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Raising RESILIENCE kids

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Post time 31-1-2012 08:04 AM | Show all posts |Read mode
Post Last Edit by my-alja at 31-1-2012 18:42

salam

edit sket tajuknya....

cam tersasar drp niat...

org2 berjaya kat dunia nie bukan sebab dia genius, bukan sebab dia ada IQ 300
bukan sebab dia makan omega-3....kismis, tapi sebab kualiti nie...

cemana nak didik anak kita dgn kualiti nie...

satu pendekatan i dpt dr website psikologi....thru communication..

btw...lihat diri kita sendiri?..are we...
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Post time 31-1-2012 08:40 AM | Show all posts
Tell them, 'you either you sink or swim. No shortcuts in life'.
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Post time 31-1-2012 09:16 AM | Show all posts
anak amanah dr tuhan...sempurnakan tugas dgn sebaiknya...
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Post time 31-1-2012 09:20 AM | Show all posts
Reply 1# my-alja


anak umur berapa?
dlm keadaan situasi mcm mana anak kata "putus asa"?
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 Author| Post time 31-1-2012 10:28 AM | Show all posts
Reply  my-alja


anak umur berapa?
dlm keadaan situasi mcm mana anak kata "putus asa"?
kieu Post at 31-1-2012 09:20


anak2 bawah 12 thn...

semalam bersembang dgn moms kat sekola...rata2 anak sekarang memang jenis tak tabah
sememeh sket....

i tgh carik solusi utk naikkan level resillence anak2 nie.....nak dera cemana lagi ekk
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 Author| Post time 31-1-2012 06:37 PM | Show all posts
Hantar ke kem motivasi....
InsyaAllah akan jadi lebih confiden......
jazaa Post at 31-1-2012 10:57



For people resilience means that whatever bad times you go through you can always bounce back again and be yourself.
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Post time 31-1-2012 07:53 PM | Show all posts
2 ways communication, should listen n be listened, exposure to many kind of conditions n situations, n trusting your kids with responsibilities given n taken.

ni sepintas lalu jer hah, tengok kang malam2 cket maybe idea datang boleh sambung balik

anie selalu bagi topic kasi den otak bengkak!{:4_503:}
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 Author| Post time 31-1-2012 09:06 PM | Show all posts
Reply 7# minahsaudi

ahaksss...kak min

akak rasakan, thru ur life experiences...what make u so "kuat"
kongsi mongsi ....

i belajar satu benda bebaru nie....


anak2 resilience nie, karektor dia agak degei masa kecik...

kekadang kita salah asuh sebab nak suruh dia dengar kata, kita saja...
padahal kualiti tu kita kena pupuk....

lagi cepat dia bounce back to his/her own wishes....dia lagi cepat berjaya...
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Post time 31-1-2012 09:26 PM | Show all posts
Reply  minahsaudi

ahaksss...kak min

akak rasakan, thru ur life experiences...what make u so " ...
my-alja Post at 31-1-2012 21:06


most of my life i have been away from msia.  my life experiences cud not be measured with $$$ n cts masyaallah.  ada anak pulak n she came with us every where we go.  balik kampong msia she is exposed to life in kampong, pakai jamban cangkong pun dia paksa diri buat.  tak kalo tahan ler nko!

memang degil sangat2 n frm the age of 5-9 she was very sarcastic.  ramai kawan2 terkejut her sarcasm was real hah, showing her inner feelingof dissastifactions.  skang nie her sarcasm is more realistic but lightly mannered.

recent case with her daddy - .....laughing all the way to the bank (her daddy conversation to her).  in reply she said - 'u are in the bank u cant even laughed at it'.

hahahaha......n she is 11 now.  nak jadi fashion designer tu
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 Author| Post time 1-2-2012 07:54 AM | Show all posts
Reply 9# minahsaudi

haaa....dpt bayangkan muka dia

i sedar melalui pengalaman org2 keliling dan baca psikologi our late steve jobs
kualiti degei nie kalo ada pd anak2....jangan simply suppress, it's so useful after school
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 Author| Post time 1-2-2012 08:40 AM | Show all posts
"You tell me to be resilient, but what's the difference between that and just being plain stubborn."


Who can answer this?
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Post time 2-2-2012 10:04 AM | Show all posts
"You tell me to be resilient, but what's the difference between that and just being plain stubborn." ...
my-alja Post at 1-2-2012 08:40


alja....i just want to share my experience.  masa akak bergelumang masaalah dgn my hubby dulu, i learn to adapt with the new situation i was in, communicate with those who might be able to helped me or just listened to me.  adapting into my new status n situation n dealing with the most difficult time of my life n persisting on making my marriage stay,  i became resilient as u can see n know me now.

but on the part of being stubborn, i cud not adapt as divorcee so i persistently work hard on repairing my broken marriage n due to my stubborness i got my husband back.

hahahaha....boleh tak{:4_500:}
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 Author| Post time 2-2-2012 10:44 AM | Show all posts
Reply 12# minahsaudi

hahahah....my god, u gave me the BEST answer ever

exactly, i observe my hubby....dia jenis stubborn, but he LOVES to use d term; RESILIENCE

i tgh buat self check nie....am i just plain stubborn or resilience
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Post time 2-2-2012 11:23 AM | Show all posts
Reply  minahsaudi

hahahah....my god, u gave me the BEST answer ever

exactly, i obse ...
my-alja Post at 2-2-2012 10:44


i will elaborate more on all these but i have to go out 1st.  my duty as a mother come 1st at the moment.
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