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Reply 17# fcoy
Aku setuju bebenor dgn pendapat nko ni .... good Bro |
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Kalau ada lelaki yg tanya soalan begitu, it's either lelaki tu kepoh or just plain materialistic..sebab tanye soklan gitu, mungkin dia nak bolot harta u tak? |
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abis tu nak tanye ape???
pointer mase blaja dulu brape???
spm brape a???
nape mudah sentap???  |
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gotta lotsa thing2 in life to talk bout'....kinda small thingy u malay guys utter does only reflect ur mentality as malay.....just lil' word to think bout ya....no hard feelin'...4 sure u gotta have fun when first connectin wit' someone but that fun thin' also gotta be with point and direct you to more meaningful communication...not just leave the girl clueless....voila....i had enough experiencin' wit' communication failure...it's just I said....crap |
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btw..u guys watch all local drama on ria or prima...that's exactly what i mean...so dig in it...think, think and think........ |
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 so you're concluding that malay men are "crap" just because of communication failure??just because those guys "failed",doesn't mean you can CONCLUDE that all Malay men out there are "Crap"....guess you haven't met those cool-mature-MALAY dudes out there eh?? |
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Reply 70# R3X
i like the way u think...mmm |
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No, that represents your intellect.
We want to know whether you are married or still single, in ...
MACD Post at 12-5-2011 07:57 
wow...this is a nice post from you thus far. but then, could that gentleman be more assertive, perhaps or i.e more direct ??? |
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Post Last Edit by HaMiZiE at 15-5-2011 01:35
OMAIGOD!!! ... I can feel that you are very anti with malay guys ... and your reaction is simply based on first contact where you feel that there is no intelectuel conversation upon at the very first communication with malay guys you have met before... and you consider this as a communication failure!!! ...
Be reminded, communication exist when more than 1 person interacting with each other and when the communication is failed, this is mainly due to the failure of these peoples to deliver or to relay their messages right. So in this case, when you are interacting with a malay guy and unfortunately, this poor guy can't understand what kind of messages you want to receive from him... then you have to notify him clearly ... otherwise, you can be considered as one of the factors why the communication failure is occurred.
Now lady... let go back to the original topic that you have brought up here i.e. you are getting sick with the way malay guys starting their conversation with a girl they have just met up. If you really want to seek peoples' opinion (especially from malay guys) about this... I would really appreciate it if you can define further about this topic. Your input was so briefed and there were no clear info or detail on why you are so firmly have jump to this conclusion. As such, I would appreciate it if you can answer my questions below and only then, I believe some of core forumers at ATM board will share their thoughts, ideas and to discus about this topic openly:
1. How many malay guys you have met before...?
2. How at the first place you know them...?
3. What is your reaction when the first input gotten from the very first conversation with them not as what you expected?
4. What is your action to make sure he understands what kind of questions you expect from him?
5. What kind of questions you expect from guys you have just met?
6. What make you think that by questioning typical 1st time meeting questions such as where you live? you live with whom?... What you do for living... etc as not intelectuel questions?
I would like to emphasize here that the questions posted by me above is based on the following scenarios:
1. You are meeting with a new guy where both of you have planned to meet up for the first time to get to know each other
2. You know there is a guy who showing his interest to know you and eventually approaching you ...
Last but not least, would you mind to share with us how non malay guys approaching you ...  |
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Post Last Edit by mbhcsf at 15-5-2011 05:20
hihihihi...i guess this lady probably wanted to be approached slightly differently? i would say, she enjoys good, stimulating, meaningful , engaging conversation , perhaps.. ye kan?? kannnnnnnnnnnnn? 
well...the truth is that kind of malay guys do exist but ..they are either off the coastline of malaysia or one can be so jovially smart, brilliant and mature but already booked for life - i.e hubby. yep those lucky ladies...
ada bukan tak ada tapi yang nak cari tu sama ada dah berpunya dan beristeri dah pun dan we are not going to go there ,
yg ada single adaaa ..well...adalaaa...but hmm with issues involving their career development, etc etc ...
nak cari yg engaging,, yang could strike a good engaging, conversation with you dengan santai , jovial, smart , bersahaja payahhhhh....tak dinafikan tapi warga Adam tu wujud... at least pernah wujud dalam hidup saya in the past....tak tahulah masa depan... |
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dan bersyukurlah anda jika ada suami yg mmg nice, jovially smart and brilliant ni. |
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Reply 60# eiman
aisssh...tu selera dia .....tak pe laaa...tak payah nak label dia apa apa hehehe...dia cuma kecewa sikit kot ....tak pelaaaa
bukan semua org selera sama kot rasanya |
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yang ada di depan saya ni lagu tu laaaa green eyes, well semua tapi ..tak boleh disentuh professionally , and spiritually 
itulah dunia....dunai ini fana dan ..kita diuji oleh-NYA |
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Mungkin cik perlu tanya kenapa cik berjumpa dgn org2 yg camtu? Sila lari dr kebiasaan, insyallah akan jumpa lelaki2 Melayu yg bukan tipikal. |
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Are u intelectual enough to handle intelectual conversation? |
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