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Ayah dah pencen tapi duit epf dah habis. Mak suruh ayah cari kerja semula.
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SPACENUT replied at 27-5-2022 09:54 PM
Sorry nak tanya, duit scam tu memang tak boleh dapat balik ke? Sapa yang scam dia?
Legally, mmg payah nak dapat balik... seluruh dunia ni pun sama je undang2 nya... sbb diri kita sendiri membenarkan diri discam org tu, we ourselves willingly bagi duit or bagi no akaun pada orang tu... tak kira jalan cerita nya mcmana skali pun, tetap tanggungjawab tu atas diri sendiri..
Sbb tu scam di dlm dunia ni bermaharajalela |
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lalabeez replied at 27-5-2022 08:51 PM
Thank youuu for the insight. Rumah sewa memang ada dulu. Satu dah jual and the money they used to ...
I ada buka thread retirement plan kat bod borak...
Situ i ada share what i did on my financial planning and retirement plan in 2017... semua bab planning tu i covered, including pengurusan pusaka and aktiviti post retirement... actually i attended retirement plan course yang company i organize.. is a 5 days training, company paid rm5k for the course... i buat thread supaya org dpt awareness dan start sekarang, walau masih muda
I sendiri no longer working 9-5 bermula awal tahun haritu  |
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Rasanya for mak tt to want a mercedes is reasonable. Dia pangkat besar kan. Aku tengok gred 48 pun dh menjalar kereta masing-masing. Sebab dia pangkat besar lah dia nak suami dia ada mata pencarian. Semoga dipermudahkan urusan tt. Dugaan utk family semoga besar hikmahnya |
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Edited by airmineral at 8-6-2022 02:20 PM
lalabeez replied at 24-5-2022 11:08 AM
I perempuan and laki i pun dah didik i baya my commitment sendiri. I faham maybe my mom rasa macam ...
u dgn adik beradik xbagi duit kat parent ke? kurang² ada la babah u duit utk belanja²
kesian betul kalau nak suruh babah tu kerja lagi 
better u slow talk dgn mak u, lagipun scammer ni mcm² jenis ada, nak² lagi scammer aim org pencen la scammer online la..iols dgr member kena scam online 14k kena sedut pun iols terkedu tau. nasihat kt mak, jgn mendongak ke langit sgt, kongsi rezeki dgn kuarga lebih afdal..
tapi tu la, mesti mak u ada pride jusa dia tu juga huhu |
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kitorg bagi je.tu yg kitorang pelik gila ape bende yang tak cukup. sbb kitorg semua dah kerja. komitmen my parent only maintenance kereta dan bill rumah. tu jerrr.
Tapi baru2 ni my dad buat kejutan kat my mom and said he is going to Jakarta for a week.
Mak aku punya la terkejut sbb short notice.
I guess tindakan my dad memberi kejutan kepada my mom. My mom dah fikir my dad nak kawen kat sana ke. kene tipu lagi ke. nak hilangkan diri ke.
She call me and ask why my dad sanggup beli tiket senyap2 and nak pergi sana sorang2.
I pun apa lagi, memang basuh la my mom in a good manners la.
Adik I pun basuh my mom juga. Kitorang cakap, mommy, now you choose.
You want to save your marriage and live together with babah till the rest of your life or, you can continue working till forever.
If you chose the second one, better you consider for a divorce. Kesian babah. He work his ass off sampai la u boleh work and splurge your gaji for yourself and babah tak bising pon u guys pjj for 10 years!. Weekend pun u komplen cakap babah buat muka if you buat kerja weekend. Of course la, from Monday to Friday you kerja, you jumpa minister, you jumpa people, but him? He just go to mosque, kemas rumah, jaga rumah, jaga pokok, minum dia, makan dia, you ada fikir ? And you still ada gut to ask him to go to work and find more monies.
Terdiam my mom. I pun nanti akan jumpa and minta maaf to her la sebab I know ada words I guna macam tidak beradab.
And this week, my mom supposed to go to Kedah ada mesyuarat but she did not go. She booked a hotel dunno where and ajak my dad together to spend time.
Can see la my mom macam nak berubah. I hope this weekend they discuss la what the best for their marriage.
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My mom memang drive merc pun sbb dia tanak bawa kereta dia. But that mercedes my dad punya. My dad tak kisah pun sebab tau position my mom kat office tu. My dad kalau u nak tau, ada scooter je sebab kadang2 the second car which supposed kereta my mom, ada adik I guna cz her car selalu rosak. My dad akan guna the second car if dia nak balik jumpa my nenek kat kampung or jumpa orang untuk side hustle dia. Pergi bandar ke, pasar ke, my dad naik scooter je.
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lalabeez replied at 11-6-2022 01:18 PM
kitorg bagi je.tu yg kitorang pelik gila ape bende yang tak cukup. sbb kitorg semua dah kerja. kom ...
Alhamdulillah semoga berterusan mak u mellow |
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lalabeez replied at 11-6-2022 01:18 PM
kitorg bagi je.tu yg kitorang pelik gila ape bende yang tak cukup. sbb kitorg semua dah kerja. kom ...
hopefully your mom muhasabah diri cepat²
da tua² ni duit pangkat harta nak bawa ke mana la sangat
org nk pencen hidup tenang² je
syg betul kalau divorce di penghujung usia
nnt da divorce lonely plk nnt
my mil & pil pun gred jusa juga pencennya
alhamdulillah drg hidup sekadarnya
sblm pencen drg beli camry dgn rumah sebiji kt pinggir bandar nak hidup tenang² dekat dgn masjid dan join kelas².. ada masa lapang panjang ajak anak cucu travel gitulah cara drg skg
i hope yg mak ayah you boleh berdamai dan reda dengan rezeki yg ada utk ketenangan di hari tua ni |
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Edited by rainbowrainz at 14-6-2022 04:25 AM
Nak hidup tambah nikmat selalulah sedekah...jgn selalu merungut benda yg x sepatutnya..rmi Lagi org susah skrg ni ..ajarlah hati agar lebih bersyukur...malulah dah tua asik sebut duit x cukup ...Mak uols gaji besar kerja bagus inilah ujian dia plak dpt suami kena tlg sbb duit x ada...Allah ni bagi dah cantik dah Dan adillll....kdg kita x nampak semua tu...ingatlah ckp Kat Mak uols disbbkan ayah uols susah ni lah Allah nak bg Mak uols saham akhirat lebih..kita mungkin tlg org susah utk kebaikan dunia Dan ubah dunia dia tapi dlm x sedar dia tlg kita lebih lagi beri kebaikan kat kita dan ubah utk akhirat kita .. |
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Duit ni kau cari byk mana pun x akan cukup tapi kena pandai pandailah berjimat..cut cost mana yg x patut nak beli...nasiblah family uols x byk hutang kalau tak lagilah susah...ckp kat Mak uols inilah masanya bykkan sedekah maybe Masa muda Mak uols lompong amalan sedekah... bersyukur lah Mak uols dpt suami baik Dr dpt suami membiawak Masa muda lagi nagessss |
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Mungkin mak tt di influence org sekitarnya. Dia nampak lifestyle diorang tu high class punya. Makin la kalau laki/bini businessman berjaya sbb dh usia tu kan. Perempuan ni mudah tau nak terpengaruh dgn lifestyle org lain. Jadi, peranan suami utk didik isteri bersyukur dgn kehidupan yg suami mampu sediakan utk dia. Sbb they chose each other to spend their whole time with. Nak tak nak kena terima kekurangan masing2.
Actually wpun ur dad x mampu bantu dr segi expenses sekarang, ur mom shud be thankful that he managed to settle the house loan. Not many can achieve that in their 50s. |
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udah2la tu mak, kubur dah melambai pun sibuk berkira hal duit dgn ayah..ko sound gini kat mak ko nnt mesti insap n jd isteri soleh mak ko tu |
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does your father have any certificate in any particular skills? maybe he could help or assist someone in freelancing jobs...that way he doesnt have to work all the time
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Iols suka baca kisah camni sbb mendidik hati agar hidup ni biarlah biasa2 je tapi dlm biasa2 je tu Allah je yang tau hidup kita ni best macam mana..syukur sgt alhamdulillah |
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Maybe if the father has any particular skills he could hop on any freelance job? jobstreet could be helpful if he wants to look for freelance work  praying all the best to her family, inshaAllah
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your dad looks like someone who could teach others a lot in business, he must have a ton of experience thats gonna be useful for other youngsters who would love to start a business. i dont know much about business, but im pretty sure some jobs would be suitable for him...hopefully everything will be okay... if he ever starts to think of looking for jobs that suits him, just a suggestion from me maybe he could try jobstreet? bcs that app discloses a lot of info like wages and such... but yea still, thats just a humble suggestion from me bcs i really hope your dad would not live in despair at that age, it reminds me of my dad and it aches my heart..sending all supports to you and your family, virtually
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anggap saja ujian..usia dan pengakhiran kita tetap diuji hingga hujung nafas kita. konflik keluarga konflik ibubapa ..tapi ujian bukan pada masyarakat melayu dan golongan tertentu saja semua makhluk manusia lagi2 kita yg islam ni. jin setan tak ganggu pegangan bukan islam sebab dia hanya berjanji akan sesatkan umat manusia yg islam saja. oleh itu..berpeganglah pada syariat islam dan doa minta padaNya agar ayah kuat menerima ujian dan terus tabah dalam menempuh hari2 mendatang. ya..nmpk cliche takde penyelasain yg nyata tapi bgitulah. diawal bahagia dipertengahan mulai akan timbul pergolakan dan titik2 yg bakal mengubah perjalanan hidup. tanda2 awal sudah ternampak dan Allah sentiasa memberi kita pentujuk antara sedar dan tidak utk kita segera berubah dan menjalani hidup ini atas dasar Islam yg sebenar. hidup harus diteruskan, stay strong! |
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prettyuglybabe replied at 24-5-2022 11:27 AM
there.. masa berduit kedekut dengan bini..
masa susah, bini jugak yang bail laki dari masalah..
so ...
Awak baca tak betul2 apa yg TT tulis tu. Kedekut apanya kalau rumah kereta groceries bagai semua pak dia bayar.Apa lagi nak?
Mak TT ni dah hilang hormat pada pak dia. Ada duit, adik sayang. Takde duit, adik melayang |
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