Salam.. korang ada pengalaman tak ikut usrah/halaqah?

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Salam kat atas nk tanya kat forumers pernah tak join mana2 usrah/ halaqah? cer crita pengalaman anda semasa join aktiviti2 mcm ni.. atau ada kenangan manis/kenangan pahit yg boleh diceritakan semasa join usrah/halaqah ni?

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1. pernah. ikut gitu2 je.

2. pernah. pengikut kuat. jadik murobbi lagi

3. pernah jugak. tapi on-off, on-off.

4. usrah/ halaqah tu apa benda?

5. tak pernah. tgk member je yg buat usrah

6. taknak ikut usrah. lain mcm je...

7. dgr ceramah depa je.. join sgt xdela.

8. skg ni alhamdullilah.. tgh join usrah.

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mbhcsf Lv.20 2^#

27-5-2013 11:15 PM

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well it depends ..usrah bentuk macam mana , I guess...yg baik dan berbentuk umum tu okay je, u need that untuk pengisian dan alaa macam circle ...cuma kena tahu naqibah tu sapa dan apa tujuan , you can ask really.

I guess...yes...I mean yes.

itu kot jawapan terbaik .

mbhcsf Lv.20 3^#

27-5-2013 11:17 PM

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majlis ilmu pun baik baik aje...kat masjid  masjid ada kelas...itu satu lagi venue untuk pengisian ...

kat masjid jamek kg bharu rasanya depa ada buat solat sunat tasbih sebelum subuh  I think, sebelum subuh hari jumaat , la ni tengah rennovate I nampak so ...u can join qiam macam tu jugak sekali sekala...

yg penting be honest dan  timba sedaya yg you mampu.

mbhcsf Lv.20 4^#

27-5-2013 11:18 PM

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tapi solat sunat tasbih ni well challenging but well u know...I teringat masa form 5 kat mrsm ...ada budak kata ...terketaq lutut I , tersengguk sengguk kepala I ....well there you go...interesting experience.

mujer_in_espejo Author 5^#

27-5-2013 11:22 PM

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Quote: mbhcsf posted on 27-5-2013 11:15 PM
well it depends ..usrah bentuk macam mana , I guess...yg baik dan berbentuk umum tu okay je, u need ...

pernah x join yg under NGO punya? yg bkn umum kot..

mujer_in_espejo Author 6^#

27-5-2013 11:23 PM

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Quote: mbhcsf posted on 27-5-2013 11:17 PM
majlis ilmu pun baik baik aje...kat masjid masjid ada kelas...itu satu lagi venue untuk pengisian . ...

momod, ble x u vote poll? nk tau gak.. hehe. makasehh

mbhcsf Lv.20 7^#

27-5-2013 11:26 PM

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Quote: mujer_in_espejo posted on 27-5-2013 11:22 PM
pernah x join yg under NGO punya? yg bkn umum kot..

well... well interesting...i buka soalan kat semua ...

macam nilah ...if you want to join join , if you do not want - personally i think it is okay. kalau nak yg umum umum - go for it ...kalau itu membuatkan you 'selesa' or tak rasa u know uncomfortable, okay?

be honest and be nice.

i guess that is the best answer from me.

i bukan faham NGO mana ka apa kaa....i jawab je from things i learn from life.

mbhcsf Lv.20 8^#

27-5-2013 11:28 PM

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Quote: mujer_in_espejo posted on 27-5-2013 11:23 PM
momod, ble x u vote poll? nk tau gak.. hehe. makasehh

my sister used to be a naqibah ...used to be past tense. i ni well...haha....'jahat sikit'.

mujer_in_espejo Author 9^#

27-5-2013 11:35 PM

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sbnrnya gni.. sy pena ikut.. masa jadik student dlu. tp bila dah msuk final year.. rasa mcm lain skit dah usrah ni.. so, sy amik keputusan dah abis blaja, sy xnak join usrah2 ni lagi. reason: byk reason. then baru2 ni sy kena call dan sms untuk join semula usrah. klu usrah under sesuatu pertubuhan mcm ni la. mmg bekas anak usrah dorg xkan lepaskn/lari, msti kena join gak. atas sebab sy xnak kecikkan ati dorg, sy abaikan call dan msg. sbb x sanggup nk gtau, sy xnak ikut usrah lg atas sebab musabab yg private. huhu. skg dilema plak.. dan sy rasa dorg akan cakap sy ni futhur.. aiks.. x kisah dah

mbhcsf Lv.20 10^#

27-5-2013 11:47 PM

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Quote: mujer_in_espejo posted on 27-5-2013 11:35 PM
sbnrnya gni.. sy pena ikut.. masa jadik student dlu. tp bila dah msuk final year.. rasa mcm lain ski ...

hmm...u can ask yg arif , ustaz ustaz yg dari usrah lain jugak tanya pendapat ....u know , adakah elok jatuh hukum...saya ni etc etc...
u know...that sort.

benda macam ni kena ada pemahaman asas...kena tahu konteks....well....i can understand but then again u know, apa apa pun hati itu kena ikhlas. sebba i know benda ni depa mohon komitmen dan kalau hati tak ikhlas u akan rasa terpaksa.

i guess macam nilah ...u do apa yg mampu and what is the best. Bukan satu saja jalan untuk menyumbang untuk Islam secara kolektif banyak lagi cara.

so u know ...again i open to other forumners okay?

mbhcsf Lv.20 11^#

27-5-2013 11:49 PM

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Quote: mujer_in_espejo posted on 27-5-2013 11:35 PM
sbnrnya gni.. sy pena ikut.. masa jadik student dlu. tp bila dah msuk final year.. rasa mcm lain ski ...

u takut org kata kat you, sangka baik je lah.

Zackmaster Lv.5 12^#

28-5-2013 11:02 PM

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Quote: mujer_in_espejo posted on 27-5-2013 11:35 PM
sbnrnya gni.. sy pena ikut.. masa jadik student dlu. tp bila dah msuk final year.. rasa mcm lain ski ...

nak tanya,

Quote: ..rasa mcm lain skit dah usrah ni..

..tu camna?
itu pun jika boleh diceritakan la, takleh takpa..

mujer_in_espejo Author 13^#

29-5-2013 09:27 PM

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Quote: Zackmaster posted on 28-5-2013 11:02 PM
nak tanya, ..tu camna?
itu pun jika boleh diceritakan la, takleh takpa..

ntahla.. sy rasa sy x bleh nk 'in' dgn cara dorg. kdg2 bt sy jd stress. maybe jgk sy x bpa suka dgn cara murobbi kot. nk join usrah ni kena ada komitmen yg tinggi. mula2 tu ok la. then lama2 kmi kena ada komitmen yg kuat klu nk join usrah ni. lagipun sy xleh jadi hipokrit. sy ni bkn baik sgt. so, drpd sy jd hipokrit dan tipu diri sndri, baik sy x join lagi.. sy x bleh dah nak bg komitmen dgn usrah bt masa ni.. klu dgr ceramah2 umum tu kira ok la kot...

mbhcsf Lv.20 14^#

29-5-2013 09:52 PM

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Quote: mujer_in_espejo posted on 29-5-2013 09:27 PM

cara murobbi tu macam mana yang bagi awak stress? boleh bagi contoh?

sebab usrah ni saya faham  ada 'group' tertentu dan ini kaan menentukan hala tuju sesuatu usrah atau circle tu secara jujurnya
so ada usrah yg okay  , ikut flow ahli dia ...umum je ...

ada yg well...how shall i say a bit different ada unsur siasah juga ...ini juga bergantung kat mana you jugak ...i am open about this , but sometimes i do think ada ketika  kena jadi jujur dgn diri dan be honest about it.

hmm....selalunya org ' allergic' atau tak selesa dengan hal hal macam ni

tapi hal lain ...macam sentuh soal aurat ke ...etc etc ..itu well ...pada yg dah buat semua yg wajib  kecuali kahwin = kahwin tu sunnah  hehehe....okay lah kot ...

but i guess you are matured enough  on how to approach things ...

mujer_in_espejo Author 15^#

29-5-2013 10:18 PM

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Quote: mbhcsf posted on 29-5-2013 09:52 PM
cara murobbi tu macam mana yang bagi awak stress? boleh bagi contoh?

sebab usrah ni saya faham ...

masa dorg mula2 tarik sy nk join tu, kira mcm best la cara dorg. dan bila dah lama skit dgn dorg, dah mula rasa stress. suru bt itu suruh bt ini. kdg2 ada satu hari tu sy x tdo 24jam gara2 bt satu projek besar. ok, tu normal la kot bila ada pojek besar. tapi kdg2 klu tlalu push dan bila di marahi, sy cpt terasa seolah2 usaha yg sy bt x dihargai slama ni. dahtu, setiap pojek dan aktiviti, perlu ada laporan dan meeting-meeting-meeting! kdg2 meeting xde kena mengena dgn sy pn, dipanggil jugak. dahtu msh bgelar student lagi, final year.. kdg2 sy pikir mna 1 keutamaan? belajar ke meeting yg xde kena mengena? slalunya klu meeting ni, ada la cramah2 skit. that why kena pgil dtg. dan kdg2 sy pikir perlu ke bt keja2 akhirat ni bt laporan dan meeting2 segala? nk rangka plan je pn.. ntah.. byk sgt bnda dlm meeting sy rasa mcm sy xleh trima. start dr tu sy rasa jauh-dan jauh.. dan yeah..
sy perna jgk kena suru follow up adik2 usrah bru yg join. dan di propose jd naqibah. wajib. wlu pd msa tu sy ni otak pn bukan betul sgt. msh gak dgn prngai hantu nk masuk panggung wyg tgk muvi omputih. dan msh lyn crita korea. dan u all klu nk tahu bg ahli usrah bnda2 ni suma adlh laghoh. forbidden. cmna la nk jd naqibah utk adik2?

start dr tu ada penyakit 'memberontak' dlm diri.. dan.. tu la.. sy melarikan diri..

sy bukak thread ni cuma nk tahu pglmn org yg pernah join usrah.. adakah mcm sy ni atau x??? tu jer..

mbhcsf Lv.20 16^#

29-5-2013 10:22 PM

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Quote: mujer_in_espejo posted on 29-5-2013 10:18 PM
masa dorg mula2 tarik sy nk join tu, kira mcm best la cara dorg. dan bila dah lama skit dgn dorg, ...

hmmm....you do not tell me things that i do not know actually , i am quite aware about this well....ni pengalaman hidup...

okay kat sini yg i cakap , there would be a time for you to be honest and sangka baik dan cakap ....

u undergrad kat malaysia ke?

mbhcsf Lv.20 17^#

29-5-2013 10:27 PM

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Quote: mujer_in_espejo posted on 29-5-2013 10:18 PM
masa dorg mula2 tarik sy nk join tu, kira mcm best la cara dorg. dan bila dah lama skit dgn dorg, ...

macam ni laa...u know...pada I - Allah tu Maha Adil , He knows...and He will be the judge - the seen and the unseen

so...yg you mampu to the best of your ability you ikut , yg tak just be honest say sorry dan terus terang yg you tak mampu ...sangka baiklah dengan depa

i guess at my age now looking back , pengisian tu penting especially abroad - ni jujur ye

i have seen students yg hanyut habis , academic , intelligence fine but kalau sampai u know terlanjur dan jauhi group usrah tu and i know ....certain things ...but itu push aside , kita as manusia kekadang dan selalunya terlupa, iman ada pasang surut so then ...u know... so kat sini kena ada good judgement - u know kan what is the priority dan amanah you apa ...

so pada i sebenarnya hal ni kena be honest with oneself...apa apa pun wasatiyyah sederhana....

Last edited by mbhcsf on 29-5-2013 10:29 PM

mujer_in_espejo Author 18^#

29-5-2013 10:31 PM

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malaysia je.. tp ada gak naqibah dan sisters yg dr uni oversea gak.. kan usrah ni biasa kat student sna.. kdg2 cmpor la sisters dr uk, nz, aussie.

btw terma kasih sudi mereply dan memberi nasihat.. x rmi plak yg masuk benang sy ni dan... mereply. huhuhu

mbhcsf Lv.20 19^#

29-5-2013 10:35 PM

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Quote: mujer_in_espejo posted on 29-5-2013 10:18 PM
masa dorg mula2 tarik sy nk join tu, kira mcm best la cara dorg. dan bila dah lama skit dgn dorg, ...

hahahah

disruh jadi naqibah wow...cool cayalah well...my naqibah ada dua jenis , so in a way alhamdulillah , Allah give me that ujian hehehe....satu yg lelepak dan satu lagi i guess macam you kot quite strict ...layan je....cerita semua tu ...ntah ...kalau u kat Malaysia i tatau macam mana ....

well....adeh cerita pasal ni semua , mmg reveal 1001 memories betul , i guess ...this experience is an eye opener - I am thankful to Allah for this honestly so, i appreaciate the experience , and the lesson learnt from it , to know myself better .

movies ...i do hahah...one brother was saying to me - thsi hardlt bring me nearer to god ....well bless him. true . i have to say things against myself as well.

mujer_in_espejo Author 20^#

29-5-2013 10:49 PM

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Quote: mbhcsf posted on 29-5-2013 10:35 PM
hahahah

disruh jadi naqibah wow...cool cayalah well...my naqibah ada dua jenis , so in a way a ...

jgn gelak..... realiti ni. tu pn sebab adik2 yg join rmi, dahtu naqibah sikit je. jgn igt kat malaysia ni naqibah rmi je blambak. tp area sy muslim kurang,  adik2 yg dpt msuk kat tmpr study sy dlu rmi (prmpuan rmi). tu sbb jd naqibah ekspress. sbnrnya blum layak lg. jauh dr layak, tp murobbi kata, tu persediaan tu jd naqibah yg betul2. bukan sy je, rmi lg kwn lain di suru jd naqibah. dgn keadaan diri yg x bpa betul, then dlm keadaan kena paksa, wajib. pastu study yg menggasak masa tu. sy betul2 jadi pemberontak tegar.

tp tu suma memori. skg bila dah kena keja, kena campak tmpt jauh2. sy hidup sndri  tanpa usrah.

* perna dulu 1 sesi, bila sharing ktaorg dgn sisters dr uni overseas, masalah kat sana, dan  dibanding dgn mslh di malaysia ialah.. kat student overseas, xde family, family dorg tu je la ahli usrah dan malaysian.. etc..etc.. tmpt mengadu tu je la. tp banding malaysia, family dekat je. klu majuk nk balik, senang je nk balik.. keinginan adik2 nk ikut usrah tu cmne susah nk tarik. sbb tu la yg sy ckp..*

dan  i guess.. awak... msh join usrah kan?...