg egonya compliment akak iaitu @ifanonline utk komen

dear komen skit kat tt ni....

sue_0684

Innrukia replied at 18-5-2015 03:20 PM
tak brapa menarik utk akak la dek non....
akak bkn independent woman yg ada semua tu.. plus akak  ...

kahkah...menarik apa kak non topik ni..
dear akak tu mmg suka topik2 cenggini..nnti kalo indi sngt, andartu jdnya..

Innrukia

sue_0684 replied at 18-5-2015 03:28 PM
kahkah...menarik apa kak non topik ni..
dear akak tu mmg suka topik2 cenggini..nnti kalo indi s ...

Nak komen lebih pun tt ni dah mmg hebat orgnya... So takkan benda simple camni pun nak tanya yer dak?

Dan lagik Allah dah kurniakan senjata paling hebat kat pompuan utk tundukkan ego lelaki, so kenapa perlu ego tinggi? Tinggi mana sgtla ego pompuan ni? Hang tau dak senjata apa tu?

Ingat tak akak slalu ckp, pompuan ni majoriti pandai2 belajaq tinggi, tp sebetulnya kurang bijak...

sue_0684

Innrukia replied at 18-5-2015 03:53 PM
Nak komen lebih pun tt ni dah mmg hebat orgnya... So takkan benda simple camni pun nak tanya yer d ...

pndai tak semestinya cerdik.
ego tinggi sngt pon x ke mananya..

missus_meow

annadellia replied at 18-5-2015 01:49 PM
Alhamdulillah , i didnt meet with that kind of  guy who so called 'kaki kikis' . Just it matter of t ...

Kalo laki org, mmg jenis berani. Tp itu kalo bini dorang tak tau yg dorang menggatal ...

Ade jenis lelaki yg risk taker ... so, berbaloi ke idak nk approach u ... lelaki ni ego tinggi ke angkasa ... kalo nk kene rejek, biarlah by someone who is worth it. So ask urself, are u worth the trouble?

makkenits

ikut pengalaman aku, x ramai lelaki yg suka pompuan terlalu independent.. time bujang dulu, kekawan lelaki yg satu aliran pun mengaku x mau pompuan yg keja or perangai mcm aku... pastu aku cuba match kan kawan aku dgn adik pompuan aku.. tp dia pun x mau sbb adik aku mmg tersgt independent... before 28 dah ada karier yg stabil, umah, keta n harta sendiri... malu katanya... satgi org ingat dia mkn harta bini...

cikrosienona

of course no dear..

lelaki yang takut nak dekat tu obviously they are intimidated by your success and the kind of person of you. Itu dah sign they are not at par with you. So why bother thinking about these bunch ? don't waste even a second of your life okay ? it's too precious to be wasted.

There are men out there who like the likes of you..just that you all tak dipertemukan lagi. Have faith...one day you will.

I pun bila cakap I takde bf...lelaki gelak2...like seriously they ask ? I just said..I have my type. and I will not bend my standard just because I have to get the married or berpunya title.

Let's make our wait worth it and have faith in Allah and in our journey..one day it will be rewarded. Amin. Just like one of my friend..she got married at the age of 36. She went to umrah and while there, a guy terpandang dia and teruskan nak jadi Isteri..4 months later they are married. Both of them are equal in terms of achievement and age. she's a banker at managerial level and her husband is a SVP at 1MDB (lol).

so yeah...dont worry. Have faith and betulkan niat. you will be fine..

MISZZZ

TT like ur quote we cant be forever alone....

memang pon ada jantanzz yang suka amik kesempatan, me also pernah berdepan situasi tu.. tapi time tu saya tak matang lagi.. yes jantan tu dapat la kikis sikit my money, dunia memang terlepas, tapi matik esok cari i balik hahahah

jangan risau one day akan jmpa someone yang betul2... it just a matter of time

mbhcsf

cikrosienona replied at 18-5-2015 04:40 PM
of course no dear..

lelaki yang takut nak dekat tu obviously they are intimidated by your success ...

i love your posting...hehehe...it seems soooo nice and beautiful. It goes to show that  at the end of the day, Allah knows what is best, He paced your life and the intended provision in the best appointed times. All nicely placed within HIS KNOWLEDGE.

takpe sebab kalau ikhtiar pun , kita dapat pahala, so it works both ways...

hmmm.....bless u , you make me smile...somehow , with iced latte.

cikrosienona

mbhcsf replied at 18-5-2015 05:55 PM
i love your posting...hehehe...it seems soooo nice and beautiful. It goes to show that  at the end ...

notice how many times I wrote Faith in my post ? basically that's it - just live your life and leave it to Allah.

Jodoh tu rahsia Allah..we never know who's our Jodoh..the most important thing in our life is to prepare for whatever will happen jodoh ada atau tak and tetapkan kegembiraan tu atas Dia.

InsyaAllah..you will not feel bothered about anything because it doesn't matter except Him. If you yakin and happy with your choices trust me it will a lot easier for you. who cares about what other thinks about you ?

sometimes..orang buat kita tertanya or membangkitkan persoalan yang kita tak pernah fikir or tak pernah endah sebelum ni.. it's OK. Doesn't mean we have to value his/her opinion and take it seriously especially benda2 yang sorry to say remeh macam ni (ref to tajuk TT)..

if we did took our time, make sure we get up and stand with our principles/standard/opinions...don't live there too long honey! haha

coincidentally..I'm drinking something iced as well. Iced Cappucino. happy that my words make you smile..hope everyone who is reading benefited from my posting and cheer up.

kucingkecik

cikrosienona replied at 18-5-2015 06:13 PM
notice how many times I wrote Faith in my post ? basically that's it - just live your life and lea ...

Sangat suka komen awak ni...tq

dewimalam78

Klu ai..utk jodoh ai akan pura2 lemah dan perlukan bantuan fizikal dan nasihat drp lelaki tp sebenarnya bijak drp diorg sangka.

sue_0684

dewimalam78 replied at 18-5-2015 07:07 PM
Klu ai..utk jodoh ai akan pura2 lemah dan perlukan bantuan fizikal dan nasihat drp lelaki tp sebenar ...

org kata buat2 bodoh ye dok...kihkihkih..

dewimalam78

sue_0684 replied at 18-5-2015 07:11 PM
org kata buat2 bodoh ye dok...kihkihkih..

Betul.
Pdngan ai..mcne baik pun lelaki melayu di msia ni..klu dpt perempuan yg independent lama2 diorg akan take advantage.

sue_0684

dewimalam78 replied at 18-5-2015 08:01 PM
Betul.
Pdngan ai..mcne baik pun lelaki melayu di msia ni..klu dpt perempuan yg independent lama2 ...

yup..dah mindset laki mesia mcm tu..bila selesa je.mmg alpa.suka dok dlm comfort zone.bkn nya nk appreciate kalo dpt wife yg indipendent ni.

babydoll

cikrosienona replied at 18-5-2015 04:40 PM
of course no dear..

lelaki yang takut nak dekat tu obviously they are intimidated by your success ...

i suka apa yg sis tulis.really nice.n definitely agreed with you.

Hana

cikrosienona replied at 18-5-2015 04:40 PM
of course no dear..

lelaki yang takut nak dekat tu obviously they are intimidated by your success ...

BEST sgt komen sis.
im speechless.

annadellia

Terima kasih semua atas nasihat dan motivasi. Im really appreaciated it. Someone has told me, 'setinggi2 terbang burung, akhirnya hinggap di dahan jua'. Eventhough u hv everything, its not how lucky u r, its how u manage the things to beautify ur life and to make it come true, u cant do by ur own.

Tx again for ur concern and opinion.